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Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by Fash20: 4:41pm On Dec 09, 2020
Fvck you for putting your hands on a woman. Simp
Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by toprealman: 4:42pm On Dec 09, 2020
[b]This girl is a very beautiful lady which i know would have lots of suitors on her head. I never even intended dating her until she converted our friendship to relationship[/b]
This sums up your wahala.......you know what to do.
Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by Jefferyhi86(m): 4:43pm On Dec 09, 2020
Don't mind the guy acting like Jim ikye pro max
Themainboy22:
You discovered she's been cheating, but you are not smart enough to discover that she belongs to the street. They day you killed her, probably that's when the illusion you called "love" will clear from your eyes. If you like don't let her go, stay there and be forming love, I will stay here to read your news on NL front page.
Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by dehi: 4:43pm On Dec 09, 2020
Hushbingo:
[b]This girl is a very beautiful lady which i know would have lots of suitors on her head. I never even intended dating her until she converted our friendship to relationship.

When we started, i noticed her incessant calls and had to complain about them which got reduced with time. In most cases, i would bring up issues pertaining to her having an affair with some of those people which she would discard and even get angry enough as to quarrel with me.
So, because of the texts and calls she was getting i became suspicious and one evening when i read a text from a guy addressing her as "baby and luv" i finally vented my anger, she strolled out that evening while i waited at home, later on, i took her phone, old phone which she barely uses, i turned it on and went through her Whatsapp messages, it was then that i discovered she has had an affair with a boss she was working for and even got messed up without her salary being paid for that month.

Not just that, other guys too have had their pounds of flesh. I was messed up that evening because this lady would insist we have sex without condom. So messed up that when she came, for the first time in my life, i layed my hands on a woman and slapped her so bad, I even beat her till she was unconcious and when she finally gained conciousness, she started begging and explaining, she even pretended like she wants to drink hypo bleech due to heart break.

To cut the long story short, i got other texts too from guys in her phone, one in particular sent her "are we still seeing today ?" Which she told me she never made any arrangement with the guy.
Well, i have invested much on this girl and i don't want to let her go like that, she had turned me to a brutal guy. I don't know what to do, i don't want to break up with her because she would just shift to another guy the next day, so I need advise on the best medicine for this kind of lady.[/b]
Shey the girl na stone when you de beat until she became unconscious. My guy you be goat big ode. You still get the mind to de say you bit her.
If she is cheating on you wouldn't you break up and move on abi na your wife. Nonsense
Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by LORDKing001: 4:43pm On Dec 09, 2020
Buy ring put for her hand period
Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by Nobody: 4:44pm On Dec 09, 2020
Your daughter shall be beaten to unconsciousness by her future boyfriend. Infact, she will lose a vital part or even her life since you the father is a devil tool.

Bastard

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Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by Confidens52(m): 4:48pm On Dec 09, 2020
well if u no you are ready for BP drug you can keep her. but guy is better you let her go for your own good she is used to it, it will only take divine intervention for her to repent
Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by Mcslize: 4:50pm On Dec 09, 2020
Bola146:


Gbam!!!! A chilled bottle of Baron and hot pizza for you

So you too support ladies bleeping multiple guys in a bid of keeping their options opened?

Don't you think if a lady can't stay put with one guy when in relationship, is it in marriage she will remain faithful?

One thing most of you girls don't know is that, once a guy know you have other guys beside he will just be chopping you. He may not tell you. The rest guys you keeping as options will still get to know.

In all, they will all be chopping you and non will be committed to you while you in your mind, you will be thinking you are having them as options. In the end, your body counts will be uncountable.

Having options only help increased a lady's body counts. Nothing else. And more so do know non of those options will stay committed to you if any find out you are meeting other guys behind.

Everyone will be collecting their own share of the puna while you will be thinking you are keeping them as options. They will only help increase your body counts.

In essence, it's a public pussy. No man will waste his reseoruces to marry a lady that donate pussy freely in a bid of keeping multiples male partners.

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Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by Chris2863(m): 4:50pm On Dec 09, 2020
You be compound fool grin grin.

Stop disturbing us with this abeg
Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by Olayetan(m): 4:53pm On Dec 09, 2020
Hushbingo:
[b]This girl is a very beautiful lady which i know would have lots of suitors on her head. I never even intended dating her until she converted our friendship to relationship.

