Allegory:

Processing times are expected to rise to 36 months all through 2022. Are they for real

If you enrol for masters, person go don finish the masters self before your PR is issued

Empiano:
Y'all should read this.

I really don't know how I feel about this. It feels like a good and bad news together. Good that FSW draws is likely to resume in 2022if they don't seek another extension sha. And bad that the CRS score may remain ridiculously high for a longer time.

ImaIma1:


It's because we always try to please inlaws, that's why we take all the nonsense.

My friend put to bed about 8months ago. When her inlaws visited and stayed a week, she didn't cook once. She said she as a new mum, still healing and going through postpartum stress couldn't be entering kitchen to cook for anyone.

They gave mama food from the freezer, she was shedding tears that she was given a meal brought out from the freezer. She no happy say dem even give her food

efficiencie:

If na my sister you dey slap like that and I am as close to her as you are close to your mom, mehn my guys and I, go use your face do slapping competition oh.

I had a good laugh reading this in bold.

ImaIma1:


She was expecting the new mum to go to the market to cook a fresh meal like there's something wrong with food from the freezer.

If it were her daughter, would she expect the same? It's the op that cannot defend his wife that is to blame.

Some human beings are just selfish! A new mother should be cooking fresh meals for her, because she is what? Queen of England. Dig deep into his mother history with her mother in law, she probably never took half of the shit she is trying with her own DIL from her MIL.

jaksmillioniar:
look at me a frustrated dog. Did I know u b4 who come on my blog to attack me. U are praying we divorce is to me and my genaratiin. I kip asking wat ur business why did u judge me wen u Neva know my pains as I come shouting and jumping as a dog is like woman don do me strong tin dis new year. I cant find love at my age

Barking dog identifying himself as one. Raving lunatic! Wife beater. Idiot, what pain can you possibly feel? Werey dey disguise. Woman beater oshi. Even Nairaland men condemned your act, can you beat that? She will divorce you and I pray she does before you turn her into a deaf/blind person because at the rate at which mad man like you keep beating her up, she will either end up with a serious medical issue or 6 ft under. God forbid she dies in your hands not because I care about you as you deserve to be behind bars and trust me you will meet your waterloo one day but because your beautiful wife deserves to live her life freely without a monstrous husband and a MIL like your mum who keeps manipulating her immature son with crocodile tears on how she is treated and I pray she comes to her senses and divorces you. Don't worry about my love life, it's sorted out. And insults to women about not finding men is stale and old school, we really don't care, maybe that's why assholes like you think you should still be worshipped for being a monster!

jaksmillioniar:
it like ur an animal why insult me bloody empty brianlike u. Are u d one day is married. Are u d one feeling d pains. Are u d one dat face pains cos my mum was insulted by her mum. U beta think b4 u talk and dont put mouth were it none of ur business.respect urself cos if I attack u u will hate urself

Oga shut the F up! Animal! How did you know her mother insulted your mum? Were you there or is it just something you and your mum made up to make your weak selves feel better? You think I am scared of you, ode say he wan attack me, dem give my own mouth to washer man? Between you and I, who is the one with the empty brain? A woman beater who couldn't even take to corrections of everyone who condemned his act. He keeps saying "I know I am wrong but...... " go and google the narcissist prayer. All your post reeks of that. You can't even put your thoughts in words properly. Illiterate wife beater. I swear to God, I don't do Nairaland wars but if I come for you, you will fall into depression. Wife beater oshi, shameless man! Ai lai ni itiju ara Galatia. Keep beating her, two things will happen, you will either go to jail for murder or she would wise up and dump your sorry ass. Mtchewwww. Very disgusting human being.

jaksmillioniar:
I like ur point witout insult am at work will reply later u know is wrong for my mum not to do omugo . Is hard b4 I beat my wife but I get angry quick dat how am created d problem is my wife mum.de number one problem is dat woman and I try to let my woman know dat u cant let ur mum control wat happen in marraige. u too said it dat its wrong for her mum to do omugo. my mum cant come and be fighting to stay.forget I do gragra on internet am very loyal to my wife as a baby some think we are still boyfriend and galfriend.but she know if she knew I will Neva taka rubbish from her or her family. am a dicipline guy.

