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DonroxyII:
Op Gan sef is depressed if not why you dey Para untop other people matter .

What happened to Minding your own Hustles

I de on my own o. But every where na relationships status...

The worst one na those girls wey dey post nonsense upandan for status.

Belcon:
Hope on God and never relent ..your pay day is coming

the nigga is hungry bro... Not hopeless

Nyanmiridunce:
Expect many yeebos to rush down to ragos and enjoy this awesome infrastructure that they were deprived back home. Person go pass rivers, bayelsa, delta, Edo, Ondo, ogun states just to experience Lagos. Ain't that wonderful?

what exactly is the point of this?

I'd say visit the nearest post office to you first and inquire about the item.

Market fire is becoming too frequent.


Like filling station I think the government need to make it mandatory for every shop owner to have a fire extinguisher at all times

For over 2 month wey our transformer spoil we never get light.


So if they collapse we'll probably not notice until maybe a year after.

I'm speechless... Literally!

Tobidarker02:
It's all animal are equal, George did not put Not
Abi which main school you go

thanks for the correction.

Tobidarker02:
Did you read the story at all?
Didn't you read where 8 people claim that the guy hypnotized and raped them?

common mahn.

He hypnotized and raped them?

TrumpDonald2:
That's just one of the advantages of being famous.

swears. You'd think is only two people that died that day.

Not even a name tag or an inscription to honor the others.

princefrank76:
In shikira voice!

O AFRICA!

Shakira o

I'm tempted to ask

What about the pilots and other of his personal aids on the flight?

Well, 'all animals are not equal, some are more equal than others'

A lot of right and wrong is based on where we live and not that it is actually right or wrong in the real sense.

Think of this, if you are sleeping with a girl that's less than 18 years old in Nigeria, people will condemn you and call you a pedophile.

But there are many (I mean many) countries where the age of consent is much more lower than 18 (with some even as low as 14 years).

Now is it right or wrong to sleep with a person lower than 18 years? Your answer will be correct either way depending on where you are from and where you currently are staying.

There's no natural law that tells you the answer to this question. There's no natural law that says you can not sleep with a person less than 18.

In fact, before the British came to Nigeria, marriage was never by age but by 'maturity'.

Once a person looks 'matured' enough, they will be married off.

Hence the issue of sex with under age is not a law by nature but social construct.

The same social construct is what restrict incest. Around the 15th century or there about, the great Britain royals marry within the family to ensure pure bloods ascend the throne.

This includes marrying their cousins whether first, second or third.

This easily led to them getting some deformed children (marrying within families is bad for the physiology in the long run) but aside that there was no known consequences or fiery judgment for this "perceived" wrong.

In China people marry their cousin and I think Brazil does the same thing. This is their belief and the way they have chosen to live their lives.

They chose that way. And so by their social construction it is right.

Your friend has done nothing right or wrong. He simply chose a way to live.

What will now make it right or wrong is his perception and the way of life of the people he stays with.

Does he feel it is wrong? Does the people he stays with feel it is wrong?

If yes, then he is wrong. Again not because what he did is wrong in any way but because he feels it is wrong and that feeling will weigh him down. As it is already doing now.

But if he feels nothing about it and doesn't feel guilty, then he has nothing to worry about because what he did is not wrong.

I hope this made some sense to you

GoodHardDick:
[[s]quote author=Premiumwriter post=109744589]I'm going to marry a Naija girl. I love that I get to chase them.

Maybe because I'm a predator. I hate a girl on a platter of gold.

I love to play the game, fight the fight and watch their defenses crumble.

I think most y'all just can't put in the effort to play the game well. [/s]

You sound like a SIMP.

so you put so much effort to impress and chase Nigeria girls?. Na your type girls dey manipulate and control wella.

You even said you love to fight the fight. As in, fighting over a Nigerian girl? Oga, you're a simp.

No sane guy should waste his time impressing a Nigerian girl. You can bang them, but don't waste your trying to impress them, let alone trying to fight over them. God forbid!!

This is a new year and you're already simping around.

you are not a redpiller bro. Stop deceiving yourself

Tombrown3:
It boils down to how we have been brought up from the outset.

