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VictorRomanov:
Postmann wins! Fatal Brutality!



But in all honesty, you made very valid and important points. One thing that has helped me is knowing where to draw the limit with the opposite sex. I may enjoy their company, especially when the significant other is busy to give me attention. However I strive not to cross the line. No phone calls and no discussing of my issues with them. And almost all of my female acquaintances know I am hooked. That has kept me.

Good point. Where the heart is, the steps surely follow.

Your honesty and boldness is not common in this time. Only few have made sincere comments on this matter. Even though all of us are guilty one way or another.

Kudos!!!

DemiGoddess:
Aye Postmann, albeit just one mortal.
All I need is his love and believe me I will take down Olympus if need be for him.
But he has to be strong,brave,gallant and noble like a KNIGHT.
I will appeal to other gods for a safe apotheosis for I intend to make him divine like meself.
Forever consuming on our eternal love and sizzling raw passion.
Daily feasting on tasty ambrosia,
I will love him daily and forever with my heart,soul and body.
Alas! even mortals wish immortality in the event of true love

No doubt thy hand is as firm as thy heart is strong
For the love of a goddess is fierce
A KNIGHT no doubt
The goddess like the best of men
But who could wear the shoes of thy preference?
Who can step in and stand by thy side
And know the ways of a goddess forbidden to man?
Who can drink from the bowels of thy ecstasy
And ever savour an earthly kind?

Thy eyes are the emblems of passion
The gates to an endless promise
I tremble to look too deep
Lest I get lost and never be found
But who can earn the love of a goddess?
On Whom has the favour of her gaze rested?

May I used this medium to congratulate a most distinguished group of men and women of valour for their relentless effort in ridding this platform from degenerates and lovelorn losers who walk around, savagely bullying any lady who didn't yield to their advances and stalking and intimidating others who receive the admirations and affections of these beautiful ladies.

Ladies and gentlemen, may I introduce the great exterminators of unwanted ghost-handles, whose only purpose is a coward posture of hunting the objects of their rejections and men who triumphed where they failed.

Please welcome;
TheSonOfMark
Lezz/Lezzlie
Synzu
FirstEva
Creamish
Demigoddess/Persephenee
Etc etc



May I then proceed to announce the death of Chase77. He past away early this morning after receiving heavy artillery bombardment from these brave warriors few days ago. He was ambushed by _postmann lastnight and was given a fatal blow that took away his last breath.

We await his reincarnation. His first ghost-moniker is Hattchett is still on the loose, though in low profile after severe shelling knocked him into oblivion.

CONGRATULATIONS LADIES AND GENTS!!!

DemiGoddess:
Foolish aren't they
For she makes her choice herself, others tussle in vain.
But I'm searching myself for a mortal man for even the divine envy mortal love.

Would a mortal consume thy love
And live to tell its sweet tales?

DemiGoddess:
Fine
Divinity walks among mortals today

No doubt, whatsoever. And the tracks of a goddess mortals trace like the a path to salvation.

[quote author=Akfakorede post=44495632][/quote]Feel free, brother

DemiGoddess:
How's today going?

Ok. I'm more mentally accustomed to this handle. My day as been super hot. But thank GOD I'm free from work this week.

Good to see your main handle out of jail

How've you been?

[quote author=DivaFiva post=44475748]I'm about to attempt to persuade our men to subscribe to the feminist ideology. Sorry it's kinda lengthy

Assumptions: An already thriving economy

1. Reduced Malnutrition and Child-Hunger: When more mothers become salary earners, it is no surprise that kids tend to eat better. As a man, seeing your kids healthy and agile, especially when it causes less strain to your pocket should be a welcomed relief. You were once a kid, think of all the things your mother bought in periods she had more than enough. Unless your mum was deadbeat or abusive, the gain was shared by her and her kids and usually the gain was better food or cooking equipment.
[quote author=DivaFiva post=44475748]
You have a point. A family with a diversified source of income stands a better change at facing any economic emergency. But such shouldn't be actualized at the expense of very young children who still need their mother's care. There are very few career paths that doesn't compromise motherhood and render young children exposed to all kinds of vices. Mothers with very young children are adviced to choose self-employed generating income where they can control their time and manage their young children effectively. Stocks, part-time writer/ editors, online networking etc are some of the very few career paths that spare mothers the agony of abandoning their children. Mothers who abandoned their children in daycares and nannies are steadily on the rise. This has nothing to do with women empowerment. It is simply greed.

