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Before no one will go into tech because it's boring and a thing for nerds.

Now the nerds are the billionaire and control virtually every aspect of the universe.

Now the cool and badh guys have accounts on the nice guy's platforms begging and praying they don't get banned.

If you like no wise up. If you are nice stay nice. There's someone special for everyone.

No b by who sleep with plenty women. Las las in your later life na by money, them go rate you. So guy hustle. Forget all these nice/badh guy stuffs.

Be yourself and don't be ashamed of it if you are nice. Stay soft. Stay focused. Set goals and accomplish those goals. Na wetin matter be that.

Which girl no go like date those Paystack guys even though them no get muscle?

And just so you know, the nice guys vs bad guys are marketing terms created by dating marketers to sell their ebooks and dating videos easily.

My guy stay for your lane. Na one woman you wan marry. But you go like get big house. Big car. Travel abroad. Give your pikin dual citizenship. Make your parents happy. Retire early.

All those better soup na money go cook am. Start dey hustle now.

Kris216:
Oga simp quiet,stop commenting on Ladies thread if you can't stand their words.

seen and ignored

Why una de always read conspiracy theories then say them again as though they are facts?

Technology goes beyond the intention of the makers. People can invent things, but the ultimate deciders of what sees the light of the day is you and I. THE MARKET FORCES.

Not some men sitting in a darkened room round a round table plotting to take over the world and controll everything.

so you feel there are people plotting to hand over the human race to robots?

Of course there are speculations of merging man and machine even better, creating conscious machines. But those are speculations just like flying cars, memory chips, AIDS vaccines etc.

we can speculate about these things but we cannot tell the direction it will go if it happens at last. Look at the internet today, when it started, the main purpose was to connect two computers together between universities. Never in his widest thought would the inventor have thought about TIKTOK or facebook or google having the ultimate power.

Like that you can speculate about technology and its possibilities but we can never dictate the direction it goes. We may have chips in our hands one day but you probably wouldn't imagine the direction it can go.

Like someone say, never has the government of the world has so much data about economy as they have today. at the same time, never have the government become so confused with what to do with such data.

No one can control technology today. it has gone beyond any one's grasps. Not even the world governement can control it. I mean look at bitcoin. they keep banning it all the time but no one can stop it.

look at porn. even though they have been choking it. it does stop to spread. Look at NFT. look at FB. Look at twitter. Look at fintech. Before the governemnt even begin to undertand these platform and make rules to control them, they must have come up with something entirely different for the governemtn to learn all over again.

Today, during the early days of mobile phones the inventor if they have a sinister goal might say they will listen to all phone calls but today mobile phones have gone beyond calls and everything. No Group of person is controlling technology. we can invent them but we can never decide how it is applied on a large scale and for how long.

SeriouslySense:
Technology is good, i love and embrace technology. Its the intention behind the technology that could be dangerous.

Its necessary to watch out for the intentions behind technology.

Robots are been prepared to take over, since there are thoughts of population reduction.

There are thoughts of changing human DNA for space travel.

There are thoughts of Merging humanity with machines or transhumanism.

This are what scares me. and other tech, its scary, and we have not even provided electricity for people in this country or done good roads lo , Electricity consumption is directly proportional to development.

Isn't this what Kumuyi said today?

Every new technology that comes out, the church first criticize it, abandon it and say it is for the devil. They are always last adopters.

Rastaramsey:
Thats what's up mah niggarr....

The mother isn't pleased at her daughter's hoeing....

you sure

They keep doing night meetings. How do they expect to progress?

siofra:
He's also taking style to touch my waist

Yes, it's non-consensual, so it's sexual harassment.

he's not taking style to touch your waist. There's nothing on your waist for him to use style and touch.

There's something call play and friendship.

He didn't attach any meaning to it as you are doing right now.

You should probably seek my consent next time before you quote me.

Vinnie2000:
Ogbeni, it is o! Even to tell a female 'wow, you re sexy or endowned' is harassment! Dats d new Western interpretation!

the world we live in.

