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A Twitter user @simi_Sophia advised ladies not to assume they are a man's girlfriend until he says so himself.

Another lady is however of the opinion that it is way deeper than that and you need to have kids for him just to be sure.

Culled from; https://www.torimill.com/2018/03/unless-a-guy-asks-you-to-be-his-girlfriend-never-assume-you-are-lady.html

Lalasticlala Mynd44 Dominique

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NIGERIA

Must you always show how stupid you are?

A beautiful South African lady shares pictures of herself and her sister's boyfriend on a picnic date. According to the lady, her sister was unable to come with them because she of her exams.

She tweets;
"So my sister's boyfriend and I had a picnic-nyana at the beach today coz my sister was too busy studying today �❤️☺️☺️"

Some people on social media are raising the red flag for this tweet. What are your thoughts ladies?

Culled from; https://www.torimill.com/2018/03/south-african-lady-goes-picnic-date-alone-sisters-boyfriend-photos.html

Lalasticlala Mynd44 Dominique

A Nigerian man on Facebook with the name O'Thomas Rado wrote:
"A good wife is someone that bouugt a land and build a house with her own money, but use his husband name on the c of ownership."

Culled from; https://www.torimill.com/2018/03/good-wife-is-one-who-build-house-and-use-husband-as-c-of-ownership-man-ladies-reacts.html

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A Nigerian doctor identified as UGO @OrjiOkeOsisi on Twitter narrated his encounter with an abusive boyfriend who brought his girlfriend to the clinic he works in. He had battered her for cheating.

According to the doctor, the assaulted cheating girlfriend was brought to the hospital with a bleeding nose and mouth, and a dislocated shoulder.

He further stated that he gave her the number of DVSRT, but he rejected saying; they were going home to solve the issue amicably.

Read the doctor's tweets below;
"Saddest thing on my shift last night. Dude assaulted his girlfriend ‘cos he found out she was cheating, then brought her to the hospital. Time was like 1am. Young woman was bleeding from her nose and mouth. Dislocated shoulder too."

"Told him to leave the room ‘cos I needed to speak to the patient alone, this nigga refused. Told him again nicely, oga started advancing towards me, asking “who do you think you are?” Dude was huge. Grabbed my stethoscope and stood up ready to swing. I was so scared inside."

"Finally, he leaves. Gave this young woman my phone to call a friend to come get her. Packed her nose, popped the shoulder back in. Gave her the number for DVSRT. Her friend got here, you know this woman decided she going back home with the boyfriend? I couldn’t believe my ears."

"Refused further treatment. They were “going home to resolve the issue amicably” Dropped the number I gave her in the bin before she left too. I really hope she finds the strength to leave. Before her life will be stript eweh."

https://www.torimill.com/2018/03/nigerian-doctor-narrates-his-ordeal-with-a-lady-and-her-abusive-boyfriend.html

A lady who goes by the name Empressak has shared her thoughts on the Samson and Delilah story in the bible.

According to Empress, Delila was made to look like an harlot due to Samson being a very powerful man.

She wrote;
”It wasn’t for money!…..they twisted the story & made Delilah look like a duplicitous harlot . The true story is, Samson (his sexy ass), was a DEMON with locks (like many today), he had the three W’s: wit, wisdom & wood (stay woken Insta cousins) . This Rasta man had 5 Empresses and still told Delilah ” Empress you’re my #1“. Sis got tired of the other maidens “coming to her as a woman”, popping up at her job (she made sandals by the Rivers of Nazareth). These side maidens were even throwing pebbles at her house, and one night Dede had enough. So the first night Dede tried to cut his hair, it didn’t work, because he had her a little dickmatized, he cracked her back so good, she couldn’t walk to get the knife from the barn. The second night she prayed for strength, but couldn’t do it because she was with him for years & loved him (also she loved climbing on his locks to work out her arms cause she didn’t have a gym membership). But on the day of the THIRD NIGHT…one of the side maidens popped up pregnant and that was the last straw…..she did it! Delilah got a bad name because Samson was a powerful man in those days, he was a military strategist & strongest man on earth, the government needed him to fight lions and other nations of Babylon. Delilah killed herself because of the Shame and Dickpression, no one believed her. But her ancestors came to me in a dream on the sabbath and told me the real story! #IStandWithDelilah#ClearHerNameAndHonor"

https://www.torimill.com/2018/03/made-delilah-look-like-harlot-samson-powerful-man-lady.html

Lalasticlala Mynd44 Dominique

A Nigerian woman shared her marital woes on a Facebook group and the replies she got are quite interesting to read.

