Kobojunkie:
please help me ask Ada Why she can't work, and save up herself towards the car and the trip she wants?

Why must her husband be the one to deliver on that? What is her worth as a part of the union?

You know in our clime here,man is a provider.

But in other clime,e.g India if your papa no get money nobody will marry his female child... Women paid dowry over there.

Davash222:
Conclusively, Ada is senseless.

Is not that she was senseless,but she based her thoughts on wrong assumptions

A 37 years old lady chatted me last 2weeks, let's call her Ada. Ada came to me and complained that her husband's best friend from childhood who works in the same office with her husband and earns the same amount of salary saved up money, bought his wife a car and they went to Maldives for her 40th birthday.

Ada said she suspects her husband was cheating on her and he must have been giving money to another woman that is why he's always broke. She wanted me to post it on my wall so that people will "advice her" on action to take to catch her husband. Because I do not post Junks on my wall, I started asking her some questions.

We did a messenger call. After much questioning and running back to back analysis without prejudice, we discovered somethings.

Read carefully.

Ada husbands childhood friend's wife works with a travel agency while Ada sells beads, zips and other tailoring items.

Childhood friend has 2 children. Twin boys of 17 who just entered university. Ada has 5 kids age 2, 5, 8, 11 and 13.

Childhood friend is the last child out of 3 children, but Ada's husband is the 2nd born but first son out of 6 children.

Childhood friend has no father and mother again, but Ada's husband has a mother but no father,

Mrs Childhood friend's parents are retired Judges, but Ada's parents are in the village.

Mrs Childhood friend has just a younger brother who is an Air force officer and married with 2 kids, Ada has 3 younger siblings who are still struggling.

So if Ada's husband earns 300k,
He would pay the school fees of 5 children of which two are toddlers, send money to his mother, sort out one or two bills for some siblings,

While Childhood friend would just pay for 2 children school fees, he has no younger siblings to cater for, his wife's parents are well taken care off, he has no parents to send money to.

Mrs Childhood friend with her knowledge with the travel agency she works with knows when to get good ticket prices, she knows when they get bonus, she knows those countries that offers Visa on Arival like Rwanda, Maldives, Uganda and the Rest. She has no younger siblings to care for so she can save up her salary or commission to grab some last minute flight deals.

But Ada is just zip and button seller, if she sells, she would send money to her siblings.

Both men works and earn the same, but their responsibilities are different... way way different.

By the time I highlighted these to her she felt guilty. I made sure she sees these because she was the one answering the questions.

Sometimes, before you pressure yourself over someone's achievements, think of the responsibilities you have.

You might earn more than a person who has a flashy car and lives in a good apartment, but you have more responsibilities than that person.

Someone earning 40k might be living your dream life and traveling round the world, but you who is earning 150k would think your village people has tied your destiny.

People would wonder why you don't dress well,
They would mock you that you don't know how to save money or plan your life like them,
They will say upon all your money you can't afford iphone 13 or human hair or nice suits.

Check the bills you have to pay,
Check the things that eats your money and praise yourself. Its not everyone that even have the luxury of saving.

Some of us as the money comes, if we don't spend it on ourself and eat bole and fish, our phone will ring and one person is asking for 5k.

You'll be paid 50k and in 30 minutes you're seeing something that resembles 2k in your account.

Some of you are actually doing better than you know, but you're so busy looking at other peoples farms and counting their achievements that you can't see yours.

Comparison leads to unhappiness.


Culled from
WhatsApp family group discussion

Is good to give birth to children early in life ...

Pasuma is in his early 50...

Congrats to him(Pasuma),his daughter and the entire family.


I guess that lady is the one he used to sing praise of lai diz

....Opeyemi l'America ma ma ree(fuji-tone)...

Zero sympathy for any polithievians...


You people just dey use us play ludo... That's your fight bro.



Bubu is still a bastard of thousand fathers.

Coded yahooo... Na which kind online business be that wey lack nomenclature? Tell us the name biko!


U dey whinne us abi?


Bad child, he bribed his malle with plasma TV to distract the old woman with TELEMUNDO....hmmm too much brain.

Congrats to you... In everything you do,don't think of coming back to Nigeria for now..