When we started, i noticed her incessant calls and had to complain about them which got reduced with time. In most cases, i would bring up issues pertaining to her having an affair with some of those people which she would discard and even get angry enough as to quarrel with me.
So, because of the texts and calls she was getting i became suspicious and one evening when i read a text from a guy addressing her as "baby and luv" i finally vented my anger, she strolled out that evening while i waited at home, later on, i took her phone, old phone which she barely uses, i turned it on and went through her Whatsapp messages, it was then that i discovered she has had an affair with a boss she was working for and even got messed up without her salary being paid for that month.

Not just that, other guys too have had their pounds of flesh. I was messed up that evening because this lady would insist we have sex without condom. So messed up that when she came, for the first time in my life, i layed my hands on a woman and slapped her so bad, I even beat her till she was unconcious and when she finally gained conciousness, she started begging and explaining, she even pretended like she wants to drink hypo bleech due to heart break.

To cut the long story short, i got other texts too from guys in her phone, one in particular sent her "are we still seeing today ?" Which she told me she never made any arrangement with the guy.
Well, i have invested much on this girl and i don't want to let her go like that, she had turned me to a brutal guy. I don't know what to do, i don't want to break up with her because she would just shift to another guy the next day, so I need advise on the best medicine for this kind of lady.[/b]

you're with a potential oloso,
best thing for you Is to forget all the investments you put on her and let her go, if you keep having it in your head to get back what you have invested in her, you will keep loosing and you may end up doing what you might regret in your lifetime. so let go of the girl and move on but this time around, watch well and take your brain wit you before you invest on any other girl.




many of this girls out there are into runs one way or the other, it takes the grace of God for someone to meet a girl who isn't involve in any act of olosoism..
Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by biyimore: 4:54pm On Dec 09, 2020
Guy I feel your pain but you fumble. You're beating someone's daughter that you've not paid her dowry,what if she die in the process. she is not faithful in the relationship then set her free. If you don't let her go as soon as possible your brutality will continue,forget the investment and move on with your life
Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by paul100(m): 4:56pm On Dec 09, 2020
You are a coward.Continue beating her.You have seen signs that she is not meant for you.You dey talk of investments.
Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by Beninwitch: 4:57pm On Dec 09, 2020
Go ahead and kill her, since you are without fault. You beat her till the point she became unconscious! You don't want to let go because you have invested on her.

See, let me tell you. Don't let the devil use you cos you can never trust her again. You will live with suspicion till you let go of your temper and finally hurt her.
May God not let you murder someone. The ball is in your court.
Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by Olayetan(m): 4:57pm On Dec 09, 2020
Bola146:


Gbam!!!! A chilled bottle of Baron and hot pizza for you

see this one,


after you have had over 50 body counts, you just want one want one man to come and marry you like that.

you have to learn how to stay commitment to any relationship and be loyal to your man before he can proceed to next stage
Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by debbydams(f): 4:58pm On Dec 09, 2020
Hushbingo:
[b]This girl is a very beautiful lady which i know would have lots of suitors on her head. I never even intended dating her until she converted our friendship to relationship.

When we started, i noticed her incessant calls and had to complain about them which got reduced with time. In most cases, i would bring up issues pertaining to her having an affair with some of those people which she would discard and even get angry enough as to quarrel with me.
So, because of the texts and calls she was getting i became suspicious and one evening when i read a text from a guy addressing her as "baby and luv" i finally vented my anger, she strolled out that evening while i waited at home, later on, i took her phone, old phone which she barely uses, i turned it on and went through her Whatsapp messages, it was then that i discovered she has had an affair with a boss she was working for and even got messed up without her salary being paid for that month.

Not just that, other guys too have had their pounds of flesh. I was messed up that evening because this lady would insist we have sex without condom. So messed up that when she came, for the first time in my life, i layed my hands on a woman and slapped her so bad, I even beat her till she was unconcious and when she finally gained conciousness, she started begging and explaining, she even pretended like she wants to drink hypo bleech due to heart break.