According to the woman, her husband hasn't been intimate with her for 2 years though they live in the same house but they are living like a tenant. She said he married a new wife and brought her home and he now gives his undivided attention to his new pregnant wife and cares nothing for her. She's now asking if she should have an affair with another man who is asking her out, seeing as she is tired of masturbating.

Read what the woman wrote below;
NO SEX WITH MY HUSBAND FOR ALMOST 2YEARS, CAN I HAVE AN AFFAIRS?
My husband has not touched me for almost 2years. Is it still wrong for me to look for someone else?
We are in a marriage of 15years with 3 boys.
Almost 5years ago he asked if I minded if he had a second wife.
I told him I did mind because I hate polygamous marriage setting but he had the second wife anyway and has had several several affairs since.
He hasn't touched me since almost 2 years, we live as flat mates.
He wouldn't let me leave with my kids because he wanted to stay in the house together with his new wife who's pregnant and centre of his attention.
A man has shown interest in me, is it still wrong to have a physical relationship with him, even though I still live with my husband.
I haven't had a physical relationship for 2years. I'm tired of masturbation and dying to be touched and pleasure by my husband but he never look at me!!
I wouldn't mind to have sex with my husband but begging him to is not an option!!
I'm only in this marriage because of my children otherwise, I would have long gone!!
I need advice please."

As expected, lots of advice were given to the woman and most of them will leave you shaking your head.

Read their advice below;

https://www.torimill.com/2018/03/no-sex-with-my-husband-for-almost-2years-can-i-have-an-affair-lady-asks-see-advice.html


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A South African mother took to social media platform, Twitter to share how proud she is of her daughter after the latter is now a fully qualified Chartered Accountant.

The mother wrote;
"I am a proud mother of a fully qualified C A #proudmommoments."

But that proud moment certainly didn’t last long after the said daughter came to the same platform to call her out; revealing her misdeeds to not only her but also her other children.

Replying her mother’s tweet, she wrote,
"Just as you’re surprised now, everyone else who’s seen her tweets have been left to wonder whether or not her actions were right but as can be seen, she chose this path to break her silence."

"Did you also mention how you physically abused me or locked me out of home on a wednesday night with nowhere to go?? How we havent spoken in a year and you showed up to your sons birthday for 25 minutes?? Or is that not social media worthy news"

"Busy preaching to other people how to Parent but you are your own childrens greatest burden."

"Also not here for people telling me this is not the way to tackle izindaba zasekhaya. I have carried the shame as a victim of this for over a year and this is how I choose to break my silence. I refuse to continue to be complicit in this lie through not speaking out."

Everyone who’s seen her tweets have been left to wonder whether or not her actions were right but as it can be seen, she chose this path to break her silence.


https://www.torimill.com/2018/03/lady-outs-estranged-mum-bragged-proud-mother-twitter.html

Lalasticlala Mynd44 Dominique

A Nigerian Mental Health Practioner has declared and given her reasons why she feels children are a burden.

In her tweet that has since gone viral, she wrote children often slow down careers, and they are very costly and time also consuming.

Read her full tweets below;
“Children are a burden (I don’t mean this in a bad way, it is what it is). They often slow down careers, are very costly and are very time consuming. It’s sad that some are carelessly brought into the world by people unwilling to make those sacrifices.”

“Without a kid you typically have to mainly worry about yourself. With a child, you have to factor them into every decision you make. You have another load to carry, you can’t be as impulsive and frivolous, you shift your way of living to accommodate them.”


https://www.torimill.com/2018/03/children-are-a-burden-they-slow-down-careers-and-are-very-time-consuming-lady.html

Lalasticlala Mynd44 Dominique

According to twitter user @BGYerwa, Boko Haram members abducted the little girl pictured below named Hauwa Musa Liman, during their attack on Rann, Borno State last week.

The sect members are yet to release the 110 girls they abducted from Dapchi, Yobe state on February 19th.

Read Babagana Ali tweet below;
"This is Hauwa Musa Liman, a Nurse, she was ABDUCTED by Boko Haram insurgents when they attacked Rann, headquarters of Kala Balge Local Government Area of Borno State. #Nigeria"
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https://www.torimill.com/2018/03/photo-of-a-nurse-abducted-by-boko-haram-members-during-the-attack-in-rann-borno-state.html

Lalasticlala Mynd44 Dominique

Nice

Two Nigerian soldiers were killed and four wounded in an ambush by Boko Haram terrorists in Borno.

