₦airaland Forum

AHCB:
tell me about it?

Fadedvoiced:
Gone to where?

Honestly,your stupidity is legendary .

To become or support democrats dumbness and hate is required.

Since 2015 you've been obsessed with trump instead of you to focus on yourself !

Your husband left you in the most emotionally devastating way 3years ago yet you don't want to have sense.



Cc crackh.aus Eld.er001 postm.ann

pastie:
The more you trying sound intelligent the more stup!d you become,

if the north is being control by the moon, typically you are far descendant of descendant moon worshiping.
The last time I checked, your generations are been controlled by the so called moon worshipers.

pastie:
This can only happen in Igbo land, try this nonsense up north and pay the dearly price.

Humiliation and bigotry is what they don't tolerate.

2buffagain:
@postmann archaic fellow.
Ladies wit precious dreams need to open their eyes before they marry sha, or they will end up with men like the OP.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FyfpYrYa6eQ?t=842

travelland:
Must be an Igbo man that wrote this. Your daughter is supposed to be for a season in your mentality but when it's time to beg for money, you'll do it off and on season

Elder0001:
Trying to get something sensible from bible for your argument will be futile because the Bible itself was written by sexist and misogynist men to glorify themselves.

Feminism and religion whether Christian ?islam,Hinduism ,bhuddism or whatever can't work together because they all practice the systemic degradation of women.

bukatyne:
I was expecting the feminism part. No disappointment.

First, I do not see how equal opportunities for women is anti Christ.

Again, I know this discussion is always divided between career/staying at home however, it is a wrong approach.

Most people (men & women) don't have careers: they have jobs they work to pay the bills.

Everyone is created for two purposes:
1. Worship God
2. Individual/distinct purposes.

We are all expected to put the will of God/ our purposes over personal ambitions. Part of which will be a good wife/husband/child/patent/neighbour/colleague/customer etc. so that our testimony will not be ruined.

Besides how can a woman's calling be wifehood and motherhood when these relationships end on earth and we are spiritual beings?

For example, Esther was to save the Jew's, Mary was to birth the saviour etc. Do you think these women would have said to me successful if they failed at these duties?

I asked you some questions on another thread which I will try to respond to tomorrow.

Elder0001:
How someone still possess this kind of disgusting mentality in 2018 is beyond me...

bukatyne:
1. This competitive nature is beyond me. And it is not godly.

bukatyne:
. Oh, quit the drama; women siting at home watching their kids grow does not necessarily produce good results.

bukatyne:
And for anyone to be a success, the person (male or female) has to succeed in all areas of his/ her life.

bukatyne:
And sir, it is actually men/fathers who are tasked with training their children /impacting/ transferring knowledge. We all know how Eli turned out.

bukatyne:
She works from home? Did anybody in their time work from an office apart from judges and priests? Rising up at dawn to inspect a field doesn't sound like the work from home you have in mind.

bukatyne:
. The father sent the boy home to his mother? The mother was on the farm with him.

bukatyne:
And apart from slaves, nobody had the employer/employer relationship we have today. And it is a myth to think that doing your own thing will give you more time except we are talking selling sweets in front of the house.

5. A woman's first point of duty is neither her home nor career: it is what she has been destined to be.

bukatyne:
If you say so.

Do you have anyone for sale?

IamD18:
In other words. The holy bible instructed us to sell humans into marriage?

2buffagain:
So in summary, the "wisdom" you are passing on is:
- Do not marry any woman that seems like she has a brain. _{Always opt for the stupid one to be on the safe side.}
- If she has a job and eventually starts earning more from it than you make, get her fired or get her to quit. _{Who send her message?}
- If she has a business that she is exceling at, scatter it. _{How dare she?}

I never knew that men are now supposed to be doing the work of Satan in their wives' lives.

To each their own man.
The more I endure this conversation, the more I thank God I wasn't raised to be as evil as the seemingly average Nigerian man.

