₦airaland Forum

A lot has gone on, dayum!

Kutey you have said it all.

igbaodun:
You call yourself a christian? Why is his ED problem a big deal? Why cant you have an ASEXUAL relationship and believe in God to provide kids for you the way God did for Mary and Joseph?

LMAO!!! i hope your joking. . . please tell me your joking? rotf!!!

the off tangent argument abeg free me-

@tpia I actually find its the submissive churchy ones that land in more trouble than others. . .

horny4u:
I am not a man but i donot think men choose a woman becos she is ambitious, educated and has a job, Those are stuff a woman does for herself not as a direct benefit to a man , or we will not have housewives, In my books being ambitious is soooo important but not a way to a man's heart but to my self esteem, many verrry educated woman are without a man and vice versa.

I disagree- then again Tpia is right, it depends on the man, the class and the culture.
Some men do need their brains stimulated as much if not more than anything else- then again the man needs to have a brain for this so for most here it might not apply. . .

who said anything about being single david. . . . . . hehehehehehehe. *sighs* then *vomits*

on a serious level, the thought of it induces violent regurgitations.

lol- i think the topic name should be changed should be changed.

What happened to having a job, having ambitions, having an education so she can hold a dem conversation! lmao

Nigerian men *sighs* what can one do but be entertained!

It happens, siblings having a difference of 1 year. Creepy but some like to do it.

lol- jezebels like me won't even look twice at the likes of you. you can trust me on that one!

Claus:
This is where the argument starts getting mixed up. Denying her the benefit of half his assets is not the same as saying he should pay her the same alimony as a poor man!

your the one that started it, the payments still have to be relative- a man being kicked out of his home and paying double mortgages is paying more than a millionaire thats just trying to be smart.
sha sha- 2 million, 20million 2 very different amounts, it's not right. He should pay up immediately.

Pregnancy and marriage are 2 different things- women should be more careful with getting pregnant than getting married, even if they had a child the man will still be poor and lazy, that will have been 10 times worse.

^^ then you shouldnt be arguing against this womans case- it makes no sense for a rich man to pay the same alimony as a poor one. Simples!

I agree someone shouldnt be thrown into poverty as a result of divorce, thats tough ,but someone has to bare the cost and better the man than the public,

Lol aww kpele how far along are u?

Im aware its part of some cultures, but i still dont agree with it. Im also aware religions believe women are only here to help the men, i don't agree with that either. I won't agree with any notion that dictates a woman is worth any less than a man. Thats just me- ive thought it through and to me it makes no sense and has no justification. Why should a woman be viewed as less when she does much more?

A marriage is meaningless to a woman if she has no say in it? She cant take any credit for any outcome if she's simply been dormant and parasitic through it? She's no different to a helpless child. My2centssha

Even so i think being feminie just means having lady parts ,i dont think being feminine means one has to 'submit' to someone elses ideas, values, decisions or opinions. I understand thats how some cultures work, and how marriage may have been in the 1980s but i dont appreciate it and i certainly dont respect it. Its backwards beliefs and we no longer live in jungles and wear leaves for pants so we really need to let this 'greatersex' thing go.

Lol! if only!

Award winning housegirl!! Lmao thats actually too funnay!

Its not his fault, is it not women that start with that nonsense. Succesful housewife indeed. Just admit your useless outside of the house and stop giving us girls a bad rep.

Mutter never fails, the vomit was everywhere i couldnt stop it. Omg your post was severely nauseating ,i have to go and take some paracetamol for my stomach then meditate to erase it from my memory ,eurgh! why even bother being human, females might as well be dogs trained not to bark until the master tells them to.

According to you women are not even born with personalities! they must be silent and soft spoken dear lawd almighty i cant listen to the crap.

Seriously i have to go clean up the vomit.

Drake- hell yea fuckinright.

^^ fortunately for most of these posters you have to have money to do that. They have nothing to worry about.

it allows one to keep a ground on the situation back home- it's easy to forget how Nigerians really are when you hang with too many oyoboish ones.

it has also taken all my bloody time!! lol

o god- imagine a young man that cant get it up, that must be the worst form of punishment ever.

Spirituality is a good cover up though, one must ask what his plan was for after the wedding.

the op is one hell of a bird for putting up with all that, your religion must insist you be bound to pain and suffering.

makes sense- you go to hell on earth then heaven after is it not?

continue begging your husband and his mom they may forgive you.

good luck with all that.

^^ ahhh is that what you guys tell yourselves? Ignorance is a terrible disease.

Why are you still here sef? shouldnt you be busy catching aids submitting to your husband? Run along now.

makes sense- your religous beliefs encourage you to live so.

See where your religion has lead you? You better think about becoming a budda.

the poster is not rich in money, but rich in fantasy.

Then again i've realised every tom and dick with a bank job thinks he's rich nowadays. Thrown the queens definition right out of the window.

Because they can afford one or 2 holidays to dubai they are now rich beyond belief, gimme a break! *rolls eyes*

Also op- given your theory, whats to explain the poor Nigerian men that are scammin all over the world? What have they done to relationships?

how can one be a succesful housewife? seriously I need to know? What is succesful about it?

I completely missed that memo all together,

^^ more advice from 12 inches? i'd do without!

@tivita more hateful speculation? Is it a crime to be educated, it should be a crime to be an ignorant individual like yourself who assumes and concludes nonsense.
I cannot continue dialogue with a slowpoke such as yourself, tis foolish to even do so.

@topic- is it just me or does using the term human development not rub the wrong way? I feel like it's another way of saying africans are still monkeys. . .*random*