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IamLEGEND1:
Just wait for dem hoes that have a male 'bestie' to arrive. You go start start to dey see all kinds of fuckēd up logic.

Their messed up logic is their right sha, only that they're well adviced to keep it civil.

multikolour:
guy you are high on expired grounded kulikuli, please go to bed.

If being first to comment is a price
Then it's not worth striving for
You just made it a contest for fools
Where the greatest among them always win.
Accept my congratulations.




While I'm not here to make you feel guilty,
I intend to keep this thread beyond the reach of fools like you, for I heard romanceland has your type in abundance.
If you're an unfaithful he-goat, keep it on low profile and spare me the troubles of your wounded conscience. We are all sinners, but not everyone bears his sins on the sunlight of madness.

You will no doubt go with the donations of cheap "likes" from your kind, but i'll leave a dagger stuck in your weak heart as an engraved reminder that _postmann is deadly!!

Y'all aren't gonna like this!

Do you have an opposite sex as a best or close friend?


1--If yes, does your partner know the details or nature of your conversation with him/her?

2--Is there secret(s) between you that your partner knows nothing about?

3--If your partner was present, would your conversation with this person be the same?

4--Can you in all honesty describe your relationship with this person as "Just friends", strictly or mostly "Hi" and "bye"?

5--Do you find yourself dressing to please his/her taste? Is he or she the dominant thought in your mind whenever you dress and look yourself up in the mirror?


6--Do you find yourself having romantic thoughts about this person, even when lying side by side with your partner?

7--Do you look beyond your partner for emotional support? Relying on this person for emotional fulfilment?

8--Do you find your commitment and loyalty to your partner being compromised/threatened by your emotional and physical involvement with this person?

9--Are his/her suggestive words and flirtations not only welcomed, but sit deep within the burning embers of your erotic desire?


There's a saying; "where your heart goes, your steps soon follow"

If YES is the answer to ALL or MOST of the above in the questionnaire, then their is a good chance your relationship with the said person constitutes emotional unfaithfulness. You might already be involved in an emotional affair which could soon develop into a full blown physical affair. One way or another, we are all guilty.


N.B: This work is only an exposition on the impact of social media and the 21st century environment which makes cheating as easy as a simple text or phone call. It is not an act of judgment

byvan03:
Tell us about this respect every man can relate to, illustrate if you don't mind.

I said most men, not every man. It's too early for misrepresentation of statement.

As for your question; Under the subheading RESPECT, is a little narrative. Most mentally and emotionally balanced men can relate to that.

bukatyne:
@postmann

The point agenda is from your post, check your previous quote I responded to.

That your line no gel... Like byvan03 explained, respect connotes different things to different men.

Threads like first to greet, asking hubby to do chores, kneeling to greet, saying yes to everything, calling his friends uncle, submitting your salary, changing your phone number/signature etc. clearly shows that different strokes for different folks.

All that matters is knowing who you are marrying & run with it. If una style no flow, do u-turn or live with it.

Well I don't do blackmail. I say it as it is.

@Response time: don't mind us joor. Home & work. Thank God I am not a service provider

No post on the subject matter can address every facet of every individual man's preference of respect from his wife.

And clearly that was never the intention of my post. The intention was to address the basic or common acts of respect that most men can relate with. Not the extreme and strange examples you and your friend submitted which most men would find ridiculous!

" Again, what a wife may intend as respect in her actions and what a husband needs to feel respected can be two different things".

The above citation was an indication that respect is personal in perception. But without prejudice or sentinment most men will find a common ground with the illustrations of this post.

As for the bolded; it is wisdom to sift sentiments from facts.


You could have replied earlier if you had wanted to. Though I understand.

bukatyne:
So you are saying an average's man's concept of respect is
1. Respect
2. Sex
3. Food

Ok

Ah! Don't tell me that's your deduction from my well over 2 thousand words on the subject matter. That summation is obviously too simplistic, and draped in sarcasm, I fear.

bukatyne:
Sure this was to me?

Clearly, that wasn't an assertion; it was only an open invitation to explain what you meant by "I agree wives should respect their husbands however experiences has taught me respect means different things to different people." 

bukatyne:
I guess you mean most. Yes, I am a feminist. Again, that has nothing to do with feeling you are a misogynist. I have non-feminist friends whom I do not see misogynist tendencies in them.

Like I said, my opinion.

Your opinion is your fundamental right.

But;

"Misogyny" is cheaply the most common blackmail employed to debunk the truth about feminism.


