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I am an introvert. I mostly love bn indoors. I cant stay indoors for a whole month and still dont have anything to worry. I hardly make friends, so who the f*ck am I going out to see.

Hanging out or visiting friends or even friends visiting me can be so boring. Once I'm in someone's house I start feeling sleepy and tired. I will feel like going home, back to my house. As soon as i am in my house, I will be like...but what actually did i come home to do. I will feel like going back.

I have come to love my introvert nature cos it has help me to avoid so any problems. It has also helped me in my job. As an Auditor, u see all the secrets of the company and u need to keep most thing by urslf. The introvert in me has bn helping me here. Secondly, an Auditor needs to seat for long hours working. Since as an introvert, I don't really have friend, I have no one that i may be desperate to see, my job becomes my closest partner. I can seat down for the whole day on my desk doing my work. This has also earned me lots of recommendations above my colleagues that hardly settle down to work.

The side effect i used to suffer as an introvert is losing my voice in a public speech. I used to suffer shaky voice shyness when asked to address public. Since most of the times, i may be required to meet big Bosses and public, I have bn able to work on this and now, i am in control of my voice in public speech.

iPrevail:
Thread for people with complexes

Superiority Complex or Inferiority Complex?

NwaAmaikpe:


My biggest fear is catching feelings or falling in love.


All a man needs a woman for is just to plug and play.
Once he ejaculates, the contract should end.

May it be so in ur life. Amen

I was trying to beliv the man and was already pitying him until i hear the wife's version of the case.
Let's beliv the story at its face value.
The woman is right to charge the man for sex
The man was not giving his wife money for the family upkeep and the only time the woman can get it is wen konji catches the man
The man has bn paying cos he know that he was guilty of the charge the wife placed on him
Why was the man pouring his semen on the ground?
Why wont the woman act like a prostitute when u are behaving as if u are meeting a prostitute.
The woman want a baby and u are not helping to make one. U kw how much women value babies.
Another thing that destroyed their marriage is prayer house
The woman belivd the fake pastor that told her that her husband was her problem.
Women be careful how u patronize these marriage breaker prayer houses.

Iloveafrica:
Good morning sir/ma
please, I fractured my wrist and a cast was placed on it since 6 weeks ago.
my concern now is that, I heard a lot of people saying "An arm cast becomes itchy whenever it's healing" but in my own case, for the past 6 weeks that the arm cast has been there, I've never felt any itches on the wrist.


What could be the cause?

The cast may be a very high standard type. So if u are carrying such high quality cast, u may not feel the itching.
If the itching does not come and ur fracture got healed, thank ur God. The itching is not funny ooo. U will feel the itching but ur finger will not reach the point and it can be very frustrating.

symbianDON:
my God!! this is an engineering miracle! chaiiiiii!!! other countries are making giant leaps forward while my country Nigeria is taking giants leaps backwards!!! na wa o

Nooo... ur country is trying naa. at least they will start producing pencil from next year.

sammykess:
Nice One, I don't know if it's biblical, because they will tel you that you must follow biblical standards. It's like this, the pastor will confront the sister with a mask identify of the brother and see if God has reveal the name of the brother to the sister

Please you guy should stop all these. Which Biblical Standard.
Let me tell you the truth. Success in marriage does not depend on how much a Christian you are. It is solely dependent on ur compatibility, understanding, mutual love, endurance and able to forgive each other. These characteristics can be found in both born again Christians, Non-Born Agains, Moslems, Atheists, Traditionalists and any tribe. So once u fail in these characteristics, even if it is Pope with all the religious leaders confirmed ur marriage is bound to fail.

In as much as it is important to carry your religious leader along in your marriage, it should not be a rule that if you did not tell him or her first that there will be a punishment against you.

Let me still tell you why I beliv the above statement I made. In the Bible, God created Adam and wanted to make Adam happy by giving him Eve. When there was problem, Adam blamed God for giving/imposing Eve on him instead of letting him take total responsibility of taking who he want as partner.

