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joseph1832:
Yes of course. Man's moral law stem from tradition and religious sources.

However this may be, whoever holds the power or dictates the will/affairs of the state gets to twist these laws. Remember, its a world where majority carry the vote.

So, be it tradition, moral or even religious law, man will forever manipulate it just to suit his purpose. Whatever is given man, will be perverted by man. Its in our nature.

Okay then. By your submissions you just agreed that man's attempt at making moral laws for himself is a deviant and corruption of the original law that is without flaw. Which is religious law.

And by religious law, I mean Christian law.

joseph1832:
Well I'm not a fan of religion, I believe man doesn't need it, or better still, man should separate religion from the affair of state.

I subscribe to Karl Marx's famous quote: "Religion is the opiate of the masses".

On the contrary, man has proven that he can indeed make laws for himself. He's proven that from the 12th century to this very day.

The same thing you see in religion is the same thing you see with laws. Man perverting and twisting both just to suit himself and himself alone.

The law is made by man, and man can twist not just the law, but God's law too (religious law). The activities of man in his bid to get what he wants, how he wants, and when he wants it, is itched in the sands of time.

But man's moral laws stemmed from religious laws most of the time. He only twists it now and again to suit his selfish purpose and create accommodation for his perversion.

DemiGoddess:
Yes I do

Okay. I'm all ears. Maybe you may choose another medium.

DemiGoddess:
She's here now

By my pondering heart, you owe me an explanation!

joseph1832:
Yea if only bruv, but it aint like that. Its human nature to always want more, to always crave more, man's wants and needs is insatiable. A man will always lust after another woman, vis a vis. Its the reason why the world is the way it is.

FWB means friend with benefit. Kinda like being in an open relationship with a girl/boy.

Okay. I got the acronym.
That's why man needs religion! Irrespective of false preachers and overzealous pastors, religion is the only answer to man's uncontrollable and capricious moral standard. Man can not make moral laws for himself.
What you get is him making it to suit his pervertions. Like the gay stuff. There'd be no end to it. These "intellects" will soon script some marvellous, persuasive words, telling us how man is free to love animals and marry them. Then you'd find human crossbreeding with horse and chimps. There's no stopping man in his pervertions. The heart of man is an endless pit of unimaginable evil!

Creamish:
Im not obsessive but I can be jealous and possessive to an extent. Hez my man..we are one..so Iv every right to be possessive and jealous when things like this happen. He would feel the same way if the tables were turned.

Obsession can be dark and I'm a child of God.

There's an attempt to paint jealousy and possessiveness in their healthy degree as a negative trait.
But if you look at the lives of these instigators, they are at abhorrence with commitment in their own relationships.

joseph1832:
Well I wouldn't know if creamish is, but what I know is women who wear the one man one woman mantra, tend to be possessive.

I've had first hand experience with this. Even the ones who are your FWB too.

Then it's a good thing. If only people can stick to one man one woman, a lot of problems in this world would not exist.

What's FWB?

joseph1832:
May be obsession might be the right word. LOL.

But _Creamish isn't obsessive.

Creamish:
hehehehehe... u bet! ...very harmless..

But on a serious note, for me, except a woman shows a healthy degree of jealousy and possession, I'll question her love and commitment.

True love has a good degree of jealousy and possessiveness. What the foot-loose, fancy-free people think is their own side of the story.

Creamish:
The bolded is the part I dont quite get. Why d'hell will I allow d b1tch get in the car to start with? Right there and then b1tch takes a hike!!

Except love comes in a jealous grip of harmless possessiveness like yours, it is not love.

bukatyne:
You believe in divorce/separation when a husband cheats?

That's strange.

Why should that be strange?
I must be the meanest "misogynist" you know.

Well, hear it loud and clear from me: a woman can leave her husband on the grounds of cheating but if she does remarry she's in an adulterous marriage.

I know you're a christian.

cococandy:
Okay you win.

It boring already.

Ok.

@cococandy,
If you don't mind, there's a question begging for your attention.

cococandy:
Yet you and her were dragging skirt?
Tell it to the birds.

How did you know that? I never mentioned her name.

joseph1832:
By all means bruv, you want to be bring a shovel and a hoe so we can start the digging?

cococandy:
What did you do? You didn't pay her after...?

I don't eat at the cafeteria, neither do I drink from the pub.

cococandy:
You Remind me of din@chi. (Not a compliment)

What will you do? Drag me by my skirt?

You're the 2nd woman who has told me that. Believe me the first one was a self-acclaimed prostitute.

The "coincidence" leaves a dark tunnel worth digging into.

byvan03:
Thanks, my sense of judgement is intact. Have a nice day.

Emotions are poorly equipped soldiers
In the heat of battle they fall under the swords of facts.

byvan03:
Sure I was following the thread before it degenerated to finger fights. Yes, my reference was for the parties concerned and particularly you because you took it up a notch . The personal attacks doesn't improve the thread at all. One person needs to caution the other and not indulge.