ShaqFu:
that's the truth she'll never accept.

She's the complete definition of house wife offline, and feminist online.

Women like her cower at the beckon of their saviour, sorry husband.

What do you think would have become of her if her husband hadn't rescued her from the ramshackle life she was living in Owerri.

I'm sure peeps like the Lordsapostle would have sampled her number without times.

Cc: iamd18.

Seahawk:
You’re speaking something above their mindset.
Imagine telling a control freak to give up their source of control. That’s like telling an addict to quit cold turkey.

Someone who wants to have financial power over another person so that can they can dictate how their lives should be will NEVER agree with you. You’re pouring water on stone.

Elder0001:
Protection from misogynistic pigs like pos_tmann

2buffagain:
Nobody said they will not financially support their wife sah.
The emboldened is the only anchorable logical point you have made towards our discussion.

Now, what if her "work for pleasure" places her far above you in wealth as it dwarfs your relatively meager provisions?

2buffagain:
What will you attach your ego to then?
From your rhetoric, it seems this will be unacceptable to you as you would lack the tools/mindset to proceed upon such a situation.

The brand of manhood I am encouraging you to see is immune to such things because it is anchored to far more immutable things.
A brand much needed in THIS era, where women achieve as much as or sometimes more than men....not always less, as you are obviously used to.
These women need not be lonely or made to feel unloved/unlovable simply because they earn much more than you. That is a pointless and wicked torture.

2buffagain:
Sha sha May your wife sha not come into a major inheritance or achieve great financial gains.

2buffagain:
May she be poorer than you and 100% dependent on you for all things.
May she be fired whenever it seems like her income is about to go over your own.
May her business scatter whenever it develops the liver to want to supercede your relatively meager income.

You still haven't said "Amen"...sah.

IamD18:
You are too wise to be arguing back and forth with those emotional folks. I expected one of them to counter the emboldened, but what did they do? They highlighted the part of your comment that will suit them even without countering it logically.

Stress no more Buddy.

The first person you quoted is a married feminist wannabe who I can bet married either or provision or protection that's why she tagged that part of your comment out. Serious, you shouldn't take her because her online persona reeks different from WHO I KNOW SHE IS IN REALITY.

The second person is obviously sick and confused which we both can attest to.

The third person hails from a certain region that detests Igbos, check his previous comments to confirm. He's not arguing with a free mind but with hatred for IGBOS.


Stress no more.

Seahawk:
Are you okay?

2buffagain:
Then my friend, I pray your wife never becomes wealthier than you.
Your ego is bound to fickle, easily-broken things.

Elder0001:
You need help.

No sane woman will get married to you

Elder0001:
Answer the damn question or keep shut forever.

Can you marry a woman who has no need for your provision and protection?

Elder0001:
Nothing provokes me more than seeing your senseless,primitive,delusional and misogynistic comments on my threads.

A fool like you will never learn.

Traditions were made by men and men alone not women . They can be changed when they've outlived their usefulness.

I blame women who allows fools to sell them off .

2buffagain:
I guess, by this your analogy, couples like the Kenneth Copelands, etc have not married and are just doing boyfriend /girlfriend because there was no brideprice.

I am a christian too, but I won't go as far as trying to over-spiritualize the wind saying "because there was no brideprice (or father not given a chance to refuse it), they haven't married".

The only thing God cares about is that 2 people come together to agree that THIS is what they want.
When a thing that is MERELY symbolic becomes an excuse for standard greed, then it has outlived its usefulness.

Again, with this mindset you also demonize women who make their own money (possibly more than the man) and that they cannot marry or be happy....because they bring more resources into the marriage. You have yet to address this from the previous thread on this subject.

Elder0001:
They can't roast you alive.

It is a known fact that the igbos aren't the only tribe that sell their daughters like properties in the name of bride price.

All African countries have tribes that participate in this degradation of women.

Be it North Africa ,eastern or central Africa.