pozehnani:
You have their time.

If he's not as rich as Dangote, he can't and has no right to tell me what to contribute to the marriage.

Are there still men? Mtchew.

Please what is the definition of marriage?

So u mean a man who choose u above any other women, also that pays ur bride price cannot tell u anything ?

Wow. anyways, wait for dangote to marry you

EMEKUSBOY9:


Stop been biased...... You did not accept his own reason why men are important but u want him to accept yours?

I'm not being bias at all. Why is he listing things that women don't have? The points he listed like sperm and fatherly care, women have eggs and motherly care. They cancel each other out, right?

He was saying about men providing sex. If a woman isn't there that isn't happening either.

He has not really stayed anything of value.

One of his points is that men are secret keepers? Women keep secrets too.

Just admit that men aren't as necessary as they tend to give themselves credit for.

HappyCreative:


I'm not being bias at all. Why is he listing things that women don't have? The points he listed like sperm and fatherly care, women have eggs and motherly care. They cancel each other out, right?

He was saying about men providing sex. If a woman isn't there that isn't happening either.

He has not really stayed anything of value.

One of his points is that men are secret keepers? Women keep secrets too.

Just admit that men aren't as necessary as they tend to give themselves credit for.

Lol, it's enough. We agree men are useless

HappyCreative:


I'm not being bias at all. Why is he listing things that women don't have? The points he listed like sperm and fatherly care, women have eggs and motherly care. They cancel each other out, right?

He was saying about men providing sex. If a woman isn't there that isn't happening either.

He has not really stayed anything of value.

One of his points is that men are secret keepers? Women keep secrets too.

Just admit that men aren't as necessary as they tend to give themselves credit for.

Then if you want me to admit that men aren't as necessary as they tend, then don't get married

If you dnt get married i will take what u are saying serious

HappyCreative:


Feel free to go and find your uneducated wife so that she looks up to you despite being an okada.

All in saying is that your pool in which to pick an uneducated woman is becoming increasing smaller.

Why are men not ambitious? Men should also become more educated. Maybe then they won't have to settle for women they can control because the women can't make their own money.

like I said before it is pointless trying to reason logically with a woman.. for no woman no matter how educated can never think like a man...


Now you don shift topic because I said you husband is the head and you can never be equal to the head..


My wife will work...

I like educated women

Your father might have been an okada, however I am not and will never be

End of discussion

EMEKUSBOY9:


This is not all about bashing male and female.

One thing i know is that if a woman meet a very sweet and caring man.... No body will tell her to even wash her man's " pant or boxers" , also when man see a very responsible and hard working woman no body will tell him to help his wife.

now you are talking.

EMEKUSBOY9:


Then if you want me to admit that men aren't as necessary as they tend, then don't get married

If you dnt get married i will take what u are saying serious

That doesn't mean that men are not needed. Some men just seem to demand respect where it isn't earnt. Some men believe you should respect them just for being a man which I don't understand.

Jeon:

now you are talking.

We know all this things, we are no kids. People just want to drag things.

The gospel truth is that not all men and women will get married to good spouse. So what u do now while single matters

Jessepaid:
like I said before it is pointless trying to reason logically with a woman.. for no woman no matter how educated can never think like a man...


Now you don shift topic because I said you husband is the head and you can never be equal to the head..


My wife will work...

I like educated women

Your father might have been an okada, however I am not and will never be

End of discussion

So you are saying that no woman is logical. Why would you want to marry one then?

The man is only the head of he delivers what is required of the head of a house. Why would the man be the head if he is not providing?
He can't just be the head because he is a man. That's not how it works, but a lot of men think it is. They just seem to think because they are a man, they should automatically be given respect.

Why should your wife work if you are the provider for the household?

My father isn't an okada, but thanks.

HappyCreative:


That doesn't mean that men are not needed. Some men just seem to demand respect where it isn't earnt. Some men believe you should respect them just for being a man which I don't understand.

then next time add " some men" because am a very sweet and responsible man.