[quote author=DivaFiva post=44475748]2. More Productivity: The idea that "women are worth less" begins from childhood but it begins to resonate with us as teenager( which by the way is one of the worst periods we face due to hormonal changes and insecurities attached) and as young adults we already believe that so, we act accordingly. In secondary school, a lot of us can attest to the fact that more often than not that more girls were top of the class. In the university however, we lose trail. If women are taught to be more confident in their abilities, we create a more productive economy.
[quote author=DivaFiva post=44475748]
Pointless!!! Learn to separate academic intelligence from real life application. They are two different ball games. You sound like a feminist already.


[quote author=DivaFiva post=44475748]3. Shared responsibility: Believe it or not a lot of Nigerian women are not comfortable asking their significant order for money EVERY little thing. Some of you guys actually love and crave being the SOLE provider because of the power and control ( it gives) over someone else's life especially when they get a good enough pay. With equality, abusive partners lose that power as well...The power that keeps the woman silent in pain. Slowly but surely, men may never have to pay for wives because it sorta cheapens our worth especially when men literally take bride-prices to mean ownership.

[quote author=DivaFiva post=44475748]

Young lady, what's your creed? Are you Muslim or Christian? What is the custom of your people? Are you married? Do you hope to get married, traditionally and according to your faith? What then do your tradition and your faith teach you? To be loyal and submissive!!! So your seeking financial independence is but a leverage to do as you please even after taking matrimonial oaths to be loyal to your husband? A man's headship over you is spiritual and physical. You can be a billionaires, but your husband still has authority over you. Except he has lost touch with his GOD, he will bring you the most bitter misery any bloody feminist will live to regret!

My view that your are a feminist is getting stronger


[quote author=DivaFiva post=44475748]4. Freedom of Expression: Some men would love to be as you are... Wear whatever (pink jeans), talk however (loud talkers who smack their lips) even in adult hood without being looked down on or referred to as a "woman" as though it is derogatory. Some men are natural CAREGIVERS who would be satisfied being a nurse, a cook or a stay-at-home parent but society would not let them be great. When women are equal, gender lines are blurred a bit and people are more likely to come around to accepting you for who you are.

[quote author=DivaFiva post=44475748]
I don't mind repeating myself. The same demon that is responsible for feminism is the same one responsible for homosexuality. "A sit-at-home-dad". While you be the MAN who be the breadwinner. Hahahaha!!! Gender identity crisis alert!!!!!!!!!!



[quote author=DivaFiva post=44475748]5. Your daughters: As at now, it may be convenient for you to say "Men are superior" until your daughter pick up the equality struggle from where older women (and men alike) left off. It's time we make progress with this and that's if we want to eventually be a highly functional society that makes the best out of majority of her citizens both men and women.

[quote author=DivaFiva post=44475748]No doubt your number 5 is a sick ideology you borrowed from the West. But let me remind you that all that the West enjoys today was the labour of a strong Patriarchal society where women knew their place. But today the West is in decline even though all the women are at work. Just as your mother's generation was happier and more fulfilled than your generation, when the coming generation picks up the feminist baton, a terrible fall awaits them.

[quote author=DivaFiva post=44475748]
6. End of Hypermasculinity: Most men would rather just be masculine rather than going through the trouble of proving that they are "MEN" over and over again. I know it can be exhaustive, trying to hold back tears when what you really feel like it is to cry and feel better afterwards. I know it is harder for some men to ask for help because of the EGO and hyper-masculinity urges. Some of our men would grow up thinking it is manly to frown and play less so your kids can respect you. Yeah..(:|) try FEAR! When they grow old, they tend to resent he father more often for the scars he caused them.

