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Bigredmachine:
The man is a fool...

Why not marry the lady before sending her to school, or who don marry no dey go school...

At times some men behaves like they don't have choices in this life which is bad...

Always read the end from the beginning, now they have left u behind, u are lamenting

Great you. Everything said here is sound.

Nice

Wow

Lovely

Let me learn.

God, Peace, Family, career.

ifytrik:
So a friend of mine who is based in Lagos state called me few weeks back and was telling about how he is earning 225$ per week working for a foreign company in Lagos, I converted the money to naira and it was almost 130thousand naira per week

I asked him if there is vacancy in the company so I will apply and he said he will do something about it, he called me yesterday and said there is vacant for two workers and he has already collected one form for me, he said I should prepare myself make sure i come over to lagos between today (Friday 26th Nov 2021) to(Monday 29th Nov 2021)

He said the registration fee is 450thound naira, and I must come with the money, he also said if I fail to come before or on Tuesday morning next week then they will give the job to someone else.

Nairalanders based in Lagos state please help a brother, I don't want to be scammed, do you know of such company? Could this be real or another mmm?

my advice is for you not to go. Scam is small, your life may be at risk here.

Deborah98:
Exactly what gets me scared each time I remember that one day my condition will improve or be in a better position boom you start attracting enemies just like that, and if care isn't taken you might be a goner without enjoying one tenth of your wealth. Uwa di egwu

This is why you should have Christ, serve Him truly and you will be fine. Even your wealth will be clean. Jesus gives wealth without adding sorrow.

Badgers14:
13. Do not cut corners.

14. Do not do any "favors" always follow companies policy.. don't be surprised that the person you did favors for will be the one to turn you in.

15. For the men, be careful the kind of joke or words you use around your female colleagues. They might laugh then but they usually save it for later and can cash in the future at your expense. (Yes, the reason why I didn't say women be careful.... is because in the corporate world, when this roles are reversed, it really holds water. Example, a guy tells blonde, hey Ashley you look nice today, I like your shirt, it showed your burst.
And a lady walks by and hits the guy on the chest, and feels his muscles hey Brad, you are buffed up with full chest, you slept at the gym all weekend? I like your shirt by the way, it shows your full broad chest.

Notice the difference, the guy just made a comment but the lady actually touched the guys chest in addition to making a comment ... usually, shamefully HR looks at the 2 cases differently and first and foremost.. the guy in this example will rarely report an incident like that , most men will not make anything out of it... but women

I like your contribution.

I am tired of Africans. So now he will be Davido's enemy because of how Davido decides to spend his money.

Toks2008:
I decide to drop this after reading a condescending post about a mother of 3 that just got married to a popular fuji artiste and i implore everyone to read this with an open mind.

Polygamy may not be appropriate for everyone but it remains a viable option for certain groups. Polygamy in Islam is a norm and there is no part in the Bible that forbids it or tags it a sin but rather it is Permissible just as GOD permits Divorce.

The concept of Polygamy is not about Men having many wives but it is geared towards ensuring that every lady who wants to get married can easily have a husband thereby curbing the act of sexual immorality.

Sometimes what may seem inappropriate may be an ideal option and talking about polygamy, i will strongly advise the following group of ladies to give it a thorough consideration.

1. THE WIDOW/DIVORCEE: Except a lady is still very young at the time she lost her husband or got divorced and she has no kids then she just might be fortunate to easily get a single guy who would love to marry her but as we know, many widows and divorcees are usually with kids and of age which makes them more appealing to married men rather than single guys who would prefer to go for young never married ladies. So If you are in this group, stop bothering your head hoping for a single guy except you just want to be toyed with. Consider marrying a married man who is willing to love and care for you.

2. THE NEVER MARRIED LADIES IN THEIR 40s: Many ladies in this group usually have this hope that there just might be one single guy who will be willing to settle down with them AND YES it is very possible just that the chances of this happening is very low. Most guys usually get married in their 30s and except they see a divorcee or a widower then they just might be lucky but unfortunately, even the widower or divorcee will still most likely prefer to go for far younger ladies which makes it even more difficult to come across single guys. My candid advise for this group of ladies is to get a responsible man to settle with regardless of his marital status.

