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cbi24:
End time stupidity... What do u mean?

'Women with bigger butts are healthier and smarter"
is a stupid statement.

Women with bigger butts are healthier and smarter?

Statements like this makes me believe in end-time stupidity.

Zealoy:
there's this girl I like so much though we've been in a talking terms with each other but i've not actually have d time to officially as her out cuz am a busy guy and she's also a busy type, though I am contemplating on asking her out I mean asking her to be my girlfriend though I don't know if it's appropriate, pls guys is it adviseable to ask a girl out on WhatsApp?

Use WhatsApp to know each other better. Once you are comfortable with each other, you guys can talk about anything.

On the other hand not all girls can keep up a conversation. So it may or may not work.

Op, this can't happen in Nigeria.

We stand a better chance getting hit by a space ship, than this happening.

Michhy123:
Good day FAM,
I just want to know, is it alright for me to be checking my guy phone.? I'm not that type but I just stumble on one that says " baby I'm missing u so much.. I feel like fucking you. You are the best in the whole world." When I asked him he said I shouldn't mind his chat oh...but then he protect his phone as if tomorrow will not come....
The relationship is just 5month.

It's not too late to walk away now. The worst mistake you will do is believing you can change him.

But if you have a stomach for drama, then by all means enjoy the relationship.

Rorachy:
Not all men cheat.

Thanks for that correction.
I don't know why ppl will say things they don't know.

It's funny that the Op is blind to the Advice on her own DP.

Op, you should let the ladies tell us what they like.
Let the ladies do the talking here.

You might learn something.

IamKashyBaby:



Im always curious abt the past and the future so yes..please gimme the PURPLE

Come to think of it,
we might use this to wreck the bookies, go to future and find out the correct scores, come back in time and stake on it

MissCokie:

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Asari Dokubo blasts Donjazzy for criticizing Diezani Madueke

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Former Niger Delta militant leader, Mujaheed Asari Dokubo has weighed in on the alleged $90 billion fraud charge levelled against Nigeria’s former minister of Petroleum, Diezani Alison-Madueke.


The video was published on Facebook, and has gained millions of views.

Dokubo, called President Buhari and his cabinet members liars. He said that if Diezani Madueke truely looted $90 billion at the current exchange rate and returned it as widely reported, the government would not need to borrow from foreign institutions to finance infrastructural development across the country.


Watch the video and share your views:

Lalasticlala Mynd44


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cppMXd7EB2o

Lol, do you also frequent the politics section?

mrdezx:
igbos don't know what they are doing to themselves

No Bro,
The IPOBs don't know what they are doing to the Ibos.

And this is "stunning art'?

It's obvious the Op has a sick taste

kenx1:
The preparation for marriage should be something of joy and happiness, but mine has been different I have noticed lots of changes with my fiancée from nagging to bn arrogant. I'm beginning to have cold feet and might be calling it off..... can someone please advise me....is it normal for na lady to go through this phase during preparation for her wedding.....please help a confused mind

The writing is on the wall.
Try and ask yourself this, will you sign a life time contract with so much uncertainty.
Remember even in church you are asked to sign, that means emotions and religion is set aside.

Marriage is life time a contract not a holiday.

So think about it.


"Some ppl shine so bright that they blind you from seeing who they really are"

allen4264:
I was out with my wife at night for karaoke. 10 mins later, went down to talk to the DJ, A minute later, my wife ran to me and said we should leave, that she saw her ex, and shes trying to avoid him coming to say hi to her, I was like wow, but hes not the 1 that brought us here, she replied plz lets leave, I said chill first, continued my convo with DJ, after I was done, we went back to sit, she was like again, can we go? I was now like, ok let him come and say hi to u, if that can make u stop telling me we should leave. Next thing, she said, ok hes gone, "expresses relief. I was so mad inside of me, I didnt let it show @ all, I code am well, and didnt say anything about it further, and we acted like nothing just came up now and we enjoyed the rest of the night. Peeps, how would you have handled the situation? We know we all have different women as wives and they'll always be different in their ways, but on a general note, how would you have handled such situation? The same way I did, or otherwise? If otherwise, please share with us here. Cheers!

You acted well.
But you must understand, every man every man had a past before you met them. Some handle their past well and make peace with their past and move on.
While some move on without making peace with their past.

She is your wife I believe you guys can talk about anything. So you might want to talk about it with your wife. There is what we call "closure" I think your wife needs one.

As for all the Ppl calling the Op names, saying she is doing it for online fame you ppl are the type that eat and sleep social media.

I mean what do you gain from social media fame. Fame in a faceless forum?

Honestly some ppls Tomfoolery is the stuff off legends.


