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The reason why there are lots of ritual case is because most ladies do not believe in humble beginning.....


Rich, Wealthy! bla! bla! bla!...


Every great thing starts small...... if you do not want to grow from the bottom, then be ready to learn from the bottom.

ambassadorgozie:
the op asked girls, but guys have occupied everywhere

i tire 4 nairaland guys

soooo! what are you doing here

biddostandard:
some women actually need beating

wrong......



There are better options than beating. If you really need to fight, go an slap an agbero .. chikena!


The moment a man start beating a woman especially his wife, the moment his life begin to crumble.....

zoezoelogistics:
Bros you didn’t have a good adviser. What a waste of resources. SMH

Life does not usually come with a manual....
we must learn some how from a place to direct or step....
I learnt from my own doings.....

But it won't stop me from helping those who genuinely need help....

Brunicekid:
If this is true, then you should have really learnt A LOT.

Bro..!

I've learnt more than enough....



I just considered it as one of those lessons one must learn. I've moved on already facing my project squarely....

77up:
You guys should pls avoid this annoying topic in 2020, I married my wife after nysc even when there was no job talkless of #30000 but today nko?


If you like as a lady ,keep waiting for dangote or otedola , by the time agbero in garage is not even interested in you, you go know what's up.

Bro....
Some will not understand. Highest they will call you broke....

Bbbwings:
chop knuckle
sense will not kill you
he just roped himself

Lol.....
I caught uuuuu....

Pwettyella:
Exactly
I responsible man will never be comfortable getting married in a 30k salary

Inheritance here does not mean houses, cars and lots of money. It might mean dignity in Labour, serving God whole heartedly....


A dry morsel is better off a ritual money oooo....

The reason why we have lots of ritual killings is because every1 is in a hurry...

lilwetdick:
yeah, you are right, wife might have additional income like having a store

but 567 naira a day isnt cash, that is disaster, they cant still feed the 2 kids even if the parent decides to go hungry.

They will survive...

The economy is very harsh on some. Plus grandma's pressure for grand children....

No one want to live a suffering life but when the going gets tough plus pressures from nigerian family, the tough yield and get going....

Man will not kill himself.

lilwetdick:
17k with 2 kids and proper planning..

father, mother and 2 kids = 4 mouth

17k to take care of 4 mouth monthly...

17k/30 days=567 naira daily for 4 mouth

this is impossible

The wife might have hers as well. And he still does have a bike Maybe as an additional income.



From your calculation, even at feeding for 567 daily, it better that living large on ritual money and yahoo.....

A dry morsel with peace of mind is better than a house full of honey but with strife....

I do prepare meal and take it to her she will finish it all and tell me the meat frying is to shallow and the food is not too tasty. But will return empty plate.



I bought 7 phones within 2 years of relationship...

5 Android and 2 normal...



Life is a teacher...

lilwetdick:
but this is poverty.

It's not every1 that will start big....

It's a gradual process.....
For instance, I am the only bachelor in my compound a mini flat.... some1 once told me it's a waste of resources that I should get a room pending the time I get married..

To the person, it's a waste of resource. To me it's not....

If they plan out their 17k plus the wife's income, they will be living just fine especially if they are in the rural area...

Lemme book down space waiting for the team broke.....

funmisticqueen:
that is broke speech right there

One spotted already.... still waiting for the rest.

Tofuture:
Bros Na you mumu pass, how can you let her go out with him in the first place?
SMH

Why are you guys condemning the op' s action of giving her a chance. The reason why most guys turn themselves to monitoring spirit..

It's a competitive world. Only cowards and guys with low self esteem are afraid of competition....


If you are worth staying with, she will return....


Abegi....! Let the guy be jare...

Dextre:
Bros I weak mysef

For those condemning the op' s action, he made no mistake on letting his gf go for outing..


We weren't there. In ladies the voice ( it's just an harmless outing, its been long I saw him) pleeeessssss!

Should he turn down the request of letting her go, she will secretly find a way or book another date..

What must happen must surely happen no matter how you prevent it. If she leaves, fine. If she stays, great.....

The best way to live life is to allow freedom of choice.
@ op, Occupy yourself the more and let's see how it turns out

Peemonny:
The most annoying thing on earth is to hear a senseless woman who is worth nothing, jobless hiding behind an old cheap Android phone criticizing a man struggling to meet up with is bills

Bro! Calm down nah habba!....

DownChelsea:
I thought Chelsea was useless. I didn’t know Arsenal was the king of uselessness.

