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These people and victimhood mentality

It is not because you are a Nigerian it is because you are a foreigner, Former Chelsea owner Abrahamovic went through tougher shits just because he owned Chelsea.

You will go through rigorous scrutiny before acquiring property that worth millions of dollars in a working country. Stop the entitlement mentality, there are so many Africans with properties that worth millions of dollar in the same UK, stop acting like you are the first.

Should a Man Take Dating Advice From Women?
by Marlimus

Gentlemen, listen up because this is crucial. Be careful when taking advice from women about other women.

You will hear things like "the best person to ask about advice with women is a woman." This is not true, if only because what a woman says she wants and what she actually responds to are two different things.

First off, forget almost everything your mother might have told you when you were young about being the perfect gentleman.

And I'll tell you why...

Nothing's wrong with being civilized, but mothers try to brainwash you into thinking that every woman ought to be treated like a princess, so that by extension, you'll treat her like one too; it's a way for her to reinforce her authority. Showing up 20 minutes early with flowers on a first date is a no-no.

Secondly, female friends subconsciously put themselves in the girl's shoes when you ask them for advice.

So they will tell you to do certain things not because that is what will get you the girl, but because that is what would make them feel good and boost their egos, if they were the girl in question.

For example, I asked H out on two dates. She came to the first, cancelled the second, said she was really sorry. My lady friend, A, recommended that I call back in 3 days if I don't hear from her, act considerate, and ask her if everything is ok.

Why? Because if she was H, that is what she would want me to do because that would boost her ego.

I ignored her advice, of course, and refused to call H back. She emailed me and said she wanted to know how I was doing, and to please give her a call. Doing the nice guy stuff boosts the girl's ego, but doesn't necessarily get you anywhere, and can be downright detrimental.

The following is another example of flawed female advice...

Now I hate to contradict other players, but there is an article I recently read in which the author says that you pretend to mistake one female for another, find out where she works, and then send flowers to her workplace even though you only met her for a minute.

Gentlemen, from the instant I read it I knew a woman wrote it and I was right. Why? Because it would make her day if something like that happened to her so she could feel like a queen and show off to her friends.

However, doing something like that makes you look like the quintessential needy Mr. Nice Guy, somebody who's "sweet." But doing this kind of thing makes the girl think that you like her unconditionally and that she has power over you since you only met her for a sec but you are already sending her flowers!

Women are not attracted to men who they think they can take for granted, men they can control, or men who are needy.

What women say they want in a man and what they respond to are two different things.

If you take advice from a female, make sure it is someone who not only knows the rules of the game, but will advise in your favor, not to fulfill her own fantasy of being worshipped.

Also, DO NOT TAKE ADVICE from any woman (or man) who says things like "just tell her how you feel." Spilling your gut drops your attractiveness to the point where she might have actually liked you, but blew you off because you were no longer a challenge to her. Confession might be good for the soul, but not for the game.

So remember gentlemen, be careful about taking advice from your female friends, especially if they tell you to do romantic stuff. Very few females are actually going to tell you to change the amounts of attention you give a girl. Very few girls will tell you to not call often. And very few girls will tell you to play the mind games you need to play because they think that they don't want guys having the power...

...even though they are attracted to the men who do have it.

Marlimus

https://www.sosuave.com/halloffame/289.htm

Gentlemen, listen up because this is crucial. Be careful when taking advice from women about other women.

You will hear things like "the best person to ask about advice with women is a woman." This is not true, if only because what a woman says she wants and what she actually responds to are two different things.

First off, forget almost everything your mother might have told you when you were young about being the perfect gentleman.

And I'll tell you why...

Nothing's wrong with being civilized, but mothers try to brainwash you into thinking that every woman ought to be treated like a princess, so that by extension, you'll treat her like one too; it's a way for her to reinforce her authority. Showing up 20 minutes early with flowers on a first date is a no-no.

Secondly, female friends subconsciously put themselves in the girl's shoes when you ask them for advice.

So they will tell you to do certain things not because that is what will get you the girl, but because that is what would make them feel good and boost their egos, if they were the girl in question.

For example, I asked H out on two dates. She came to the first, cancelled the second, said she was really sorry. My lady friend, A, recommended that I call back in 3 days if I don't hear from her, act considerate, and ask her if everything is ok.

Why? Because if she was H, that is what she would want me to do because that would boost her ego.

I ignored her advice, of course, and refused to call H back. She emailed me and said she wanted to know how I was doing, and to please give her a call. Doing the nice guy stuff boosts the girl's ego, but doesn't necessarily get you anywhere, and can be downright detrimental.

The following is another example of flawed female advice...