After this, as we read in other chapters that follow, God then said; "He who finds a woman finds a good thing and obtains mercy from God"
You see from here that God has removed His hand from giving men wives. You should go out and find first,then God will come in to favour you. So your Pastor telling you that he wants to inquire if God has approved your marriage or not is out of place. Why do most marriages so "approved" by God do fail?

What I beliv u should do is, when you are ready to get married, u may need to inform ur Pastor so that he will be praying for you to make a wise choice and for God to direct ur feet aright.

Churches should stop colonizing their members spirits and mind.

joinnow:
Dont worry when she gives u HIV you no go call am game. Gameboy

Bros, don't worry about the HIV. She should bring it so that i will develop it.Na for pages of papers that HIV kills. U don see wt ur eyes person wey HIV killed?

Life begins @ 9

9 is significant with nature
The start of life
Time of birth.
From our entry into the market 9 years ago
To our evolution 9 years after
We are still 0809ja.
We are here for you
Rebranded for you
Because it is all about you.

I have a girlfriend like that, but as a smart guy, i tapped her Whatsapp, Facebook and Calls. So all her moves are at my fingertips. I decided not to bother about whatever she does. I loved her so much but she kept breaking my heart until dat day i decided that it is now game that we are into.

I kept tormenting her on all her secret moves. As she is chatting, I am reading her chats even if she is in Abuja and i am in Lagos. If she goes into Facebook or Facebook messenger, I see all she does. If she makes call, i get the detail discussion. So if she books appointment wt a guy, let's say Friday by 4pm. It's that same time that i will ask her to come and see me. If she went ahead to honour the other guy, I will disturb her phone that she won't concentrate on the date (Mischievous me).

If she comes back, I will tell her where she went to and the guy she f**ked. I am just enjoying the game. It makes her so uncomfortable. The problem is that she doesn't want to lose me. So I have the 4 Ace of the game.

THE FEMALE POINT OF VIEW : The Mysterious Case Of Friend-Zone.

It starts as it always does. You meet a cute girl and start hanging out together. She likes talking with you, she is laughing at your jokes, and you think that she might be into you, but you’re too afraid to make a move. Time goes by and you’re still only friends. Finally you decide that it’s now or never. You reveal your feelings. Then she delivers that oh-so-familiar line: “Let’s just be friends.”

Ok, friendship is great, but is not what you want from this pretty girl you can’t stop thinking about! Unfortunately, this is not the first time this has happened. Sometimes you feel afraid to make a move, because you already feel that you are already in the “Friend Zone.” How to get out of the friend zone and why are the girls you like always the ones that just want to be friends?

From my observations, I can say that there are 2 reasons why women friend-zone men:

FIRST SCENARIO. (Unfortunate but not hopeless): She’s Not Into You.

It’s nobody’s fault. Like men, women have their own preferences. Believe me, most of the times a woman’s idea of the ‘perfect man’ is surprising even to her closest friends!

You can be the cutest guy on earth, smart, funny, with a good-paying job, and even be extremely attractive to other women, but sometimes. THAT GIRL IS JUST NOT INTO YOU. She might be flattered that you are flirting with her and she may even respond to your attention in a flirtatious way. If she is flirting, but only wants to stay friends, she probably just enjoys male attention. If you are not completely her type, she probably won’t go and take your relationship to the “next level.” You might seem nice, intelligent, and funny to her, but are simply not attractive enough. Sounds tough, I know. Fortunately, there are some tricks I will share with you that can use to change her mind.

First, some examples: My best friend is a totally gorgeous girl. She’s intelligent, has an amazing smile and long legs. She really could have any guy! But she was friend-zoning almost every man who approached her. Sometimes there were really hot guys showing interest in her, but she still wasn’t interested in any of them. The reason was simple: she liked only dark-skinned, muscular guys. Whenever cute guys with a different kind of look approached her, she would be friendly – she would flash her big smile and bat her eyelashes, but she never went beyond that. She wouldn’t compromise her tastes in a guy that didn’t match her type.