I dey 4get my birthday sha

Qatar2022:
Whoever that broke that heart is heartless, I will join in that prayer . When are we starting ?

today oo.

Send me your dinner money as evidence that you are participating in the fast.

SmileDance:
if you tickle me once and I warn you, you try it again you collect.
Whatever makes you think you have right to tickle people of the opposite gender

Whatever makes you think you can quote the opposite sex on nairaland.

The impetus!

I've not fully understood this concept of dating for marriage.

Most people say there's no point in dating if you are not sure it'll lead to marriage.

To me that's like putting the cart before the horse.

I mean, you should date a person because you fancy or like that person and want to experience life with that person.

Then if marriage happens, it is what is it and if it doesn't, you move on.

Why date solely for marriage?

The difference between husband/wife and girlfriend/boyfriend is still the paper license the court gives them to fvck.

So why not build a life together first in truth and honesty and if it feels right to the both of you, you can go and obtain a marriage certificate?

God save us from karashika.

So tickling now done become sexual harassment?

Fast for saphiere?


Una weldone

Kobojunkie:
Wait a second.... please point out that which you label commonsense let's dissect it for the wisdom you claim it contains abeg.

you want to use the sense you don't have to dissect what I said?

Bro it doesn't work that way. First get sense and then you can use it.

Kobojunkie:
Of course to blind folks like you, commonsense appears foolish.

funny you tag foolishness as common sense.

Bro your reasoning process is garbage. You should listen more and speak less

SenecaTheYonger:
Nobody touched that ugly mug that’s why she’s so obsessed with rape. People that experience the trauma of rape are not likely to want to read about it as it brings back hurtful memory, one that she doesn’t have because she was never raped.


It’s one thing to fight against rape, it’s another thing to be obsessed with it to the point you go searching for stories about it.

dey loud am.

Because people wey get sense for this forum too small.

There's a difference between speaking out against rape and being obsessed with it and then trying to project your hate.

She's filled with hate for men and then using rape to project such hatred.

Nothing else

Kobojunkie:
I don't think she is. I know she is because if you look around all of nairaland.... if you can ever take your eyes off yourself for a bit.... she happens to be one of only a handful of individuals here on nairaland who consistently speaks up about the rape culture in Nigeria, something we all know to be real and not imagined.

▪︎ Righteousness doesn't speak out against war, but celebrates it by suggesting it is all part of his god's plan.
▪︎ the Redpill boy speaks out against women. Infact he glorifies those who would assault and maltreat women any chance he gets. He masks his hate and insecurity with calls to recruit other boys like him into the same pit he finds himself in.
▪︎ Sapphire, as bitter as she seems about men in general, obsesses about rape against women in Nigeria carried out by many of those same men. She speaks out consistently about this issue as regularly as she blames men for it too.

By searching out Google articles, regularly mind you, to bring the cases of the victims in to our focus daily I exactly what it means to speak out on behalf of rape victims. It isn't about writing of long-winded OPS that we scroll past once in a while or discussing only cases that succeed in breaking the internet. What she is doing is helping keep the issue of female rape on the minds of nairalanders, something that in 2022, we ought to be seriously pondering since the vast majority of Rapists still never see the insides of a prison cell this as the victims live scarred and afraid the rest of their lives.

So if you want to, you can do better than her. But suggesting she be stopped is akin to siding with Rapists in this.

Sir there's a thin line between speaking for and hating.

What she does is projecting herself and in no way speaking against rape culture.

Just because you want to speak against rape culture doesn't mean you spite all men and rope them in as rapist.

That's not speaking against rape, that's condemning and spiting on men in general.

Heck, I could say her only objective of digging up rape stories and posting them here is just so as to insult men.

Kobojunkie:
So you don't know that that are also fathers out there who rape their own kids ?

I mean what exactly is your point? Are you somehow of the mind that since not all Nigerian men are Rapists therefore Saphiere should stop obsessing about rape - speaking out against rape and for the victims?

you think she is speaking out against rape?

