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^^ lol

have u ever watched lagidigba?

hmmmm- whats the west african look?

^^ its about relative wealth dimwit. if you've been living in in a 20million house all your childhood it will be suffering to downgrade to a 1million one.
doesnt mean children do not survive in 20 000 houses.

and children are the most important party in any divorce- thats the reason some men end up paying out more than half their earnings.

ok your second paragraph made no sense.

no you cant simply put children where money is God saga are you just arguing for the sake of it??

lets turn around a question you asked on another thread- in western countries who is more likely to be fully taking care of the kids?

well the laws have been there before you were born and created by MEN much smarter than you. you can call it senseless till tomorrow they are still there. With majority of men running the judiciary system they still haven't changed.

Im not even going to try and defend a woman's contribution to a home or a marriage, but if you'd had to pay for it you'd be paying much more than half your life's earnings. think about that!

men can be both. . . very both. . .very much both like so. . .sorry i was busy counting treys pacs ive forgotten how to speak english

I think I prefer pretty boys to rough looking ones. makes sense.

o god! trey songs is incredibly attractive!! I feel the need to ask if your gaaaaaaay

of course he's manly, off to youtube to count his manly pacs right now!!

^^ lol

erm aparently the argument remains that the thought process leading one to masturbate will come from lusting of a sexual nature.

so going by the law of lusting from thinking without actually doing one has already commited sin, before plunging into the act!


think thats what crossman was trying to infer with his verses.

^^ because children are not meant to suffer from divorce.

If one has devoted years into a marriage there is not reason she should suffer all of a sudden when it ceases to work. A marriage is a lifetime contract regardless of how long it lasts.

and the children will be placed in a home in which they are better off, if the man hasn't been around to look after them since they were born a court cannot trust he's capable- the woman will get the kids, the cash to look after the kids, and the cash to look after herself after having spent god knows how many years lookign after the marriage.

its not as simple as you will like to think Saga, there is an absolute need for these laws to secure women (and atimes men) in case of a failed marriage.

tis true- yet some are. beautiful, like trey songs- shia labeouf, alexander skarsgard, the list can go on til tommorow.

ileobatojo:
Lol!! He’s a real criminal sha. Trying to pull a fast one on the oyinbo man!

I agree with you sha that what he’s offering her is too small to maintain any semblance of the lifestyle she is used to for all those years. He’s obviously out to spite her. If he had made her a better offer there may not be all this drama right now.

lol- theyre probably out to spite each other, the fact remains that the law is there to maintain their lifestyles as best as possible. So nobody suffers. How will the children be happy if mommy is now on 25% of what they used to have? what they will have after the divorce will be a shoebox compared to before. how is that fair. lol.

i dont see how the man can prefer his family to have his toils in place of his ex wife- regardless of how things are now he once loved her, see how people change sha. its a shame. dunno why most bother to get married.

going by the op- it means some peoples 'tongue' will be in Yoruba?

how is one going to discern mumbo jumbo and the holy spirit if you don't know what language is being spoken?

does the bible not say that tongue is a heavenly language?

seriously we need to encourage christians of different churches to cease from fighting each other.

is part of the gift of the holy spirit not being able to translate tongue? so if one can translate and one can interprete its both a gift of the holy spirit.

it doesnt mean one is spanish and one is Italian! it means those that heard and understood heard it as their own language. It was a gift in itself, which is why onlookers thought the men in acts 2 were actually drunk. they werent speaking in any known language.

hmmmm- somalian girls can be incredibly beautiful, please note my use of [b]can be[/b]s i will say no more about that.

then again they are the perfect mix of black and arabian, that probably adds to the beauty situation.

the men on the other hand *cough* i will say no more about that.

then again i know some somali men that are just too beautiful for words. . .

this is not a question, the question is- when is rain going to wipe the current calamity we have for Nigerian men off the face of the earth so we can start from scratch and produce noteworthy ones.

That is the question.

i agree- its not a sin, the bible doesnt say its a sin. and everyone does it all the time so who are we kidding.

for all intensive purposes of believing we we will all get to heaven, we will say self service is sinless and all of you should carry on with the *ehem*

if possible purchase tools aiding you in doing so.

good luck with all that

i think small businesses tend to fail all round, its not exclusive to Nigeria- without quantitative evidence I can say the SMEs in Nigeria tend to thrive from observation, since almost everyone in that country is an entrepreneur,

The main reason will probably be lack of investment, you need money to make a venture work, probably need more money to keep it working meaning profits don't start pouring in early enough for the business to last.its worthwhile doing a good long analysis of any plan before execution.

i will love to no the answer too,

ive noticed alot of men love coco chanel, i have no idea why i believe it smells like an oil factory but many men love it so who am i to argue.