When I heard about the gender equality bill that was declined, my heart sunk but I needed to get the word across so we can know.

Oya add your two cents...or even add to the list.

[quote author=DivaFiva post=44475748]Cheap blackmail. Save those tears of ignorance for you and your feminist folks. Men show affections differently from women. He is a symbol of authority and must act accordingly.

Men and women are two different and unique being with different gender roles. The idea to narrow or erase this difference is satanic in all its intention.
Feminism is the chief tool of satan, the prince of rebellion. And like him, they share the same fate.


Cc. Akfakorede

Persephenee:
Best I ever had

And for those of us who missed out, shouldnt a pic serve as a compensation?

grad2012:
sorry I quoted you,but I must confess I luv this, OMG kekkeke.

Actually, there's nothing to be sorry for. But you're one handful black Jewel if your DP bears the truth about your physical disposition.

Persephenee:
Lol
Good Morning

Good morning! How did the birthday gig go?

Persephenee:
Yes.

I think March 12 it was. I just gave you one like on that very sweet debut, where your sword sliced through the butter-camp of those poor female bandits.
Until they perished in their numbers, you knew no mercy.

Cutehector:
i'm a realist....

Then common sense should have laid a grip on your tongue, that you give it no scriptural voice.

.

Persephenee:

You dont forget.
That day was...

It's not a day to be forgotten. Do you want specifics?

[b]Your misery has only just begun. I shall bury this new handle of yours in the same grave where all the others where buried. A grave of shame and failure with a backlog of rather forgotten woes, rejections and lost hopes.

Even in your ghost form, you amounted to nothing. You'll always need to clean up your past before you can stand in my presence, you peasant of a common birth!

I shall make your blood the very stream on which this thread flows, you mentally and financially impoverished supplicant.

No, NL is something. Ask the government of Nigeria how this forum was used by separatists in their bid to break up this country. You unenlightened, typical romancelander who lust his faculty in the DP of some beautiful woman.

NL is the facebook of Africa. We have so many foreigners here. So much knowledge and experience flow like an endless stream from worthy intellectual contributors, and you've been just a freeloader, albeit an unthankful one. Your life didnt bear any fruit from all the wealth of knowledge buried in this great platform for you seldom look beyond romanceland. There you found and lost Agnes, and died in the quest of winning her back. If you have anything upstairs, it must have reffected here. Afterall no one lights a candle and hide it under the table. Here is an extension of some degree of what you really are!

And you are a failure. An easy-to-spot kind of a failure. You redundant, daydreaming Skulk.

Stop following me around, I don't like ghosts and neither do I enjoy educating one. From this brief spat, I'm already rubbing off on you, ungrateful postmann-wannabe!


***modified***
_Stupid guest, thought you said you were going to bed? I doubt you have a paid roof over your head. Shanty dwelling Scrounger!!! Coward on![/b]

Chase77:
You are a cretinous cünting fückhead.

If you really think that the balderdash you conjure up there made some sense, then you my friend, are a recto-cranially inverted red-faced spider monkey.

I told you to quit this foolishness already.

With _lezz rejecting your homosexual advances, life became meaningless, you are left stranded holding your erected dick in your palms , with no anus to nibble on.

You are local a headmaster with an archaic sense of fashion, and not even half as smart as a lab mouse to pick left from right, much less save your life that is slipping away ever slowly.

Waste of humanity!!!

[b]
Put your dictionary back in its shelf, you mis-educated nuisance!!!
You make a poor combination of words. You're obviously not used to this. Your brain suffers as you have been stretched already outside your comfort zone.

You must have been bred in an impoverished neighbourhood where education is a communal contribution, with each family one representative. You got your family's ticket, not out of merit but out of savage bullying. I heard your younger ones were far more clever.

So you walk around with some high-sounding nonsense as the only proof that you went to school.

You must think NL is your community where you can bully your way around with your inferior brainpower.

