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Free4man:
It appears to me clearly now. I won't continue with such woman because I don't cheat. You will forgive her because you also a cheat. I believe infidel will marry and infidel. And in a situation whereby a good soul meet an infidel that continues to dwell in his or her sin, it is better for the soul to part from such negative individual. I rest my case.

I neither glory nor honor fools

Most times I am forced to think that most of our politicians lack initiative and what it will take to better the life of the poor masses.

Government is expected to put in place what will make her citizens improve and also improve the society they find themselves. Any government that is always out to make life difficult for her citizenry is an indenturing l insensitive government and does not qualify to exist.

I keep wondering why is it that any new government that comes in must start from demolition of ppl's houses, shops and other structures.
The annoying part of it is when after these demolitions, a little out nothing is done on those places demolished.

In Imo State, such demolitions is very common. Sending many ppl back to village to suffer and die at the end the places demolished will not be developed.

Some year ago in Okigwe, Imo State, such demolitions have taken place where at the end notion was done. Take for instance the Okigwe Old Park where do many standard shops were demolished, sending many ppl back to zero level, nothing tangible is happening on that place to justify the demolition.

Before that, such demolitions have taken place and nothing meaningful done.

Now, such demolition is looming. They've started marking shops and houses they are going to pull down. At this time the economy is biting, you want to demolish ppl's shops and houses. At the end you'll not develop those areas. God is watching you.

In as much as it's good to develop cities, it's also necessary to first of all make provision for their survival.
You may justify that most of the structures are close to the road. Have you provided a good alternative to them wt a subsidized rent.

You want to develop a city, good, but take it gradually so that the ppl will be minimally affected adversely. The idea of trying to make a city to transform from zero level of development to that of Western countries is not feasible. It should be step by step.

Finally, Imo State Government, pls don't unleash this hardship again unto the ppl of Okigwe. In as much as we appreciate you concern in developing the city, it will be wasteful if you develop the city and her ppl will perish.

The new Mayor of Okigwe, pls don't toe this same path that has earned many past leaders bad name.

The United States television medium, Cable News Network, CNN, has mocked Nigeria in its latest edition of “The Global Public Square (GPS)”, a foreign affairs show anchored on CNN by Fareed Zakaria.

In an apparent mockery of Nigeria and her President Muhammadu Buhari, CNN, on its programme displayed at 4:59pm local time on Sunday said, “The head of state from which country has not set foot in his homeland in over two months?”

It went ahead to tick an option with the name Nigeria as the correct answer. The options were given as Saudi Arabia, Cuba, Nigeria and Syria.

A screenshot of the mockery tweeted by Chidi Odinkalu, Former Chairman of the National Human Rights Commission (NHRC) is given below.

What do you say Nigerians? Type your comments below please.

Recall that President Muhammadu Buhari has been in London since May 7 on a medical follow-up. Some political delegations including the Acting President, Professor Yemi Osinbajo have been visiting President Buhari in London and have told Nigerians that the president is doing just fine and will soon return to continue his presidential duties.

bamisepeters:
marriage will definitely start from somewhere, you know tree cannot be climbed from the top and it is what you do now you build upon. Everything in life us stage by stage.

My brother you are correct but why I chose to take it to married ppl is dat marriage is a more serious affair than boyfriend and girlfriend relationship.

A partner in boyfriend girlfriend relationship may chose to walk out of the affair et any flimsy excuse and no one will worry much about it. You may decide not to forgive many things in such affair and ppl will find no problem wt dat.
In marriage you have more stake and tend to endure what u may not ordinarily endure.

Free4man:
Matured man! If your wife is been laid by another man you need to think twice. And forgiving might not be the best option because it is a deliberate act. You can forgive on other issue relating to you home development and and such but cheating is another thing entirely. Someone who forget about your kids, sacrifice and other things and get laid by another man after getting married deserve no forgiveness to me . Don't get an honest fellow into the loop of infidelity. The loop tends to infinity.

I kw you'll say a thing like this. I'm not surprised. Why do we always talk about a woman bn laid by another man. Whatever u do, will one day come back to you.