Like seriously, you think that's what she's doing?

This is like you saying righteousness is speaking out against war

Or TheGidRedpiller is speaking against redpill.

Simply searching Google for rape news, reposting the news and then shouting all men are rapist is not speaking against rape.

ChemicalReaction:
She probably may have suffered rape or knows someone who did.

does searching Google for "rape stories in Nigeria" solve the issue?

Do all rape victims do that?

It's probably a secret fantasy which she can't believe she's having so she turned it around and cover it with hate.

No rape victim or sympathizer will be comfortable actively searching for and reading other rape stories and even creating a thread about it twice or thrice a day.

Wanted to create this same thread this evening but you did it before me.

Like you wake up everyday and search Google for "new rape stories in Nigeria" and then create thread on it?

If anything you are obsessed with it or probably have secret fantasies about it like Righteousness has for wars.

It's appalling and pathetic to even think about it.

900 support Russia out of the millions of Germany

texazzpete:
Your strident defence for a convicted rapist makes it obvious you’re a rapist yourself.

Disgusting.

Even a convicted murderer can appeal to a higher court or have other lawyers give them a second hearing.

Because a person is convicted doesn't mean they did the crime. Stop being stupid.
Even among lawyers it is known that the Supreme Court might not be right but since it is the Supreme Court, you'll have to bear the judgment.

Human judges are not God. They will always err.

I guess the lawyer that defended the man is also a rapist? Seriously you're as stupid as they come.

That's around 230,000 innocent people convicted by judges in US prison.

Talk more of Nigeria. Mr stupid

texazzpete:
No loophole here. It is well known some men are foolish. Take yourself for example. You see an open and shut rape and robbery case and you’re still calling the criminal ‘innocent’

I guess you believe cases in court is judged by God himself.

There are numerous cases that are faulty with some people granted pardon after they have been executed.

And to think you wrote this with a human brain inside ur skull disgust me

eldoradoxx:
Without being a lawyer and without supporting any form of rape, I can pick holes in the judgment.
How do u rape someone you know even have her phone number and talk with at gun point (believe, yes). What did the girl follow the accused to do at night at the dark admin building of Unilag. Those who have been to the university environment know the kind of consensual sezx that goes on around those dark corners at night.
Did the guy switch of his phone for the whole year only to switch it on and be lured by the said victim to her own party where he was arrested. If she had the rapist phone number, why didn't she give it to police to track and arrest him earlier.
The girl made up the story. She was not raped. She did it willingly and perhaps the deal did not go as planned.

seriously too many loopholes.

An innocent man is being sentenced to life imprisonment.

I mean, you rape a girl at gun point and she invites you to a party and you went?

Owolabani submitted that the survivor met the convict one year after the incident, invited him to her supposed birthday party and got him arrested.

This statement makes me want to question the judgement.

Like someone rapes you at gun point then stole your phone and one day you met the person face to face and the next thing is to invite him to your birthday party?

And seriously, if you have robbed and raped a person with your gun would you agree to their invite to a birthday party?


Seriously

Johndagr8t:
this morning and I rushed out to
collect my clothes on the line. So,
instead of picking one by one I
spread my arms and collected
them. Unbeknownst to me, I
collected my neighbour's
daughter's undies. Nice blue
undies I love the design and color.
So, when she returned from school
she started asking neighbours and
surprisingly no one else was home
at the time it rained. Girl is only
19yrs and she has called her
pastor to the house and they have
been fasting and praying. They are
trying to escalate the case and
they might start imagining that I am
a ritualist.
How do I return the undies without
problems? Or, should I just throw it
away? Cos, once I go near the line
now, they are always watching
from their windows


front page please

like what are you still doing with it in your house.

What if they do a search? Just what if?

Bro put that thing inside black leather. Tie am in such a way it'll squeeze. Put it inside your pocket and go and throw it away
Far away.

this is bad