You disgust me! What an arrogant and toxic individual you are! Jeez, reading your response on this thread and it reeks of the narcissism. You are a ducking narcissist. Damn! Grow up! Or better still, stay put in your manipulative mother's house since you're a proud mummy's boy. Talking about slapping an adult as if he is talking about a toddler. I hope she realizes her worth and dumps your sorry ass. She is worth more than being the wife of an unrepentant ahole like you. And trust me, if you continue like this, your old age will be filled with regrets because you are setting yourself up for failure. Mumu say he is a disciplined man, Lmao, you are not disciplined instead you're a weak sadistic man. I wish I didn't bump into this thread again. Mtcheewwww!

PS: all this useless and toxic masculinity starts and end here on Nairaland. And it's easy to display all these BS posts because the forum allows it. You wouldn't dare post this on forums like Reddit, Quora etc and not be ripped a new one. I wonder what Nairaland as a forum would love to be remembered for. You know for a heavily moderated forum allowing a lot of gender based violent post and tribal insult comments to fly like its a normal thing beats my imagination. Is it for traffic? It is well.

Khibaby:
Please did Ontario do PNP interest nomination. I got a mail for nomination of interest with NOC3012 with score of 464. Please who else gotten nomination today.

Notification of interest is different from nomination. Nomination is the end goal of notification of interest if approved. Congratulations! May the rest of the journey be smooth. I wish you all the best.

Degunners:
I just need someone to scold me badly, maybe it will help me get sense.

Seriously I can't just believe at my age I still do the things I do.

Right now I am in deep hole of debts from these loan apps. Can you imagine someone taking loans from more than 10 apps? Yes that someone is me.

Presently if I should add up all the loans it will be close or more than 500k. The annoying thing is this is like 3yrs now I have been struggling with these apps.

I once was able to clear all the loans but like a dog going back to it's vomit, I still went back to them (I seriously need delivarence).

Why I'm so ashamed of myself is because I didn't take these loans mostly because I don't have a good source of income but because I don't know how to save and I am very extravagantly wasteful. I loving feeling rich, I can buy beer and flex anyone those I know and those I don't.

Thought getting married will help but for where like I got worst after that.

I seriously don't know how to come out of this mess I dragged myself into. Because these loan apps will only give you 7days loan with very high interest. I have been servicing these loans throughout last year and I don't want to continue this year.

I have already spent more than 200k this month alone on interest alone because I have to borrow again to be able to pay others.

I'm owing the following apps:
1. Fastmoney 70k
2. Imoney 50k
3. Gocash 38k
4. 40k
5. Palm credit 70k and counting this is long over due.
6. Kuda 50k
7. Next credit 21k
8. Mint loan 35k
9. 9jacash 12k
10. Add money 9k
11. Ncash 9k
12. Ducredit 70k
13. Ajeloan 15k
14. Easy Naira 12k.
15. Cashsea 26k

I'm even scared to add the total but this my current reality. Virtually all are 7days loan.

I don't know how a sane human being can get to this stage, I don't want to attribute anything to anyone or some village people. This is my owing making, and I have been living with this burden for long. I was hoping to get a job that will pay me like 500k at once but none for now.

I dont even know what next to do. I have alot of other responsibilities to cater for.

I don't even have friends or relatives I can run to. I am writing this because I deserve all the insults in the whole world. I deserve to the stoned. Though I will never take my life because of this, God forbid but I can't grow with these on my neck and it's really weighing me down.

I can't remember when last I genuinely smiled or laughed.

I'm determined to find a way to over come this problem. That's why I'm here.

I know you guys will come for my head but I'm already in this shot so I will accept any insult. But please if someone can say something to help me a little I will appreciate.