Now I hate to contradict other players, but there is an article I recently read in which the author says that you pretend to mistake one female for another, find out where she works, and then send flowers to her workplace even though you only met her for a minute.

Gentlemen, from the instant I read it I knew a woman wrote it and I was right. Why? Because it would make her day if something like that happened to her so she could feel like a queen and show off to her friends.

However, doing something like that makes you look like the quintessential needy Mr. Nice Guy, somebody who's "sweet." But doing this kind of thing makes the girl think that you like her unconditionally and that she has power over you since you only met her for a sec but you are already sending her flowers!

Women are not attracted to men who they think they can take for granted, men they can control, or men who are needy.

What women say they want in a man and what they respond to are two different things.

If you take advice from a female, make sure it is someone who not only knows the rules of the game, but will advise in your favor, not to fulfill her own fantasy of being worshipped.

Also, DO NOT TAKE ADVICE from any woman (or man) who says things like "just tell her how you feel." Spilling your gut drops your attractiveness to the point where she might have actually liked you, but blew you off because you were no longer a challenge to her. Confession might be good for the soul, but not for the game.

So remember gentlemen, be careful about taking advice from your female friends, especially if they tell you to do romantic stuff. Very few females are actually going to tell you to change the amounts of attention you give a girl. Very few girls will tell you to not call often. And very few girls will tell you to play the mind games you need to play because they think that they don't want guys having the power...

...even though they are attracted to the men who do have it.

Marlimus

https://www.sosuave.com/halloffame/289.htm

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It is a great platform for men they have everything you will ever need to become a capable man.

Redpill is actually about living happily as a man without depending on or needing women in your life before you are happy.

You don't need any woman in your life before you feel complete and happy because you know there are thousands of them out there you are capable of getting, you won't have time for low value women and won't hesitate to cut off entitled bitches.

The focus must be on yourself it is only when you are happy living your life without any need for women that women will want to be a part of your life. Eliminate neediness and desperation, don't need any women for anything in your life, they will respect you and behave and know you won't tolerate their bullshits because they know you don't need them.

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OyeofIkoTuN:
Another Propaganda and lies.. We have no such names as Da silva,Fernández,Pearse, we were not named by slave masters like Lagos...We dealt with the British from 1880.. GO and verify..

Edo lay claims to same Lagos, Badagry says they are EGUN..

you are littered all over TOGO,BENIN REPUBLIC, they even have your names, Yet they are foreigners but Musa who you share nothing with is your brother...

That's slavery

Yoruba culture is very strong that is why those people came back to Yoruba land unlike Igbo slaves with weak culture and didn't come back because they already forgotten their roots.

Which Edo lay claims to Lagos ? Edo is not Benin and i haven't heard where any Benin king come out to lay claim to Lagos, that's the day Yoruba will also come out to claim Benin.

Yoruba in Togo and Benin Republic are our kins and they have more right than Igbo, Fulani, Hausa in Yoruba land. In Yoruba land you won't even know Yoruba that come from Brazil, Togo, Ghana or Benin Republic because of the easy assimilation.

Tinubu forming political alliance or any South west politicians forming alliance with the north doesn't mean anything, it is just politics.

Tinubu formed an alliance with the north same way he is forming alliance with Wike and South South politicians but you are too bitter and jealous to see that.

OyeofIkoTuN:
THE PORTUGUESE NAMED IT LAGOS,THEY OWN IT...BRAZILIANS SPEAK PORTUGUESE, MANY OF YOUR PEOPLE WERE ENSLAVED AND SOLD OUT TO BRAZIL,I MEAN MANY MANY MANY..

Yeah many Igbo were also enslaved and sold out to Brazil, Jamaica etc Many Many Many and still yet their culture is hardly relevant there.

OyeofIkoTuN:
You Don come with your nonsense Propaganda, lies and rubbish...

Who do una

This is Yoruba culture being celebrated in brazil


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=krsAHRkBfk4


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uWq56gPn-M8


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l-7y3MxhuYU

Osariemen12:
Keep quiet.

When one talks about culture anywhere in the world, Bini cultural, Zulu culture, and the Igbo aesthetics presented by Achebe in his Things Fall Apart are the only cultures that comes to mind.

Yoruba is not known for anything culture, reason you struggle to make their culture relevant here.

Check the thread on worst Nigerian food, Yoruba dominated it.

Deal with it.

Lol Yoruba culture not relevant in Nigeria are you sure ?

How did movies like Anikulapo, King of thieves have more views on Netflix ? no Nollywood movie performed like Anikulapo on Netflix last year.

What about the music industry ? are you sure Yoruba culture is not relevant there ?