In between, is even biblical that men are the head of every family, if u understand this principle you won't find it hard to get a good man, and your marriage will be sweet as your heart

But if you want to go against the bible then God will run from you, and leave u to be your own boss

EMEKUSBOY9:


then next time add " some men" because am a very sweet and responsible man.

In between, is even biblical that men are the head of every family, if u understand this principle you won't find it hard to get a good man, and your marriage will be sweet as your heart

But if you want to go against the bible then God will run from you, and leave u to be your own boss

God point, we should take all parts of the Bible, and not just pick and choose the ones to suit ourselves. Amen.

Qatar2022:

He pursue them because they are sex tool

if you think men enjoy sex more than women, then you must be a joker. Untop that na dem dey suffer past come lose money untop.

XXXXTENTACION:
OKPETU.

Nigerian girls are useless.



lazy, broke and poor..

Yet you can't live without them?

HappyCreative:


Yes, that's why I pressed submit...

Babe your humor got no chill

[quote author=Uncle93 post=99753946]

Well you have a good point there. But it only relates to few people like you! 90% of Nigerian women offers nothing but their body, cooking and children and expect to marry a made man who provides everything in this world for them[/quote

If you think cooking and taking care of children is easy, d o it for one week and come back here to narrate your experience.
Do you know how much cooks, nannies, potters etc are paid every month, yet women do this free of charge.

[quote author=EJanni post=99766373][/quote]

Chillllllll ! Some men gets house helps for thier wives or has a family member supporting with house activities.! Na every woman dey stress?

soulpeppersoup:



Babe your humor got no chill

I've got no chill? I think I'm pretty funny actually

HappyCreative:


I have a man thank you for asking.

I'm not asking a man to be above or below me, all I'm saying is equality if we both have to work a similar hours and earn the same amount.

I don't earn way more than my husband. I just know that men now choose women who are less educated than them and earn less, so the man can retain control. Its sad.

Educate yourself ladies

U should understand how the world works...
Men re always richer
The richest woman today got her money from the ex husband....
A man and a woman in this world can NEVER BE equal or u are dreaming!!!!
Men are natural heads for both man and animals...
The richest strongest smartest sensible and Everything is always the male.The man is always greater..... Am sorry but thats d truth...... If thats d problem,, then it cant be solved

House chores.... I dont get.... How many house work do we actually have How long does it takes to just cook clean Every bachelor does this so i don't see what big deal is here....

A woman does or achieves chew gum nd be looking for independence or drag headship... Cos dats d tendencies i see here....

Men re different tho

HappyCreative:


I wouldn't categorise them as insults, rather facts and suggestions.

Sorry that you feel triggered.

Wow
An Army General can be killed here with keyboards, what a nice forum.

[quote author=EJanni post=99766373][/quote]
Chillllllll ! Some men gets house helps for thier wives or has a family member supporting with house activities.! Na every woman dey stress?

[quote author=EJanni post=99766373][/quote]Maybe ALL BACHELORS ARE PIGS and dont cook or clean.... For crying out loud... The excuse women give for house chores is really becoming annoying..... Seriously!!!

I dont really want to go practical here

goodnewscliff:

U should understand how the world works...
Men re always richer
The richest woman today got her money from the ex husband....
A man and a woman in this world can NEVER BE equal or u are dreaming!!!!
Men are natural heads for both man and animals...
The richest strongest smartest sensible and Everything is always the male.The man is always greater..... Am sorry but thats d truth...... If thats d problem,, then it cant be solved

House chores.... I dont get.... How many house work do we actually have How long does it takes to just cook clean Every bachelor does this so i don't see what big deal is here....

A woman does or achieves chew gum nd be looking for independence or drag headship... Cos dats d tendencies i see here....

Men re different tho

You're second sentence is a lie. It is not in every case that the man is richer.