If you have bn sleeping around wt multiple women or other ppl's wife, ur wife will be laid by others. By the time it happened, you may have forgotten about ur own sin.
Let me tell you, a man is as guilty as the woman he commits adultery wt. Let us stop making women more guilty.

If you sleep wt women other than ur wife and u catch ur woman in the act and refused to forgive her, ur punishment will be unimaginable. This is because u just showed God that u don't deserve forgiveness.

Let us take this write-up to married couple, cos it's best fitted there. This girlfriend and boyfriend of a thing these days are just for fun and a complete joke.

If you are really determined to build a "home" ur level of maturity and forgiveness must surpass that which u have when you were courting or doing ur so called boyfriend and girlfriend things.

Forgiveness is highly needed in a relationship. The only factor that can make u forgive easily is love. That is why u should try as much as possible to marry who u truly love. Not who u love cos of money or cos of facial or bodily beauty.

Another thing u need is sacrifice. Sacrifice without mumbling. Most times, problem in the family starts when one partner feels he/she is sacrificing more than he/she think is too much. No sacrifice is too much to keep ur home peaceful. If u think otherwise, try a broken home.
The time u start feeling giving too much, forgiving too much or sacrificing too much, you have created a hole for ur family to start sinking.
Young boys and young girls will not understand this, hence they will condemn what i am saying. They will tend to label u Jew man when u behave this way, but never mind them. When they grow, they will understand it.

I love my wife so much and love my family so dearly. When i look forward and think of not bn wt them, i have a great fear and thereby try all i could to enjoy the absolute peace i enjoy with them. This include, most times, saying sorry even when i am not supposed to. Sometimes When i wait for that apology to come from her and it is not coming and the silence is growing, the communication gap is widening, strange feelings are coming in all i do is to go to her and pls let us forgive each other and lets be the way we were. That solves the problem. It doesn't reduce who i am. I doesn't make me less than a man, rather it makes me more matured man and makes her to love me more cos most times in her sober mood, she will say to me; Honey, do u kw that no other man can love me and treat me the way u do.

So if i think i am giving too much and stop this character that God blessed me wt in this relationship, the next thing is that just a minor quarrel will tear us apart.

So don't think that multiple forgiveness coming from u to keep ur relationship is bn a weakling.

SmoothNigerian:
So what if your phone goes off before d time nko

Who this one epp O.P

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When u schedule ur sms for future date, u don't need ur account to be logged on or ur internet running for it to be sent on the scheduled date.

Do u really need public opinion to enforce your company or business policy.

When it is time to increase their pay, come and ask us hw much that will ok for each of them.

toastedbread:
Whether you maltreat or "princess treat" her, if she's a hoe, she'll always go to a farmer.
Nice piece tho.

What do u mean by a Farmer? To you a farmer is a person of no class?

The Vereto guy used his real Facebook account. His Pictures, and other personal details are there. So i beliv the guy is very much sure of what he said. If the family feel angered by his words, they should contact him for explanation.

Don't come here to tell me that ppl should have respect at least to d dead. The living should kw that they will die one day and should start accumulating respect for themselves b4 dat time.

Fan: Dave, I kw u have ur Pen there. Pls can u sign ur autograph on my bum

David: Yes I have my pen with me.

David brought out a golden fountain pen and started signing on the bum.
Meanwhile the fan was angry and was murmuring within herself.

Fan: See this olodo that i want him to bring out his Pen and sign deep autograph, to add ordinary "is" to the "Pen' he can't. This Dave must be a complex fool ooo.

ricsman:
saw some guys roasting � maize like this... hope it's healthy

Like u were born and brought up in the moon and u just came to Nigeria.

U mean this is ur first time of seeing corn bn roasted this way?

Ok...continue

Op, pls respect urslf and show us the remaining pictures. What do u intend doing wt the ones u did not post. What about the point in the fight when they tore their dresses? What about the point they were all stark n@ked?
Pls i came here to see pictures and not to be cajoled wt just few of them. I don't want to get angry ooo. Do the needful.

Some of these reptiles will be used to prepare strong local medicine to cure our ailing president.

younglleo:
dats my AFONJIC OBO... IPOB.....!!!!.