I'm not breathing fine but I'm currently harvesting what I planted.

Wish I can get a counselor or therapist who can help me because I'm scared that even if I suffer and clear these I might not learn my lesson because it has happened before.

What can I do please?

First thing first you need therapy, try to go to the nearest government hospital to get one. You also need a financial advisor. That being said since you said in your post that you have a good income, I suggest you go to one of the other financial institutions to consolidate your loan into one. If your income can take it, your loan would be approved and they would buy over your existing loans, you will be remitting your repayment monthly but that's if your credit score is not bad. But I heard some don't use credit report. Now after successfully getting a financial institution to buy over your loans, you must be disciplined and be strong willed so you don't go back to borrowing from those apps else, you're setting yourself up for failure.

Solosolojohquay:
I thought she will overgrown it when she see onion in her foods she will pick all the onion one by one before she started eating that's when she is small now if she see onion in her foods she will reject the foods and went on hunger strike ,she will not eat fried rice because of all the green beans e.t.c instead she will prefer jollof rice that the onions is not visible or she will hand pick eat am afraid of what might happen if she travel out will she be on one diet through out

Please let her be, I was once like that, I hated onions and veggies as a kid but I outgrew it in my twenties but with a condition. The onions had to be diced in a tiny pieces. Now without anyone telling me I add onions to my food. My younger sisters and friend who are in their early, mid and late twenties still hate onions till this day. I as an adult till this day hates beans. Just leave her be, she is not a toddler, she will change or live without eating onions which doesn't have any medical implications.

Nice development! However, I hope he spent the past 5 years pursuing a degree in another university or learning professional certifications that would be beneficial to him in the long run rather than waiting for University of Lagos to call him back. I wish him all the best in his endeavours.

InTheCloudySky:
OP, is this your wife?

https://www.nairaland.com/6846859/scared-wedding-month-havent-told#107552148

Both of you mentioned your traditional marriage was on the 27th November 2021 and your stories are the same. Anyway, sorry she deceived you. Pele. I don't know what else to say.

That woman's post came to mind immediately I read this. However, for some reason I feel like the poster behind these posts is just one person trying to play mind games with Nairalanders. You know some people thrive with fabrication of tales

yunqdady:

I raised a debate, focus in it and leave my persona out of it. You aren't half smart or knowledgeable as me.

Lmao, Look here young man, you're not as smart as you think. Come off it! I can bet everything on it. In fact, you and the word smart should not be put in the same space judging from your comments on this thread and forum in general. Your comment is nothing a smart person will post about. Go back and read your comment and ask if a knowledgeable person would sound like that. You call that comment of yours a debate? Come down from your high horses! I won't brag about how smart or intelligent I think I am but boy, you're no where near it and I don't think highly of myself to think I can't be wrong. That's one of the first signs of intelligence. Please don't misuse that word again. Just like Theseventeenth has said, you think so highly of yourself and you're nothing close to the level of smartness you think you have. You have a lot of learning to do, please grow up! Learn to be teachable and progressive as well, because you are not and you need to be.

yunqdady:

Just a statement and she wants to beat me. See what we are saying.

What are you saying? Stop being unteachable and learn to dissociate yourself from negative thoughts.

yunqdady:
I don't think it's advisable to bring your wife along with you to Canada. Honestly, marriage breaking is high

And your point is? when will you break free from this backward mentality? Some of you have just refused to evolve. Please take several back seats if you can't be progressive

Ennymama:
Hello gurus in the house,

Please I need your advice. I saw a sponsored ads on Facebook about Canada Jobs. It also captioned that the company will sponsor the visa. I picked the number and chatted on WhatsApp. I was asked to send my CV to their email and after 24hours, I was mailed that my qualifications met their requirements. I was offered job as a Drill Engineer for the Oil and gas company. I was later sent Temporary Residence Visa Form to fill as well as Labour Market Impact Assessment(LMIA) form and Job agreement letter(that have in it that I will be responsible for the biometrics fee while other cost till arrival will be handled by the company). I filled and signed where necessary and returned them with my International passport as requested.

