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Nnamebuka:
Oh my bad. You're not really that bad seeing your newly updated profile pics.
Guess the former picture made you look hideous

Cheers man!

It was a funeral, plus hideous is an over-exaggeration.

Nnamebuka:
OMG! pcguru is that you?

In your hay days here you were quite young, handsome and intelligent. No doubt you're still intelligent though but have really changed physically. Best guess is either you're married and it has taken its toll on you or work has or even both. The change nonetheless is too rapid bro.

Cheers my man and much respect.

Workaholic lifestyle probarbly but I prefer how I look now.

Henrymorre:
I'm.igbo, she is also Igbo, she is learning how to sow cloth, so yeah I will say

I guessed as much, but my babe is igbo too, so not always a tribe thing, oga you never see wife.

The5DME:
With all due respect sir; what has one's tribe got to do with this?

There is a stereotype among tribes, so I wanted to satisfy my curiosity

I'll be joining this forum, I have master for Data Science so I have to learn python.

Henrymorre:


I will try to make this story very short.

So I've always loved my babe, buy her stuffs, gives her money, take her out, etc. So tomorrow is her birthday, and she has a very bad hair. We where talking over on phone yesterday, and she asked me to send her money to make her hair, plus she also said she doesn't have money to do her bday, and wants me to help her on it. Well, I wanted to help her do her bday shaa, just to make her happy, but I can't carry all the responsibilities alone, so I said no to her getting money to do her hair. I told her to make her hair by herself or wear a wig, since I will be ,

Paying for hotel
Buying the cakes
Buying the drinks
Buying the meat
Calling DJ to play song for her and her friends
Plus giving her a gift..

She started acting all up, that she will do the bday with her friends that she doesn't need me in it anymore, that her friend will make her hair for free blah blah, and she will sleep over at her friends place. Etc

So guys the question, is this lady really a wife material? Or someone who is just there to eat money and go?

Did I over react?

She is not a reasonable babe. A reasonable woman won't put all that debt on the person's head without even contributing unless money is not an issue to both couples. Don't listen to Zzor, she's a troll. A reasonable lady will be bother about how much you are spending.

Me I will ask , what tribe is the girl ? is she working ?

Karleb:
Not so. I won't get married in a very long time.

Besides, marriage itself could be avoided.

The main problem is I am no longer young.

I must say, there are a lot of benefits attached to growing old but can't we just pause the age counter for a second?

Lol better get used it, growing old is natural , soon you will feel it more, that marriage you want to avoid, you will clamour to it. Being old and lonely is bad feeling, humans need emotional support and responsibilities to able to have meaning in their life. Because Death awaits us all. Enjoy your youth, advance in life and settle down and raise a family. Else you'll just be living a pointless life. Marriage is good it has benefits

nwaezeemmanuel:
Only commenting because you mentioned medical space. Your idea of dominance may be different from mine. A huge amount of pioneering medical breakthroughs were made my men. Perhaps, the recent female to male ratio in medical institutions and settings may be large but it isn't always based on intelligence.

Same with why we have more guys in engineering fields. It can be a numbers game and reflection of natural tendencies.

I believe there are women capable of intelligence and critical thinking. But I also feel they are more vulnerable to emotions than men and process things differently.

My context for dominance was the great amount of eligible Female Medical Nigerians in the US not "pioneer" dominance , the person I was responding to stated Nigerian women do not have capacity for Intelligence and that's a very odd statement for a supposed reasonable person to state. Your response is understandable and true too, Men do dominate in Engineering fields and Science too, and women are also in such fields.

Everyone:
All these Gender wars here is childish everyone should grow up. especially the ones that keeps writing All Nigerian women are useless. That's a naive way of thinking, in life both men and women will help you in your journey.

Kylekent59:
We call this stupidity. How could she do that when she didn't even know anything about the man?

All I see is a lucky girl that could have regretted her actions by spreading her legs for a man she barely knew.

We are now in a sexually liberated generation, There is no longer shame in the society, that is the norm in modern relationships. The hookup culture, check Twitter, the more you stay on twitter, the more you become very exposed to liberalism, and you start to think like that, it's the environment, unless you are a Religious person, chances are you too are engaging in such if not, then good for it, but immorality is now the new norms at least here in Lagos.

Breaking News: Two adults decide to get married, audiences are shocked by the reserve-consequences of illicit activities, Read more on this.

I am bothered by this thread, why do you think Nigerian women are not smart, I'm worried how you people perceive things. Or are you guys actually trolling ?

DEMZEE:
She's a bloody feminist

I don't listen to Wat ladies say, I watch Wat they do

She wants men to b responsible but she doesn't want men to have authority. Just look at her name, she still bears Owens.... Her maiden name for goodness sake. She is even more popular than her husband. She is the dominant gender in her relationship, she's a pseudo masculine hybrid beast lady

PS: I love women, I love feminine women

I was banned, Candance Owen is a foreign matter not Nigerian, Nigerian women are intelligent and they are dominating in the Medicine space in both the US, UK and countries seeking doctors. If you say Nigerian women are not intelligent then you are either consuming too much Red pill. Unless you are not a professional or never have worked with women. 13 years of working or more and women dey, smart ones. If you are not in that environment you will always classify women based on the ones you are exposed to. Change your environment. I don't mean move to the island, but go to places of intellect and you will see what I am saying.

