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Don't date guys without ambition, lazy or can't plan for the future.

Don't date poor guys with no mentality of building something. Being broke is not an issue everyone gets broke, it's the mindset that matters.

Always have a skill, invest and network.


Peace

Eunoiaa:
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That's all you're saying? Chi.


A'ight.

Marrying a single mother is understandable, but to marry a woman with another man's baby in the womb is weird. unless that's a new kink out there

Eunoiaa:
No, what is weird is you describing pregnancy as if it's an object and not a baby that is the biological outcome of TWO people having sex. Someone's pregnancy? It's giving "he took my virginity." The baby also belongs to the carrier? And the fact that you cannot fathom why a person would KNOWINGLY marry someone who's pregnant by another person doesn't mean they're any of the degrading terms y'all call them?




If you project any harder on me, you'd turn a projector.

"It's giving" you're one of those people who talk like that.

People marry people with someone pregnancy that's weird. That's no caring that's low self esteem

folake4u:
Finally, Jennyclay has been vindicated. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

I'm ready, I just need to catch one rapist, in the past we've almost beat one, but it was false accusation. I dey find blood spill

Day by day I'm beginning to understand Jennyclay.

EkiranAlexmedia:
Behave yourself qtguru

What evidence do you have to call a fellow nairalander pedophile?
Damn

I'll call anyone a pedophile who sees nothing wrong in calling a 15 yr old baby in a sexual manner. But in his case I was harsh out of anger.

Hmmmm you guys should discuss because Naija hard and if you can japa through marriage then you're in a luck. My homies have relocated because their wives have paper, so they didn't get to spend much. Don't let ego stop you from having a better life. You can do simple court wedding and join her later.

Don't fumble the bag, na you know your babe, all these RP will poison your mind. Unless she's ambitious to the point of abandoning you

Fryx:
Check my first comment again.

I said the man has a bad intention going by what he said. But it is not wrong talking to a younger girl. I love having good discussion with people so no one can arrest me for talking with a younger girl.

I am not supporting the guy. I am only saying people should stop criminalizing simple things. We are humans for Christ sake. We need each other to grow. If not for how the world is becoming, an elderly man should be responsible for the growth of others, male or female.

When I was younger and hustling too (I am an orphan and left the care of my uncles early to pursue my own career), that’s how the women started sexualizing me. Women that I am working under and supposed to look up to. That experience taught me to start taking responsibility for others, young or old. I became responsible for those that I am supposed to look up to. Why, because society has been fvcked.

A side note. You need to mind how you talk to people. This will be my last response to you.


A second side note. I am in my mid twenty. You may even be older than me. And that’s the problem, the elders that we are supposed to look up to have fvcked up the world. They don’t even know how to hold discussions in public forum.

Good as long as you agree it's wrong and the fact that he took her number is also wrong, that means you have sense. Because we have pedophiles among us, I'm not going to waste my time looking for discernment, if you don't choose your words wisely. Dealing with pedophiles is something in my area, we frown upon and beat people for. so...

You've never had to deal with a rape issue so I can understand your calm approach to the topic, unlike me, all those shalaya is not of concern to me, as long as you agree that what the guy did is wrong, then that's all that matters.

Terrible acting

Go fcvk yourself

Talismann:
just dey cap dust. As a sensible person, when you speak, speak for yourself alone.

When you have your own daughter, when she's barely 12 years of age, take her by the hand and introduce her to every uncle in your street and even give them unfettered access to her.
I weep for you

Somebody wey we got beat soon, I like people like him. They'll fit for beating one day.

Even if you join she's still on a student visa, what's the plan after that ?

Fryx:
You have a problem. You know right?

Must discussion between a guy and a girl be sex. Why do you guys sexualize everything? Are you this dumb?

Going by your username, I thought you must be some intelligent dude. But, I am sorry.

For your information. I am someone people respects and look up to. If I have a younger girl as a friend, then it’s my duty to help her grow. Ok?

I have a strong bond with my girlfriend. Do you know why? I train her to be a proper woman. I took responsibility over her without demanding anything from her. (Not even sex).

I have a couple of lady as friends. They respect and love me deeply because I do not useless myself in front of them. I am a MAN not a sex-starved male animal.

I have some male friends that respect me deeply. Because I am a MAN. A man that people depend upon and trust.

Parent sometimes introduce me to their children, which are coming of age. If it’s a girl and I got talking with such a girl, normally, I will try to evaluate her intelligence. If she is intelligent, I might discuss some nerdy topics with her and teach her some life skill once in a while. If she isn’t very intelligent. I just maintain a distant relationship and only talk to her when necessary. Same with guys. Building people is what I do best.

I am from a royal background (a first class king in Nigeria). It’s my natural instinct to care for others.

Some of us value building people. Not everyone is like you. Ok?

Anyway, I don’t blame you. I don’t know the type of environment you grew in.

If you followed the Twitter thread you will see where he made some suggestive messaging if you see nothing wrong with it, then you sir are part of the problem. If you don't think and talk like someone who deserve respect then you won't get, being older doesn't stop the likes of you collecting beating. Mr Pedophile

Fryx:
I talk with who I want to talk with. If you have a problem with that. That’s your problem.

I know Mr pedophile one day you'll land where you belong it's just a matter of time.

Fryx:
The guy had a bad intention by asking the girl not to tell her parent. However, you can’t arrest me just for talking with someone. I love having good conversations with people, either grown or not.

That’s how Facebook blocked me from talking with my kid sister that chatted me up. Foolish people with dirty minds.

You will enter one chance one day, keep talking to underaged girls

A lot of useless men roaming around, I go catch one of them one day, awon pedo oshi some of them are amongst us on this thread too.

Yourprick:
just sent you a mail

replied

Yourprick:
Bro please can I talk to you off nl, don't have a job for you just some questions about tech space

Yeah sure

That's his profile because I am Tech and programming so my advice might not always work for you. Approaching programming gigs is different from others.

wonyi:
Please what should I do?

Buy connects that's the unfortunate thing about Upwork, you have to be careful about connects.

wonyi:
Thanks.

I am new to upwork. What does it mean when I am told " INSUFFICIENT CONNECTS TO SUBMIT PROPOSAL FOR THE JOB?"

You're of connects

Haynnie:
Why do you think is only dependent on the salary? There might be further plans too

State the future plans, one salary in this economy is not ideal anymore, you need multiple hustles

wonyi:
I searched on nairaland but couldn't get much. Please help me with his name on nairaland.


Please I need someone to boost my portfolio

On Twitter Gbenga Adebiyi I made a mistake

Dollar is now 1400, so a 300 gig is almost your salary for the month.

jikins:
Well, switching to Rust is steeper if you don't know the language. Bun js is still very similar to NodeJS adoption will be easier because it still supports almost everything node supports but with added benefits here and there. If Bun comes of age and completely delivers on its promises there won't be any reason not to use it. When its just node but with added benefits.

Also, NodeJS has its own team that keeps optimizing it so it's not like it has been abandoned. I remember seeing one of their new updates a few weeks after Bun js was announced which made Node faster than before. So it's still actively being worked on.

That's a valid point though, Rust is a language vs Bun a runtime.

Equity15:
that's harsh. It's better you move. You'll need to show sufficient proof of income to go into portugal with a dependant. Just got your email too

I'm working on my agency and building some products, by God's grace I will make the money it's 3040$ euro per applicant and 350$ per spouse, luckily I only have 1 spouse, and it's to show for 3 months, I can make that, I just need the following:

1. Upwork consistency
2. Remote Job
3. Agency and Consultation
4. Selling a digital product

It's tough but it's doable