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Family › Re: Your husband cheats. Now what? by postmann: 9:06pm On Apr 11, 2016
cococandy:
Okay you win.

It boring already.
Ok.
Family › Re: Your husband cheats. Now what? by postmann: 8:51pm On Apr 11, 2016
@cococandy,
If you don't mind, there's a question begging for your attention.
Family › Re: Your husband cheats. Now what? by postmann: 8:21pm On Apr 11, 2016
cococandy:
Yet you and her were dragging skirt?
Tell it to the birds.
How did you know that? I never mentioned her name.
Family › Re: Your husband cheats. Now what? by postmann: 8:04pm On Apr 11, 2016
joseph1832:
By all means bruv, you want to be bring a shovel and a hoe so we can start the digging? grin
grin grin grin
Family › Re: Your husband cheats. Now what? by postmann: 7:56pm On Apr 11, 2016
cococandy:
What did you do? You didn't pay her after...?
I don't eat at the cafeteria, neither do I drink from the pub.
Family › Re: Your husband cheats. Now what? by postmann: 7:46pm On Apr 11, 2016
cococandy:
You Remind me of din@chi. (Not a compliment)

What will you do? Drag me by my skirt? grin
You're the 2nd woman who has told me that. Believe me the first one was a self-acclaimed prostitute.

The "coincidence" leaves a dark tunnel worth digging into.
Family › Re: Your husband cheats. Now what? by postmann: 7:43pm On Apr 11, 2016
byvan03:
Thanks, my sense of judgement is intact. Have a nice day.
Emotions are poorly equipped soldiers
In the heat of battle they fall under the swords of facts.
Family › Re: Your husband cheats. Now what? by postmann: 7:30pm On Apr 11, 2016
byvan03:
Sure I was following the thread before it degenerated to finger fights. Yes, my reference was for the parties concerned and particularly you because you took it up a notch . The personal attacks doesn't improve the thread at all. One person needs to caution the other and not indulge.
Did you see that I was talking with the OP and she quoted me directly with some rude, derogatory remarks? Was that not an attack on my personality?

If you saw that, how does your sense of judgment function?
Family › Re: Your husband cheats. Now what? by postmann: 7:25pm On Apr 11, 2016
cococandy:
More like delusional. lipsrsealed
Hey, I allowed you walk away the first time. Thunder never strikes at the same place twice. undecided

Be careful
Family › Re: Your husband cheats. Now what? by postmann: 7:13pm On Apr 11, 2016
Mindfulness:
Easy mehn, it's only NL. You are too emotional.
That's why I was only teasing you, hun.
Family › Re: Your husband cheats. Now what? by postmann: 7:12pm On Apr 11, 2016
byvan03:
Some people really can't make a point without attacking another 's personality, after they claim women are emotional.
Are you by any chance referring to me?
If yes, did you bother to read how it all started?

I need your reply!
Family › Re: Your husband cheats. Now what? by postmann: 6:12pm On Apr 11, 2016
Mindfulness:
Are you speaking from experience? grin
I'm too smart to be caught up in some cheating game.


Mindfulness:
Which contraceptives? Those made in Nigeria? grin grin grin
You tell me, you the expert in cheating and covering your acts with contraceptives. You definitely can create a thread on how to bring up more sluts with your knowledge and expertise from your wealth of experience. You'd definitely make a good coach who don't only talk the talk but walk the walk.



Mindfulness:
A control freak would be definitely difficult to cheat on but not every woman rolls with men with low self-esteem. wink
Your definition of a man with high self worth is a man who looks the another way, while you spend long hours on this forum ovulating over some dude with a nice DP. No, thanks ma'am, I don't wanna have high self esteem to suit your insatiable sex drive.



Mindfulness:
Everyone enjoys clowns. grin
Not the way you do, ma'am. You find them ovulatingly attractive! grin grin grin


Mindfulness:
How old are you? grin
I'm not available. Thanks.

Mindfulness:
Thank God. cheesy
No, it's me saying thank GOD. I prefer a woman who understands and hold in high regard the sanctity of the matrimonial bed. Not some loosed cùnt.
Family › Re: Your husband cheats. Now what? by postmann: 5:39pm On Apr 11, 2016
Mindfulness:
grin grin grin
You know you're poor with controlling yourself at that moment in time, when the heat is unbearable, when you are wet and open like Eve, ready for a bite at the forbidden fruit. You'd hiss at the thought of condom. And contraceptives is a 50-50 chance. So I understand your chuckle.

Mindfulness:
If caught ... grin
Except you keep your attraction for dumb men permanent, you'll definitely be caught.