An average Nigerian guy starts struggling with life from 17years old, since nature won't stop his dicck from erecting, he always falls for the scam he has been told and seen on TVs about how to love a woman. He ends up being used and manipulated and yet still feels it's normal and what he's expected to do. He feels so lucky and loved when the opposite gender reciprocates a little of his affection.

This is how we have been trained, it started a long time from the Nollywood movies to the advert we see.

That's why many foreign women love Nigerian men! Because we have seen the worst of females here at home, dating them make use feel free and loved, the affections they give us in return for just dating them make any Naija guy fall in love! When we try to treat foreign women the same way we treat our women, they get overwhelmed. Nigerian men are always desired by these foreign women.

I'm yet to see or hear a foreigner wishing for a Nigerian girl, I haven't heard.


As I said, it boils down to our upbringing. Thanks to the internet, a lot has been emancipated from this ideology and that's why the hatred for Nigerian girls by their male counterparts keeps increasing.

I'm going to marry a Naija girl. I love that I get to chase them.

Maybe because I'm a predator. I hate a girl on a platter of gold.

I love to play the game, fight the fight and watch their defenses crumble.

I think most y'all just can't put in the effort to play the game well.

stevewobemit:
Hello, Could you send me the method please? I'm in the verification process.

just use a phone with a very sharp camera.

That's all I can say.

Please emphasize on great camera. I had to borrow to make mine work

phintohlar:
cos hubby is complaining

sex is something you can improve on to make your man happier.

In the end you win both ways: a happier home and a skill set for yourself

Try reading books on it. Ask him what he likes and learn more about it, even from other sex gurus.

Don't rest on your wheels and say hubby should be understanding. Put in the effort, let him notice your effort.

Love na two people working to make each other happy. Not one person telling the other to accept them as they are. There's no growth in such acceptance.

Condemned currencies does not mean fake currencies.

What the arm robbers took are WORN OUT notes that are being taken to CBN for destruction.

Those notes can still be used to purchase things and bank will accept them and still take them to CBN for destruction

YinkaOlusesi:
If it`s truly a serious relationship that can lead to marriage i think The best place to approach is Church. and it should be done after church service.

so people that don't go to church can't marry again.

But una get time o. How do you not lose the mood before packing all these equipment?

For 9 years no one gave a f*ck whether the throne was empty or not.


Why do they suddenly think people will give a f*ck now?

One of the weirdest thing I've seen on nairaland is guys saying they prefer white women.

Personally, I find the skin color rather odd and tasteless.

Don't get me wrong. I love fair girls. In fact, I don't think I've ever toasted any girl with dark skin or slept with one.

All the girls I've been with are fair.

I like the African fair skin and most times prefer the chocolate skin.

White skin kind of irritates me and to be sincere, I rarely crush on Hollywood stars nowadays.

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Ok
Thanks for realizing you were wrong..
Enjoy yourself Premiumwriter

we've outlived airforce1.

U're less. A minor spam bot that will soon wear out

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Why change yourself in the first place if you have no understanding?
The change will come gradually and naturally..Forcing change on someone that’s unwilling will only push him or her away...it's very easy to understand..
Relationship shouldn't be about narcissist attitude..

I think you're confusing "becoming a better person" with "adjusting your habits to suit your partner's idiosyncrasies and personality"
One should accept the other as he is and respect the path he is on in learning more about him or herself and have patience with that.
Do not mistake this for giving up boundaries. One should always protect his boundaries in order to have a healthy relationship.

If you can't accept the other and his/her teachings for what they are...Then don't be in this relationship....Find someone that is more on the same length as you...
Simple as that..

another empty vessel making the loudest noise possible.

Whoever told you that replying every thread makes you a master has done you a great disservice.

Let me help

"slide off my mention and don't be a cry baby"

pansophist:
Exactly. When people say "you have to accept me for who I am", its simply a palatable way to say "I'm too lazy to improve my shortcomings, and you must learn to live with it". Of course no one is telling you to change to another gender, thats ridiculous. Its about changing things that are within your power. So yes, from this angle, I agree with you.

I usually find that statement so ridiculous.

Like a girl is doing something you know she could be better and when you try to help her be better, boom "you have to accept me for who I am"

All I can say is work on yourself bro.

I'm an introvert too but I learned to be loud especially when in the midst of other guys.

Not loud as in talking too much.