Anyway I understand its difficult for ppl with coconut water brains to put up a meaningful debate.

2buffagain:
Honestly, the only person to blame/be taught is the boy.
HE needs to be taught to value his resources the way slay queens value their "affections".

If slay queens keep attempting to slay wallets yet no man gives into their foolishness, they will eventually get with the program and find themselves a job.
As long as there are foolish buyers, there will always be sellers. Such is the law of supply and demand.

I think we live in a time where the self-esteem of our young men are under heavy attack.
The key to fixing most of a person's life issues is by fixing that person's self-esteem.
When it comes to the fixing our young men's self-esteem, it is the women in his life that can help him the most.

Women have no idea what their words do to men. Your words penetrate us because we have no natural defense against a woman's words (I could care less what some other man thinks). Women's words either build us up, or break us into a million pieces, even if he doesn't show it.
The way to help men is by giving the young men in your lives more verbal validation. More verbal praise. More verbal upliftment that he is a fine, solid man who deserves more in life than being an ATM to empty headed, crotch-bleeding imbeciles.

Women are not the only ones who need verbal appreciation and upliftment to increase in self-respect. We are all souls and made of the same gooey stuff inside.

....all that being said...the way some slay queens look.....konji na bastard

Your post is stuffed with class.

A 1000 likes.

Great stuff

MissRaine69:
At work I am in professional mode
That's how I make my living.

Then let's face it, you will be terrible Boss to those slay queens that believe all they have to do is "sit still and look pretty"

Cant you just be bad at something

MissRaine69:
No not at all, wisdom comes with experience and I have a lot of experience of dealing with females who are threatened by women who don't fit into their stagnant worlds.
Plus I make an excellent boss

Some ppl never learn from experience, I guess you are an ardent student.

As for being an excellent Boss? hey cmon who are you kidding? Who will be able to keep up with you

MissRaine69:
You are still here? Semantics this is what all this is about.
Anyway work calls. I have a full day ahead. Maybe one day you will work for me?

I heard women made terrible Bosses cos of their mood swings.

I just admire how you counter and discard all the multiple attacks coming your way.

Are you related to Wonder Woman?

MissRaine69:
There is a time and place for everything

Is your email working?

MissRaine69:
Why do you feel the need to be accepted? It's not that you cannot say no , you can but instead of saying no you feel obligated to placate. Unfortunately if you don't grow a backbone soon you will forever be taken advantage off there is no getting away from that.
Being assertive and understanding self esteem does not come naturally to everyone. You have mentioned that you don't do it for glory that maybe so, but your behaviour has its roots in tying to fit in and money buys you passage. You are accepted by I suspect by the majority of your friends because you give them something and they know you are a walk over.
Are you open to learning how to be a bit more assertive?

Don't you have any evil bone in your body? At least just lash out for once.

RaggedyAnn:
Let's stop acting like illiterates by accepting the self-serving utterances of any one man. The way to go about this is to physically take stock.

Runs Girls roll call

ModusOperandi:
certainly. You could recommend some good ones.

OK, let me start you off with rock bands that have female lead singers.

Evanescence
Flyleaf
Icon for Hire

Augustap:
I guess you wanted to say its not nice to be going in and out of ppls lives. Anyways, lovely relationships sometimes comes by luck and i know a few who are so lucky, it also takes maturity and priority.

i couldnt agree more

Augustap:
That is true sha, beauty isn't all abt a fine face, a beautiful heart too counts. You have to search carefully to avoid mistakes

my dear relationship is like rolling a dice, you just pray you win. cos ppl are like melon, you just have to open them to see whats inside. its nice to be going in and out of ppls lives because you are searching for that person....

sometimes i wish you can tell who ppl are before committing your self into a relationship.

MissRaine69:
Why you are apologising for?
That was not directed at you

"No the grey matter is missing vital components. They are like scrabble with a lot of letters missing"

i wouldnt figure this out in a long time

Oyindidi:
No need for that. I know how to deal with my man

ok, i trust your judgement, since you did not fall for my antics

Oyindidi:
I avoid anything that will get me angry. In situation like this, I'll rather walk away than exchange words with the both of them

Hey no need to act all cute and saintly. I can borrow you my sledge hammer if you want.

MissRaine69:
No the grey matter is missing vital components. They are like scrabble with a lot of letters missing.

Pls if I have offended you am sorry
Cos am yet to understand what you just hit me with.

This is my dream.

It's this or nothing.

Oyindidi:
No, I'm that nice if I want to be. But if I'm angry, I may kill one of them.

Hey come on now,

It's OK if you tell us how you will skin them alive. There is no harm in expressing your self na