Mindfulness:
Only when I visit NL. grin
And yet you find this platform irresistible because your attraction for dumb men is like the attraction of a Moth to a flame.

Mindfulness:
This is how men are caught, not women, especially not those who have been living alone for five years. grin



grin grin grin grin grin
It's like you're born on April 1st, the day where delusions are mistaken for facts. Men don't need emotional attachments to cheat. He could do it with a waitress, a hooker, the secretary, the house help, the girl in the club. Just any woman with a nice body. He is a conqueror who sees women as trophies for his conquest, something to subdue. But you need to talk long, into the night to warm your oven. You need nice words and sweet lies, to open you up.

And that's when you leave trails.

Stop the self deceit. I'm not your husband who you can sell that crap to.
Family › Re: The 21st Century Woman; A Recipe For Temptation by postmann: 4:48pm On Apr 11, 2016
misspicy2:
cool
Get off my space. Space booker.


@Topic now. You can't eat your cake and have it.
Family › Re: Your husband cheats. Now what? by postmann:
Mindfulness:
I needed to "stomach up courage" to quote someone online?
I have to be careful because someone threatens me online?

This is funny. grin
I don't mind the charade.


Mindfulness:
How did another man's child enter the discussion now? cheesy

Just for your information, she can if she wants to and there is noting you can do about it because you won't even find out. wink
How else do humans produce children? Sperm meet ripe egg. Don't tell me about condoms and contraceptives.


Mindfulness:
You are entitled to your opinion.
No, it's not just my opinion. Ask the majority of men. A woman caught in adultery is damaged goods.



Mindfulness:
And that's why you will never find out and that's why we don't need your forgiveness. grin wink
You must think men are so dull and unintelligent. Maybe that's the kind you're attracted to. Even in this age of GSM a cheating partner has little room to manourver.

For the average woman to cheat, she builds an emotional bridge with her cheating partner. This normally comes in the form of online chats, phone calls , etc. And that's when you leave trails for even the average man to pick up clues from. If he doesn't seem to bother, then know your vagina has lost its thrills and he has found solace in another and care little what you do with your body.

And your cheating partner who rides you like a wild horse care little or nothing about you. He won't be stupid as to marry the leftover of another man. He's content with having you as a means of his sexual release only
Family › Re: Your husband cheats. Now what? by postmann: 2:38pm On Apr 11, 2016
Mindfulness:
It's not? shocked shocked shocked shocked shocked

You are either selfish, delusional or morbidly jealous or all of them. No offense. grin
It took you a while to stomach up the courage to quote me. grin
But you be careful with your choice of words towards me now. I have little caution for uncultured females, your being married notwithstanding.

Let me make a pretence at civil discourse even though you've prepped me up for all eventualities.

Yes, 5yrs isn't an excuse for cheating. The only decent option is if she can't keep her body, she files for divorce on the grounds of marital abscondence.

But she simply can't stay put in a marriage "waiting" for her husband's return while spreading her legs for another man to ravage and pummel. And present another man's child to her husband.

She's nothing but damaged goods!!! The only honourable path for her is divorce if she's going to cheat.

Unlike us men, you women don't just cheat out of impulse. You cheat with premeditation. Carefully deliberating and weighing the options. And then you prepare your mind. I don't forgive cheating women even though I'm yet to encounter one.

#pleaseCallMeSexist
Family › Re: Your husband cheats. Now what? by postmann: 1:23pm On Apr 11, 2016
stteejax:
so a damaged good she remains? Some men really make their wives cheat on them though..vice-versa
Bro, I'm close to rounding up a topic on the meaning of traditional marriage. Whatever the husband may do, terminate the marriage as a woman if you must. You simply can't be married to him and have another man into your body. It's a curse!
Family › Re: Your husband cheats. Now what? by postmann: 1:12pm On Apr 11, 2016
stteejax:
lol @ damaged goods..they could be a reason for her action u know? To mention a few..like maybe the husy ain't always around..up to a year sometimes due to work..not supporting her though..just saying
Husband not being around for 5yrs isn't an excuse. Except she was raped, or drugged or under a spell, there'd be no turning back. And if she has a role to play in the 3 reasons l mentioned, then I'll consider it as if she willingly spread her legs for another man to hit her vulva.

You know how foolish most women can be:
Paying a guy a visit in his house knowing it's the two of you alone and she believes "she's got this". Some of them get raped, coerced, drugged and all that in situations like that.


