₦airaland Forum

Pfizzzy:
He's indeed passionate about sport . if he noh like sport he wouldn't have been addicted to betting

Lol I like your sense of humour, good one ,

She released for the public, so she definitely wanted it to be seen by everyone. Social Media has a dark social psychological aspect to it, as it feeds into your narcissism and all. If you are looking for social validation and clout you will be in tons of danger. It's good to see younger generation suffer from what APA writes about. And believe me this social media and Big Tech companies make all this intentional I might sound crazy, but it is an agenda , an agenda to make people less secure about themselves, the more insecure they are, the more they will clamour to social validation and that in turn is profitable. There is a book I saw about this and also a research paper.

dumahi:
Really? So, I'm possibly the fool.

You are not a fool, but wait for others to comment and you will see what I mean , we all know him. I've advised him others have, he won't listen. I've told him to change that name

dumahi:
This post has again revealed how WICKED most Nigerians are. Someone had the gut to expose himself so much because he is in dire need of help but not a single compassion from many commenters here.

As for you OP, my first advise to you is to STOP cursing yourself. For instance, your moniker alone is self-curse. Again, the title of this thread is self-curse.

I understand you are a very HONEST person due to your Catholic (I bet) background. It makes you to have very honest attitude but you are now honest TO A FAULT if it now leads you to a negative self-image which is very clear from your post.

Know this: Negative self-image is not a virtue. For instance, it's not genuine humility. It is the function of subconscious ingratitude towards your Creator who made you so fearfully and wonderfully! It doesn't lead to repentance rather, it reinforces bad habits SINCE YOU THINK YOU ARE WORTHLESS ("after all, worthless things should be treated dishonorably" is how your subconscious puts it to you CONSTANTLY.

So, what should you do about this situation?
1. Start NOW to change your self-communication from negative to positive. See how: In your privacy, always tell yourself "I am a handiwork of the Most High. Therefore, I am great. I am honorable. I am grateful to my Maker for making me so great" and more like this. As you are doing this, DON'T STRUGGLE WITH YOUR BAD HABITS. Instead, they will go away by themselves. Think of what happens to a drowning person: if he struggles with the water he gets drowned finally. But if he lets go and relaxes, he gets saved. So, don't struggle with your bad habits. For instance, if that girl comes and you find yourself sucking her as usual, don't worry about it. BUT DON'T BE OBSESSING ON SUCH THOUGHTS. Instead, spend your thoughts on being grateful for how great you are (which is NOT EVEN A LIE, judging from your writing ability). As your self-honor increases, YOU WILL NATURALLY STOP THOSE BAD HABITS. But, be warned: they are going to ease off on their own as you continuously impregnate yourself with POSITIVE THOUGHTS AND FEELINGS.
2. Don't listen to Devil's voices telling you how useless you are via other people (like your boss or colleagues or Nairalanders or Facebookers talking down on you.
3. I will introduce you to an audio that will help you to IMMEDIATELY start transforming your finances by transforming your mindset. You will see that EVERYTHING about you actually depends on your mindset. Let me get the link (I'll be right back).

It is because we have advised him time and time and time, he takes pleasure in pity and writing about this woes than changing so no point having compassion for him. For all we know he could be lying about his addiction and just romanticizing issues for poetry

Randy100:
Diary of an indiscipline man. You are not going to die. Brace up, cos you will pay all that you owe.

Hmmm that's a nice ring to it.

The5DME:
Good afternoon sir, congrats on the new crib. You really inspire some of us here.
Graciàs

Lol na rent o , landlord fit craze tomorrow but thanks I like to post things so people can see things take progress and time no shortcut or overnight success

It can happen to anyone, you would assume that someone of that calibre will sort things out, but people of wealth sometimes are usually users. He thought she would she sort things out. e dey happen to anyone even in business with Top companies

missdivineprove:
What about women? They don't have past experience from men?

Giving an explanation, not a justification

Daretobeawinner:
Many women had equally face that , does that makes us stronger than men?

I wouldn't know i don't rant about women, a reasonable person would strive ahead , a bitter person would create a topic , some of us are built different

Lot of men are venting because of experiences from women in the past who have betrayed or lied to them.

Alexgman1:
You have being dating a girl for a year and all of a sudden she broke up with you and went back to her ex who she said she hated so much & would hurt him if she ever saw him again because he used her & took advantage of her. Do you think there is something am not doing right Or does her ex has something i dont have that she went back to him?

Should you care or you should be focusing ahead, if you know you treated her well then move along, e go pain but man must live on

hmmmm

Omoluabi16:
Not even Nigerian-American.

Because they want it to be an American history not Nigerian

it's common sense to walk away

Driedfish:
Meow meow.


I’m not impressed!!!

Lol � this is just so funny

The man had no ambition if not he would have moved on and worked on his life instead. Fools who succumb to emotions will always suffer the same feat.

cbrass:
Thanks bro , it has been awhile. never knew you changed your moniker. There a lot of old-time-coders i don't see here anymore. i hope they are all doing fine sha

Yeah qtguru is my name on twitter so this was an opportunity to delete that moniker and focus on tech mostly. We are still here do you do Node because there is a project on ground.

Ctorch:
Bolu, one of the sons of former presidential aide Doyin Okupe has come out as gay.

Bolu shared a photo of himself in a rainbow-coloured shorts with a rainbow flag behind him.



https://www.instagram.com/p/CKREamUs0y5/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

he captioned the photo.

Bolu graduated from the University of Manchester, UK, back in 2015

Stale news

cbrass:
what is the link ?

I'll share soon

https://www.linkedin.com/groups/8873861

Target international blog like egghead or something, don't settle for local jobs. and the dollars will benefit you more. Kendo UI is an example if you can write and invest in their framework, I think there is room for paid content. Do some research

[quote author=Deicide post=98282750][/quote]Dude that is some sick text based ui, what is window manager is this ? na pcguru1