The attack on Monday, February 26, happened as soldiers were travelling between the towns of Biu and Damboa.
“Our men fell into an ambush by Boko Haram terrorists while on their way to Damboa from Biu,” a military officer told AFP. They fought the terrorists and we lost two men in the fight.”
A military vehicle was also seized in the attack, he added.

Pictured below is one of the slain soldiers. His colleague, Muhammad Kabiru have taken to Facebook to pay tribute to him.

He shared his photos and wrote:
"Innalillahi wa, inna ilaihirraji, un we love you brother, but God loves you more ,Rest in perfect peace, Rest in jannatul Fiddausi, insha Allahu, we are coming very soon brother, everyone must die, That's is military life for us, May Allah guide all our soldiers, we really miss you brother."

https://www.torimill.com/2018/03/young-gallant-soldier-killed-in-ambush-by-boko-haram-terrorists-into-borno-state-photos.html

Lalasticlala Mynd44 Dominique

More; https://www.torimill.com/2018/03/south-african-domestic-violence-victim-speaks-up-after-suffering-in-silence-for-4-years.html


Lalasticlala Mynd44 Dominique

A South African woman on Twitter identified as @AmandaCwazibe who was physically abused for years by her husband has taken to her TL to expose him.

According to what Amanda said, she suffered for 4 years but stayed silent because she wanted her child to live in a two-parent home. She said she is finally speaking up because she and her child deserve better.

Amanda, from Pinetown in South Africa, went on the social media platform to share photos of injuries her husband inflicted on her by her husband.

Read her tweets below;

https://www.torimill.com/2018/03/south-african-domestic-violence-victim-speaks-up-after-suffering-in-silence-for-4-years.html

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A Nigerian woman @mummyneyi on Instagram but identified as Iyinbor Amaju ( real name) took to her Instagram page to shared this heartwarming letter her only son wrote to God, asking Him to bless her mother with another baby and help her business prosper.

Read it below;
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https://www.torimill.com/2018/02/god-bless-my-mother-with-another-baby-5-year-old-boys-heartwarming-prayers.html

biacan:
Frog voice

Your brain..
Please check if it's functioning well

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Reports came in yesterday of the wedding of the gentleman, whose pre-wedding photos went viral last year, after it was seen that he planned to marry two women the same time.

Mr Ejindu finally tied the knot with his two lovelies identified as, Ebere and Oyediya, over the weekend at Agbala Amangwu Amogudu in Abiriba, Aba State.

The ceremony had a lot of people in attendance as they came to witness the rather unusual event. The man has become a sensation on social media as many social media users keep asking how he was able to achieve the feat.

More photos from the event;
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https://www.torimill.com/2018/02/more-photos-from-the-wedding-of-man-who-wed-his-two-wives-the-same-day-in-abia-state.html

A twitter user with the handle _udanyi shared a conversation that ensued between his grandmother and a police officer.

According to him, the grandmother's driver was stopped by some police officers who had demanded to speak with the car owner.

The police officer asked her what her occupation was, which she comically replied.

He wrote;
"So the Police stopped my Grandma's driver today and asked to speak with the owner.

Police: Good afternoon Ma, what is your occupation?

My Grandma: Enjoyment. My children are taking care of me."

https://torimill.com/2018/02/see-what-a-nigerian-grandma-told-a-police-officer-who-asked-her-what-she-does-for-a-living.html

Lalasticlala Mynd44 Dominique

A "Hand of Hope" and the earliest human interaction ever recorded!

This photograph shows a 21-week-old unborn fetus reaching out towards the surgeon during an in-the-womb surgery.

The baby was diagnosed with spina bifida and would not survive if removed from his mother's womb. The operation should have been performed while the baby is still in the womb.

During the procedure, the doctor removes the uterus via C-section and makes a small incision to operate on the baby. The uterus is then restored back inside.

As the surgeon completed the surgery, the little guy reached his tiny, but fully developed, hand through the incision and firmly grasped the surgeon's finger, as if thanking the doctor for the gift of life.

https://torimill.com/2018/02/21-week-old-unborn-fetus-reach-out-towards-the-surgeon-during-an-in-the-womb-surgery.html

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A Nigerian Lady with the Facebook Handle, Itunuoluwa Ogunwuyi has attempted suicide after her man broke up with her.

Updates as regards her current state, is currently unknown, but effort is been made to gather more details.

