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Thats what women are meant to be, so if women arent slaves, men shouldnt be breadwinners, you put it like women doing house work is slavery, the men doing the breadwinning what is that called?

In a home

A womans job: cooking, caring for kids, child bearing, maintaning the home

A mans job: breadwinning, making money and provision for the family.

Isnt it balanced, OP you are just a simp, ass licking women wont get you anywhere, so you want men to make money and care for the home as women sit down and watch you(their slave) do everything up to washing their undies. Nonsense

You're blessed already. Wisdom will never depart from you.

Sirjames001:
Please I need advice and also bashing because I want to make a decision of a lifetime.
I am in love with a girl who adore me in every sense of words
She is working while am still in school.So basically it's just true love.
Yesterday we had a conversation,I told her we have an age long tradition in my place ( Akwa Ibom State) If you cheat in your husband house, either you die, or your husband die or your kids.
She wasn't comfortable with it at all.
Her reason is because it only affects women not men.
Should we continue in this relationship or go our separate ways?
She suggested blood covenant that will also kill me if I also cheat.
Please I need advice.
Please note: I don't believe in anything diabolic or some tradition that regards women as slave but I know marriage unfaithfulness has consequence in my place.

Listen OP, you have to be wise. I wonder why no one has told you the uncomfortable truth yet.

First, if your woman can put a condition on her faithfulness as a wife on your own faithfulness, then there's a problem. And if she's not telling you that such age long tradition doesn't bother her because she's firmly of the belief that for a married woman to spread her legs for another man is sacrilegious, then you have yourself a potential adultress.

That age long tradition wasn't instituted by man. Both sides of the spiritual divide hold a woman's chastity in very high regard because from her bowels springs life.

ModestGal:
You have won. Congratulations
I don't have time abeg, its a disgrace on my personality replying to an untrained ucouth dirty talking person. leave my mention abeg, go look for your type that you would be talking dirty to one another. Gross, bye

But you found it convenient discussing big breast with the opposite sex on nairaland, even though you claimed to be married. Same pecksniffering bìtch talking shìt about refinement.

I know your type. You are as dirty in the inside as a used sanitary pad.

ModestGal:
You so gross, look at things you are uttering. Disgusting, you need deliverance bro

Foolish woman! I've only just begun toying with you and you're complaining.

Just tarry a bit and I'll show you gross. You thought I'd treat you with kids glove. Bloody feminist.

If you have a score to settle, then settle it with yourself, not men. Your thighs were yours to open or to close.

ModestGal:
Lol, you are referring to your ex, you sounded so bitter and so pained on someone else's ish. You must have been very frustrated in life to utter such, you are trying to pour your anger on your miserable and relationship life on me, please direct it somewhere else because you dont make any sense at all, you lack coherence, and your imaginative assumptions that im not married shows you have a mental problem. please go see a psychologist as well and leave my mention. I will remember you in prayer. Peace

Tell me what kinda prayer would come from a misandrist like you if not the echoes of woes emanating from your dark and putrid heart.

Oh, you're married and had the guts to pour invective on someone else's husband. Tells the kinda 'wife' you are -- a graceless bald ogress who competes with men in beer parlours and farts through her loose anus in a town hall meeting.

Remember me in prayer indeed. While the marine spirits reign supreme over your cursed life.

ModestGal:
Ma, I'm sorry, but I use God to beg you, do what I told you. Separate from him, request him to see a psychologist, or you both see one.
This man is TOXIC, I repeat, very TOXIC, ma, I'm pitying your mental health ni o. You need to stans your ground on it once and for all and decide.

Your marriage is 6months and he's already threatening divorce during quarrels, something is mentally wrong with your husband. And I don't know why he kept mentioning submission, on issues that has nothing to do with submission.

This man clearly sees a wife like a slave, and yet, he still allow you to contribute to the financial stability of the house. Hes just manipulating you with those words DIVORCE and SUBMISSION

Calling you a bìtch would be putting it mildly. You're a toxic dross whose relationship mishaps have made a roving, bitter feminist.