3. THE NEVER MARRIED SINGLE MUMS: I have so many single mums as friends and the common mind-set they still have is that there is one single guy out there who will gladly marry them and some of them have remained celibate for years because according to them, they don't want to marry a married man and they are scared of single guys.... I think it just doesn't make any sense to continue hoping for one single guy to leave millions of ladies without kids to marry you. In most cases, this set of ladies get used by single men who just want to catch cruise with them. If you belong to this group please consider settling down with one responsible married man and avoid getting used by fvk boys in the name of looking for a single guy to marry.

4. THE IMPATIENT MONEY LOVERS/GOLD PICKERS: I honestly see nothing wrong in wanting a made guy after all, everyone has the right to make a choice but the problem i have with this set of ladies is when they put so much demand on a young progressive guy to provide what he can't. Wealth is progressive and except a man is very lucky to make huge money in his early age, I strongly believe that the best bet is for such a lady to look for one rich married man to marry because in most cases, it is men who are married and advanced in age that will be able to provide the type of life style this group of ladies desire .

5. THE UNLUCKY ONES: This group of ladies cut across all ages. They are just unlucky with single guys. They have tried many relationships with single men but they are just so unfortunate and they are totally fed up. My advice to them is to consider polygamy as there are many married men out there who will be willing to marry them and make them happy for as long as they live. It just doesn't make any sense to settle for a jerk just because you want a single man for yourself when there are super responsible married men ready to treat you like a queen.

6.THE SUGAR BABIES: This group of ladies are usually very young and to them, it is ok to date married men or sugar daddies who can take care of them but when it comes to marriage, it is a taboo for them to marry such men. I honestly do not understand how a lady will be having sexual relationship with a married man, enjoy the lavish lifestyle he provides but will find it difficult to marry same man and the worst twist is that in most cases, even after this set of ladies get married, they still linger in the relationship with their sugar daddies. No be juju be dat?


Make i stop here

whose homes should they break? Whose children should they turn to vagabond? Let's always consider the implications of our posts. Let's be reasonable with our posts please.

Kholiwe:
Keep quiet. If you are a coward say so and keep shut.

is this how to attract a guy you admire so much? Because I know you certainly want my attention.

massinola:
I will be as brief as possible.
I recently opened a barbing salon shop. Within the area I opened this shop, there's this couple living there. The man does nothing for a living. He's a drunkard. The woman on the other hand sells black market fuel and oil to make ends meet.

They gave birth to 6 children (yes, you heard right). Since I entered that street, I noticed a serious domestic violence going on in that family. The man after drinking, uses his wife and children as punching bags. This is not occasionally. On a daily. I'm seriously disturbed. A little arguement and the man goes straight to the woman's fuel and oil and pours everything away.

Even when he's the one provoking the woman, he goes to the woman's properties and starts damaging everything.

The worst is that no body in the street says anything. They all say they are used to them.
I'm seriously disturbed because the man always threatens to pour fuel on the woman and set her ablaze always.

On many occasions, he carries huge sticks to kill the woman like a snake.
People around always say he can't do it. On my side, I'm really disturbed, because I have seen where domestic violence caused a disaster. I fear that one day, the man might carry out his threats.

Today a serious fight broke out between the man and the wife. The man was beating the last born of the house that's just a year plus like a mad man. The wife couldn't bear it anymore and faced the man. He was beating all of them like animals. Looking for cutlass and 2by2 to use on them. People were passing and didn't even care. I couldn't bear it anymore. He was trying to smash the woman's phone on the main road. One small girl went to rescue the woman and the phone. The way this man flung the lady eeh, that was when I stepped in, collected the phone and told the man that if he tried touching the woman and the children again, I would bury him alive. I was very mad. I asked the woman what he's still doing with the man. Or is she waiting for people to carry her corpse before she flees for her life? The phone is still with me. I'm confused on what to do.

