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MissRaine69:
That was painful to read!

this is what happens every single time i try to start up a convo with most Nigerian girls on social media. i prefer the silent treatment to this.

princ007:
Trying

When you stop trying is when you have given up.

princ007:
No no no... Tired of trying

Tired of trying or tired of failing?

MissRaine69:
I don’t know all tall women so cannot speak for them. I do know me however and that’s my experience

Maybe you don't like the tall ones that do like you.

princ007:
Good morning sir

Yeah, it's looking like a good morning. Hope you are planning on trying something different today?

MGK - Home

princ007:

Your Highness.

MissRaine69:
If you are 6 feet and female dating someone taller is a dream ....
But it seems tall guys avoid tall women..why?

Wrong, I adore tall women, but the most of them have personality issues compared to their average counterparts.

mamicy:
I Actually think there is no difference coz both ladies are both cheated on .....

The side chick knows she is dispensable, and most times the side chick knows about the main chick.

The reverse is the case for the main chick.

All of them

JamesReacher:
Dude!! this is what I'm talking about, u think its about enticing ladies with money or whatever ur definition of real man is, sleep there while Mr smooth operator is kpanshing ur babe with retweets, sweet words etc

Go on then kid,
But don't step out of your league.

JamesReacher:
Damn fool, I kiss everything on a lady but ass The nigga is like me, he would smash this night and u would still be behind ur screen judging. The nigga has balls man, retweets for pussy, talk about tact

I won't try to stop you from the Fvckboy career you are seriously gunning for, just know that real Guys don't need 500 retweets to ask a lady out.

JamesReacher:
Nigga, the dude get balls. He's not a poverty stricken fellow, you think the lady would just agree randomly to any dude, she probably would have checked him out too. Beyonce would be lucky to have u?? looool

Yep I see asking a woman out requires "balls" for you lot.

And you call your self a man, am sure you will kiss the floor most beautiful girls walk on.

Something stinks all over your post.
My God it's the stench of a Juvenile.

Hey hurry and go back and play in the betting section with kids just like you.

JamesReacher:
The guy get balls pass u, check what self esteem means

Nigga, I won't snap a pic and post it on social media even if am on a date with Beyonce, cos you know why?
I know what am worth, Beyonce will be lucky to have me

Not


The other way round, like your friend with balls has done.
So because this girl is on date with him, he is how relevant.

It's your likes that will go and try to steal the moon just to impress a woman, cos you lack self esteem.

For you to say the guy has balls shows you lack understanding about how things work.

Yep,
Another guy with self esteem issues.

locust:
united o

Oh, make we dey watch.

womanofsteel:
Op,its up to you if you want to leave or stay.
You're finding it difficult because you're a broke ass nigga.
How will a girl be proud of you and respect you when you're broke, ugly and so thin with body/armpit odour and immature by coming to nairaland to seek advice on our relationship

Please do me a favour and leave for good. Finally you've seen the writing on the wall

Wait are you the girl the OP is talking about?

locust:
Cool, brother. Snapping it off with champions league, although my people neva gree score. How ur side baba?

Which team

iamnlia:
And I'm the messiah

I will contact you when I need saving

locust:
Hahahaha.. Bomb dey una heads.


Pryme baba I salute. Welcome bros

Thanks Boss, how was your day.

princ007:
Yeah! You're welcome.. I am the queen here, while locust is the king.... Welcome to the family.

Thanks your Highness, hope to be more alive here

Having to be the right hand marker

Henitan24:
In an Age of gender equality and radical feminism, it is quite telling how we expect so little from women but so much from men. The hypocrisy is obvious. The double standard is apparent. Yet, they want equality.

In the 21st Century politically correct and affirmative action world, we seem to have lowered the bar for women. And we will pay for it.

Like I always say in a jocular manner, hell knows no gender. There's no women-friendly hell. Hell recognizes TRUE gender equality. Hell BURNS everyone EQUALLY. But this generation does not seem to get the memo. I'll explain why I say this.

I was once watching a Morning Talk Show on TV. The hosts on the show were ALL women. A wife had just murdered her husband in cold blood. I couldn't stop shaking my head as I watched these women struggling to RATIONALIZE the evil she had committed.

They blamed depression, they considered the possibility of mental instability and bottled up emotions. What they were doing was obvious. They were trying hard to make us see the killer woman as A VICTIM rather than a MURDERER!

On this same show, when a man killed his wife, the women spared no venoms. They called for outright justice. Although, some of them attempted dismissively to finger depression but the general consensus was clear. Justice!

Guys, we live in a world that underestimates women and always treats them as victims. Yet, the same world wants equality for them. This is evident in the latest story of a woman who stabbed her husband to death while he was asleep. Some people are already seeing her as a victim of depression or mental illness. Just imagine for once that it was the husband that did this. The outrage would be out of this world. There is simply no excuse for evil. Evil is evil.

There's no worse place where this bar has been lowered more than in the West. It's pathetic over there.

