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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by aBrokeRichDude: 10:20pm On Dec 04, 2020
Go enjoy life

Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by TooMuchStuff: 10:20pm On Dec 04, 2020
surebona:


Sincerely speaking I caused it all... Please don't criticize me, I am human, I cheated on her, and could not hold myself but to tell her...

You what??
Chop a fresher punna....and you expose yasef?

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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by TimeTraveler369: 10:21pm On Dec 04, 2020
surebona:
Please I need assistance, how can I survive a heartbreak from a relationship of over 6yrs. She was basically my friend, sister and girlfriend. I am not in a good state of mind. All I need is help and hope that I will survive this. Please help me. Even if it's one reply that can help me I will be very grateful

Let me guess; this is your first real heartbreak. Ha ha.

Well, I am going to try to make you happy, but will tell you the truth. Truth is, this is not your last heart break. You will survive, you will love again and you will be heart broken, it is a future continuous thing until you master the principle of non-attachment.

CURE:
Go to the club and get some ladies for the night and if you can laugh at their jokes you will recover soon. Do not tell the girls about your heart break, cos you will look immature.

Real men have a heart of steel, malleable yet impenetrable.

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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by lanzini309: 10:21pm On Dec 04, 2020
Bros the only advice I have for you is that what I'll be I'll be don't because of one babe kill yourself is you die na you still lose.

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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by Owodiran1(m): 10:21pm On Dec 04, 2020
surebona:
Please I need assistance, how can I survive a heartbreak from a relationship of over 6yrs. She was basically my friend, sister and girlfriend. I am not in a good state of mind. All I need is help and hope that I will survive this. Please help me. Even if it's one reply that can help me I will be very grateful
hang out with friends often

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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by nauto: 10:21pm On Dec 04, 2020
i dont know
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by iloputaife: 10:22pm On Dec 04, 2020
surebona:
Please I need assistance, how can I survive a heartbreak from a relationship of over 6yrs. She was basically my friend, sister and girlfriend. I am not in a good state of mind. All I need is help and hope that I will survive this. Please help me. Even if it's one reply that can help me I will be very grateful

Move on with your life

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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by Nobody: 10:22pm On Dec 04, 2020
surebona:
Please I need assistance, how can I survive a heartbreak from a relationship of over 6yrs. She was basically my friend, sister and girlfriend. I am not in a good state of mind. All I need is help and hope that I will survive this. Please help me. Even if it's one reply that can help me I will be very grateful
Sorry about the heartbreak Brother; I understand how Dear she was to you but you gotta move on now and avoid hurting yourself the more

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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by Youngzedd(m): 10:23pm On Dec 04, 2020
surebona:
Please I need assistance, how can I survive a heartbreak from a relationship of over 6yrs. She was basically my friend, sister and girlfriend. I am not in a good state of mind. All I need is help and hope that I will survive this. Please help me. Even if it's one reply that can help me I will be very grateful


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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by maak400: 10:23pm On Dec 04, 2020
surebona:


Sincerely speaking I caused it all... Please don't criticize me, I am human, I cheated on her, and could not hold myself but to tell her...
You should have taken that secret to the afterlife. Don’t ever confess cheating to your woman, a man doesn’t do that.

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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by Nobody: 10:23pm On Dec 04, 2020
surebona:
Please I need assistance, how can I survive a heartbreak from a relationship of over 6yrs. She was basically my friend, sister and girlfriend. I am not in a good state of mind. All I need is help and hope that I will survive this. Please help me. Even if it's one reply that can help me I will be very grateful

What did you do to her? Why do you guys like keeping someone waiting for too long? Is she upto 30 years of age? Is she a working class lady or just a parasite?
Well, don't commit suicide because of a mere woman,that's childish, just suppress that feeling abi you never lose any close family relation,the same way you dealt with it,follow suit for this one.
U will find a better person, but don't delay ladies this long unless the relationship started from secondary school.

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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by Nobody: 10:23pm On Dec 04, 2020
You can move on by surrounding ur self with people that care about u alot. This might also reduce ur suicidal thoughts.