According to her friends, Itunu wrote a suicide note that reads;

“I don’t have other chouce than to cut it short. I got betrayed by a man I deeply love, he claim he loved me too, people warned me about Imo state men, but I didn’t listen, Kenny Eze you cut my life short due to your sweet words, YOU! To my people this is my account details ***** password ***. Let the world know about me and learn from me, Sorry mum, sorry dad, I can’t hold it to people I may disappoint. IKENNA EZE, I still love you by my spirit, and no one will ever love or have baby for you in your life, Keep this date. 20-2-2018. Good bye to this wicked world. Itunu”

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https://torimill.com/2018/02/nigerian-lady-attempts-suicide-after-her-boyfriend-broke-up-with-her-leaves-note.html

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A young Nigerian writer and social commentator has written an open letter to Nigerian Rapper, CDQ and it has been published online. The writer, Mark Anthony Osuchukwu has taken to social media to share his opinion on the trending issue between Nina and CDQ.

He wrote;

Apart from being Nigerian and having Buhari as the president, another thing I don’t understand and hate is men who shame women by calling them demeaning names like slut,runz girl, ashewo, one night stand.

It irritates me in every possible way. After giving you sexual gratification and shit hits the fan, you call her a one night stand? Probably after telling her you will put only the tip.

I don’t blame some women who say men are scum. It is people like CDQ whose musical career is hinged on the love Nigerians have for noise that causes that assertion .
Ifu Ennada and CDQ.

One of the house mates spoke out saying that she was in love and because love is a stupid thing, she was giving this ingrate her school fee and handout money. And all she was paid back with was dumping her.

The undone-amala-looking artist opened his mouth and called her a bipolar bitch who was just a night stand.

It is funny how bipolar is now a word people throw around for jabs and insult. Something as serious as bipolar becomes something a supposed public figure is using against a girl who was only 17 and was in love.

She was a legal minus at the time. It can be said that CDQ was molesting a small girl. Ifu has a case in the court if she’s ready.
But the bloated elephant is on instagram calling her names.

It is just funny how we allow mad people to be celebrities in this country.

Someone that doesn’t deserve to be an idiot in a sane country is a celebrity who people stop on the road and demand for a selfie.

And on the other hands, young Nigerians who are not using their brains are calling Ifu out and insulting her as usual.

Because all we do in this country is look for a girl who speaks out about her past and use her to practice the art of being “woke”.

CDQ lacks common sense because when God was sharing it, he saw the queue and decided to remain stupid.

He should get a life really. With his music looking like a broken home with irreconcilable differences.

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https://torimill.com/2018/02/bbnaija-dear-cdq-you-are-a-mad-man-for-calling-a-17-year-old-a-one-night-stand.html

A Nigerian woman on Facebook as Rachel Daniel has taken to the social media platform to out a lady who happened to be her best friend, after the she tried to put an end to her matrimonial home.

According to the woman, she took her so-called best friend in when she had nothing, she tried her best to give her life only for her to try and snatch her husband away from her and spoil her home.

She said the her best friend was at the verge of taking her hussy away from her, she’d been having issues with her husband and they even separated but God intervened and her husband made a confession and she got to realise that her friend was the cause of her marital mishaps.

She wrote;

“This picture should go viral please, this is to all lady’s married and those in good relationship, her name is Rita Abba n use to be a very gud friend until she squat In my home n at d tym she really wants to find a man n marry, most times i pray for her, look for jobs for her thou she always don’t want to work,made her part of my family, gave her home. Never knew she had always wanted my man she tried to take my family in fact she almost succeeded but God is Awesome.I n hubby got separated for some months n he kept d kids n she Rita Abba behind me to take my place.things where moving well for her n my family, she took my kids to gboko of Benue to be with my sister in law n came back to kd.to cut long short, hubby couldn’t live with it so he came for confession, she had been the source of all mishap n conflicts. Watch out for this girl who is working for the devil n against God. She is out to destroy peaceful homes,families n relationships. Share this post n u may be saving a marriage or relationship.”

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https://torimill.com/2018/02/woman-outs-her-best-friend-who-tried-to-destroy-her-matrimonial-home.html

A Nigerian couple, Fatima and Salem got married over the weekend in Abuja, five years after they met on Twitter.

More photos below...

Nigerian man, Adamu Muhammed, shared the photo above on his Facebook page and wrote;

''CHECK LIST

Smooty Chapman= 120 Naira

Peach = 150 Naira

Chi Exotic = 400 ×3 1200 Naira

Coca Cola 150×3 =450 Naira

Bottled water 70×5= 350

GRAND TOTAL = 2, 270 Naira. This is the cost of Refreshment spread across the table of VIP's in today's Nigeria.

Subjects, President of the most populous black country on the earth. Executive Governor of a Nigerian State, 1st Class Emir and 3rd most influential Emir after Sultan and the Emir of Kano.