After few days, I was mailed to send the LMIA , Visa Form and my International passport to the lagos embassy of Canada through the email they gave (lagos@vfsglobal.g-c.online, so as to book my biometrics. I did as instructed and after few hours, got a mail from the said lagos embassy mail that my documents have been reviewed and i should proceed to pay for my biometrics through the payment link supplied so I can be given date for the biometrics. The biometrics fee is $116 CAD and processing fee is $91 CAD, bringing total to $207 CAD which amounted to #66,549.89 or pay same into one CEDI SIGNAL ZENITH BANK account and send receipt to them.

I am confused as to being real or not which is the reason I seek your genuine and honest advice.

Thanks.

You have posted this in almost all Canadian threads that I can possibly think of and in all threads you have been told it's a scam. What else do you want to hear kwanu? You're looking for the glimpse of hope where someone tells you oh no it is not a scam? Awake from thy slumber and find a way to retrieve your passport if you gave them the original copy. Please stop spamming threads with the same message.

GraciousWords:


Talking about IELTS and especially TEF runs ....the guys on that table should read this judicial case and fear God...when CBSA at the border starts a conversation during landing, in the language PR applicant is supposedly semi-fluent in, and the person is looking blank...

https://decisions.fct-cf.gc.ca/fc-cf/decisions/en/item/108617/index.do?q=Ielts+egypt+permanent+residence+federal+skilled+worker

Most of them don't know the implication of what they are doing right now because all they are seeing is increased CRS point. But when kasala burst, you will see them come online to ask questions for their imaginary friend because shame won't let them say they are asking for themselves.

gistbite:


Oh. How do I go about getting a uk work permit?

Why not ask on the UK thread, they would be able to help you better with getting a job since you are not restricted by the 20hrs per week rule seeing you are on a student dependant visa. You only just relocated to the UK on the 8th of December, why the sudden change of mind to move to Canada? Just take things slowly or better still try the Canada express entry while waiting for your significant other to finish his course.

petemail2all:
Hello there,

I mean I need help with completing the PNP application for Manitoba. It request for a friend or relative who lives in Manitoba as a reference

If you don't have a relative or close friends in Manitoba, it is what it is, you don't have any business with Manitoba. It's that simple! These people don't joke, once they find out, your application would be thrown out and the PR or citizenship of the supposed reference will be revoked. Now let me ask you, would you risk loosing everything you have worked for to help someone you don't know? And you asked this openly in a public forum, y'all should stop making things difficult for others.

petemail2all:
Hey guys, any help getting reference in Manitoba for PNP nomination?

I don't want to judge or jump into conclusion. So please provide further clarification on the above.

Pearlmadeit:

I got a mail this morning that my result has been released
I can now view it.
Mama I made it ���

Congratulations to you. May the rest of the journey be smooth.

Olisa222:
Update guys, I got the best new year gift.

Listening: 8.5
Reading: 7.5
Writing: 7.5
Speaking: 7.5

Make I go drink beer and peppersoup first, I'm still in shock.

Congratulations! I remembered you lamenting about how hard the writing was and boom you got a perfect score in the module you were worried about the most . May the rest of the journey be smooth.

maak400:
My brother has GTB account, can I use it to make the payment? Thanks.

Yes, you can.

maak400:
Please I'm trying to make payment for WES with my access bank ATM card but it's not going through. Is this payment option not acceptable?

The amount is above the $100 limit. If you have a gtb account, please use a GTBank card. I am not sure if Access bank has increased their card limit to $200 but I am sure of GTB.

ratedree:
I am happy you sharing this story so that people can learn from it. it is mine. I am a PR in canada and yes went through a lot fighting for my girls to stay back because they are the major reason i came here. I am also happy and not surprised to read the many comments and diverse views. Indeed it is very easy to judge a situation when one has no idea of the back story.