Did you see that I was talking with the OP and she quoted me directly with some rude, derogatory remarks? Was that not an attack on my personality?

If you saw that, how does your sense of judgment function?

cococandy:
More like delusional.

Hey, I allowed you walk away the first time. Thunder never strikes at the same place twice.

Be careful

Mindfulness:
Easy mehn, it's only NL. You are too emotional.

That's why I was only teasing you, hun.

byvan03:
Some people really can't make a point without attacking another 's personality, after they claim women are emotional.

Are you by any chance referring to me?
If yes, did you bother to read how it all started?

I need your reply!

Mindfulness:
Are you speaking from experience?

I'm too smart to be caught up in some cheating game.

Mindfulness:
Which contraceptives? Those made in Nigeria?

You tell me, you the expert in cheating and covering your acts with contraceptives. You definitely can create a thread on how to bring up more sluts with your knowledge and expertise from your wealth of experience. You'd definitely make a good coach who don't only talk the talk but walk the walk.

Mindfulness:
A control freak would be definitely difficult to cheat on but not every woman rolls with men with low self-esteem.

Your definition of a man with high self worth is a man who looks the another way, while you spend long hours on this forum ovulating over some dude with a nice DP. No, thanks ma'am, I don't wanna have high self esteem to suit your insatiable sex drive.

Mindfulness:
Everyone enjoys clowns.

Not the way you do, ma'am. You find them ovulatingly attractive!

Mindfulness:
How old are you?

I'm not available. Thanks.

Mindfulness:
Thank God.

No, it's me saying thank GOD. I prefer a woman who understands and hold in high regard the sanctity of the matrimonial bed. Not some loosed cùnt.

Mindfulness:

You know you're poor with controlling yourself at that moment in time, when the heat is unbearable, when you are wet and open like Eve, ready for a bite at the forbidden fruit. You'd hiss at the thought of condom. And contraceptives is a 50-50 chance. So I understand your chuckle.

Mindfulness:
If caught ...

Except you keep your attraction for dumb men permanent, you'll definitely be caught.

Mindfulness:
Only when I visit NL.

And yet you find this platform irresistible because your attraction for dumb men is like the attraction of a Moth to a flame.

Mindfulness:
This is how men are caught, not women, especially not those who have been living alone for five years.

It's like you're born on April 1st, the day where delusions are mistaken for facts. Men don't need emotional attachments to cheat. He could do it with a waitress, a hooker, the secretary, the house help, the girl in the club. Just any woman with a nice body. He is a conqueror who sees women as trophies for his conquest, something to subdue. But you need to talk long, into the night to warm your oven. You need nice words and sweet lies, to open you up.

And that's when you leave trails.

Stop the self deceit. I'm not your husband who you can sell that crap to.

misspicy2:

Get off my space. Space booker.


@Topic now. You can't eat your cake and have it.

Mindfulness:
I needed to "stomach up courage" to quote someone online?
I have to be careful because someone threatens me online?

This is funny.

I don't mind the charade.

Mindfulness:
How did another man's child enter the discussion now?

Just for your information, she can if she wants to and there is noting you can do about it because you won't even find out.

How else do humans produce children? Sperm meet ripe egg. Don't tell me about condoms and contraceptives.

Mindfulness:
You are entitled to your opinion.

No, it's not just my opinion. Ask the majority of men. A woman caught in adultery is damaged goods.

Mindfulness:
And that's why you will never find out and that's why we don't need your forgiveness.

You must think men are so dull and unintelligent. Maybe that's the kind you're attracted to. Even in this age of GSM a cheating partner has little room to manourver.

For the average woman to cheat, she builds an emotional bridge with her cheating partner. This normally comes in the form of online chats, phone calls , etc. And that's when you leave trails for even the average man to pick up clues from. If he doesn't seem to bother, then know your vagina has lost its thrills and he has found solace in another and care little what you do with your body.

And your cheating partner who rides you like a wild horse care little or nothing about you. He won't be stupid as to marry the leftover of another man. He's content with having you as a means of his sexual release only

Mindfulness:
It's not?

You are either selfish, delusional or morbidly jealous or all of them. No offense.

It took you a while to stomach up the courage to quote me.
But you be careful with your choice of words towards me now. I have little caution for uncultured females, your being married notwithstanding.

Let me make a pretence at civil discourse even though you've prepped me up for all eventualities.

Yes, 5yrs isn't an excuse for cheating. The only decent option is if she can't keep her body, she files for divorce on the grounds of marital abscondence.

But she simply can't stay put in a marriage "waiting" for her husband's return while spreading her legs for another man to ravage and pummel. And present another man's child to her husband.

She's nothing but damaged goods!!! The only honourable path for her is divorce if she's going to cheat.

Unlike us men, you women don't just cheat out of impulse. You cheat with premeditation. Carefully deliberating and weighing the options. And then you prepare your mind. I don't forgive cheating women even though I'm yet to encounter one.

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