THIS IS THE CHANGE I VOTED FOR''.

https://torimill.com/2018/02/nigerian-man-commends-president-buhari-for-using-cheap-refreshments-says-this-is-the-change-i-voted-for.html

Minister of Information, Lai Mohammed paid a congratulatory visit to Yeyeluwa Oluwatoyin Ashabi, who recently welcomed quadruplets, three boys and a girl.

Mrs Ashabi and her husband already have four daughters and had asked God to bless them with one boy. God answered them with three boys and a girl.

One of her friends...or followers congratulated her but said she shouldn't have let the Minister carry the children as they will lie to her all the times and Ashabi replied saying '' I reject that ooo''... lol

See more photos and the comment below;

https://torimill.com/2018/02/theyll-lie-to-you-all-the-time-lady-tells-mother-of-quadruplets-she-shouldnt-have-let-lai-mohammed-carry-her-children.html

Lalasticlala Mynd44 Dominique

This male Twitter user is of the opinion that women don't mind being objectified by rich, good looking men and only protest when the man is not admirable.

The objectification of women is the representation of them as pretty little things to satisfy the lusts of men.

See the post below;

https://torimill.com/2018/02/women-dont-mind-being-objectified-by-rich-and-good-looking-men-man.html

Lalasticlala Mynd44 Dominique

An American lady named Kimberly Sanchez, has slammed Nigerians after she was duped by an online friend, who posed as Ghanaian actor, Van Vicker.

Kimberly claimed the scammer begged for help and she helped out.

However when the fake Van Vicker came back to beg for more, he revealed his intents to her which made her angry.

The American lady then took to Facebook to vent her anger on the innocent Nigerians, she wrote;
This is why people have so much Sh!t to talk about Nigerians or Ghanaians because those motherF.uckers are money hungry… I was just told that this guy that I knew as an African celeb was actually a cat fish, he asked me for help and I did help him now this motherF.ucker confessed who he was and said he did what he did for money and then asking me to forgive him, B!tch, you mean to tell you can’t find a job? You have to come online acting like an actor just to get people money? Do you even think of those women or men that has children? That’s so F.ucked up..now I see why most call Nigerians or African scammers, y’all really do love scamming people..that’s so F.ucked up and wrong..smh

However when asked if she was sure of what she was saying, she wrote;

https://torimill.com/2018/02/lady-slams-nigerians-after-being-scammed-by-a-fake-actor-van-vicker.html

Lalasticlala Mynd44 Dominique

An American lady from Chicago identified as Darneisha Shereese, is currently trending on social media after she made her cheating boyfriend Terrence Bell write ‘I Won’t Cheat No More‘ 224 times after he cheated on her.

She shared a video of him carrying out the punishment on Facebook and wrote:

‘Punish His Ass ??4 more Sheets To Go. ? Front And Back My Nigga “I Won’t Cheat No More” ?? He Mad Asl Tho’.

Watch video below;

https://torimill.com/2018/02/lady-punishes-her-boyfriend-orders-him-to-write-i-wont-cheat-no-more-224-times.html

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Nigerian singer and DMW Boss, Divide Adeleke popularly know as Davido has taken to his Snapchat account to share the nude picture a female fan sent him on Whatsapp.

So, the singer was on his own jejely, when some strange persons sent him a picture of her bare butt via his Whatsapp.

The DMW Boss felt it was necessary to take a screenshot and share the screenshot on his Snapchat page.

The singer captioned the screenshot, “Mistake kor. Lmao”, mocking the fact that the sender of the picture claimed it was a mistake after he questioned the person’s identity.

See picture below;
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https://torimill.com/2018/02/davido-shares-the-nde-picture-a-female-fan-sent-to-him-on-whatsapp.html

'Churches Must Be Mandated To Give Free Education To Children Of Their Members In Their School Or Be Forced To Close Them' - Daddy Freeze

According to radio personality, Daddy Freeze , 'churches must be mandated to give free education to children of their members in their school or be forced to close them'.

He goes on to say, 'unless we insist on this, the poor will continue receiving half baked education, while the rich, despite their religious affiliation, will be the only ones that can afford the 'church' schools, often funded by church members, a vast majority of whom, are in penury'.

https://torimill.com/2018/02/churches-must-be-mandated-to-give-free-education-to-children-of-their-members-in-their-school-or-daddy-freeze.html

Lalasticlala Mynd44 Dominique

billynoni:
The English is not understanding me

The kids decided to call the police for help but instead they went out playing claiming they've forgotten