Like many said, it is indeed true that my poor kids are at the receiving end in all of this. I won't waste thousands of dollars going to court to fight for them if i did not feel unjustly treated. I surely intended to bring them to Canada and informed their dad of my intentions by myself before things went sour.

I relocated for a better life for myself and the girls and i had been their primary parent for 8 years before their return. It was indeed a big change for them to have to return to new primary parents and begin to get used to other people's way of doing things. That is my worry and not the blame game.

But one thing is sure, there is more than meets the eyes. I certainly will not put my kids through untold hardship intentionally. To all readers, whatever you can learn from this story please learn and i am willing to share more from my experience to anyone in a similar situation and does not know what to do. Mistakes are to be learned from.

You sound like you are the Irene Onuoha in the story. If yes, are the girls back in Canada? And I am so sorry you had to go through all this. I hope you find closure and peace in everything that concerns you.

EsoEso, Shoeshineguy Wisdom7400 Please read this as she sounds like she is the mother of the kids in question.

maak400:
Please I'm about to pay for WES evaluation today. I have a BSc Degree from LASU and also a diploma certificate from the same LASU. This will count as two certificates for me right? Should I submit both the BSc Degree and Diploma or I should only submit the BSc? Thanks for your anticipated response.

The outcome is dependent on what wes will evaluate your diploma certificate as. So I will say submit both and give it a try, you have nothing to lose and you won't be paying extra. I just hope you included the diploma at the point of registration for WES. If not , you can send them a mail to include that since your evaluation is yet to start.

Canadahome:
A friend submitted only a Reference letter as employment proof. She has been worried that she should have submitted bank statement proof as well.

Is there any negative impact on the app?

The only thing that is required of you to prove your employment is a reference letter in IRCC format. To be honest, na over do dey make us add bank statement. She will be fine, if the VO needs additional documents, she will be contacted. However, if she still doesn't feel better, she can go ahead to add her bank statement but if I were in her shoes, I will wait it out.

Wisdom7400:

I also wanted to reply her but i had to logout after seeing her comment since no one replied her then. You all just spoke my mind. We cant really say for sure what went wrong and yea that lady took sides. I knew it came from a female. She said gender war...no be gender war matter just read through your post again and you will see what we are talking about.

You know you and shoeshineguy could have just quoted me directly instead of responding indirectly and lamenting about how you wanted to quote me on this and that. Anyway I still maintain that my opinion is mine and I am only responsible for what I type and not what you understood from my post. Yes, it's not a gender war. If my opinion isn't objective enough, state yours in the most objective way you deem fit. I may be biased but in your hearts, you know there may be a 40% or even 50% possibility that this was done out of spite and wickedness. We have seen too many wickedness going on in a lawless country like Nigeria to not want to tilt towards supporting the female gender (YES, I am biased in this case and I admit. Hope that makes you feel better). Femi Fani Kayode comes to mind of how spouses with more money are more powerful in Nigeria and how they can do things and get away with it. What if he gave the consent and then revoked it just as the woman claimed? That's another angle. Like I said in my post to the first guy who quoted me, I am only pained for the kids who are caught in between two immature parents. I hope now that he has the kids, he is going to devote his time to them instead of keeping them with relatives or leaving them unsupervised with nannies. They are the real victims in all of these. The woman had the option of going for full custody but she chose to cheat the system by forging a consent form as also stated in the case so she should be left to bear the consequences of her actions. Going back to court to decide full custody could be long but it will give her peace of mind or better still a safer and peaceful option of sitting and having a discussion with her ex spouse is another. But I am left to wonder why a woman would want to take the kids away from her husband without a genuine reason? There is a reason for everything, I don't think she is a monster who just wants to deprive a man access to his kids. However, nothing changes the fact that the burden resulting from the selfishness of two adults is falling on two innocent kids. Seeing that they both have money to drag each other to court internationally shows they will both be fine. I am sorry if you don't like my post.