Your ultimate goal is to bring sadness and desolation to any woman who is in a relationship, making them like you -- a love-less slag.

Calling someone else's husband stupid explains why you're still an unmarried ogress.

HeavenlyCherub:
I can tell you have been reading your thesaurus . In an attempt to sound intelligent you sound pathetic. Does it even make sense to you? I pray you can be a better father than your father was to you. I can tell you are heartbroken. It’s ok to seek help. God bless

You seem to be able to tell a lot of things from your hideout, don't you? You most probably evolved from a family of career witches who peddle false prophecies around. And you their shining, millennium daughter has taken the family's old trade digital. You must accept my sincere congratulations.

Don't be intimidated by my lexical dexterity for it is tradition. I know I've sent you back and forth to the dictionary like a dutiful slavegirl running errands for her mistress.

Dumb hag! Now guess what I'm wearing?

HeavenlyCherub:
I’m satanic because I told you the truth? The family I come from men are encouraged to also preserve themselves. Imagine the soul ties you have on your body. Why do you want to reference the Bible only when it serves you. Sex is just not a physical but spiritual encounter. So you as a man want the flexibility to sleep with who you want to then want to deposit it on your wife/woman? I fear for your spouse. You make no point because you know you don’t have one. Stop this poor reference to Eve. People need to learn to be faithful to each other, if you can’t do that- don’t get married. Nonsense!! Most of you Nairaland people resort to insulting someone because their opinion differs from yours. If I insult you, you will not like it. Jesus working within me

There is no truth embedded in a two-faced, neo-pharisaical recalcitrant like you! Talking about insults like I started it. A glance at your first quote laid bare your social and emotional indiscipline. Drawing inferences from your subjective and twisted mind doesn't make you smart.

You could tell my dad was either a bad one or not in my life... and you had the impudence to talk about the family that raised a Jezebel like you who lacks the grace and temperament of a lady.

Beldam, please screw yourself! And bring on the insults lemme take you through some turbulent emotional trauma.

HeavenlyCherub:
You are ridiculous if you feel like only a womans organ must be respected. You as a man need to keep yourself too. This is what happens ladies and gentlemen- when a man is raised without a father figure. I can tell your dad was either a bad one or not in your life.

The downfall of mankind, as occasioned by Eve's usurpation, greed and disrespect for divine hierarchical order is manifested in your post.

Not only are you loose and lack respect for your own body, you are spiritually and intellectually bereft of what it takes to be a woman, Ms SatanicCherub.

queensmith:
There are as many women out there with decent jobs, homes, cars unfortunately men tend to be intimidated by succesful woman.

Avoid, wary, untrusting These are words that better portray some men's perceptions regarding such women. Never intimidated.

Johntemmy:
On top the matter..can you take your wife back after you caught her cheating on you please I need advice and sincere reply thanks everyone.

The simple answer is no. Because men are not wired to accept that. Once there is coital violation on the part of the woman, then the mariage is mentally, psychologically and romantically over. I deliberately left out the spiritual part in order to stay aligned within the scope of this section.

The woman's sexual organ is sacred and should never be violated by another man in marriage. It is taboo.

Queenkwin:
Men who visit Nairaland family and romance sections the most are not intelligent enough to contribute in other sections of the forum.

You've calculated the psychological casualty that would ensue as a result of your narcissist post hence you advised yourself that you'd need a factory new sobriquet for your lousy post.

But I find intelligent men here on the family section in good numbers, dealing with behavioural science and the complexity of erring, recalcitrant bitcheś with broken moral compass.

The sheer cognitive requirement in dealing with such can only be compared to the finest of professional disciplines.

pocohantas:
So, I have packed my bag and I am good to go. While you were here having palpitations. I worked, attended a meeting, ate, chatted... all this offline.

Keep refreshing, keep quoting me,
Someday I might indulge you.