To cut the long story short, i got other texts too from guys in her phone, one in particular sent her "are we still seeing today ?" Which she told me she never made any arrangement with the guy.
Well, i have invested much on this girl and i don't want to let her go like that, she had turned me to a brutal guy. I don't know what to do, i don't want to break up with her because she would just shift to another guy the next day, so I need advise on the best medicine for this kind of lady.[/b]
yeye u want to marry a lady that cheats.. Your life is in danger..
Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by Kaylet: 5:00pm On Dec 09, 2020
Women will always support women here on social media, I wish it can be replicated in real life.

Few men have been in that shoes before, it's not new but boys don't know what was right then.

I've been the shoes before, but I was not wise enough.

No matter what you've invested, please, let go of the girl, she's not yours

You can't change her with the state and level of energy you're right now.

You need a real nigga in your life, at a real male friend that can talk real sense into your life and, that you personally can open up to at any time.

Stay cool
Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by NigeriaB(m): 5:01pm On Dec 09, 2020
Hushbingo:
[b]This girl is a very beautiful lady which i know would have lots of suitors on her head. I never even intended dating her until she converted our friendship to relationship.

When we started, i noticed her incessant calls and had to complain about them which got reduced with time. In most cases, i would bring up issues pertaining to her having an affair with some of those people which she would discard and even get angry enough as to quarrel with me.
So, because of the texts and calls she was getting i became suspicious and one evening when i read a text from a guy addressing her as "baby and luv" i finally vented my anger, she strolled out that evening while i waited at home, later on, i took her phone, old phone which she barely uses, i turned it on and went through her Whatsapp messages, it was then that i discovered she has had an affair with a boss she was working for and even got messed up without her salary being paid for that month.

Not just that, other guys too have had their pounds of flesh. I was messed up that evening because this lady would insist we have sex without condom. So messed up that when she came, for the first time in my life, i layed my hands on a woman and slapped her so bad, I even beat her till she was unconcious and when she finally gained conciousness, she started begging and explaining, she even pretended like she wants to drink hypo bleech due to heart break.

To cut the long story short, i got other texts too from guys in her phone, one in particular sent her "are we still seeing today ?" Which she told me she never made any arrangement with the guy.
Well, i have invested much on this girl and i don't want to let her go like that, she had turned me to a brutal guy. I don't know what to do, i don't want to break up with her because she would just shift to another guy the next day, so I need advise on the best medicine for this kind of lady.[/b]

Why would you lay your hands on a woman?

This is disgusting!
Spits!
Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by enemyofprogress: 5:02pm On Dec 09, 2020
DukeJoe17:
Let her go and have peace.
peace is another useless girl, she flirts around, moreover she has boat mouth and body odours. Let him just go for blessing

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Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by Meteng: 5:04pm On Dec 09, 2020
YoonSung70:
let me take a sit
I'm with you
Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by cristy149: 5:05pm On Dec 09, 2020
Heineken:
lol follow follow grin
no worry na to go cast you for group so grin grin grin

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Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by thatsleepboy1: 5:05pm On Dec 09, 2020
BaddieFreak:
Please if you want all control over your woman and dictate to her as you wish, do the needful, pay her bride price and marry her. Stop wasting her time and expect her not to have other options. You even beat her, no wonder she is cheating on you woman beater.

you've been loose these few days. you're talking and your so called impoverished mother is suffering in another man's hand in the kẹkọọ and house you rented for her in the air. go and help and heal your mother rather than insult pple. love peddler like you seeking for attention.
Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by Nobody: 5:06pm On Dec 09, 2020
let her go.
Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by Princegado1(m): 5:07pm On Dec 09, 2020
Good afternoon sir
I have never made any comment or contributions to any post here. Your experience is same as mine but I was managing her believing she will change but she keeps getting worse and she was the best pretender I know but I was smarter than her and i even went to her family with the intention of marrying her and everyone I know knows and see her my wife already but everything became exposed this year because I'm into importation of phone accessories so the lockdown started first in China before spreading to other parts of the world.
So I was practically doing nothing, run into debts because of loans I collected from the bank and family members so I started staying back in the shop and always with her and then I started noticing everything you are experiencing now but I don't beat or bully her. I sat myself down and advised myself and after everything I had to break up with her, although she never accepted it the first time. I began to ignore everything about even her presence and denied her audience and cut her off.
It was the best decision of my life I don't need to tell you the sacrifices and investments but I had to count my losses and move on with my life for my own good.
So I'm advising you to do the same because she will never change no matter how you try to change her.
Break up with her now you still have time and your insanity intact....