i think men are attracted to strong scents, hence the reason for this horrible gucci vals gift

i on the other prefer sugary flowery scents like thierry mugler, angel, the march jacob range (which my mom say smells like bathroom spray ) i love the diesel fuel for her unlimited edition, celeb scents here and there jlo live, glow after dark, britneys spears dark blu bottle forgotten the name- rihannas rebi fleur (to DIE for!)
my signature perf is the D&G limpetrice- its amazing!

now men on the other hand. . . .the BEST male perfume is that issey miyake- no idea what its called all i know is we used to wait for this guy to arrive in college so we could hug him- he smelled divine. about 6 of us will be huggin him at the same time (good times )

i dont support him ooo- the man is a criminal, lol. I will be PISSED if a man tried this with me. CAn you imagine being entitled to something and he goes to the depths of god knows which jungle to pull out some old law that says he cannot share?

i will KILL him!!!

sha sha-i dont know the length of time they were married but if it's long enough he should pay up and move on.

20 million is no comparison to 35, 000 how is she gonna keep up the lifestyle? what of the kids? no oooo he better release the money fast1 :p

@divine lol- tbh with you I believe what we see nowadays is a result of manipulating the law. These laws we're established because women were left with nothing to live on after being in long term marriages with men who end up abandoning them.

it's only fair after all, if the woman has spent 10 years of her life making a home she should benefit from it, if she had spent it working and living out of her own pockets it's different. After all lets not deny many rich men prefer that the women do not work and stay at home. So whats to become of her when the marriage is over? especially if she has children? The children are not meant to suffer as a result of the marriage and this is what often leads to very big pay outs.

Obviously giving the ever evolving system of marriage, the fast track mode of divorce but the very old fashion legal system, we have the women (and men) taking advantage, since the law is very much there and very old, men are meant to counteract it by using their common sense and either avoid marrying all together, keeping thier balls in their pants or marry a woman with as much to lose or benefit from the marriage so nobody ends up crying. Unfortunately the male ego isn't tied to his common sense and we still have the odd man paying heavy alimony to women who are far from deserving all because of some temporary rush of insanity he probably equated to love.
Whose fault is that?

HNosegbe:
In a country without free and compulsory education, it is to be expected. Merely a by-product of a failed society.

Thank you, that is all.

[quote author=c.fours link=topic=859170.msg10268954#msg10268954 date=1330130969]you do no understand her post hehn?
beauty aside, do you think Oluchi would be married to a millionaire if she weren't a supermodel?
there are more beautiful women out there. but many rich men tend to go for the models. Maybe to show that they are rich and can afford it. who knows.
it's part beauty factor and part "trophy" factor. and both are intertwined.

And we are not saying that there is anything wrong with it. Just calling out your hypocrisy on the matter.
you seem to have a problem with women marrying rich men. but we don't see you encouraging men to marry ugly women out of "love"[/quote]you know what- you are very very right!

and trust black men to take it up a notch making it a novelty to date a stripper or IndecentStar.

ive often wondered what was soo great about dating a model especially since most of them are actually ugly (lets be honest now supermodels arent hired for their looks, just the hanger frame)

dating a succesful beautiful woman (like a female artist) doesn't seem to carry as much weight as dating model a stripper or an adult movie star, I think since theres a price tag placed on these women its a sort of ego boost for the men.

I know rappers aren't good examples to go by, but they are the easiest way into your 'typical black mans' head.

Outstrip:
LMAO. You still have not treated this your vomitting. I vomited too. Just a little in my mouth

now where have i heard that before!!1lol

ive been trying soo hard, these nl posts havent been easy on my intestines!!!

@op- seriously how much is your husband earning gimme figures. i'm still trying to figure out how much exactly it will cost any man to make me sit at home.
he'd have to hire like 5 different people to keep me company, a personal trainer, personal assistant, personal shopper, personal gay yoga instructor, chef/cook/cleaner

^^o dear lord *vomit*

Situations like this make me *vomit* unless the ops husband is a millionaire (in POUNDS) then the man is a slowpoke!

Tbh with you its not a decision your husband is in place to make. If he doesnt want a nanny caring for the child then maybe he can quit his own job and become a househusband. How are you meant to raise a child when you are depressed and unhapy? Nothing good can come out of it. Make arrangements for childcare and tell him you must work to keep your sanity. And if he disagrees hes free to quit so he can raise your child himself. You have stayed at home now its his turn

If you allowd them theyll soon try to tell you women love to queue in walmart. Kmt

WHatever they love is definitely not food or grocery shopping. Clothes shopping maybe and nobody hates that.

Lol. But you all still need to eat do you not? So shopping is essential. Nobody has to love it.

i always came first. until uni. that im very proud of