Your responce time is a little strange.

byvan03:
OK _postmann let me do this later, my head is spinning .

You won't believe I've been waiting ever since in the hopes that you would have put out the results of your experiment.

Or should I give up?

cionon:
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Those I mentioned and for to all who commented. I didnt want to state my reason for saying such in the first page so that people won't accuse me of giving so much info. I wanted to also see people's comment and advice without sentinment or pity for me and then make my decision.

I have weighed the options made my decison.

MY REASON for saying such to my husband

Reasons I talked about magun was because on our first year wedding anniversary. My husband wasn't home from Thursday till Monday. He spent the whole days with his mistress. He even told me to my face. Then thats when I said he should be grateful I still have a heart. That if not I 'll do magun and tie them both then snap the lady and put up her pix since she won't leave my husband alone. But I quikly told him but I can't do that. That no matter how badly he treats me I will never go the diabolic ways

No one knew my husband wasn't home. I still put up our pix on BBM and pple wished me HWA. But deep down I wasn't celebrating it. I faked all the smiles and told them my husband and I would go out in the night. He didn't even come home at all

I didn't even tell my sisters of any close friends. Up till today. It was only his mum I called to tell her son to return home and his cousin that was with us at the time it happened. It was later I got to know why he was angry and decided to spend our wedding anniversary with his mistress was because I called his mistress to leave us alone for me and my husband to solve our issues. She and my husband kept talking about our home.

Everything said here is nothing but the truth. I didn't add and I didn't subtract.

Thank you all for the advice. Decison made. So I will stand by it. So help me God

You erred when you made that magun threat, even though it was an empty one. He could have read some meanings into it. In his thoughts, he might have said someday you might carry out your threat. He could have told his mistress who would have further heightened his fears that someday, when you can't stand it anymore, you might be forced to magun them both!!! You've even called the mistress to warn her!


No cheating man and his mistress who are not about to quit their evil ways will sleep soundly after hearing that.


But your narratives proved one thing ; your husband isn't ready yet to stop cheating.

So, my advice is same. You must pray and pray hard! Did you guys marry in the traditional way? If yes, then you're properly married before GOD, man and spirit.

Fear not. What is yours will come back to you. Let that be your prayer point. Let what is yours come back to you and let every hand that tries to separate what GOD has joined together in your marriage be broken.

Good luck again.


N:B I'm sorry I'm only just replying. I didn't get the mention, you typed postman instead of _postmann. YOU omitted an "n"

stainlex:
Chauvinistic answers.
I'll do it for as long as I'm appreciated and respected, just as I'd do elsewhere.

But that's where you dream! What woman will pay you your wages and still be your wife and still respects you like a woman ought to respect her husband?

Look, respect is earned, even in the animal Kingdom. You must bring something to the matrimonial table-something very substantial. And you can't do that being one of her staff cum husband.

@Lezzlie


Are you the one called Linke Farren in your secondary school days?

@Lezzlie

Lezzlie:
Faggy,Go stuff your mouth with pig-fat!!!

Kiss your high-end phones bye. My boys shall take it from you. And that _stupid car keys.

You must respect me.

Lezzlie:
My line of thought exactly. I did a quick Google-search of the device and the websites detailing its specs are all Nigerian and the company's own official website.

So not even the obsolete specs the OP listed can be independently verified!!!

You still dey here dey form prof.

How dare you leave my mention waiting?
You have crossed the line.

I'll get you a sizable hunk from one of the ND creeks. He'll teach you how not to keep the postman waiting.

Nonsense!

Elxandre:
Tithe was mentioned once in the new testament!

It was supposed to be deducted from farm produce, hence no mention of financial payment of tithes.

Did any of the famous men of old who owned animals pay ten percent of their livestock as tithes?

LOL

Let's not argue. Tithe was mentioned repeatedly in the new testament.Hebrews 7:1-3, Luke 18:12,.

If you're a christian, the words of CHRIST in Matthew 23:23 ought to be enough for you.

Abraham is the first man ever to have paid tithe.

It's a monetary world now. Farmers aren't much. Most people are salary earners. The only way for most people to pay tithe is by cash.

@Lezzlie





















Hey!!!!

Lezzlie:
I swear you're having conflict of cognitive stability!

Go get drunk and sleep it off!!
Cease derailing here!!!

Cognitive stabilicolitic, abi as you speak that grammar.
So as I threaten you reach you no dey fear? You still dey speak grammar for me.

I'll put a call through and learn from your secretary when next you'd be in town.