You always come off weak and needing to prove to strangers that you've got a life going.

You should care less if your genes are not laden with molecules of low self-esteem.

pocohantas:
Don’t stop, train your muscles.

Train a muscle for who, poco?

Bwuahahahahaha!!!

Even your meme games are stale and I don't need muscles with you.

Just a little scribble with my pen creates an in road reaching to the heart of your emotional defences. They're poorly guarded.

pocohantas:
Fiesty fiesty

Someone waiting for a response.

C'mon poco. Quit with the pretence. It's more pathetic when you act like a cold stone without feelings. Those words cut deep and we both know it.

Irony is; you knew when a jab is reply-demanding but lack of adequate fire power makes you take cover in your "someone is waiting for a response" meme.

Easy pickings always with you, darling!

MelaninSkinGirl:
Hey, I showed you the science, you decide what you want to do with your lives. It's a free universe.

But believe me you, there is nothing sadder than a man who is 50something running around and sleeping with everything that moves. He thinks these pretty young girls love him, but he doesn't know they are in it for his wallet. It's a sad life.

There goes your so called study on men being happier in marriage off the window. Without marriage most women will sexually expire by 30years as men would traditionally go for younger sweet 16s.

pocohantas:
Rare picture of someone

One pic out from your gallery of erotic collectables from which you provide relief for your swollen fanny.

pocohantas:
This is the point you start refreshing, hoping for a response.

Give it up, poco. It's always easy pickings with you.

pocohantas:
Na person wey no well. Year in and out, he is obsessed with activities of vaginas.

Tomorrow when his mates are buying benz and houses, he will be calling them ritualist/yahoo boys.

There is a mumusmith, that one can find my comment on the 11th page, just to tbark like a rabid dog. Na to ignore them sure pass. Let them be quoting you. Premium entertainment they are.

Benz and houses? Were those not the platform upon which your coochee was auctioned?

Ignoring them, you advised:
Trying to give what you don't possess. This has been the sum total of your existence in NL -- fakeism!

pocohantas:
“You must fight me...”

“I know I am vibrating your cunt guitar saxophone intricately inadvertently krinkrun krankum”


When it is not that you are mad!

If my words are magnetic then you're trying too hard not to be pulled along its field.

Your head told you it's a bad idea to either quote me or make an indirect reference... but that old impulse of yours....


Oh poco!

KanwuliaExtra:
Ehn-heeehn? See obsession with this my “old cun.t” o! You even KNOW that it is SOFT too?
This MUST be COUGAR THE SCAMMER I swear!

It's so difficult for you to honour your own "BYE" that you have responded twice to my posts afterwards. I'm afraid I must have strummed the 6 strings of your emotional guitar, leaving you breathless and incapable of self-honour.

COUGAR? Heard about him and how he smashed the hearts of you wanderlust-ful and wayward women in the family section .

I'll let you run free with the cùnt self-flattery.

KanwuliaExtra:
This is the year of Vision-2020!
Like I stated earlier, this is not 2008-2018.
I only post when I am off from work
Depending on the time-zone difference, I will only post when little boys and girls like you are out CORONA-job-hunting or asleep!

I worked yesterday and had ZERO time for you and NL! Off the next 2 days and I don’t have the slightest desire to devote all my time “cyber-phocking” you on this thread or any other to cure your spiritual ED!

I have had enough of your needless banter.
Please, carry on with your so-called “jabs”. I have more to ruminate with on this thread. If you cannot desist from constituting a nuisance to yourself o all over NL, I can’t help you.

BYE!

VISION 2020? Inspired by the late General Abacha, are you? Huahahaha!

Alas! It's 5 months gone already in 2020 and it seems like it's the same sad old story --- your VISIONs are still a mirage. Nothing has changed much. Your confidence is still built around "having a job" and dwelling in a different time zone. That should have been the expectation from the first couple of years after you and your roaches-infested undies escaped poverty by migrating overseas after selling the last ancestral piece of land that should have been inherited amongst your 6 male siblings.