If you are physically or mentally the opposite of her type, – for example, you are a cute, but quite short man, and she happens to like tall ‘Viking type’ guys – I am sorry, it more than likely will not work out. If you are bartender and she is into guys that work in finance or at fancy consultancy firms, it will be very difficult to get this girl. This could happen for any number of reasons: You are obviously a playboy and she likes decent, shy guys. You are an accountant but she is only interested in artsy types.. That doesn’t mean there aren’t any exceptions, but usually if you are not her type, it will be changing her mind no matter what you do.

Perhaps you feel that this is not the case? Did she used to date guys similar to you, and could she be into you, but there is something you are always doing wrong?

SECOND SCENARIO. You are doing something wrong, which made her begin to think of you only as a friend.

If this is the case, then there is good news. It’s possible to change her mind and I am going to tell you how.

You can change her mind with these six easy steps:

1) Keep your cool and accept the situation

Don’t beg for her to give you a chance, EVER. She made a conscious decision to not be anything more than friends with you. You must play with the irrational, illogical side of her personality. You’ll do much better if you start putting less focus on her and more focus on you.

2) Focus on self-improvement

Nobody is perfect, so there is always a huge amount of room for improvement. It gives us hope as well, right? Start looking your best. Go to the gym and keep up a healthy diet. Also, don’t forget about the intellectual side of things. Try to be a hot and interesting person. If you feel more confident about yourself, she will probably notice it. Girls love self-confidence and after all, the special girl you want is just a another girl.

3) Spend time with her doing regular things

No candles, dinner, watching sunset, listening to CD’s at your place, etc. Just invite her out to do “friendly” things with you. After all, this is exactly what she wanted, right? Go out and do the things you would do yourself anyway, like going out to buy new clothes and stuff like that. Shopping is actually a good idea for 2 reasons. She will be happy to help you and you will have a good opportunity to ‘accidentally’ show her some of your finely worked out body (see number 2).

Every situation that leaves some space for physical contact that leaves her thinking about you are helpful in this situation. Always try to emphasize your sexuality, but in a very polite, seemingly unconscious way.

4) Hang out with other people and have fun

A little dose of jealousy never hurt anyone. It’s like fueling her fire with desire. Without a little portion of it, any relationship can get boring, so flirt with other women! A lot. You can be the perfect guy, but she can’t know that she ‘has’ you. Ever.

Even If you have revealed your feelings to her directly or you have made it obvious to her, you should try to attract other women too! You will become more valuable in the mind of the girl you actually want. A twinge of jealousy that comes from knowing other people find you attractive is priceless.

The old adage ‘never put all your eggs in one basket’ is very true, so take advantage of it. Start meeting other people. It will get her curious, but also help you get some practice flirting. The more women you meet, the better you become at playing the game and getting the girl you want.

5) Finally, the difficult part, which probably you are doing wrong: flirting

Never forget the importance of sexual attraction. Of course, it’s less significant of an issue for women than for men, but after all, we have certain needs. Start teasing her and giving her compliments, but avoid elaborate, sophisticated ones. For example, perfume is a safe subject. If she chooses to wear perfume, it means she liked the scent, so it’s safe. It’s also a very sensual compliment. Always avoid teasing or discussing her age or weight. It can only go wrong.

6) Use sensual tricks

Touch her from time to time. I don’t mean grab her ass. I’m talking about touching her arm casually. I know it’s difficult for shy people, but if you play it cool, almost as though it’s accidental, it can work. But always pay attention to how she responds. Moderation is the best solution for everything.

All in all, you have to be a great observer. Pay attention to her and see if her attitude towards you has changed. If you see that she looks at you differently, touches you sometimes, starts flirting with you herself, notices that you work out, gets jealous when you are flirting with another woman, then these are all good signs! She will probably not make a move, so you must make it yourself. But she will give you hints to encourage you to kiss her or ask for a date.

The last resort: Leverage the friendship

If everything fails, accept the friendship with your crush. Try to banish your romantic feelings for her as much as you can and focus on being a good friend – and stand by your decision. That way you are “just” a friend by YOUR own choice, but by hers.

You might think “Why would I do that, I really want to be more than just friends with her”. If she absolutely, positively and in no circumstances reciprocates your feelings, you just have to move on… and capitalize on the opportunity to hook up with one of her friends!

