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Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by Serene123: 3:53am On Jan 16, 2021 |
Xtabellah:. Truth. I asked for advise yes. But I already know what I will get from Nairaland. Insults and the rest. Most people think is easy to handle emotional issue until they afe there. Due to constraint, I won't be able to state everything here. We have spoken about this for a long time. She has said is nothing. From their conversation self there is nothing. But I realised she don't even wanna be with the guy. Nah Money she dey collect from the guy. She has told me that the guy gives her money. I come to understand is all these older men things and it hurt me more. That was what led to my reaction. As it stands now, I have ddcdied to let her be till she is done with her thinking then we talk. If there isn't any chance for that, I move on |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by Serene123: 3:57am On Jan 16, 2021 |
Mac2016:. There is no discovery. She isn't deleting any chat. Can't you guys just understand the plain language when I said I had her WhatsApp for months. Is like u reading my WhatsApp the moment it drops. There are other WhatsApp there to read that I can't be talking about. Truth is, I didn't get any evidence on her phone. The calls too werent convincing. Truth is, she don't wanna be with guy. Could be an older man. She just needed the money 1 Like |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by Serene123: 3:58am On Jan 16, 2021 |
mistijude: LOL. You are the child here. If u don't know anything, ask and stop displaying ignorance |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by Serene123: 3:59am On Jan 16, 2021 |
bethyz: LOL. Who says I wasn't ready to marry. Last year was just few weeks ago ohhh |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by mako007(m): 4:00am On Jan 16, 2021 |
Serene123: Big red flag, she's actively deleting convos with the said guy 1 Like |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by Serene123: 4:06am On Jan 16, 2021 |
skyreaper: I read your comments and pick out something. Let me buttress, she doesn't have much friends and bestie before. The only thing there is that she is young. 22. She feels she still have enough time. She has said something like that. But I can tell you that she wanted to be with me. She wanted the marriage. We have met with parents. But I guess something change along the line. Her taste for money. We don't stay in same state. She ain't getting close to the guy for Bleep or relationship, nah money. I sense the guy is older. Cos even their calls no gel well. No WhatsApp chats |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by Serene123: 4:07am On Jan 16, 2021 |
Dirakamara: I know nah. Check my quote, and see those I reply to. I haven't seen any evidence. But something is going on. I suspect is an older man. That's it |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by Serene123: 4:09am On Jan 16, 2021 |
EduTechTainMent: Yea, I regretted it. Cos I didn't even get any evidence of cheating from her chats. It pains me I did that. She forced me to. I have learnt though Maybe I should write any thread to explain better. But drop fdop your comment, I will cherish it |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by Serene123: 4:10am On Jan 16, 2021 |
doris4u:. LOL. I am not saying shit about that |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by Nobody: 4:11am On Jan 16, 2021 |
Serene123:Hacking her WhatsApp and not seeing anything bad in the bolded show the kind of personality you have. Goodluck man. |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by tron23(m): 4:12am On Jan 16, 2021 |
Hi my guy, I know its not easy being in this situation, but you must be very logical in approaching this issue. You said in your words that she is only collecting his money. ...do you think he wont get something else in return? This action alone is a big red flag, an engaged lady collecting money and going on dates with another man....bad news loading. She is already emotionally and financially attached to that man. There is a 99% possibility that they have already consumated their relationship. By the way, why did she refuse to release her phone?...red flags. Your not yet married and your having so many concerns.....so much so that you had to create a thread...red flags. See all the red flags....not a good sign. Most of the people commenting are doing it out of love not to hurt you. My advice, give her the space she requested, but remove your mind from that engagement I have been there, this is not worth it. There is no management in marriage oh....Mark this space, dont go ahead with this engagement. Please, thank us on nairaland later. God bless. 2 Likes |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by Serene123: 4:16am On Jan 16, 2021 |
anochuko01: Thanks. I don't think he is toaster. They are friends and he gives her money. I think he is an older guy. I have decided to let her be though |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by Serene123: 4:19am On Jan 16, 2021 |
lordswill03: I will do that right away. Thanks |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by Nobody: 4:22am On Jan 16, 2021 |
Serene123: Kick her the fùck out she's a dumb useless hoê |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by silento(m): 4:31am On Jan 16, 2021 |
Linkuizzy524: Keep roasting the fish for me bro trust me love Na scam 1 Like |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by SarutobiEky(m): 4:32am On Jan 16, 2021 |
megatron7:it's the woman's nature to cheat. Know this and find your peace. |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by ojietu: 4:45am On Jan 16, 2021 |
Serene123:She might be the smart type, let her be bro |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by MarthaGlobal: 4:49am On Jan 16, 2021 |
Pele, what I see here is: Nice baby guy dating a smart baby girl. Women cry for carering and men that gave them all their time but in reality my dear they doesn't like men that over pamper them. They might be with you but their heart is with the hard real men. That's how their brain works. No woman will fall in love with you and leave you for 2weeks claiming getting back one mental stuffs. You would have dispute and settled it. Don't fall for this trap. Most of us have once be in similar relationship where the man loves the girl but the girl loves another man vice versa. Lastly, marriage is so boring and full of misunderstanding if only one person among the curple was in love. So, if you are not both having clear mind for each other you better leave her. That's thing you call feelings is just a psychology Infantuation. You still can't blame the girl, one-way or the other you had also done such too to some one (perharps) by not giving your attention to lady that gave you attention for some reasons. Marry your friend. Serene123: |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by Mcslize: 4:51am On Jan 16, 2021 |
