Are you kidding me? Are women really easy to get?

Telstar:
He shouldn't. He should get another girl. Someone who is much beautiful than her. Women are so easy to get.

Hmmm I still feel he should talk to her about it

Abbey117:



1) He should ask her and she'll definitely give him a version of what she feels might soothe ( except if the guy is not a loverboy but judging from his write-ups it seems he is)

2) If my girlfriend believe I'm not giving her enough attention and she decided to get it elsewhere my brother I'll believe she was never my girlfriend. I'll just dump her and move ( no time to be a caretaker)

3) Trust me a lady that has a male friend to the extent of captioning it LOML is doing the work of LOML's work.

Gimme your bf's number make I tell one babe to perform Africa magic on him and see whether your post of heartbreak won't make front-page next month

Hmmmm. Not withstanding He should talk to her about it

Abbey117:



1) He should ask her and she'll definitely give him a version of what she feels might soothe ( except if the guy is not a loverboy but judging from his write-ups it seems he is)

2) If my girlfriend believe I'm not giving her enough attention and she decided to get it elsewhere my brother I'll believe she was never my girlfriend. I'll just dump her and move ( no time to be a caretaker)

3) Trust me a lady that has a male friend to the extent of captioning it LOML is doing the work of LOML's work.

Gimme your bf's number make I tell one babe to perform Africa magic on him and see whether your post of heartbreak won't make front-page next month

I think you should ask her about it instead of costly assumptions.

Again she might not be getting the needed attention from you hence just using this to get your attention.

Thirdly the guy might just be a friend so kindly talk to her about it. From her reply you will definitely know the next steps to take

Thebest12:
Hello Good morning nairalanders ,
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Pls I want to know am I about to experience heart break or I should do that now before she does it to me . My girlfriend just posted someone LOML . I just saw that on her stories. I investigated deeply and I found the guy's username . I saw that the guy has been commenting on her posts recently and I wonder why she posted the guy LOML . I tried to ask her but some people adviced me not to and that I should watch from distance. Okay just when I have decided to freestyle the matter , today again she posted same guy again . I am so pained right now , and confused.

Am I about to experience heart break .? Should I kuku end the relationship now ? Pls I need your advice

Which achievement? Insecurities and increase in debt rate���. Weldon Mr Achievement

aminulive:
POLITICSNIGERIA.COM

President Muhammadu Buhari has suggested a way forward on how to solve the malignant problem of corruption in Nigeria.

Mr Buhari who spoke during an interview on NTA on Friday night said that the country needs 'special courts' to fight corruption.

"We will need special courts. You develop terms of reference for them, you bring charges, immediately people are put before that court and they come and defend themselves."

"If you go through the system, especially if they still have some savings somewhere, they can get first-class SANS, lawyers to come and defend them and the case will drag on".

"That's why I say special courts are very important especially in the cases of corruption. So that the riot act will be properly read to the public so that anyone that misbehaves will account for it. We shouldn't wait for people to die and go before Almighty God".

"Nigerians are forgetful. I'm very pleased that majority of Nigerians think this administration, under the circumstances, is doing its best."

"People are corrupt. People in the house of reps with one wife and house but when they get elected, they have more houses and wives"

It would be recalled that fighting corruption was one of the three major campaign promises of Mr Buhari while campaigning for his first term in 2015.

https://politicsnigeria.com/corruption-nigerians-are-forgetful-of-my-achievements-buhari/

Are there still people in that region at all? Habana �����. I had a terrible dream about being kidnapped and see me waking up to this same insecurity stuff again. Why killing the Masses for crying out loud. If 51 top politicians can be killed instead of us, Nigeria would have been better. Please the blood bath should be stop already.

Omooba77:


https://dailytrust.com/breaking-51-killed-in-fresh-zamfara-attacks

Someone said the culprit was found dead early this morning in station. Fear Nigeria police.quote author=FalseProphet1 post=101638719]I see more Revelations about this innocent girl's murder being revealed, I see big names roped into the saga, I see the police trying to sweep the matter under the carpet, I see a very bloody revolution by angry Nigerian youths, I see the culprits being arrested. This I have seen.[/quote]

You are not a failure and can never be a failure. So many people you are seeing today have alot of troubles too but you definitely don't see it because you feel yours is the worst kind of situation. I will be 30 yrs by July, still in school, not in any kind of relationship, finances is zero, I am in a very critical situation now that I am even finding it extremely difficult to eat but guess what? I woke up this morning telling myself that I wouldn't be worried over anything anymore. What God hasn't given me means I don't need it but I only want it. I am not sick, I am not a disabled, I am not deformed but I am whole to the Glory of God, I have learned to look beyond my situation. Please be encouraged, the Bible said "when the time is right, I the Lord will make it happen. Your breakthrough is closer than your imagination. Peace brother, Peace

WhiteRuler:
First of all, apologies for any errors you may come across as I am not at the right frame of mind now.