***modified ***
There is no excuse under the sun for a married woman to take off her clothes before another man, lay on a bed and spread her legs for him to ravage her.
Family › Re: Your husband cheats. Now what? by postmann: 12:58pm On Apr 11, 2016
stteejax:
true sha..the spark can be brought back though.. Have seen a situation were a man caught his wife cheating..after everything they settled and are living happily till today..everything forgiven nd forgotten.
Caught his wife cheating?
shocked shocked shocked Now that's a different kettle of fish altogether. Nah! I commend that man, whatever be the reason behind his decision.

For me she's damaged goods!

#PleaseCallMeSexist
Family › Re: Your husband cheats. Now what? by postmann: 11:21am On Apr 11, 2016
stteejax:
don't you think it can be settled?
It can, bro. But there's no explaining away the obvious; that a husband has found someone else more interesting, someone more worthy of little sacrifices and risk. Which other way can a man make his wife know that the spark is gone?

If the marriage stays, it'll only exist and not live.
Family › Re: Your husband cheats. Now what? by postmann: 10:49am On Apr 11, 2016
Nothing to say from either parties. The marriage has run its course.
Romance › Re: Wish 5 Romancelander A Happy New Month. by postmann: 10:18pm On Apr 10, 2016
Specialbaby:
what makes you think he does not have a decent job?


The fact that one comes here to play once in a while do not mean he/she doesn't have anything tangible doing.
Hmmm!!! Specialbaby, what now? Is he now your latest crush?
Romance › Re: Questionnaire: Are You Emotionally Unfaithful? by postmann(op): 8:17pm On Apr 10, 2016
DemiGoddess:
Just fine.
5:30AM
Where is the goddess? Shall we have some private devotion?
Romance › Re: Questionnaire: Are You Emotionally Unfaithful? by postmann(op): 8:13pm On Apr 10, 2016
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Romance › Re: Wish 5 Romancelander A Happy New Month. by postmann: 8:06pm On Apr 10, 2016
MrCork:
...ok firstE.VA, u win....can we phuuuuck?? smiley

Work before pleasure boy. Start turning your life of penniless adventures into profit first. Get yourself a decent job. Then see if you can save enough to pay your flight ticket back home. Then we can find you one village girl who will help tender your dementia with some local herbs, since your psychosis have evaded all western solution.
Romance › Re: Wish 5 Romancelander A Happy New Month. by postmann: 5:37pm On Apr 10, 2016
MrCork:
....my niggggga...the goood news of u is when I see u in person, I will beg my boys to run a train on u.. U ever ride on a train? smiley
I heard that's the cheapest means of getting around over there. And the best way for undocumented immigrants like you can sneak away from the authorities.

You better come home boy. Don't die in Pekam, please. The cost of flying your corpse home is worth more than your entire life savings.
Romance › Re: Wish 5 Romancelander A Happy New Month. by postmann: 5:28pm On Apr 10, 2016
MrCork:
...kisss my asssss & kisss my diiiiiick!!! angry
Shut up you glorified student, who still depend on your relatives back home for
-feeding allowance
-cold allowance
-discrimination allowance
-racial abuse allowance

Sex starved he-goat!
Romance › Re: Wish 5 Romancelander A Happy New Month. by postmann: 4:44pm On Apr 10, 2016
MrCork:
...we laugh at pooor guys liek u...lol....Asylum seeker who owns 3 propetys in south London ..includin the new one I will be gettin in June at South Croyden?....Bro I will paid you schkooool fees for the next 5 years, truss me!! wink

Doing what exactly in Pekam grin grin grin
I heard they pay 1 pound a day before tax for dish washing.

Don't tell me you augment your meager proceeds from dish washing with drug pushing. You're too daft to get involve in drug peddling.

You're just another poor uneducated, greedy simpleton who escaped the shores of Nigeria in the hope to meet a ready made life abroad. Oops! You goofed!
You're less than 1 pound a day earner.
Pekam degenerate
.
grin grin grin
Romance › Re: Wish 5 Romancelander A Happy New Month. by postmann: 4:30pm On Apr 10, 2016
MrCork:
..REALY?..so u telln me that 48years old man (postmann) as not phuch...correct?...u juss friends...right? ((((SHAME ON YOU)))) undecided
So what does life feel like in Pekam being just another black man with no face, no voice, no job? Even the traffic lights in the streets of London allow the white man's dog to cross the road before you, a run away, mental asylum seeker!!!

Modern slave!
Romance › Re: Wish 5 Romancelander A Happy New Month. by postmann: 4:27pm On Apr 10, 2016
MrCork:
..REALY?..so u telln me that 48years old man (postmann) as not phuch...correct?...u juss friends...right? ((((SHAME ON YOU)))) undecided
So because you're off duty today from washing dishes, you can afford to fool around, eh pekam negro?

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