You are in the perfect position to pull that off, because you have earned the trust and social proof of your crush. Getting to know one of her friend is a piece of cake from here. Just don’t end up in the friend zone again

TINALETC3:
Shirtless seen, I wnt 2 see d trouserless part
Hm booby self big pass my own

I love the size of ur booby. Ever steadfast. Never ever will it give up.

This post is for pet lovers. You are not a pet lover, u came to pet lovers' forum making noise on issue u are far from understanding. Ppl can be very stupid ooo. Why not stick to Romance Forum where u understand things like S*x, f**k, Pr!ck

hazan041:
why is her nose like that

Women call it "Bronzer"

Ask ur girlfriend

Oga abeg we don't need any repackaging. We need restructuring. What is wrong with you.
Repackaging what. Repackaging is when you have a very bad product that ppl are tired of patronizing, you go back, bring the product out of its old package and put the same rotten product into a well designed pack and sale to the people again. Meanwhile, the product that u will consume is bad while the package that will go into the dustbin looks good.

Is this what we really need in this country. Rochas, respect yourself. It's bn long I've bn keeping quiet over these ur goofs. Don't let me get angry ooo.

Mine has bn by Grace. When grace is at work protocols are broken, struggle disappears.

I have worked in 3 good firms and have never applied for any one of them not to talk of sending CV.

The 1st was barely wen i left secondary school. A top manager in a multinational company that just established their firm in the state i was called and offered me the job. This manager used to kw me and and hw responsible i was then. The pay was not too fine then, so many ppl refused the offer but few of us accepted it. I was in this firm and obtained my B.Sc in Accountancy. Rose to an enviable position. The firm later became the choice of many. I dis this job for 16yrs. Acquired many certificates in and from this firm.

Second one was an offer made to me by one of my Lecturers in university. I did this job for 4 years.

Third one is this current job as a company Auditor. The job came wen i least expected it. An uncle that had forgotten after many year he promised to help me. I was surprised when he called me and tell me that he want me to attend an interview in a certain company as their Auditor. I was like, Sir, but i did not apply for the job. He just told me to attend the interview on the date he told me.
I went for the written interview. I was shortlisted for oral interview. Out of about 30 of us, only 2 were employed. I happened to be one out of the two. My CV was only submitted on the day of the oral interview.

PassionateSoul:
No o, I don't wanna die young bro

Lol...na run u wan run?

herkeym001:
Where, how and why will I book a ticket to fly ?

As a real Benin man u r, u don't need ticket to fly. Flying is inborn in u ppl. Na follow come

PassionateSoul:
Lemme digress a bit. See eh, I'm looking for a girlfriend, if you're young beautiful smart and goal driven, holla me. Will be glad to hear from you

Take the woman in this story. She's all u need. She's beautiful, she's smart and goal driven. She had a goal to kill her husband and she never missed achieving it.

I don't like any site requesting for my email ID and my Password. Unless if i am to create a new email ID for the job. I am well qualified for this job

MrDude:
Azzhole swerve

Is that what u just changed ur name to. Well, it's a befitting one for you.

sarrki:
I don't know why I hate religious body interfering in our politics

U did because you an ignorant person. Secondly, u don't kw where ur future is taking you to. U only wait and take whatever comes ur way. U are ok the wretched way u are and lacks the power to improve urself.

MrDude:
Good for him! I'll rather serve in the US army than Nigeria's ragtag, unethical and unprofessional army!

See this one oooo. Who is even ready to give u the opportunity to serve in Nigeria Army. Even common Boys Brigade u no see not to talk of Civil Defense how much more Police not to talk of Army.

Dee60:
I wanted to comment but have changed my mind.

People like Fayose and FKK should not be honoured with responses.