Secondly, this post is 100% real about my life. So nothing is fake in it.

I'm a man, precisely 33 years old. I graduated from the University in 2019 at age 31. You may ask why I was still in school till that age. Well, I have realized that family/parental background matters a lot in a child's life no matter how people try to twist the fact. My family/parental background wasn't a good one educationally and financially as my parents were just petty traders and this has contributed negatively in achieving my goals and aspirations in life. With the above, you can deduce that there was no sources of funding for my tertiary education so I had to find a job after my secondary school while very ambitious about my furthering my education because I always believed in acquiring education up to university level. This led me to doing several odd jobs such as construction site labourer, security guard, cleaning, barbing, hawking, even to remove soak away and many others just to feed and see myself through school. Let me also add that @33 now, there are some jobs I can't do again because of some changes in my health system occasioned by some of the odd jobs I exposed myself to. For example, any strenuous job now is not for me as it makes me breath heavily like an asthmatic patient; any job that requires standing for long or bending down not for me due to broken waist (although these might be solvable issues but for now, I can't tell cos I have no money to visit health facility).

Moving on, while I may be thanking God for the academic success (even though the school is yet to issue me certificate) but I'm having strong feelings about myself. I feel like I have failed in life. I feel like I am a failure. My mates who got admission into university immediately after secondary school are gainfully employed today, living in comfortable apartment (built or rented), married with kids, have their own car and generally doing well. Even the ones who didn't further but venture into learning trade are doing well too. On the other hand, at 33, I have virtually nothing to show for it. Still living in one thatch house, poor, hungry and starving, no wife, no kid(s) (not even a serious girlfriend), no job, no car and nothing to show for my 33 years on earth. This is why I'm feeling like I have failed in life and it has made me to always be ashamed of myself and always trying to avoid meeting my mates who are doing well.

Also, looking at the country Nigeria, most employers recruit under 30. @33, what are my chances of
landing a good job if I refuse to forge age and go for service but collect exemption letter? What are even the possibility of getting a job as I have no capital for business? Note: between 2019 and now, I've learnt several online money making skills but yet to make a kobo out of it all. Note also: ordinarily, I wouldn't seek employment (private or government) because I'm multi talented e.g in football, entertainment or business but these talents need money to develop which is what I'm lacking.

My questions:
Please what do you all think? Do you think I have failed or I'm a failure in life? What is the future holding for me? As at today, the only thing I can boast of is "I am a graduate". Nothing more...like I said, poor, hungry and starving.

Help me with good pieces of advice please before my mind begins to consider evil as fastest way of making money. Thanks.

Why not? With great joy sef

xynerise:
There is this common feud between some mother-in-laws and wives that is still a mystery which gave rise to this question.

Ladies, if your mother-in-law is still alive, how would you feel if your husband hangs pictures of her on the wall? I can understand if she is dead but alive, would you welcome it ?


Cc: lalasticlala

You can please talk to me over here

bigpicture001:


I feel I can b of best advices, but nairaland no dey let ppl contact demselves

Good morning nairalanders, Please I really need someone to talk to, a friend btw the age of 31- 35, staying in Jos plateau state. Please it's really urgent. I am gradually entering into depression ������. I just need someone to pour my heart to. A guy preferably, I don't need Money please I just need someone to talk to. Send a dm to my Gmail account please ���. Thank you

I use it almost everyday. Most times before standing up from my bed because Jos weather is nobody's mate.

Kenog4real:
Since I left the country, I've never left home without knowing the condition of that day's weather right from the time I leave the house till the time frame I'm going to get back home especially during the winter; this is because if I don't, I might end up regretting the simple mistake. So the weather most time determines the kind of outfit for the day.

Recently my friend in Nigeria were complaining about the weather being too hot/cold so I asked some of them "What's the actual weather condition in degrees?. " Some didn't answer while some said they don't know. To cut the story short, nobody gave me a positive response so I had to check on my phone.