Goodluck,God's speed

eagleonearth:
hugs bro that's the gbamest brotherly advice. The only time I remember I attended a higher institution is when I speak some queen's

Same energy bro... See you at the top

mailemy:
Exactly. Going to school is not just about the degree but an avenue to discover other things. The world right now revolves around what you can offer and not just your certificate.

You're point sir

U better throway your certificates and wakeup... Go and hustle on the street,I must let you know that even PhD holders self are not excepted from this employment palava...

Do you want to hear? It has gotten to a state of abysmal that even a PhD holders(first class honours) are been paid on semester basis at some of our private universities a sum of #150k(as part-time lecturers)....

Do the maths,that's 50k per month....To buy what,in this Buhari government ?


Pls forget certificate and hustle like an illiterates....

Streets calleth thee,don't tarry any longer cause hunger-bad ooo

Ijapa tiroko oko yanibo....


See as the tortoise dey blush like your VP for Aso...lol



I remember all those bullcrap we were taught in primary school in those days

Coming from a confirm AJ's fan... He couldn't withstand such rigor and test of strength and original agidi(ruggedity) displayed in this boxing match by both boxers...


Salute to Deotay Welder...


Six pack no be stamina abegy

I followed Niyola since day one at EME,there was a particular time she herself confirmed been in relationship with Mr Banky W,but things got sour imidiately Adesua Etomi entered baba W'eyes.... Niyola was sidestepped...



This lady didn't want to spill the beans on that yawa....

Goodluck to her and the girls men don used to shine their kondo/dikksons.

Snake abuse

Empty hen is down here too...

Southwest Nigeria


Come and see how Airtel is jumping like rocket....


I smell a rat

Empty hen is down natiowide

Empty Hen is down


Empty hen is down

I repeat empty hen is down

The writer of that script was confused... See as the mumu was repeating same story like a recycling machine.

I need the following info

Model/year

Snap the mileage

Engine.

Since the trick of open breast like mama-dog no pay... She don pack up the business....


Bressident

Prison that the guy won't stay for 24hrs... Na another person would replace him there... Nigeria is finished

No wonder nobody heard anything about him again.... He bite the finger that fed him.


I heard he said he can't boast of 1milllion naira in his account now?

Drug trafficking money.... Music is just a cover up

Guyman02:
Western media with Russia and Putin obsession. America spent 4 years of Trump discussing Putin and Russian meddling in their elections while China was expanding its reach and Taliban were encircling Afghanistan which America's version of Buhari called Joe Biden left in disgrace with people falling from US military aircrafts.

France, Germany and EU are in panic mode in Mali because their Govt wants to invite Russia to help them deal with 'Islamic' extremists which France has been 'helping' Mali to fight in 20 years while stealing so much mineral resources.

France knows that Putin shows no mercy to western funded 'Islamic' terrorists as we see in Syria, that's why we are getting all these smear campaigns, Putin said it's the work of God to forgive terrorists while his own job is to send them to meet God.

General Ihejirika went to Russia to acquire weapons when Obama refused selling weapons to fight Boko Haram and brought mercenaries from South Africa called Dogs of War (this is why an Igbo man can't smell the position of Chief of Army Staff under Buhari because they will destroy the bandits ,) northern elders panicked and begged Obama to sabotage the effort which he did.

Every terrorist dreads Russia because they will chook bayonet into your nyash, CNN and BBC watchers will never understand what I am saying here
Meanwhile America even does worse in Guantanamo bay but their media won't talk much about it

You sir,your brain is functioning well.... I doff cap for this analysis.

So no military exercise in North East only in South East... Think my people

BigYash:
You no get sense at all. I no fit follow pig reason ,go find your mates.. Getat of here swine!

Your papa really made a big mistake in churning out a never do well like you out of his loin... What a big shame

KIDfurniture:
My concern is the yearly staff death.. my family will not work in any of that company. It's too risky

This is deep.... Only for the wise

BigYash:
Thunder fine you abi?

Thunder that had already set your left bumbum on fire.... Stupid thing

BigYash:
You be juju priest? Na you help am package am?
Your mouth no go kill you shall.. Shout Amen!

And may your lack of home training no put your senses in jeopardy... Say a thunderous amen?

Juju money well invested... Pls who get ludo make we play here