By the way, reading through some comments here, can people draw a line between been savage and helping someone.
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by Dpharisee: 10:24pm On Dec 04, 2020
Allow the pain of disappointment to sink in, take a moment to cry from your heart, wash your face and tell yourself it's time to move on. Engage yourself in your favourite pastime like sports. There are several beautiful and better ladies out there, pray to God to lead you to the right one for you.
Then get Timayas This life I can't kill myself and play it over a cold yoghurt with special Suya barbecue.
With time you will get over it, I was there before and this was what I did and it works.

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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by Mpchi(m): 10:24pm On Dec 04, 2020
No amount of words will ease the pain you feel now, try to do something that takes your mind from her (biking, hanging out, etc), also try telling a good friend how you feel, talking about it with someone makes you feel good. Now is a better time to invest in yourself and a time for sober reflection, note what you did wrong and try not to repeat it in your next relationship and also note where you excel in the relationship and ensure you work more on it... The best part of your love life is yet to come, I know the pain you are going through and you feel like your world has no meaning but this might be the best thing that happened to you when you think about it in a few years from now.... Finally, remember time heals.... If you feel like crying, please do... Ensure you don't bottle up your emotions...
surebona:
Please I need assistance, how can I survive a heartbreak from a relationship of over 6yrs. She was basically my friend, sister and girlfriend. I am not in a good state of mind. All I need is help and hope that I will survive this. Please help me. Even if it's one reply that can help me I will be very grateful

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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by osazsky(m): 10:24pm On Dec 04, 2020
Evidenx:
START MAKING MONEY, YOU WILL RECOVER FAST...
HOW DO I MAKE D MONEY?

JOIN CHYMALL AND MAKE MONEY EVERY TEN DAYS.
I sight u
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by JovialJune(f): 10:24pm On Dec 04, 2020
surebona:


How can I mean nothing to her after those years


When you cheated on her, you forgot you have someone that meant everything to you abi? Yeyenatu ni e.

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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by Oluwaseun2020(m): 10:24pm On Dec 04, 2020
[quote author=surebona post=96700014]Please I need assistance, how can I survive a heartbreak from a relationship of over 6yrs. She was basically my friend, sister and girlfriend. I am not in a good state of mind. All I need is help and hope that I will survive this. Please help me. Even if it's one reply that can help me I will be very grateful[/quo
Thank God and move on..imagine its marriage. ..it will be a public shame...it cant be repaired at that stage
at same time im sure you are not totally saved yet
if you are ready..let me know...
i have tips for you that will allow you hear from God and detect fake people nomatter how they try to hide behavior.
above all dont date by beauty. .date by Godliness. .check well spiritual and physical if she is truly for jesus.

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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by ugodson(m): 10:24pm On Dec 04, 2020
A candid advise is to get 2 new girlfriends and date dem separately without both of them knowing.
Is like replacing her with two different once . My brother is no joke she will fade wen u have 2 at hand. Try it bro it worked for me.
Yours is better mine we were married

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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by Hotzone(m): 10:24pm On Dec 04, 2020
surebona:
Please I need assistance, how can I survive a heartbreak from a relationship of over 6yrs. She was basically my friend, sister and girlfriend. I am not in a good state of mind. All I need is help and hope that I will survive this. Please help me. Even if it's one reply that can help me I will be very grateful
That’s how I started smoking dope, not cigar but u will be fine if u can find strength in every situation so far u have life

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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by Mynd44: 10:25pm On Dec 04, 2020
You'll live.
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by Stefenijoan002(f): 10:25pm On Dec 04, 2020
surebona:
Please I need assistance, how can I survive a heartbreak from a relationship of over 6yrs. She was basically my friend, sister and girlfriend. I am not in a good state of mind. All I need is help and hope that I will survive this. Please help me. Even if it's one reply that can help me I will be very grateful
just try n not be alone .stay with people n try hard not to pounder over it though I know is not going to be easy but you have to try coz of your own sanity.okay see it from this perspective since I've been thinking has it med the broken pieces inside of me ?has she come back to me ?I'm I doing myself any good ? Lastly see her like someone who's no longer in this world .I'm sure when you reflect on these you'll loosen up a bit .I know it's not easy coz a lot of us has pass thru it n we survived so I'm certain you too will .stay strong .