Finally i made FTC.. Hahahahahahahahahahahaahahahahahahaahahahahahahahahahahahaahahahahahahaha..



Dont laugh wit me, work hard

Ur version of working hard is making FTC in Nairaland? Gosh...what is our youths turning into. So u now feel accomplished cos u are the 1st to commented on a copy and paste story.
If u feel this way how will the person that copied the story feel not to talk of the original owner of the story.
I will be happy for you if u say that the book u wrote or stories u sat down to write are hitting Front Page.

Work hard bro.

Lexusgs430:
Loads of videos on YouTube. Go watch them and method of concealments......

How I wish you can argue/discuss more logically and more reasonably. No insult meant. I am not unaware that ppl can shoplift, conceal it and walk out unnoticed. I am not trying to learn different ways at which ppl conceal stolen items.

We have an issue at hand here, we have the culprit, we have the items alleged to have bn stolen. All i wanted to kw is: Where did she conceal the items she picked from the shop before she was apprehended.
If you have the information, let us kw. If you don't just say so and let the case rest.
Mind you, I'm not doubting that she stole or not. Only wanted to kw hw she was able to hide all those items.

Sugarcious:
U think I don't who James Bond is? C'mmon I changed it to BURN to fit the news. Are u related to FFK?

Please tell us how the BURN fits in the story, we may learn a new thing. Thanks

Lexusgs430:
Have you ever shoplifted before? Shoplifters usually have special concealment places, within their body architecture or external pockets.....

God forbid dat i should shoplift. I don't desperately seek for what i cannot afford. I was trained to be contented.

Well, there are things u cannot easily conceal in ur body. All I want to kw is how she managed to conceal all those stuff in her body. Which part of her body held those items.

Driftingking:
This lady simply identified as Tamara was allegedly caught stealing cosmetics at a shop in Lagos! According to the shop’s official Instagram account, she confessed that it was not her first time.

Here’s what the wrote;



http://www.lailasblog.com/heres-happened-lady-allegedly-caught-stealing-shop-photo/

Pls this ur story is lacking some vital information.
How was she caught?
Hw did she try beating the shop attendants/security? (Did she hide the items inside her clothes or what)

Clarify dis story.

Lexusgs430:
She probably concealed them within her safety zones. And was made to put them in the shopping basket after capture.........

I doubt it. Take a look at the items in the basket. Where and where will one hide all those stuff. Think about the Pringles. Where can one hide two cans of pringles.

The OP should come back here to tell us hw it happened

I am yet to be convinced of stealing anything from the shop. All i see are items in shopping basket. Did she try leaving the shop wt the items wtout paying for them?

The OP should pls clarify us hw they caught her. Did she hide the items inside her clothe b4 she was caught.
If you can't clarify a story, pls dont post it.

odiereke:
How can a man be gang raped? Without his consent, I don't expect him to have his stuff strong to be inserted into those ladies.
Except the pastor too have the motive indirectly in his mind.

Rape and arousal can happen simultaneously, and one does not exclude the other

Quite simply, our bodies respond to sex. And our bodies respond to fear. Our bodies respond. They do so uniquely and often entirely without our permission or intention. Orgasm during rape isn't an example of an expression of pleasure. It's an example of a physical response whether the mind's on board or not, like breathing, sweating, or an adrenaline rush. Using the analogy of tickling. While tickling can be pleasurable, when it is done against someone's wishes it can be very unpleasant experience. And during that unpleasant experience, amid calls to stop, the one being tickled will continue laughing. They just can't help it. He is not laughing because he likes it but the control in beyond him.

Think of this also. Have u heard that a man having s*x with o woman in sleep. Why do the woman become wet even without waking up. She's not even aware that she's bn used still she becomes wet and climax. Same goes with someone dat was druged. U r unconscious of the action still u climax.

My brethrens, Christianity does not mean stupidity. God never told us to do away with the common sense He blessed us wt while worshiping Him.
Did u think of the health implication of soaking urslf in that flood water for the few hours the service will last. I even saw a pregnant woman standing in that flood risking her health and that of the unborn baby.
Did u think of electrocution as some of the electronics and electrical appliances are either submerged or partially submerged in the flood.