No Nigeria festival attract more tourists and foreigners like Osun Osogbo festival in Osun state.

What about Yoruba religion that have followers in Brazil, South America and Carribeans? No Nigeria culture is as relevant as Yoruba culture in the world.

blazesam:
funny enough, if it comes to cultural dance, Yoruba people are far behind...

Edo people dances better than them, Tiv people are wonderful. Other tribes like Igbo are even better... Stop hyping nonsense.

I am Yoruba, and I can tell you, our people are still learning how to dance

From a b**stard

Buhari no dey use cow play 😂

stayTrue:
I beg to differ. The youth of today are actually undersexed (especially among male population). Statistics and scientific research have shown. I am a scientist and I base my conclusions on raw data.

The more correct post should probably be: The Youths of Today are Sexually Deprived.

In the past generations 15 year olds were sexually active (or married). And usually by the age of 34 were usually grandmas. This is still the case in very rural areas.

But today we still have 25 year old virgin boys in large numbers. Don't let the loud -mouthed, behind-the-keyboard braggarts fool you.

Many people have been brainwashed to believe sex is a very bad thing. Sex is part of nature and part of life

People that can't even manage a regional security outfit like Ebubeagu without deferring to anarchy want to start their own country.

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Nonny95:
The last time we checked, Lagos was burning. And you guys cried like babies.

So you admitted Igbo engaged in burning of Lagos during endsars Riot ?

You really believe you can burn anything in Lagos without the cover of something like Endsars? all Igbo businesses in Lagos will go up in flame it will be bloody, you will be chase out of Lagos without taking anything with you if you force out the brutal behavior of Yoruba.

What you guys are looking for you shall see, go and campaign in Anambra and stop causing nuisance in South west.

this is scam

Nightwolf1:
Pity your wretched tribe where able bodied men are relying on a drug kingpin for economic survival.

And your wretched tribe full of able bodied men are relying on a failed Governor in Anambra and third class in philosophy degree holder as a messiah

OyeofIkoTuN:
Chairman, Zinox Group, Leo Stan Ekeh, said that the company had built a system of integrity and a record of excellence, both in Nigeria and internationally. Further, Ekeh noted that until there was a credible data census figure, the country cannot plan well.

Also, Managing Director, Zinox Technologies, Mrs. Kelechi Okonta, said

WHEN IGBOS DEY CAP,SOME PEOPLE SUPPOSE JUST DOBALE...EVERYTHING NO BE GRA GRA.

If it was a Yoruba company or Hausa company, i hope you wouldn't call it nepotism.

I also hope you guys will stop saying federal government don't support Igbo businesses and entrepreneurs.

Gucciblog:
Atleast you have an idea that Upper Iweaka has produced lots of movies.

Kindly tell us the one your state has done?

If you try and claim Lagos make Ogun fire you

I'm from Ibadan and a lot of Yoruba Nollywood movies were also produced in Ibadan.

Oya kill yourself.

All mouth, what did he contribute to Nollywood upper eweka and Onitsha branch when he was Anambra governor ?

Only Tinubu have a verifiable track record of contributing to Nollywood and that's why most Nollywood actors and actressess in Lagos endorsed him.

Ooni of Ife Goes Hollywood
Ooni of Ife, Oba Adeyeye Ogunwusi, recently made a historic debut in a new Hollywood flick. Titled ‘Take Me Home’, Ooni played a unique role that befits his throne as the custodian of Yorubaland and brings royalty, honour and authority to the silver screen.


‘Take Me Home’ centres on the quest for originality and identity. It tells the story of an American girl who became possessed after wearing an African masquerade costume that was stolen during a tour in Ile-Ife. In a bid to save her life, her entire family, guided by the promises of two African immigrants, embarked on a journey that would land them in hot waters.

As the spiritual and traditional leader of the Yoruba people now saddled with the responsibility of making supplications to God and the Òrìṣà on behalf of his people, Ooni boldly depicted the rich culture of the Yorubas and its relevance in the western world.

Take Me Home’ produced by historian and filmmaker Dotun Taylor, features Hollywood actors like Dave Sheridan, Amber Rivette, Felissa Rose, Meji Black, and Nollywood actors Abdullateef Adedimeji and Bayo Bankole (Boy Alinco) among others.

https://www.thisdaylive.com/index.php/2023/02/03/ooni-of-ife-goes-hollywood/

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jeromestarks:
There are many of them like that out in the society.

One old hag (29) called my line last night saying she just want to check if I'm still alive.
We talked for some time and BOOM! she said she wants to come to my house!😱 Ah! Aunty, I no dey ooo.
Na so I reject the idiot and her over used pvssy.


