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Riele:
And you know this how ?

We circle back nicely to peacefullove comment you initially quoted, there in lies your answer.

People that don't seek validation DON'T make their life a topic on social media.
Its simple human psychology.

dmltoyin:
cry me river
Are you that daft?
This is purely a writeup and you can see the credit, you've got a brain for a reason

then send comment to the OP if its not yours.

dmltoyin:
I own a company, none of my staff knew me as the owner except the Manager and the Secretary.

I don't visit, I told both of them not to disclose my identity to the other staff.

One day, I visited the company and I saw my Ex, I asked the Manager and he said she is one of their staff.

I instructed the Manager to promote her to personnel officer, which he did.

A month later, I went there as a job applicant, as she saw me with my application and CV, she rejected me outright, she remembered all the past, and told me never in this company would I get employment.

I came the following day to beg her, she refused and called the security men to throw me out, then I left.

On Monday, I went to the company in my real identity and I entered her office with the Manager who introduced me to her, she knelt down crying and begging that all the family depends on her for survival.

If you were in My Position, What Would You do?
Cc: lalasticlala

Credit: Ibadaninfo

not everyone is as stupid as you think,
you dont own any company - next.

Riele:
Maybe she needs validation but not from the hypocrite I quoted .

she needs validation from everyone, especially the hypocrites.

RisenPhoenix:
The way you didn't listen before, they won't listen now. Where women are concerned, men are victims of their own blindness. They must drink poison before they believe that it kills.

Good for you sha.

And most times they won't live to regret it

LadySwitz:
Pls keep quiet....is it your self? Or is it your esteem?

Concentrate more on minding ur biz this 2020.

And I can see quoting that moniker shows you are also minding your business.

Hypocrite.

Riele:
Lol .

Same way she doesn't need your validation .

She need all the validation she can get that's why her raunchy picture was uploaded online.

Ilekokonit:
Never spend too much time talking to your woman as it leads to insults, see finish and disrespect.

Instead, engage her in something that forces her to use the logical constructive path of her brain like a game of Scrabble for instance so that she ends up using less of her mouth where all of the thoughtless garbage and insults reside.

Thank me later.

You Sir,
Are a role mole model.

Lostz:
some people prefer a little bit of friendship before relationship.

Yeah I know that,
thats why I said if she comfortable around you, and that only happens through friendship.

Lostz:
what if it is a relationship he want from the beginning but came with friendship hoping things change along the way?

If she is comfortable around you,
Then you should let her know what you are about.
Highest thing is she will say no - which is not the end of the world.

hashtagged:
Hmm knowing it can break ones soul, should I tell you

Pls do tell

hashtagged:
A relationship filled with guilt. Lol

Lol, someone knows all your dirty secrete.

lavylilly:
WHY?

Cos they feel their best friend knows to much about them, some feel insecure about this.

If only the male busy body monikers will just stay clear of this thread and lets read only from the ladies,
Speaking of asking for too much.

kingharzy:
What surprises me most is why bananas are illegal and viewed as "dangerous".

You are forgetting the fact that orange juice has been outlawed because it causes cancer.

Michellekabod2:
he also have issues with feminists that's why I called him out.in fact he has issues with movements or groups and expect everyone to follow modus operandi.

If I suspected he was a female I will not call him out,I don't like calling females out else they will call me pickmesha or seeking male validation so most times I reserve my criticism for the males

I trust you know you have more to offer than this "They" intellectually,
what their low bandwidth think about your opinion should not deter you from calling out airheads that think they are spreading facts male or female,
For me? I dont discriminate.

hashtagged:
3 times is it a Java phone.
Best ha most friendship are bunch of unrequited love.
So why stress yourself

Do yourself a favor,
Date your best friend, cos there will be more than enough things to keep you guys together for a long time.
But this is not for people with insecurity issues.

lavylilly:
Have you ever had a bestie of opposite sex who suddenly and so much desire more than just a friendship from you but you didn't/don't feel the same way. However, you cherish this friendship so much and wouldn't want lose it.
How did you handle it?
Did it bring a strain to your long term friendship?

P.S. We've been best friends for 3 years

It depends on who is involved,

If its with someone that knows how to handle rejection, the friendship will pick up again after a short while.
But its with someone that cant handle rejection, they will start to distance their self from you.

Michellekabod2:
I think so. I believe he is a male. I can guess someone gender by the way they type to some extent

But thats strange.
most the Op's thread is like an attack on male folks.

Anyway, like is said there is still hope.
There are some comments i read from Ladies here, i just have to click the "like" button.
'

Why weed is legalized and viewed as "harmless" still surprises me.

Michellekabod2:
not just him,kennedyiheme as well that creates threads about females....

Its getting stale by the day

The Op is a male?