This is NL. Your only ticket to respect is your wits and intelligence. Nothing is hidden. You either have it or you don't. And you know your class, even here. You're a backbencher, a fourth-grade member of this great platform.
You read my posts and profile for your mental and intellectual growth. And your rubbing off with me is your exam to see how far you've come along from the pit of the dimwits.

But I can't be your teacher. Not only that you're an ungrateful sad-face, but I fear that, that which you couldnt learn while you were alive, how can you learn when you're dead?[/b]

Chase77:
You are a pathetic fool.

Who told you I was stalking you?

Why would I wanna stalk a degenerate?

I only happened on an erring simpleton so, as a responsible citizen I had to stop by and put a filth-filled doghead back on track.

Just carrying out my civic responsibility, with all pleasure.

And stop trying to fit in as a warlord - jez! You sound idiøtic and purposeless. Atleast your contradictory sermons though tiresome were a bit better.

Village jester! Fool!!!

[b]
What has the living in common with the dead?
You're only a citizen of the Republic of the Damned
The abode of failed ghosts
Who wish desperately for another chance at life.

The depth of my posts stretch far beyond your muscle's elasticity. Stop trying to play catch up.
We were not cut out from the same stone.
You're of an ordinary birth, with no special talent. That's why you got lost in a forum like NL. Your e-life here yielded no fruits hence you re a restless, tormented ghost.
Stop abusing this public platform rubbing off with your betters. My glow cannot reflect on you no matter your stalking and exchanged banters for ghosts don't shine. Especially failed ones whose past life left nothing of significance.


Go back to hell you morbid gibbon. There's no more chance at life for you. You've exhausted your slot after repeated failures. Now you're a destitute at Google's door, begging for a fresh email account for a new ghost-suit. Haunted by your failures, you found no peace in hell.[/b]

Chase77:
What a huge pile of trash!

It's not a must that you must create threads. Creation of threads is not meant for people whose length of creativity is as short as a cockerel's dick.

Stop trying too hard.
SMH.

The whining of a tormented ghost!
Stalking your past life of failure and obscurity.
I can't give you back your life
For I wasn't he who took it.
Your death was your own creation
You died when your dreams and hopes went up in smoke.
So leave me be you agent of the shadows
To the pit of hell from whence you came
For I don't wish to share my life with you.

Persephenee:
Always making me smile with your kind words.
Thank you
Always making me smile with your kind words.
Thank you

But you know that's no empty words. You came along in that feminism thread with an undiluted purity that so many a feminist were so dumb struck that they could only question your gender for support from total mental collapse.

There you made your mark!

Persephenee:
Ye forgot me birthday fine sir!

My precious jewel, curved out from a rare precious gem, how was I to know it was your birthday? No one told me, not even you!
How do we go about it now?

I'll start by saying happy birthday to an uncommon woman whose integrity and virtue lingers on in absolute defiance to the pervertions that plague the 21st century woman!

cococandy:
that's harsh enough

Not in my world.

cococandy:
Your sexism is nauseating.
Ugh.
#Pukes

I was expecting something harsher from you...anyone...any feminist.

I'll take that as a compliment.

SexyStrawberry:
Husband cheats, she should pray and HARD! yea pray hardcore baby! common! give it to the lord! pray baby pray!!!! Then when she says something to her husband out of pain n heartbreak, d next thing u will see is "u erred by saying this to him" or "u erred by doing that to him" , but when d wife cheats............................ send that prostitute away! kick her outta ur life, she's a disgrace! my man run from her o! Divorce her already! No one says pray for god to bring her back to u, no one says my man pray and pray very hard God is with, things will get better, she'll change.......... For those of u who are religious, please I need someone to remind me that chapter and verse of the Bible where God himself said he regrets making man and repented of it?

That was Genesis 6:7. But if you go down to verse 8, one man it was found favour in the LORD's sight in the person of NOAH. Do I need to remind you that sin came into this world as a result of the sin of a woman?

Are you by any stretch of ignorance trying to assert that GOD regretted creating the human male? HE was talking about the HUMAN RACE.