But loud as in never letting any of them step on me while with my girl.

Instead of going outside while your girl is inside with the guy, while not tell your girl to come and sit outside with you.

Telling her what to do shows who is in command and will have to force/remind your guy that you are the man since he'll have to follow her outside if he wants to gist.

Next, laugh as little as possible. As an introvert, you tend to be a people please and laugh so you don't feel awkward.

F*ck that. Laugh as little as possible. Especially when your guy cracks a joke around your girl, no laugh self.

Just the look them laugh and you go start to the notice tension.

Next thing I'll advise you is to get intimate with your girl. Like I don't understand what gives your girl time to gist with your friend when she comes over.

Next time, start telling your guy to excuse you guys when your girl is coming over. Before she comes, tell am say something one sup, say if she come you go like make him give una space.

Another thing and most importantly, learn to tease your girl, make fun of her, I like insult my girl village eh, she go almost wan cry.

Find something that's not directly related to her body and use it to tease her. Maybe something she say or is ignorant of, or a grammatical mistake she made, bring it up at random and use it to make fun of her.

Even when your friend is around. If he asks no tell am. Just use it as a joke between you and your girl. This will make him feel left out just as you are feeling right now.

Mock your girl in his face but do it subtly in a way that he will want to join in, then instead of supporting him against your girl, turn around the moment he joins in and support your girl against him.

For instance, I was subtly Teasing my girl about how they don't have light in their village (they have light but I still insist they don't). If my friend joins in, I just turn around and start defending my girl's village against his.

This can easily go wrong tho if you're a newbie and not calculative or didn't plan things to say.

Your most powerful move will be showing who is in command. Touch your girl inappropriately around him and make him uncomfortable and then ask him casually to excuse you guys (guy abeg you fit just go outside small or excuse us small I wan tell this fine girl something).

Actually tell her something. It can be as dumb as (Chai madam you look Soo cute today, I fit just chop you raw or any other dumb compliment).

The problem with you is that you are not marking your territory right.

Please go back and snatch your girl.

And watch comedy videos especially stand-up comedy like those them basket mouth, bovi, I go die etc. Not those comedy skits o). With time and many laughter, you'll see yourself being able to crack jokes that will make your girl laugh like hell.

Like I said, I'm an introvert. A very chronic one but tell that to my girl and she'll look at you like you are crazy.

Who gave people this popular impression that they shouldn't try and change themselves for the person they love?

Like that is the most toxic advice on the internet today and the most popular I must say.

If you are in a relationship, you should be constantly making adjustments and improvements to please your partner except you don't love them or want them to stay longer with you.

Think of relationships like a bridge between two people. The two most times must walk their sides of the bridge to meet in the middle, not always staying at their own ends and expect their partner to come and meet them.

That's selfish, toxic and unhealthy for any relationship.

If you are overweight and your partner complains, there's actually something you can do about it, you can hit the gym and shed off the excessive weight.

If you are lazy in bed, you can learn how to be better.

It may take extra work but in the end you'll be better off than you were in the beginning and most importantly, you get to retain your partner.

What I don't understand is why people feel that it's not worth changing or improving themselves for their partners.

You are toxic, overweight or have no sense of dressing or behave poorly and the person you claim to love complains about it and you feel he/she is not worth it or doesn't love you enough?

It's the person you love the most that you try to change. You want them to be better.

In fact, if you're partner keeps accepting you the way you are, you should be on the lookout. They probably are just passing the time with you.

Redpillers I de hail una all. My the game continue to favour us.

If you think your boyfriend should accept your choice unconditionally you should also be ready to accept his choice unconditionally.

He wants hair. You said no hair.

You disrespected his choice and been a gentle man he left.

I don't see the issh here.

Beringo:
Do you guys know how you can download videos from Tik Tok to your phone? Because I did not get something.

there's a Save/download button on tik tok na

Mjanee:
Blablabla pls shut up

this wasn't unexpected.

Women are incapable of logic

Why do you think your opinion of his mental state of health matters to him or to any of us?

Like you just sat down in your room and think "hmm TheGidRedpiller is stup*d"

And so he's stupid or we should all believe this?

What if you are the stup*d one? For all we know stup*dity might be the reason why you created this thread without any empirical proof that the other party is stup*d.