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lol not you!

the ones that suffer from domestic abuse probably believe the same and hang around for the man to kill them!

@ the warrior im trying to be calm i just drink too much glucose

spread like wildfire?

spead like wildfire? SERIOUSLY??

Dis Guy:
OMG i was just thinking of this over the weekend!!

Not that i would run away or live in another town but i can live next door or some streets away

Oh i was also wonder if it would be okay, if i can have a room to myself, i prefer sleeping on the bed alone,
i dont like someone breathing in my face or hair touch my face

OMG!!! I FEEL EXACTLY THE SAME WAY!!!!

the idea of someone constantly being in your house and in your face and never leaving?? God almighty! lol
The solution is seperate bedrooms!!!

15 slaps? o god! probably what the sufferers tell themselves!

@op- no, he showed no remorse- he's an abuser. thats his psychology and it will take treatment to change it. Your threats won't maintain it's power for long and then see what you will use.

You say you won't take it now but the excuses you give him and yourself now will be expanded to forgive him next time. Like I said before this has all already happened. Your not a first.

Ahhh david, your obsessed with me just admit it

^^ yes, just like we no longer require 21st century men to fight lions and tigers with their bare hands.

And dear lawd where is that post? I will like to hit the writer over the head, i will very much like to do so. Whoever it is, is a true idiot. He just equivaleted getting a mrs to getting a servant, i cant, i just cannot

There is always adoption, don't understand why women will treat themselves this way, the solution is in a selection of motherless baby homes! take your pick!

And what is new about the social divide?? Oooo the daily mail? Why did i come here! *rolls eyess* probably a whole load of bul crap!

Its funny my boyfriend is the opposite and made it very clear that if work were to part us for more than 6 months then we shouldnt bother continuing,
If work takes you away for the week then sure, what if he was in the army? Or if he was a pilot or an aircraft attendant? Certain jobs don't allow for the parents to be around much so it makes sense there.
otherwise the dude probably wont even have a choice and is just running his mouth? Hows he gonna live like a divorced man paying alimony? Hows he gonna afford it?

Modern family is damn hilarious! Damn hilarious! Rolled off my bed and continuosly on the floor laughing!

He likes rihanna? Dbanj is officially an entertainer! He's a damn clown!! Hahahaha! I cant get over it! Lmfao! Dayum! Talk about bein an oliver! The dude does not recognize league at all! He de bounce! Even with rihannas awful taste in men i'm sure she cant! Even entertain herself with the aff man for 35minites! Dayum! My monday laughter began here!

He must have been the only person in the world to be naiive of the issues in nigeria, and he thinks he represents africa! Hmph. Dude cant even represent isale eko. What a monkey.

I have reason to believe he was huffing paint thinner and drinking some serious cough syrup before this interview, can anyone confirm? Lol

A shame none of the languages are properly regulated.

It will be nice to make sure every nigerian could speak at least 2. That will reduce the ethnic tension in the country. Caused by misunderstanding

He's gonna beat her again, she's gonna stay. The story's been written before it's not a new thing .
She may learn to live with it. Or take the naija wife proverb and be happy regardless.

Suffer and smile babe!

GP15:
Why Did You I Get Married

That is a name of a movie. very interesting, featuring Janet Jackson

thats exactly what i was gonna say! lol

i didnt like the end of the 2nd part the wrong man died. But its an eye opener to say the least.

jennykadry:
She is a strong woman and I admire her for that. She does not sound like someone who is willing to take any form of abuse from her man.

hmmm- we have varying definitions of a strong woman. A woman needs common sense to know when a man will hit her again.

At least when there's guilt there is hope. He slapped her and showed no signs of remorse. The woman is at the beginning of a looong bumpy ride.

She has absolutely no idea. Not a strong woman in my view.

agabaI23:
You should have read more where you got that info.

Look at this scenario!

A pregnant presents with a condition that requires immediate surgery to save her and the baby due to impending multiple organ failure. Surgery was carried out. It was later found out that the lady who died had lassa fever. Doctors involved in the surgery are all showing signs.

Body fluids from humans facilitate transmission and that is the reason why the doctors and health staff who are in contact with affected patients are at high risk.
I have seen this ailment eliminate people people the cause death is known. It comes in like a burglar and before the alarm does off, it would have recorded many casualties.
RIP

Ok- are we exaggerating lassa fever now? Are we making it out to be worst than aids? calling it a thief in the night? seriously i have to ask myself why i bother. I really do. In the year 2012, nigeria is struggling with preventable diseases. It kills like 7000 people you cannot possibly make it worse than it is.

you guys make me laugh- you speak like all teh Richard Bransons are Nigerian!