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Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by Meteng: 5:08pm On Dec 09, 2020
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Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by Nobody: 5:08pm On Dec 09, 2020
Boy or Man, I don't know who I am addressing but before you invest in a lady, go see her people and pay her bride price in a proper traditional marriage.

You said she's beautiful and that is expected of her to be chased by men and truely some of them will also want her for a wife but she choose you. it's natural.

Stop being brutal because you will only harden her. Sit her down and ask her what she really wants from you. Don't interrupt her and allow her to speak as much as she wants. Then deduce from her statement if she's really really ready for a marital life or she wants to remain a playgirl.

Marriage is a serious commitment from two consenting adults. Not forced.

Most importantly, it is very important to know that every woman, especially most beautiful women have an ugly past. It is your duty to guard her secrets even at the pain of death..

She loves you that's why she owned up to her past and told you. Don't blame her because when she was passing through that hell, you were not there to be her guardian angel.

I see some nuance of love and attachment from your own part. Please stop being angry.

There are certain things in life we cannot change. Accept your fate and hope for the best. Congratulations..
Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by IbrahimSkiba(f): 5:09pm On Dec 09, 2020
Hushbingo:
[b]This girl is a very beautiful lady which i know would have lots of suitors on her head. I never even intended dating her until she converted our friendship to relationship.

When we started, i noticed her incessant calls and had to complain about them which got reduced with time. In most cases, i would bring up issues pertaining to her having an affair with some of those people which she would discard and even get angry enough as to quarrel with me.
So, because of the texts and calls she was getting i became suspicious and one evening when i read a text from a guy addressing her as "baby and luv" i finally vented my anger, she strolled out that evening while i waited at home, later on, i took her phone, old phone which she barely uses, i turned it on and went through her Whatsapp messages, it was then that i discovered she has had an affair with a boss she was working for and even got messed up without her salary being paid for that month.

Not just that, other guys too have had their pounds of flesh. I was messed up that evening because this lady would insist we have sex without condom. So messed up that when she came, for the first time in my life, i layed my hands on a woman and slapped her so bad, I even beat her till she was unconcious and when she finally gained conciousness, she started begging and explaining, she even pretended like she wants to drink hypo bleech due to heart break.

To cut the long story short, i got other texts too from guys in her phone, one in particular sent her "are we still seeing today ?" Which she told me she never made any arrangement with the guy.
Well, i have invested much on this girl and i don't want to let her go like that, she had turned me to a brutal guy. I don't know what to do, i don't want to break up with her because she would just shift to another guy the next day, so I need advise on the best medicine for this kind of lady.[/b]




One day, out of anger, you'll murder this lady...


Let her go and have your peace of mine, shuoooo


Must you beat her? I hate men that hits ladies with disgust..


She was public when you met her, she can't go private because of you. Just know it
Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by Nobody: 5:10pm On Dec 09, 2020
Shadysen:
Are you sure you can marry?
Ask yourself that question.
Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by Risingblue008(m): 5:16pm On Dec 09, 2020
Dem no dey count wetin dem do for woman
Just let her go make u no go kill person pikin oo
Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by Tonalphs(f): 5:18pm On Dec 09, 2020
relationships are like businesses you venture into. when a piece of stock (relationship) has no future, you have to know when to count your losses and when to sell. if there's nothing to salvage, count your losses and sell.
Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by DukeJoe17: 5:19pm On Dec 09, 2020
BadBradley:
the definition of a girl without a shred of virtue or honour.

So a girl keeps all the guys interested in her within her grasp while dating one? Prostitute!


These type of girls are very dangerous.
My ex was of that breed and i wasted no time in discarding her silly ass.

The most painful thing was that she keeps telling me who and who is asking her out, so irritating.

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Re: I Need Advise On What To Do About A Controversial Girlfriend by Geeflow(m): 5:20pm On Dec 09, 2020
just kill whatever love you have for her and just keep fucking her.

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