Michellekabod2:
To be honest,@eposter,@kennedyiheme i guess it's high time you get a life and move one from this gender threads you are opening. There is life outside dating/relationship. Your threads are getting stale by the day. Especially you eposter you eat,sleep,drink and think of redpillers,this obsession is way much like it has weighed you down psychological. What you don't agree with should be ignored to oblivion but you have invested a lot of emotions into this. This a faceless forum,the energy you invest into this threads you create is getting out of hand. I feel you should find a purpose and get something to channel your emotions into.
The redpillers,/feminists are living rent free in your head.

Am stunned,
The schooling actually came from a female moniker,


There Is hope.

binarymachine:
The ones who were played and used are usually the ones with the softest of spots.

The ones who fall victim to this are filled with hate.

CHoccolaTE:
@ bold,
Exactly.
The west that invented red pill and myrow movement is nowhere near as backward as Nigeria that is still very religious and traditional when it comes to gender issues.
Their problem is that they lack social skills to get quality girls in real life so they are angry about it and come online to vent anger under the guise of red pill movement.

Quality girls are hard to find because they are a tiny number of the female existence.

Don't worry you are not part of that tiny group.

binarymachine:
It's a feeling that lives inside the being, not a living thing or a being itself. The being that is feeling it can die, the relationship may end but the feeling remain. It is also possible that people in love can have a bitter brake up for a reason but still have soft spots for each other.

There will be no soft spots if you were played and used.

binarymachine:
Yes, it does. It even grows stronger with time.

Then you should know what ever has the ability to grow can also die.
There are things that makes true love grow, and there are things that makes true love die.

Never have that naive feeling that true love can never die, there was a time that divorced couples thought there will die if the other leaves them. Now most of them are like strangers to each other.

True love also needs time and attention, if you become lazy it dies.

binarymachine:
Love is the most abused and overused word in the world I believe. These days, people just try to use it to get through to someone when they need one thing or the other. Men and women today simply just use love as a means to get what they want from the opposite sex. Teenagers, adolescents and youths has now redefined it to mean sex. Fake Clergies use it as a powerful tool to deceive and brainwash their congregation into doing thier bidding. Entertainment industry and pop culture is not left out too, they are making sure that the young ones coming up are quickly educated and taught the new redefined sex meaning of love and even go ahead to give visual demonstrations.

So what is true love? Love has no standard definition, Wikipedia defines it as that which “encompasses a range of strong and positive emotional and mental states, from the most sublime virtue or good habit, the deepest interpersonal affection and to the simplest pleasure”. Others would say it is a glue bonds a relationship and keeps it strong and solid. For me, love is a genuine and unselfish deep feeling of emotions and affection towards somebody or something, which eventually transforms into caring, respecting and supporting them with a powerful urge to want to be with them as long as possible. This love can exist between friends, family, and partners.

When someone claims to love you, he or she must also want the best for you. Support you in your endeavours and ambitions, care for you like you are a part of them, respect you and your views, be with you and stand by you in good and bad. Love is not lust neither is it all about sex, though lust and sex are an important part of romantic love. Love is not something that comes at an instant, it develops with time and takes time to grow. Love at first sight is just a powerful infatuation and feeling of sexual chemistry. It is possible for you to have a deep sexual feeling and chemistry with someone and not love them.

Finally, love sticks around and stays no matter what. It has no expiry date, it grows more powerful with age and stays forever. True love does not fade out and the fire never goes off. It does not depend on hormones and does not appear and disappear like magic. Your parents and siblings truely loves you and that feeling stays the same forever. God loves us and not minding our shortcomings, he went ahead and died for us, that love still abounds today and forever. If your husband, wife, boyfriend, girlfriend fiance or fiancee claims to love you, they would treat you alike and stay no matter what. True love never dies and never expires.

Source: https://flipmemes.com/2019/11/09/true-love-never-expires/

Cc
Lalasticlala
Ishilove
Semid4lyfe
Obinoscopy

Do you think true love grows?

Onyocha:
It looks like Seun and his nairaland have an undeclared policy of only pushing to the front page materials that can be used to paint Iran bad. They have been pushing one bad news after the other about Iran. They won't push to the front page news like this that exposes Trump to be a liar in relation to Iran.

Dont meddle in things you know little about.

babyfaceafrica:
Isn't not better making money first than indulging in social life in penury.... Even though social life is very pertinent, it can only be enjoyed with money

At least there have to be balance, even with all the money if you dont have "real" friends, you feel like an alien cos they only know you but you dont know them.

The best moments in life is having fun with true friends, you stand a chance of missing out on one life's greatest gift like this when you start paying for friendship, there are just some things money cant buy.

Money is very important, but that should not stop you from experiencing that profound feeling you get from true friendship - it cant be bought.

ThompsonJoo:
Virginity or character which is the major pride of a woman?

You are comparing virginity with character?
See charcoal.
Virginity cease to exist once a diick saiils through,
Character exist for life.

Instead of comparing the 2 pick a fair fight.

This is what happens when you dedicate all your life to make money at the expense of your social life.
You start paying for friendship, like Michael Jackson.