So if you do it as a bachelor, why can't you do it when you're married and your wife is earning more than you?

I don't see what the big deal is. You can't admit that woman can be richer and better than some men?

Connected1:

Wow
An Army General can be killed here with keyboards, what a nice forum.

But when you see 'Nigerian women are useless' all over this forum, you'll be keke'ing along with them though, abi?

goodnewscliff:
Maybe ALL BACHELORS ARE PIGS and dont cook or clean.... For crying out loud... The excuse women give for house chores is really becoming annoying..... Seriously!!!

I dont really want to go practical here

Please, go practical. Explain yourself fully.

HappyCreative:

If that's what you're saying then it's not the woman's duty to provide, but I'm sure you'd be more than happy if your wife went to work.

Why is ok for women to work but you don't think it's OK for men to do chores.

You keep saying that women are born with this trait, which they are not. They learn it just like they learn everything else. At this point you're just confirming that men are lazy.

D only thing a woman may do in my home is cook..... I like my stuffs taken care off myself nd i been doing that for years...
A man dat can't take care of himself is useless.... Cos i dont know what spiritual housechores d women re complaining of nd its becoming annoying... If i do more of the housechore cos me no like dirty nd i provide more than 95% ,, what would now b ur excuse as a woman?

Jeon:

me and siblings can say this out anywhere
he left us in Lagos after school to another state 2years we did not see his message or call before the Lord.

Are u yoruba?

HappyCreative:


You're second sentence is a lie. It is not in every case that the man is richer.

So if you do it as a bachelor, why can't you do it when you're married and your wife is earning more than you?

I don't see what the big deal is. You can't admit that woman can be richer and better than some men?

Women can be richer but in a general case, the man is always richer.... Me no lazy at all.... Nd i like it when my things are arranged properly..... THIS DOESN'T HAVE ANYTHING TO DO ME BEING PROVIDING FINANCIALLY..... its just me even tho i have a wife!!!!! ... Y should i be creating a thread for it??

For the record bezoz wife was once d richest woman in d world immediately after d divorce... She got her money from ex husband..... Tho shes d 3rd richest as at now

goodnewscliff:
D only thing a woman may do in my home is cook..... I like my stuffs taken care off myself nd i been doing that for years...
A man dat can't take care of himself is useless.... Cos i dont know what spiritual housechores d women re complaining of nd its becoming annoying... If i do more of the housechore cos me no like dirty nd i provide more than 95% ,, what would now b ur excuse as a woman?

I wouldn't have any excuse. I will do 100% of the housework of the man earns 100% of the income, but often that its not the case.

Would you disagree?

goodnewscliff:
Women can be richer but in a general case, the man is always richer.... Me no lazy at all.... Nd i like it when my things are arranged properly..... THIS DOESN'T HAVE ANYTHING TO DO ME BEING PROVIDING FINANCIALLY..... its just me even tho i have a wife!!!!! ... Y should i be creating a thread for it??

If you want your things arranging properly, surely it would make sense to do it yourself would it not?

HappyCreative:


I wouldn't have any excuse. I will do 100% of the housework of the man earns 100% of the income, but often that its not the case.

Would you disagree?

If i do most of these so called house work,, WHAT WOULD BE UR EXCUSE AS A WIFE LETS SAY I REALLY EARN A LOT !!!!

HappyCreative:


If you want your things arranging properly, surely it would make sense to do it yourself would it not?

Thanks..... What use is d woman to me then.... Cos dats my situation right now

goodnewscliff:
If i do most of these so called house work,, WHAT WOULD BE UR EXCUSE AS A WIFE LETS SAY I REALLY EARN A LOT !!!!

But let's be real, you don't really earn a lot.

If I want something done a certain way. I would do it myself. I wouldn't tell someone else to do it just so a can have a reason to chastise them if they do it wrong.

Also it wouldn't be must of the housework, would it? It would be the thing that you like having done a particular way.