Serene123: Don't you think you already guilt blaming yourself? To me you did nothing wrong. This is a girl you want to marry o. If she had nothing to hide, I see no reason why she was dragging her phone with you till the extent her nails got broken. Do know that women easily get emotionally carried away even if they know that the secret said guy is an unserious fellow who just want to play with their emotions at the detriment of their serious relationships. She might be deleting her chats with the said guy. You think she will leave her sensitive chats in her phone when she knows she is planning of getting married soon? She won't want you to find out anything even if she is cheating. She already knows you are suspecting something, that was why she went on guilt blaming you trying to manipulate you to believe you did wrong by dragging her phone with her and trying to check her phone. That's a tactic ladies usually use when they are cheating to make a guy seems like a monster why they are the victims. If she had nothing to hide, she wouldn't have been dragging her phone with you. I will still suggest you look well before you leap. This type of lady won't respect you when you finally marry her. It will become worst. |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by doyin01: 4:54am On Jan 16, 2021 |
Serene123:me I am blunt ,I will just tell you the truth and Bleep off,if you like listen if you like don't listen.... "Bro,she loves that other guy but that one is not committed and ready for marriage,she realized you were personally ready to get married if you get financial assistance and she wants to really get married too so hence the support from her.....she wants to marry you but it is the other guy that her heart yearns for.....if the guy decided to engage her right now,trust me she will quickly dump you like menstrual pad.......unless you want to end up with a lady that will bring in another man's child as your own........do not fall for psychological manipulation,cut the engagement off till further notice......be wise 4 Likes |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by adeniyisamuel59(m): 5:02am On Jan 16, 2021 |
Serene123:chai! Another simply is loading. |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by Serene123: 5:03am On Jan 16, 2021 |
Yadid: Explain further Bro |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by adeniyisamuel59(m): 5:04am On Jan 16, 2021 |
extol1:the wisest comments |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by Fiscus105(m): 5:13am On Jan 16, 2021 |
Serene123: If you can't order her to stop calling and receiving that guy you are not yet a man If you can have direct access to her social media accounts, I pity ur ass If you want to know a girl, just get her facebook or instagram password and cross check last one year chat 1 Like |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by deepwater(f): 5:15am On Jan 16, 2021 |
Serene123: What makes u feel you have her right messaging channels. Bitvhes are smarter bro I didnt insinuate anything ooo |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by ubola: 5:17am On Jan 16, 2021 |
Serene123:Guy, follow your heart. Relationship is built on trust, stop the discreet investigation and go for what you want. From your write up, she helps out in certain areas and you love her. The guy in question might be her financier not necessarily a bedmate. To the best of my knowledge a woman has the ability to say no to a man to the extent of the man helping her out financially not minding he's actually getting anything in return. I have supported one of my exes with 50k during her Tm, but had never slept with her in our 1yr of dating. She turned down all my advances for sex, yet I loved her more than my main babe cos of certain xteristics I saw. At a point we became very good friends that my main babe knew her and we all became like a family. There's no girl you'll meet that never had a relationship before meeting you except the ones you deflowered. Act wisely in order not to lost a gold fish. Keep sending messages to her, break that gap between you and her immediately, the devil fights what is good. The Biblical Sampson killed the lion while on his way to Marry, so every marriage has a lion to be killed.So better kill yours now. 1 Like |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by Gubularaska: 5:19am On Jan 16, 2021 |
Serene123: All the years you stay for your parents house, you catch your mother larshe you old man? But she dey always get belly abi? Leave matter for Oga Matthias. You self take some time, forget her matter and move on. The new guy get pass you. And if you nor play wise and shine your eyes, you go end up paying school fees for guy man seed. 2 Likes |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by 123huawei: 5:24am On Jan 16, 2021 |
Reconcile with her but before that let your loves ones know secretly and monitor her phone and feeling discreetly when she is back |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by Fiscus105(m): 5:29am On Jan 16, 2021 |
Remijuice: Any girl, I repeat any girl that don't allow her guy to have unhindered access to her phone and social media accounts is a big term cheat. If you know you know |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by COdeGenesis: 5:31am On Jan 16, 2021 |
Bros, you sef think am. Why will someone innocent and honest in a relationship go through the stress of struggling with her phone with you and even breaking her nails so that you don't view the content of her phone? I have been there. She is cheating on you. You don't need an oracle to tell you. They could be chatting on telegram or facebook or she might have another WhatsApp account. It will surely have a painful ending because she is emotionally attached to the other guy even when she is engaged. If you want to have peace of mind you better run as fast as possible from her. Phones these days have automatic call recorder. Just activate the feature on her phone and you will get your answers there 2 Likes |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by Emeskhalifa(m): 5:37am On Jan 16, 2021 |
Serene123:. Wait..... Doesn't it sound strange to you that nothing on whatsapp? I know of a girl who's currently cheating on her guy. She has two phones, two sim cards and two WhatsApp. Matter of fact, she doesn't even go home with the second phone coz her main guy can come to her house anytime. Fear woman bro. 3 Likes |
Re: I Engaged My Girlfriend, Now I Am Thinking Of Calling Off The Engagement by Laideabdulahi: 5:38am On Jan 16, 2021 |
Serene123: Probably. You are not. Monitoring Check her chats while she is online NOT when she is not online. I only checked my girls chat when she is online. It really helped me. And I tell you when girls know that you. Know what and when exactly they do things. Dear comes in. Brain resets especially when they know what is at stake or how.mich they have put into their relationship. |
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