After doing that, I remembered I was once like that though not that bad because I did geography in school and I also taught geography during my NYSC which sometimes prompts me to know the weather condition of the day and also for some countries.

So, brothers and sisters, is that Weather App on your phone a liability that keep getting free updates without being used or not?

ebukajay184:
A woman identified as Madam Nmesoma has been accused of beating her 10-year-old househelp to death in Enugu, IgbereTV reports.

Rights activist, Gwamnishu Emefiena Harrison alleged that the househelp was brutally tortured and died before arriving the hospital for treatment on February 16. He also claimed that there is a plan to cover up the househelp's death.

Gwamnishu wrote;


https://www.facebook.com/1000004793

Another Facebook user, Abanifi Phoebe Ijeoma also alleged that the incident occurred 3 months after Mmesonma gave birth to her own child.

She wrote;


https://www.facebook.com/100001290140545/posts/4072152266171071/?app=fbl

I will make sure I wipe all her generations of I am this girl Mum. Imagine ���. She just cut this baby's destiny short. God God God

Oizee:
funny enough they get these kids with the intention that they will train them, but it's all deception....the poor family would be happy but in the end...... let's just pray for long life and good health and resources to take care of the kids.

My questions still remains" where all this boyfriends de way I no dey see them"

Anoymus:
I have a girlfriend I am meaning to propose to during the festive period, she's everything I want in a woman except few exception which might be a hindrance to the proposal.
Gist is, my babe is a graduate but lack of work made her to learn fashion designing, she's done with the training and she's very good with what she does.

After marriage, I have told her that I'll assist in her business, I'm planning to get a bigger shop space for her and equip it with modern day machines, tools and tailoring materials goods to help make her work lucrative. I'm budgeting about 1.2-1.5m for this.

The issue now is that, 3 days ago, I asked her what her role would be if eventually after marriage she gets the shop, equipments and all, where she would come in in terms of responsibilities in the house. Her reply was she doesn't want to assume any responsibility and that it's my duty to cater for the family and she can only help & I shouldn't make anything compulsory for her. So many thoughts came through my mind. One of it was that, where the proceeds of her investment would be going to if I should shoulder all the responsibilities in the house knowing fully well that she makes money.

I rang my mum and told her of her response, I was shocked that she backed her saying that I shouldn't have asked her to foot anything in the house that it was my sole responsibility as a man to cater for my family my wife inclusive. My dad too, same thing. Even told my gf mum about it too , she giggled and said I shouldn't have asked her n that it's my duty to provide for my family. They all sounded foreign to me. Or am I the one not understanding?

My question now is, why invest that kind of money in her when I'm not sure of getting little or nothing in terms in return help to run the family. That sum of money could get me 4 brand new bikes and 2 neatly used Keke Napep for transportation business. I'm sure I'll be getting returns from these investment weekly or monthly basis.

I don't want who wouldn't have any sense of responsibility at home after investing in her, even if she's covering 10% or 5% I wouldn't mind. Mere helping doesn't go down well with me, she might have and decide not to give out. I rather not invest at all and expect nothing from her.

I don't know if I'm the one over thinking this things or my parent and her mum aren't seeing things from my perspective or am I being inconsiderate?

Criticism, Insults and bashing are welcomed. Thanks

My boyfriend has never given me more than 5k a month. As a matter of fact the last time he gave me money was 3months ago and that was 2k. Sometimes I wonder why all this girls gets their own boyfriend from. The total money I have collected from my boyfriend this year is not into 15k and may God punish me if I am lying.

jaelz:
So I decided to ask this question here because I have a lady that is overly demanding, I mean I tried pegging my monthly spending for her at 30,000 Naira per month including her hair, light, data and cable TV subscription plus one or two outings and hangouts.

But I noticed she never seems satisfied with my little efforts as she demands unimaginable things from me like buying her iPhone 12 and etc.

Guys pls how do you control spending on your women and how much do you spend on them monthly.

patosky3310:
I am a 32 yrs old handsome dark-skinned man. My genotype is AS and blood group O+... I am from Imo state... I am a university graduate. I live and work in Lagos and have a steady income. I am looking forward to meeting a good Christian woman, who has a genuine love for a relationship leading to marriage. Comment or PM if interested.