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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by Skullano(m): 10:25pm On Dec 04, 2020
surebona:


Sincerely speaking I caused it all... Please don't criticize me, I am human, I cheated on her, and could not hold myself but to tell her...
o

Smh
You cheated and still went to tell her?.
You wana may she clap for you baa?.
I hail thee

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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by Elxandre(m): 10:26pm On Dec 04, 2020
chinchonglee:

Ahh!
So cheating makes you feel guilty?
Ahh!
Sounds like a girl Tbh. Lmao.

Yes, cheating is bad but a guy cheating and running off to confess? undecided
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by surebona(m): 10:26pm On Dec 04, 2020
Stefenijoan002:
just try n not be alone .stay with people n try hard not to pounder over it though I know is not going to be easy but you have to try coz of your own sanity.okay see it from this perspective since I've been thinking has it med the broken pieces inside of me ?has she come back to me ?I'm I doing myself any good ? Lastly see her like someone who's no longer in this world .I'm sure when you reflect on these you'll loosen up a bit .I know it's not easy coz a lot of us has pass thru it n we survived so I'm certain you too will .stay strong .

Thank you alot

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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by Ajiswaggs(m): 10:27pm On Dec 04, 2020
Make money, hustle smart, upgrade your level, Many girls will flock around you. Na only broke guys they feel heart broken too much.

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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by tweakdude1: 10:27pm On Dec 04, 2020
Bro, my advice to you is not to do something stupid.

My question to you is/are: why date her for over 6years and not marry her?

The guy with her now have promised her marriage but with her around you, she saw herself has a friend/possibly you not ready to take her as your wife.

Never date a lady for that long ever again. Always hit the hammer on the nails head.

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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by Nobody: 10:27pm On Dec 04, 2020
surebona:
Please I need assistance, how can I survive a heartbreak from a relationship of over 6yrs. She was basically my friend, sister and girlfriend. I am not in a good state of mind. All I need is help and hope that I will survive this. Please help me. Even if it's one reply that can help me I will be very grateful
You need to do 3 days midnight prayers to break soul ties with her.
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by hormodupsy(f): 10:27pm On Dec 04, 2020
No matter how the relationship ended, try and and find peace within yourself by holding on to the positive side and move on.
surebona:
Please I need assistance, how can I survive a heartbreak from a relationship of over 6yrs. She was basically my friend, sister and girlfriend. I am not in a good state of mind. All I need is help and hope that I will survive this. Please help me. Even if it's one reply that can help me I will be very grateful
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by osazsky(m): 10:27pm On Dec 04, 2020
angelusbrut:


What did you do to her? Why do you guys like keeping someone waiting for too long? Is she upto 30 years of age? Is she a working class lady or just a parasite?
Well, don't commit suicide because of a mere woman,that's childish, just suppress that feeling abi you never lose any close family relation,the same way you dealt with it,follow suit for this one.
U will find a better person, but don't delay ladies this long unless the relationship started from secondary school.
the thing weak me..6 solid good years.i guess he is her dad..na wah for guys o..d girl needs to get married now....he is wailing but has failed to tell us d cause of d break up..unserious guys flocking around everywhere with no bearing..if he kept himself busy with work or trade he for no date d girl reach 2 years before marrying her..joblessness and laziness everywhere.i weep

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Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by chinchonglee(m): 10:27pm On Dec 04, 2020
Elxandre:

Sounds like a girl Tbh. Lmao.

Yes, cheating is bad but a guy cheating and running off to confess? undecided
As in ehn..
I ve cheated 700 times and no sign of remorse
Re: How Can I Survive A Heartbreak? by xest(m): 10:27pm On Dec 04, 2020
mosdii:
If You can't move on, you can commit suicide.
I deal on sniper and other chemicals that takes life you can contact me to supply you.
are you OK? Fibble mindset

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