Cheating is not a prerogative of any man. But the problem with the 21st century feminist is that she foolishly thinks what is good for the goose is good for the gander!

Sex takes place inside a woman. It is her vulva, her labia that gets parted open by man's probing stick. Whether gently or roughly is his prerogative. You even have to be well lubricated in order to take him in comfortably.

He finds his way deep down into your abyss
Where your tissues are raw and supper soft.
His entrance is an intrusion to your most delicate vulnerability.
He leaves you with a parting gift of little fluids that move and breathe.
They ll travel thru your very core, knitting themselves in your womb, changing your very substance. It is a part of him he just left inside of you.
You'll carry it for days but if it's journey is successful, you'll carry it for months, with a permanent change inwardly and outwardly. But he remains the same all this while, because he is a MAN.

GOD wasn't foolish that he never permitted women out of concessions to go into polyandry. HE is the author of sex not men.

I'd rather talk about those nails on your DP than go on with this truth which modern woman finds so unsettling.

Persephenee:
You forgot!

What could that be my mystery lady
Who appears when she will
like an unexpected rainbow over a clear sunny day?

wasak:
Lol. I'm getting over it.

You should brother, with a grateful heart. She was an evil Tsunami that was diverted from her course mid-way before full impact.

Get your heart and mind ready for a damsel who will go to bed each night thankin her GOD she crossed path with you.

.

wasak:
My naive ex girlfriend fell for this, despite the pleadings from me. Seeing the guy frequently, placing his needs above mine and having the audacity to ask me, 'what'll you do if cheat on you?'. I hadn't the slightest idea that my love was contemplating the manifestation of my worst nightmare, and Alas, it came to pass, for there's nothing hidden under the sun, yours truly found out, I was shattered completely and I could feel pieces of my heart littered around each other, several weeks of insanity followed, for there were intervals where I subconsciously imagined my love professing love to someone else...tears flowed effortlessly, and pleas came from all angles for it is humane to err, it is also humane to forgive, perhaps it is beyond humane to forget, beyond humane to reconstruct the trust of 5 years that was so easily broken like a broomstick. Perhaps I'll get over this someday, but until then.... I'm shattered.

That was some heartless girl! She'll learn no doubt that sound relationships aren't built on lust.

joseph1832:
Which more often than not is as a result of pure lust or even greed.

Spot on!

BumBae:
Yh i will , cant have my mans emotions invested in anothers ..
I mean thats the whole point of dating right you have someone to chat to , share good times n bad times
So if he sharing with a female friend den we got a problem

True that

BumBae:
Most men are guilty of this ..
Women too

But see it in men more, married , engaged , haven't cheated but cheating emotionally ..
But postman can an individual dump the other for emotionally cheating ??

Who am I to say? But for me, if it pertains my relationship, I will.

Many consider emotional cheating just as bad if not worse.

Sexual cheating is only a ripe fruit from the seed of emotional unfaithfulness.

SAINTSAMURAI:
HMM the truth of the matter is a larger percentage of dating men are unfaithful emotionally, becaus these category of young guys are in that aspect of their lives where they tend to relate and have fun with both male and female thereby making them to be close to a particular supposed lady. its kind of difficult not to be emotionally unfaithful except for the married working class men that tends to know that being close bestie with a female can somehow cause emotional unfaithfullness to their partner, so these mature men tends to just have a male bestie friend at his work place and this male bestie must be married too thereby making their discussion to be about work and their married life. the female friend he did have are the hi and bye type. in all summary what im trying to make the reader undastand is that a larger percentage of young dating guys in colleges, their place of work are emotional cheaters, becaus of the pleasure of young friendship except those really mature ones that knows when to draw d line.

You have a point bro. Some women can be naive with the bestie thing of the opposite sex. But the guys most times, are silent, opportunistic predator, waiting for the right moment to strike.
But he can be doing all that without being emotionally connected to the lady.
But women are by far more prone to emotional unfaithfulness than guys.



Good morning bro.