I am interested ohhhhhhh. But I am chubby sha

Good morning Nairalanders. Am a final year student of one of the federal University in Nigeria, Am 29 years old and single. This pandemic is becoming too long and as we all know ASUU is still on strike and even if the inter state ban is been lifted there is every possibility that ASUU strike will still continue for a long time. Now see why I need advice please I really want to learn a trade and am contemplating if I should go for tailoring or make ups. Please I really need your advice on this. Thanks everyone.

themaestro08:


You don't respect him if you do you wouldn't have insulted him. He has my support and full backing. He shouldn't be in a place where he is treated like trash when he can be treasured elsewhere.

Leave the poor guy alone

Yes I know and I have apologised wholeheartedly. There are times He insulted me too.

apokan200:
quotes from motivational speakers for people like us not to commit suicide for our ugliness � �

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Foodqueen:
He is a married man.

Move on....

Thanks darling. I appreciate

stanliwise:
Its high time you come back to your sense and understand him for the good, he really don't want you and don't deserve you. Kindly respect yourself and carry on with your life. Loving someone isn't enough reason to be with them, they must also be responsible and ready to return your love. His reason of you abusing him is just part of the escape plot.
you are safer letting him go and you wouldn't be the first, you wil always find a better person as much as you're a good person(I assume) . I wouldn't say more than this

Thanks so much. I appreciate big

Zeal0000007:
my dear I'm sorry to say this and I feel ur pains, when we love someone even to their fault and the person does not reciprocate it's worrisome and painful but the truth must be told. I think he's into someone else may be very committed to the person. so ur calls irritates and it's disturbing him, because if u truly love someone you will always want to hear from the person 24/7. If he's serious about you he'll always be the one to be calling you irrespective of the hour,u will always know, so I'll advise u put ur self together and try and move on. such is life, I wish you the best.

Thanks so much ����

dingbang:
Let me see your face if you fine...

No body ugly brother

Allow him suck his breast in Peace.

I met this guy on Facebook may 2017 and we started dating November 2017 without seeing each other, I school in Unijos while He works in Lagos and He promised me that distance will not be a barrier but the truth is that the relationship has always not been Rossy.
We always have issues and it's always as a result of not seeing each other like for instance we saw each other Just once last year and same for now this year. I always beg him to allow me come visiting and when it's time He comes with an excuse so it was becoming too much and making feel like am desperate and as a result of that I flared up and insults him.
The past 6 weeks has really been hell, I always calls and he never pick up but always return the call after some hours. And He barely called whenever He is at home. It's either he is on his way to work or coming back or going to buy something and feels He should tell my Good night.
Exactly two weeks ago He called me around 11am and the truth is that I wasn't feeling too well and after we finish talking I didn't hear from him until around 5pm then I called twice and He didn't pick up. He later called around 9pm and I asked him why didn't pick up nor returned my call anymore and He said he was not having airtime and strated complaining how I responded to his call that morning. I tried explaining to him that I was sick and He started shouting saying if I can not manage that I should walk out of the relationship and He asked me to call back if I wished and ended the call.
To summarize everything I tried calling for like countless times and he didn't pickup, I sent a text that am sick and he replied sorry. Since then He has been showing his true self and I was scared the relationship might end, I sent him a text saying am missing him and he replied that we will talk the next day. I called the next day but His phone was switched off and after sometime connected, He requested I gave him some time that He will call me back but He didn't so I called again and He immediately sent me a text reminiscing me that I once insulted last year March and He has taken enough from me that He needs some space.
I swear with my life that I truly love this guy to a fault and I have already told every members of my family and friends about him. I most times post his picture on my social media page and everyone knows about him already. I really don't know what to do anymore. Please I need advice. Thanks so much and so sorry for the long post.

[that hostel is a student per room... No roommates because it's a single hostel unlike Abuja hostel and village hostelquote author=Kennydoc post=78160231]

Doctors battled to save an already decomposing body? Bloggers sef! Smh.

How come she lived in the university hostel and nobody knew she was dead till she started decaying? Didn't she have room mates?

Her parents reported to the school security that she was missing, yet they didn't go to her room to look for her. How come it took other students noticing the odour emanating from the room for the security to go and search there?

May her soul rest in peace.
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Irenemmeso:
I would like to return on 1st week of March, but I trust my lecturers ..lectures begins the next day!!

That's Unijos most especially Economics department...

lilmax:
this is for those who have great exes

. Yes oooooo people like us

myettiallah:
The strike will be called off today

No please

My love for this bae na die

Tonto Dike Again