I think once a week, we should get on Google Meet and discuss the ideas behind freelance work and so. What do you think ?

ClintonNzedimma:
I disagree with the electron part.
You know NodeJs has c++ running behind, you can’t blame js only for the memory hog

See where my anger comes from, Although a Figma with massive images are responsible for the large memory, but see other processes it's all Chromium instances ( Electron and Chrome )

SegFault:
I no de learn that thing again, I thought php was ugly until I met that language, imagine after wasting your time reading a whole for dummies you can't even still understand most of what is going on I can't understand the docs or tutorials you just have to do what they call copy and paste, languages and frameworks they churn out these days are headless, only good one I've come across without too much load is bootstrap. I thought c++ was the worst language on earth till js.

C++ has too many quirks you need to know about, but I like the language because you can build anything but it is way complex, but worth it.

ClintonNzedimma:
I disagree with the electron part.
You know NodeJs has c++ running behind, you can’t blame js only for the memory hog

Chromium alone consumes ram, now spinning up one for a basic application is laziness and bad habit.

Karleb:
I was speaking for front-end Javascript.

The same thing I'm talking about

React is always showing it's issues, Read this https://medium.com/airbnb-engineering/react-native-at-airbnb-f95aa460be1c

The First time at Interswitch, Vanso said we should learn RN, I was learning it and decided to look at how it works, and mehn I was just like Hell no, I'd rather learn Native/Flutter. However it's good for Business App sha

Karleb:
I don't really get the hate towards JS here?

React, Angular and Vue have been around for a while, this is 2021 and they are still going stronger.

In fact, these frameworks coupled with ES5 and 6 are the reason almost everyone want to learn Javascript these days. They make it exciting.

If you know C or C++, what exactly is your concern with someone that does front end Javascript?

If you know Javascript before learning any of it's popular front end framework, you can always switch to what is trending and what pays the bill by the time your stack becomes obsolete.

JavaScript has alot of bad parts, Single threaded and just a terrible language as much as I know the language I always complain about it, a framework node takes 800mb of memory to run, Electron is the worst thing to be invented, massive bloat of memory. I get where SegFault is coming from, back then Desktop apps were built and consume minimal memory with Qt Framework (miss this) but now every tom dick and harry use Electron and contribute to the bloat. I do frontend and 4GB is gone to Electron/Slack and Node instances. JS is truly a messy language.

DEMZEE:
I don't look at conservative women or ladies as intelligent. They are just pseudo masculine hybrid beast ladies. Innately they are not logical. Especially that Candice Owens of a lady.

They have feministic tendencies and they are trying to play smart about it. But I can see through their facade

Candice Owens even identify as feminism, she stated she loves being a traditional wife, and even explained that most feminist would rather enslave themselves to Corporatism than a family. Conservative has nothing to do with intelligence, it's how they don't allow Foreign ideologies change their way of life.

Seriously your outlook on life is very skewed, read a lot of APA and Psychology Publications there are tons of researches that puts women at intellectual standpoint. I get you hate women , but what you actually believe is not true. I feel like I am talking to a young person because that sounds actually immature.

lilvicky68:
Broke Ladies are the worst self.. always demanding nothing to bring to the table or help themselves..that's why their private part suffers..

No smart guy dates a broke girl, unless it's for sex, broke girls are easy to sway with flash cash. your generation is something else sha

DEMZEE:
Shallow minded because I am stating basic biological and evolutionary facts.

Look at the west, just look at USA for example, they just abolished legal recognition of "biological sex" through this absurd "equality act" in their house and guess which gender is their speaker.... A bloody emotional useless female

Female are not built for intelligent conversations

Don't fight nature abeg

That's the doing of the Left, not women. There are tons of women too who do not share such views. You should be careful what you consider "truth" because you can easily misguide others, just as most of you are actually misguided on this platform. The Left are very liberal and more woke, they are the ones responsible for the Identity Politics and Gender Identification. So you actually believe all women do not have capacity for Intelligence. That's a very serious shallow mindset not an insult but the truth.


What did you study in school ? because that's odd POV

Android Development ( Java / Kotlin ) UI / Performance / Native Speed Full Control of things
Flutter Development Speed / Interoperable with Native API and Rapid Development
React Native: Good Development Speed but Bad Performance bottlenecked by JavaScript Single Thread
Web Dev / Apache Cordova / PhoneGap - Can use Web technologies but extremely slow because of you are using WebView so lot of DOM Tearing

This is my cold brutal advice, go to Android Java/Kotlin and pick Flutter on the side. It always pays to know the underlying platform. RN is very problematic when you need to debug and fix packages issues.

A poor man is what you mean not broke, Broke is relative. Someone's broke is 5m in account, we are not all on the same level

DEMZEE:
It's not about environment.

The ones that claim to b "intelligent" have feministic tendencies. They are pseudo masculine hybrid beast ladies.

Women are not created for logical discussions

They are innately emotional beings, solipsistic and narcissistic too

That's a shallow minded opinion, Read more books because that mindset will poison your outlook on life