You call the petty market traders entrepreneurs? What else will they do when theres no jobs or education?

God, I wonder which is worst- the government or it's people

badesco:
If some part of the money stolen by politicians and civil servants would have been used to Purchase and stack drugs at our various hospitals drugs. may be many lives would have been saved today. God's judgment is at hand, so they should watch out.

God bless you- little money removed from GEJs expensive diet will be enough to curb Lassa fever. It's spread via inhaling rat feaces for christ sake! Its not like Aids or HIV, human interactions you cant control! Deadly rats you can!

ronkebp:
So a teller cannot have a career in banking?

Are u minding him? Mshew. Like a bank teller doesnt use his salary to sustain his family. Such ignorance.

^^ not really, he's going to hit her again, possible again, and then again.

I don't see this end well

the job doesnt even have to be a professional one- so long as it's full time keeping you out of the house all day and paying the bills. who cares

the fact is you will have as much time as your husband does- not more.

he! chineke oguchukwu! are you sure that is a woman no1?  

this is horrible!

at an FMC for that matter! They can't keep the place clean enough for lassa fever? How will they cope with something like mrsa?

This gov.t should be shamed!

Its as if his ideas are cooked up by a monkey? Seriously I find this man embarrasing

well im glad we're being honest with ourselves here.

I guess physical abuse is taken lightly in our parts of Africa interesting.

kbdrim:
Are you that ignorant? She was married thrice and had Kids, smh, Go read the link before you spew rubbishh

i was asking! m[i]o[/i]ron! hence the question mark! f[i]o[/i]ol!

kbdrim:
The point I was making it, let your family be ur priority, careers should be secondary because decades down u might regret the choices you make, I would rather sacrifice a major part of my career than my family. that is a choice i have made and yes I am a Guy. I value family above everything.

then you should do it, go and quit your job NOW! immediately! resign and tell your boss your family means more than your job! i DARE you!

ah why are u begging her? let her beat the woman now, u never know it may turn back the hands of time and the slap she gives the woman will actually slap her husbands blokus into his trousers!
let her beat her and come back to tell us what it solves.

we may even use it to advise other nlers of other problems.

instead of facing the facts about her home- she's busy blaming outsiders for her problems!

carry on! na you de reign!

Ujujoan:
We like changing topics on NL!  

THe poster asked how a working woman can cope with house chores and people advised her to encourage her husband to help out around the house. How does that make someone and incapable wife/mother

Woman's responsibility or not, a man's got to know that his wife is NOT his slave.

What the heck are we even arguing about    

the men here don't want to help their wives and are finding ways to justify it.

kbdrim:
"There is no solid satisfaction in any career for a woman like myself. There is no home, no true freedom, no hope, no joy, no expectation for tomorrow, no contentment. I would rather cook a meal for a man and bring him his slippers and feel myself in the protection of his arms than have all the citations and awards and honors I have received worldwide, including the Ribbon of Legion of Honor and my property and my bank accounts. They mean nothing to me. And I am only one among the millions of sad women like myself." - Taylor caldwell
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Taylor_Caldwell
This quote was by a woman who accomplished far more than most of us here will ever dream of, she published over 40 novels, many of them best-sellers. Her works sold an estimated 30 million copies. She became wealthy, traveling across the world. Her books were big time sellers right up to the end of her career and yet she says  I would rather cook a meal for a man and bring him his slippers and feel myself in the protection of his arms than have all the citations and awards and honors I have received worldwide, including the Ribbon of Legion of Honor and my property and my bank accounts Whatever choices you make now concerning your so called careers, remember that at the end of your life those goals might not mean much to you so dont be deceived by looking from a far into a lot of career women's lives now.
I have come to observe that women over the age of 50 irrespective of their careers who sit down to talk would rather brag about their children, grandchildren and family and hardly over their careers. so your so called careers might mean so much now you would be shocked a few decades down the line u wont hold the same opinions.

loooool no1- what does that have to do with egunsi?

no2- the woman never married? She never had children? It makes sense she will assume so since it's something she never experienced? If she married and what not, she wouldnt have those accomplishments and you wont be here quoting her today?

[quote author=tpia@ link=topic=871204.msg10212251#msg10212251 date=1329425513]women have to wear iron pant around this guy.


the ones who actually want to sleep with him are exempted- na them sabi wetin dem dey chase.[/quote]OMG *diess* you need to stop i sweaaaaar! lmao!