Don't tell me that God will protect them. God does not protect foolishness. God allows natural law to take its course and only intervenes when He sees the need to perform miracle. Don't expect any miracle here when u have many alternative to do what u r doing now. U chose the wrong alternative expecting God's miracle.

Pls , let us stop tempting God. If it is a must that Church Service must go on that day, why not rent a small portion and use canopy and conduct ur service safely. Alternatively, Pastor, u should have directed the few members present to go over to ur house and have the service briefly conducted there.

Sugarcious:
Zero value for life. Make una leave am. All man to his coffin. That's JAMES BURN.

So from ur childhood till now, u never bothered to kw the correct name. You are still calling it JAMES BURN. Are u related to Buhari?

I won't be the one to tell you.

EYIBLESSN:
Seriously Speaking , Majority of Kanu's followers doesn't understand why he is agitating. If there is , only few of them does.
There is nothing like peace. Peace within the system is the best.
If he intends to help this generation he shouldn't have come up with concept of this nature.

May God help us all.

Go and work on ur grammar first, then we can consider listening to ur criticism.

Shebi una wan start una married life inside water.....no problem but wen una children start coming from inside water make una no begin dey disturb God and men of God.

I wonder why everyone is losing touch wt common sense.

ADENIKETINA2015:
Don't mind him. He's one of the causes of Psquare's problems. Jude is cheating them blablabla like they were there when the hustle was going on. Home breakers and Peace terminators

That is ehnnn....some ppl go just dey drink paracetamol for another person's headache. This kind of person will even do worst thing than what he is condemning if given the chance. Mtcheeeewwwww

femi4:
I m not one of those you can bamboos with fake doctrine. You and your father the devil are liars.

The spirit of God doesn't contradict the scripture, it confirms it.

Once again i say that u lack wisdom. If u are wise enough to understand things, u will understand what i am saying. But u are an unteachable fool. So remain that way.

There is no atom of Christianity in u. Check ur statements/comments. Ur type brings Christianity to the mud.

hungryboy:
Happy belated birthday Emmanuella
I just
hope say,
Mark Angel no dey cheat this small girl
Her mother should get her a lawyer asap,

To take charge of her career and negotiate a sharing formula between her and Mark Angel, for every revenue that comes in from their comedy and other ventures

Which one be ur problem here? Emmanuella has bn living wt Mark Angel right from birth. I wonder where u were all these while that u never hired a lawyer for Mark Angel to tell Emmanuella's parents on how much they should be giving to Mark Angel for taking care of Emmanuella. Abeg park for ur lane to avoid dangerous jamming.

femi4:
Fake Pastor. God sent them out cos of disobedience not because Eve fed Adam

You lack discerning spirit. Shallow in understanding and lacks wisdom. U won't understand my post, so walk.

In a relationship, sacrifice, endurance, love and understanding are needed or else you will ruin ur home.

*If ur husband like football so much....don't try to stop him from watching. Learn to love football so that 2 of u will enjoy it together. From there u can start working on him on how to reduce the addiction.

* If your wife likes her cosmetics so much, she like making up. Don't stop her cos u won't succeed. Buy her some good cosmetics. Help her while see is doing it. Commend her look. Den start working on her addiction. By this u wont always be angry wen u see her making up.

* Madam, if ur husband is phone addict, don't fight him cos u may not win rather u will become more distressed. If he like Facebook, add him to ur Facebook account. Post things and call him and say..."Hey honey have u seen my post on Facebook today?"
If he is on Whatsapp, add him and engage him on Whatsapp chat and video calls. Don't give him breathing space. If he is on Nairaland, always ask him to read a particular post there.
Enter a dating site, tell him how so many ppl are are chasing women there. Request that he join the dating site.

By the time u are done with this no be person go tell am make em get time for u. He will think that men in that dating site will take you from him then his brain will automatically reset to super normal.

Problem with women is not applying wisdom in solving their problems. You want to order the man to stop touching his phone and u want that order to be carried out instantly.