Your personal routine/job is of no relevance to anyone. It beats me how you're quick to divulge little personal details on the internet.

Between your brain and your cùnt, i can't tell which is softer.

KanwuliaExtra:
My prerogative!
Endlessly editing posts is a sign of inadequacy?
Please, I prefer your “perverted literary expressions“. At least those who love S&M can all join you in your macabre bedroom to jumpstart their dead-NL-sexual engines!

Next time, include some “Hundred Shades of Grey” descriptive narratives like “chain-ganging/banging and cool-whipping”.

It would have been more honourable stepping out from the shadows and make your entreaties in the open rather than employing your lousy reserve psychology.

I'm not here to revive/or satisfy the unlived cravings of old bitties like you, but to point them to where they once lost track.

KanwuliaExtra:

LWKMD!!!! You will be very goooood at writing “literary KPORRNO” I swia. See as you juss dey describe “ya fantasy”?

How does it feel editing your post several hours after posting it because it pales in comparison to the post it was meant to dismiss?

I know the feeling of inadequacy has been an age-long companion of yours.

pocohantas:
Lol. When some NL guys are deflecting and dishing out random insults they think would hurt. Trying to impose feelings on you...

I just imagine a kid throwing tantrums. Hitting you and desperately hoping you did react. Terrible terrible situation to be in.

Is it so hard to stick to a topic? Like, these are supposed to be the unemotional gender right?

pocohantas:
They will insult you with situations they wish you are in. Situations that makes them feel better, then try to impose sadness on you.

The topic is very simple and they are already deflecting to marital status and someone’s pussy. Are these ones okay at all?

Ironically, none of your posts was sticking to the topic.

Have I not always questioned the integrity of your cognitive strength against the tides of your wild and raging impulses? Once again you found yourself adrift of your own standard of judgment.

Isn't it what feminism is all about?

You'd do well to limit your solidarity with the rest of the hen party to donating likes and shares.

KanwuliaExtra:

LWKMD!!!! You will be very goooood at writing “literary KPORRNO” I swia. See as you juss dey describe “ya fantasy”?

You still dey alive on and offline?

What has all these got to do with this thread?
Those days don passsss wey I go siddon for work dey type crrrrrap to posters like YOU on and off NL. Glad I can wait till my days off to read nonsense from posters like “your ilk” who can’t stick to topics without interjecting “personal mis-feelings” into every gaddem thread they show up on.

I don really give a piece of ratzzzarse what you think about me. I thought you would have grown up by now. Very entertaining.

Please, have a seat at the very back of this thread, till your “SUCRUTUMS” have something to offer on this thread besides my “vulva” to fantasize about.

* I tok am say some men go shed tears on and off line when woman begin play the same game *

Of course you do give a damn! All narcissists and social media addicts like you do give a damn about their PP.

Waiting till after work to reply to my jabs was a monumental achievement and you needed to share it online too!

And someone said she's a feminist! Mental vegetable!

KanwuliaExtra:


This goes both ways.
Wait till I bring the woman with “love children” in their marriages. Women bytching will be child’s play. Men will shed tears on and offline!

It goes both ways indeed. You've always been a loose woman. I know having your vulva clasped against different assortment of dicks has been your hobby.

But a true woman knows she's defiled immediately two or more dicks interchange visitation to her love-tunnel (stench-trench, in your case). This is something your "evolved" mind would never understand.

When men invented words like "cum dump" we had someone like you and your ilks in mind.

@ OP, I love your unfeminist approach to love making, putting some coital responsibilities on the husband to take his wife to the sexual summit. But I must warn you:

There is a selfish end to the sexual desire of most sexually proficient men. His favourite position/angle, thrusting rhythm and frequency and the timing to sexual demand are sometimes independent of her preferences. And most healthy, uncompromised women just love to be so taken, surrendering themselves to the pleasures of such "erotic brutality"