[quote author=CaptainMeks post=85321476]Chelsea 65% possession. Thunder


Ticket cast....

Can you believe what you just saw.....

Originalsly:
Let me be clear... your husband should not hit you.
Now the breakdown..... by now you should know your husband well enough to see the signs when he need to be left alone. From what you wrote... this is how I see it.

1/2. Is he a child for you to pick what clothes he should wear?...to his friend's occasion? He dressed casual.... do you know if after the celebration they planned going fishing?...a football game?...or hang out somewhere where casual is the wear?

3. After not liking his casual everyday dress look..... are you trying to let me believe you would be polite in telling him to go and change? At this point.... you are adding salt to the wound... really treating him like a child. ...picking what he should wear and now he need to go and change.

4/5/6 He got angry... which you knew.... and didn't want to be pissed off by anything else you may say so he asked you to he quiet....went in the room to simmer down before coming out.

7/8 You decided not to say anything ....for peace to reign.... but said something anyway?....and still expect peace to reign?

9. Why are you now surprised that he snapped?

He knows himself and was trying to avoid this situation. Madam when people snap.... nothing is off limit. If you never knew...now you know he has a breaking point... learn to read the signs to stay clear of danger. Know your husband.

Alright....
But raising his Hands to beat a woman, not just a woman THE ONE WHO BORE HIM CHILDREN is absolutely wrong....

To me ooo! based on the write up and should it be truth, the husband need a brain check... That's how it usually start...

The man's wife is still alive. So it's a no....

ubunja:
Uhmmm...

Wow!!

O ga o..... NL is something else.

Lemme sleepwell

Abi....

When they want to give an excuse.

Life goes on...

We take it as it comes..... Step after step. Yet, the cycle continues....


There is always some1 out there waiting....

JONNYSPUTE:
.. Bleep her as in? Are you not a female?

@ OP, you bleeped up big time.I believe you have always been cheating on her. Be it as is now,your only remedy is to use reverse phycology on her.

Call her, apologize and finally tell her to forget about you,that you are not worthy of her love. Tell to go find another guy and watch her tell you that it has not gotten to that.Mind you this will only work if you act it well

Op,you are a brostitude Walahi.

After that the girl will still fall ABI.....

Don't encourage him. Where is self control?



This story might even be a nollyhood script....

Thank God she caught you....

How do people lay with different people and are at ease. Isn't it disgustingly irritating....??


Not even for 2 months habaaaa!.....




May God help you....

cooltola:
If the Lagos rail project was completed, traffic would have reduce but the agberos will not be happy because there will less danfos, okada, keke napep to harass. Ambode is still better than Sanwo olu , I wish he won again.

My thought before but not any more.....
This sanwolu man will be the next gr8 governor after fashola....

Father of corruption himself.....

He could have been the most celebrated Nigerian president had he overhaul the whole military decree and nonsense called constitution.....



He was in power for 8 good years without and achievement other than continuous increase of fuel price.....


Papa vs pikin... who cares

I do.......

But the word "all Girls" is very rude.... I've had same experience but I won't generalize it....


Just move on. There are better fishes in the sea...




Pele !!!

Blackaxe16:
bros you no go understand sha

Guys are now the new CHIEF COMPLAINERS.....



Why are recent NL stories only on ladies breaking guys heart....


Are ladies not suffering heart breaks as well



Too much fabrication will not make us know the truth ...... I tire jare

Will move on and hustle more......

Abi what else

MasterShifu010:
The Unforgettable tenure when Bag of Rice was 3500 naira & Petrol was 65 naira, RIP Umaru M Yar'adua
opera.com
Nigerians cannot forget in a hurry the good governance of late Umaru Musa Yar'adua.
It was indeed a time to remember, the good moment we have lost to the current leadership.
A Nigerian twitter user draws our attention to the unforgettable Tenure of the Nigerian late Mrs, Umaru Musa Yar'adua. MAbba said Nigerians should continue praying for the late president to rest in peace.
THE TENURE NIGERIANS WILL NEVER FORGET:
•Petrol N65
•Diesel N112
•Rice N3,500
•Cement N750
•Fertilizer N2,500
•Bag of Sugar N7,000
•Bag of Flour N6,050
Please if you see this tweet on your TL Rt & pray for our extraordinary leader. May his soul continue resting in Peace.
May the Soul of the best President Nigeria Ever Had continue to rest with Almighty Allah, God.amen

May his soul rest in peace