When they were young, they will be dreaming of a guy with private jet. When they clock 25/26 and the guy didn't show up, or the ones they were dating had dumped them after fvcking their pvssy wide, they look for the men they rejected in the past and retire.


Never let a woman who has been fvcked and mounted by many men retire into your house. Fvck her and let her go (some are not even worth fvcking anymore. Just let her go).

Marry a virgin woman. Only her deserves your love and devotion.

Even if you married a virgin it doesn't mean you should start worshipping her like she
is a goddess or what is the talk about love and devotion about?

If you disvirgined her and married her you can still lose her to the street women are all the same. Just because you melt her as a virgin doesn't mean you should start worshipping her like she is a goddess the moment you make her believe she is really very special for whatever reason or better than you she will start misbehaving.

Ginaz:
I blame that girl for coming back to you, now you're feeling too big for yourself.

he know his worth and know he is very big for himself.

Only stupid men and useless simps will enter a long time relationship or marry a street girl with lot of burden and emotional baggage, all in the name of love that is all illusion and figment of our imagination and obsession.

I have no plan to think of a long time relationship with a woman until i'm 50 or I see a woman worthy enough to make me consider it which i know is almost impossible in this Nigeria.

Everyone is suffering , money notes is now a big business old or new.

POS operators and even Bank officials now demand big percentage on withdrawal of any amount.

The most unfortunate thing is that Bank infrastructures in Nigeria and network is not optimal enough for seamless and stable flow of transfer Transactions. I mistakenly sent money twice to someone yesterday because of sluggish and inresponsive GT Bank mobile banking platform.

So many mobile banking platforms including USSD banking are down most of the time since this chaos started.

What is banishment in Nigeria constitution ?

MITCHELL96:
When I said I read this book 3 good times from start to finish and every other books by this same author, you think I was joking?

Why quote all these laws for me as if I don't know the break down of each law and how and when to use them? Some people sef 😕

I've left your thread abeg.

I quoted the whole thing for others not you

You also don't have to adhere to all the laws

deliberately failing some laws can also be part of the game

Buhari reputation in the north is currently under attack after that Tinubu outburst in Ogun state if you read the news on front page and the news about Ganduje letter to Buhari.

Tinubu is also trying very hard to adhere to law 1 through his several praises of Buhari and supporting him through his speeches but Buhari is too stubborn for that law to work on him due to several factors like tribalism etc. When it is not working that's why he is ditching that law.

As far as i'm concern no real Inner circle of Tinubu have come out to work against him so he haven't really failed law 2, in fact he is using the same law against Atiku by trying to recruit Wike and the G5

MITCHELL96:
I've read the book, 3 times sef.

Infact, I've read all Robert Greene books.

Even as a Peter Obi supporter, I see he's pulling just law 6 which is 'courting attention at all cost'.

But he messed up and couldn't pull law 1 which is 'Never outshine the master' he doesn't know he has offended (Buhari).

He hasn't applied law 9 which is 'win through actions and not arguments'.

He also wants to use law 9 which is "Make others come to you, use BAIT if necessary" and we all know his bait is (MONEY) but Buhari has humbled him with the new naira policy 😂

He also violated law 26 which is 'Keep your hands clean" we all know Tinubu's hand isn't clean as he's a drug dealer, thief, liar etc.

I don't want to go further about this law thing shaa because they're many he isn't using and has also violated 😂

He doesn't know a lot of people in his APC camp are even using law 14 on him which is 'pose as a friend and work as a spy'.

They're many laws that would've helped him but baba was meant to fail this election for a new and better Nigeria to be born. Make he go rest.

You are making a mistake, you don't have to follow all the rules

The rules counter each other

If you think he failed rule one and two he may be playing according to rule 22 and 17

MITCHELL96:
I've read the book, 3 times sef.

Infact, I've read all Robert Greene books.

Even as a Peter Obi supporter, I see he's pulling just law 6 which is 'courting attention at all cost'.

But he messed up and couldn't pull law 1 which is 'Never outshine the master' he doesn't know he has offended (Buhari).

He hasn't applied law 9 which is 'win through actions and not arguments'.

He also wants to use law 9 which is "Make others come to you, use BAIT if necessary" and we all know his bait is (MONEY) but Buhari has humbled him with the new naira policy 😂

He also violated law 26 which is 'Keep your hands clean" we all know Tinubu's hand isn't clean as he's a drug dealer, thief, liar etc.

I don't want to go further about this law thing shaa because they're many he isn't using and has also violated 😂

He doesn't know a lot of people in his APC camp are even using law 14 on him which is 'pose as a friend and work as a spy'.