This man needs to be stopped before a disaster strikes. It's just a matter of time. I fear for the woman's life seriously.
What can I do to help the situation guys. I'm really disturbed.

Op you have tried. But my advice now that you also need to be careful with that man. You don't know what is going on in his mind towards you.

SundayNightGist:
You add practical value by making sure you're supplying work or ideas capable of:

1. saving your company money
2. making your company money
3. helping your company to make an impact
4. giving your company any form of competitive edge
5. giving your company a good name

good

Okay

zoedew:
MANY WHO BUILD SOLID HOUSES NOT ONLY PUT IRON BARS IN THE ROOF THEY ALSO BUILD THE CONCRETE WALLS EXACTLY UP TO THE ROOFING SHEETS SUCH THAT INTRUDERS CANNOT EASILY MOVE FROM ROOM TO ROOM IN THE UNLIKELY EVENT THEY MAKE IT PAST THE ROOF BURGLARY PROOF IRON BARS.

mmm

Juliusmomoh:
Oga sonnobax15... I hear you..

Na dat my uncle i de talk about o..

The man no get joy..
I don de fear this life .. I swear.


Lalasticlala

no need to fear just accept Jesus. If you read your bible very well, these were things Jesus confronted and Jesus defeated them openly.

ersonleads:
I'm presently working with a reputable company. I met a girl I really flow with. She's matured & understanding. She's in her 400level in school & I said within myself never to let her pass me by. We've come to a compromise that she should finish before I take her to the alter. Want to do so when She's 22yrs of age. I'm 11yrs older than her.

Please I need your Advice if I'm doing the right thing?

the most important thing is that, is it the will of God? Then do you both agree to work together? As for age...read up on the age difference between Joke Silver and Olu Jacobs. When u are done, move to Omotola Jolade and captain Ekeinde. Bye.

Nice

Prices don't ever come down under thi government. It is always going up.

Honeysweetest:
not just in the church pls,read my comment about this, you will understand better,just make sure you have a relationship with God.

relationship is important and your service should not affect it in any way. However, you need to work for Him.

Honeysweetest:
No bro,study to show your self approved, meaning,study that Christ might reflect in u,a workman that don't need to be ashamed but rightly dividing the word,he did not say rightly working in the church,a workman that understand that wherever he is,he is there as a work force for Christ,shining forth as a light,but you can't achieve all these until you get to know God through studying of his word.

Workforce for Christ? That means a worker, either in the evangelical team, ushering dept. Etc.

Honeysweetest:
lies,you know God more through studying his word,you knowing him through your obedience to his word,your personal experience of him,you don't know him through that department,you can work in the church and still be an ignorant Christian.

how do you obey His word that says you have to study to show yourself approved. A workman that is not ashamed...?

This is lovely. My advice is that you keep it up brother.

Nezzjnr:
Some people get to look down at you if you aren't in a Department in the church or do stand a chance of loosing out of God's blessings.

I feel it's your personal relationship with God.

You have to work for God. In fact, that is how you grow and know God more.

Okay

Do your research very well and you will find out more about them online. Search for there names and address (preferably separately) on Nairaland search and google search.

At an interview venue, what goes through your mind when you see other interviwees (particularly those that are friendly and interact with you )?

Do you see them as "they that strive with thee?

Or do you have the spirit of sportsmanship "it's a free world"?

Let's play. Key into the fun. Over to you Nairalanders.

AutoChick4U:
Thanks

welcome

AutoChick4U:
But they say its nothing as we are meant for it.

you know those who do not wear a shoe does not know where it pains.

Lamanii22:
You just have to care more for your wife sir.... Women go through a lot too....

Thanks so much ma'am. You are wonderfully made and your huband is blessed.

Lamanii22:
It's not only you.... Even after childbirth... I'm still feeling the pain...

change this your pic on NL. Don't let people be disturbing you for your husband. Smiles. Really women are trying. Now I just have one more reason to love and care for my wife.