A woman claimed she was sexually assaulted more than 30 years ago when she was a minor by a man now running for Senate. This was 30 years ago. The alleged assaulter had been in public service for roughly 28 years, but there was dead silence. Now that he is running for Senate, the woman suddenly found her voice.

When she was asked why she kept silent about the assault for 30+ years, guess her response;

"Because no one asked. But now people are asking"

Just imagine. She kept quiet about it for three decades because no one asked? And the Western Media believed her!

OK, so let's back up a bit. Are people supposed to start asking EVERY woman out there if they had been sexually abused before they speak out? Do you see what we(female) are doing? It's very clear.

Because they do not want to blame the women who irresponsibly kept silent, they blame the WHOLE WORLD for not "asking"! Can you now see how low the bar is for women in the West?

Perhaps, if this woman had reported the assault to an adult immediately, the assaulter could have been stopped from hurting others. But no, blame the world for not asking her about it because everyone in the world should be telepathic.

Even sadder is the fact that if you dare blame the woman's irresponsible silence and opportunistic behavior, they would accuse you of victim-shaming. Yeah, she is the victim. A woman who kept quiet for three decades about an ALLEGED assault is a victim. In a sane world, those who keep quiet when a crime is committed are not called VICTIMS. We call them ACCOMPLICES.

The whole Western World has gone nuts.

We must put an end to the idea that women are always victims even when they clearly are not. We must stop bending the rules for them. Especially now that we want equality with men. Fair is fair.

Until that is done, we are not ready for real progress. We are just virtue signalling and being politically correct morons.

#truthissacred

I applaud the message, but not the messenger.

Towncrier007:
She's very honest,and smart as well,what's wrong deleting chat? it takes nothing for anyone to delete a chat

Guy stop to dey dull find I fine girl and upload her pic to your dp, and use "happy birthday sweetie "

Give her a taste of her own medicine


Start looking for someone new.

ZubbyGodson:
Can there be solution to these things or should one break out if they are problems in a relationship?

1. She Always get forced before doing anything. Even after that, does it for a while and goes back to the status quo
2,Always eager to go into a tussle with me. Respects today and disrespects tomorrow.
3.Relentful towards apologizing first after every fight unlike women's nature.
4. In most instances, do not feel proud telling friends and relatives about me. Have even declined meeting some important persons in my life if not that I persuaded.
5.Getting romantic , making me feel appreciated is only when I make the steps first or demand for it
6. Repetition of whatsoever I've previously warned her not to do is what she derives joy in doing and can even stand a fight to defend that course
7. Previously attempted calling me names
8. Gets angry when corrected
9. Ladies naturally wants attention and care and so gives it out so they can get it in return.yours is just the opposite.you just want to be there. No creativity,nothing to spice up relationship.

You guys need a break

xpellion:
Dear Nairalanders,
I beckon on you for help as this platform has always been a source of inspiration for me and a way to get the most honest advise particularly when people share issues bothering their mind and get other people's straight advice. Right now I am very confused as I recently got a job of close to a 100k salary after been out of a job for a while due to the economic recesssion that hit the country. I feel part of what made me lose my previous job was the fact that despite been comfortable beyond my standard I chose not to get married and rather play around while waiting for the money to accumulate to a very confident level. I have promised myself not to engage in any form of immoralities but I am still not convinced that a 100k salary is even enough to cater for a family and thus why should I be thinking of getting married. As for me this issue is from a moral perspective as I currently have a fiancee and the tenets of my religion strongly oppose having sex before marriage so she coming in as a girlfriend while I wait till am fully ready is out of the picture... the question now is should I go ahead and marry her now bearing in mind that she has nothing doing for now and that I will be the one solely responsible for the upkeep of the family.
I really hope I get the best advice here cos have been pondering over this issue for weeks now and am totally confused. Thank you all in advance.

I think you should also share your worries with your fiance, this will show if she can be supportive or she will belittle you. This will tell you if she will be a good patner.

Waw, never knew a thread like this exists

zenmaster:
You are not from Lagos. Why are you so pained about Igbos and Lagos sef

Anyway am surprised that you guys have not yet claimed Sambisa forest it's desperately looking for a new owner.

horsepower101:
Nigerian constitution makes the whole of Nigeria No Mans land. Nigeria constitution does not recognize ethnic nationality claims on land. The problem is not from igbos calling a place no mans land. The problem is with the Nigerian constitution itself that nullifies ethnic claims to land. I hope you better understand.

Oh Dear, there is light in the end of the tunnel, but in your own case am afraid it may be a train.

So all of a sudden you now know the Nigerian constitution, but when it comes to IPOB and BIAFRA, you spit on the same constitution.

OK, since you said the constitution makes Nigeria no mans land, how come it was in the constitution to have 36 ministers, or were those 36 ministers supposed to come from no man's land?

zenmaster:
How can you sell land and still have the right to claim the said land?

You see what sufferstication has done to your brain

Who said something about selling land in post you just quoted, or is that how you easily sell your inheritance?

zenmaster:
I am sure you are not from Lagos

Do I have to be? Next you will claim Kaduna is no man's land by the time you are done with Lagos