They're many laws that would've helped him but baba was meant to fail this election for a new and better Nigeria to be born. Make he go rest.

Law 3: Conceal your intentions
Keep people off-balance and in the dark by never revealing the purpose behind your actions. If they have no clue what you are up to, they cannot prepare a defense. Guide them far enough down the wrong path, envelop them in enough smoke, and by the time they realize your intentions, it will be too late.

When talking about Reputation who told you it has to be a morally upright reputation ? besides his opponents are also using this law against him by attacking his reputation

Law 6: Court attention at all cost
Everything is judged by its appearance; what is unseen counts for nothing. Never let yourself get lost in the crowd, then, or buried in oblivion. Stand out. Be conspicuous, at all cost. Make yourself a magnet of attention by appearing larger, more colorful, more mysterious than the bland and timid masses. Example is all those gaffes



Law 7: Get others to do the work for you, but always take the credit
Use the wisdom, knowledge, and legwork of other people to further your own cause. Not only will such assistance save you valuable time and energy, it will give you a godlike aura of efficiency and speed. In the end your helpers will be forgotten and you will be remembered. Never do yourself what others can do for you. Tinubu is a master of this laws he claimed the credit for all the work done by the Governors of Lagos state after him

Law 12: Use selective honesty and generosity to disarm your victim
One sincere and honest move will cover over dozens of dishonest ones. Open-hearted gestures of honesty and generosity bring down the guard of even the most suspicious people. Once your selective honesty opens a hole in their armor, you can deceive and manipulate them at will. A timely gift—a Trojan horse—will serve the same purpose. Several people endorsed Tinubu based on this alone


Law 13: When asking for help, appeal to people’s self-interest, never to their mercy or gratitude
If you need to turn to an ally for help, do not bother to remind him of your past assistance and good deeds. He will find a way to ignore you. Instead, uncover something in your request, or in your alliance with him, that will benefit him, and emphasize it out of all proportion. He will respond enthusiastically when he sees something to be gained for himself. The Alliance with Buhari is based on this


Law 17: Keep others in suspended terror: Cultivate an air of unpredictability
Humans are creatures of habit with an insatiable need to see familiarity in other people’s actions. Your predictability gives them a sense of control. Turn the tables: Be deliberately unpredictable. Behavior that seems to have no consistency or purpose will keep them off-balance, and they will wear themselves out trying to explain your moves. Taken to an extreme, this strategy can intimidate and terrorize. Who can predict Tinubu ?

Law 22: Use the surrender tactic: transform weakness into power
When you are weaker, never fight for honor’s sake; choose surrender instead. Surrender gives you time to recover, time to torment and irritate your conqueror, time to wait for his power to wane. Do not give him the satisfaction of fighting and defeating you—surrender first. By turning the other cheek you infuriate and unsettle him. Make surrender a tool of power.

Tinubu is a master of 48 laws of Power, if you watch is every move in Nigeria Political arena all of his move are power move but only those that have read the book 48 laws of power by Robert Greene will understand.

Sanwo Olu also just borrowed from the play book to withdraw from Lagos guber debate.

Only naive people believe Politics should only be about what the people want, it is all about power and control but doing what the people want can also be another way to gain that power and control. The end justify the means for these politicians, through out the world is no different.

Politicians want power and control and will even be willing to do what the people want to gain that power and control.

SpecialAdviser:
Agbero politics of killing will never phase out of Lagos until Tinubu is no more active in the game. He will leave a thuggery legacy that will continue to reverberate in the minds of Lagosians in years to come.

I pray for souls of so many innocent souls that got caught up in the thuggery power play. I also pray for young youths who were used and lost their lives in Lagos thuggery power play.

May the soul of Jakande continue to rest in peace due to the peace legacy he left in Lagos. We hope in God to sanitize Lagos and I urge Lagosians to vote Wisely come Feb 25th 2023. We can't continue to watch the unfortunate scene we just saw in Lagos. It's a big shame in this 21st century.

Agbero have always been part of South west and Nigeria Politics since Awolowo and Akintola era, it is there before Tinubu and will still be there after Tinubu.

dat9jaguy:
If dem mean you for this country it is then you will know how efficient our security services are.
All in all, it leaves evidence that can be discovered which is a risk not worth taking.

Our politicians can take any risk

So you think all the public money they are moving around and stealing they are not leaving any traces ?

It is not risk if they can easily maneuver around it and come out innocent even if they are caught

Tinubu received Bullion van on the eve of election so what happened ?

It is only the masses that will suffer this CBN policy, only naive people believe it will affect politicians lol. They will find a way around it, even the new notes will be more in circulation before the election next month.