This is why this country may not actually get better.
If no one is talking, ppl like u will shout and ask why is everyone silent
Now someone is checkmating the excesses of this irresponsible government, u guy are condemning him.
Tell me what this guy has said that is not in line.
May be ppl like u don't even need to be wasted time on honouring and responding to their posts.

femmoy:
No one wuld patronise ur God's abandoned country because it has failed in so many sectors. Get 24hrs electricity right first b4 searching 4 patronage and mind u,don't ever compare Naija to Dubai. The initiator of this thread is so crazy

Frustration is really telling on you. Pls go and solve ur problem and stop looking for who to vent ur anger on. Confused olodo.

unipol:
How can u deceive people that we are rich while our Airport alone is decaying and our roads is flooded with uniformed criminals taking bribe.

I challenge u to show me with 5 pictures that shows ur country is poor and i will show u with 50 pictures that shows that she is rich.

I think you are seriously struggling to convince me that Dubai is not a rich country. I don't want to buy that my brother. In as much as there exist poor ppl and not-too-well-developed areas in the country still does not make it not a rich country. No matter how rich a country may be, there must still exist poor ppl and rural or undeveloped areas, but the difference is how important are those ppl to the government and how much amenities the government provide for them even at that their poor state.

Dubai is a very rich country. If the country is faking its richness and is still able to provide to her visitors and her citizens with those good and beautiful things and still has a stable economy, my dear the country is very rich.
The only truth there is that Dubai is not a greener pasture for foreigners seeking for job especially if you are not a professional. Don't go to Dubai seeking for a job. You will regret it. The country is good for relaxation, fun and transact a biz den go back to ur country.

Let me give u an example. Let's assume that i am a flamboyant person and chooses to live a high life just to convince ppl that i am very rich. If i am able to maintain this high life for many years, my brother, i am a very rich man. U may argue that in my family that some of my siblings are poor. This still does not deny the fact that i am a rich guy. What i spend a day in my flamboyant lifestyle can make one or two of those my poor siblings rich, but making them rich is not my priority rather to live a life that will make ppl kw i have money.

So my brother, let's leave that great country. She is very rich. Instead of trying to talk her down, we need to use our own media to deceive ppl that our country is good and let them also patronize us the same way they are currently doing in Dubai.

[quote author=softboi10 post=58420654][/quote]Softboi, Thanks

obinna4Jesus:
Yet to comprehend how vicious our thoughts for a fellow human being could be. If FFK's parent were alive and someone insults them or make negative remarks about them, I doubt if he will handle it kids gloves. Yet he has continually insulted the president of our country without Looking back ever since his party lost to APC in the last general elections. For crying out loud he should be able to separate the office of the president from his party. I have no qualms if he disagrees or makes negative comments about his party or critique some of his policies but to keep insulting and wishing PMB death is completely unacceptable. Looking forward to a time in our history as a nation when politics of bitterness and rancour will be a thing of the past. To put it mildly, Chief FFK hasn't covered himself in glory viz-a-viz his continual invectives on the person of PMB. Buy the truth and sell it not.

My brother, your comparison here is illogical. If FFK has other 5 brothers and they make contributions, keep the money in one purse in case of emergency. Eventually their father falls sick and FFK happens to take the father to a far away hospital where the other 5 children don't have access to him. Meanwhile, FFK is using that family money for transport to visit their father, medical bill and other bills and the other brothers are still contributing to that purse and FFK is not telling them how much he is using and they don't even kw if their father is still alive or not.

Tell me my good brother, if u are part of this family how will you feel.

That ram is Boko Haram terrorist ram. What u see inside are things to be usesd for bomb

sarrki:
Lady Queen

Buhari is not the problem

The earlier we know the better

Our society is a total failure

Our leaders are not alien

They are what our society produced

Are you ok?
Our society is a total failure.
Society as the geographical area or the ppl living in the society?
I beliv our leaders are not part of the society.
Pls stop exonerating our leaders when it comes to the failure of our society.

Guy pls tell me any societal evil happening here in Nigeria that is not in other developed nations of the world.
What makes theirs less obvious?......The leaders there set up viable systems that will control the ills.
They make laws that will be equally applied to both rich and poor.
What do we have here. Our leaders make laws that will be against the poor and the same law will protect their crime.
My brother, our leaders are the killers of our society QED

What happens in case of emergency, u r indisposed and one needs to call someone in ur phone contact so that u could be saved or helped but ur phone is securely locked?