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cap28:
just to add - i think Julie has been spoilt by mum and dad hence her disrespectful attitude to everyone in the house, notice how mum is afraid of even confronting her when she is being rude, i remember watching one episode where she was talkign to mum and dad as if they were her age mates - it really pissed me off, the fault lies with the parents, for whatever reason they walk on egg shells whenever they are around her and this is why she has evolved into the monster that she is today, she is going to find it really difficult to get on in life if she continues with that type of attitude.

I think the same; They let them off saying things like'they are british thats the way they talk'
Instead of making it clear they should never talk to them like that! but julie is generally very rude she even talks to her older brother that way too!

and although ola is overweight, I like how the parents never made a mountain out of it because thats worst than anything! She doesnt have self esteem issues and is a very happy child, even though im very sure she is attending a school where all the girls are skinny and self obsessed. Ola is very spoilt but will still have confidence in herself, thats all that matters!

omega25red:
if you are in the u.s go to vegas

no im not that will have been amazing!

ZIM DRILL:
just go and have fun unless if you want to hire a male stripper

Thats a great idea! but shes religous

Hey ladies gimme ideas for a hen night please, my friend is getting married soon and I havent even come up with anything!
thanx

dayokanu:
As Toddlers, If you shout at a boy or even beat him, In 30mins time bring out a ball and he has forgotten about what you did 30mins ago. But do same to a girl and she would sulk all day long and refuse any entreaty
Boys have energy and all they look for is an avenue to play and burn the energy. The best girls at this age are even the "tomboys"

and then you think girls are harder to deal with? how is stubbornness suddenly the easy trait?
No boys dont necessarily have more energy than girls, they both have equal amounts of energy just tend to expend it differently. i.e a boy will run around, a girl will read a book!

dayokanu:
By the time they are teenagers thats when the problem of girls start. While a 12-14yr old boys major problem is xbox and PS3 a girl of that age is already thinking about her sexuality and BF. A girl of 13 is already worried that her bo-0bs are small, She doesnt have a bf, She is fat, Her friends are not friendly etc at that point she starts having secrets, Secret callers, toasters, bfs etc.

A 12yo boy, is having wet dreams, sneaking po/rn/ogra/phy, peeping into girls shower rooms sniffing bras and ma/sturba/ting chronically.
I think this is much more bothersome and an issue that needs to be approached before a developing girl who is sulking because her boobs are smaller than her classmates? and thats if they are even small! Young girls don't think about sex, sex is brought to them, at 14 boys irritated the hell out of me though i had my first crush at 10. I never imagined having sex with anybody until i was 16!
Boys are much more se/xually motivated and have less control over their hormones. example;
https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-582578.0.html

You need to educate your daughter as much as you need ot educate your son! in fact you should even educate the boy more! since he is still very much capable of molesting girls (something alot of young boys do) engaging in inappropriate se/xual acts, catching a veneral disease (another thing that happens to alot of them) and impregnanting a series of girls.
Talking to a girl as a woman, is much easier than talking to a boy, its just a little uncomfortable and thats why parents chose to ignore it and instead complain that raising girls are hard while thier male sons are busy wreaking havoc about the estate!

dayokanu:
At 17-21yrs is the point a boy child is most difficult because he is growing to an adult and has a lot of pressure from the environment. At 17-21yrs The same happens to a girl and they start getting into dirty vices.

wooooooort? wooooooort? seriously? boys dont get into dirty vices? please be specific about the vices btw i want to break those down to!
17-21 a boy reflects the training (or lack of) hes recieved as a child. In the uk you get problems like drug dealing, knife crime, assault e.t.c these are the things the boys get up to
with girls you have underage pregnancy . . . . , . , . ( i cant seem to think of anything else) WOW so people are trying to tell me a girl getting pregnant is worse than a boy dealing drugs? o dear!
In Nigeria you get them trying out this 'yahoo' thing basically committing fraud, alot of them join questionable gangs or violent cults committing murder, rioting, stealing, blackmailing even ra/pe and all sorts its not unheard of for some to leave home with the impression they are attending school for many years and actually never be enrolled in one (though this happens with girls to, but i personally dont no any). People fail to understand that boys are much more impressionable than girls, and much more sensitive to the environment you can have one girl in a house full of prostitutes and never delve into it. At my age I know soo many virgins its almost unbelievable with the fact that everytime i meet up with my friends we have very graphic conversations about sex! Still girls are good at standing thier ground, whilst you will barely meet a male who is capable of controlling himself or sticking to beleifs, in an antagonistic environment!
Thats why even the most religious man in the world changes once they land in england!

dayokanu:
By the time a guy is 22 and above, they are over the pressure thing and have a mind of theirs. They tend to mend fences that was broken during the friction time with their parents while this time A girl is now a major problem obsessing her life with who she would marry and what have you.

If by the age of 22 one is not obsessing over their life then, houston we have a problem!
Theres absolutely nothing wrong with obsessing over your life, better to obsess at 22 than obsess at 32! like most men do when they encounter problems they were previously too immature to deal with! Having too much of a laid back approach to life doesnt make you a better child at all! And it definitely doesnt make one more easier to raise.

dayokanu:
Also it needs to be said that in our society, a man gone bad is easier to rehabilitate and accept back into the society than a woman.
The worst vice probably a guy can do is to become an armed robber I have heard of men even Pastor who claim they were ex armed robbers.
How many women in our society would say they were ex-pr05titutes and would be accepted back into the society like Nothing happened?

Again this really doesnt make you a harder child to raise, it simply brings attention to the fact that our society is full of misogynistic beliefs that need to be dispelled.
What is great about not accepting a female that has wronged whilst being accepting of the man?

that woman probably has the best body ive ever seen!
I just noticed she has a heavy tan!

wow! the first time ive seen a 'black' celeb embrace getting darker!

It definitely depends!

I remember one of the costars in clueless talking about how she has sex with men on the first date and they always end up proposing to her! I was astounded!
I've heard men complain of women that they sleep with on the first date; usually in a manner which will make you think the lady did all the sleeping.
If the relationship truly had potential then sex on the first date shouldnt ruin it, in anything it should make it more fun! But Ive noticed sex can change a relationship, it can make you bored of your partner, stop you from really getting to know the person and cloud the reality in a relationship.

Definitely! I always say women are psychic! i never feel sorry for a chic with a cheating dude cos they always know! no matter how good a liar or how well he acts a woman will always know!

shes almost 40?? she looks alright! she doesnt look bad to me! shes actually aging quite well if you want to compare her to how she used to look!

[quote author=Mrs.Chima link=topic=583046.msg7518034#msg7518034 date=1294861402]Black women ages very gracefully.[/quote]thats true, its a shame the men dont! the men age awfully!

dayo are you joking?
seriously??

marabout:
we set different standards of behaviour for boys and girls

exactly! people especially women tend to worship their sons to the extent they can do no wrong!

because you want your daughter to be dumbed down in comparison to your son, obviously that result will be harder to come by!
minus the absurd expectations girls are much easier to deal with!

she looks alright to me? how old is she?

in fact that dude is hella audacious! i swear is that was me ill hit my bag over his head! kaii see as the bobo de giraffe lmao

I knew it was only a matter of time before the monkey mentioned God! mshew! I will like to see a rational argument just once on this site and not hear religious sentiments

I heard this in the morning, I wonder, where exactly did these armed robbers shoot him? what did they use to shoot him sef? since he was shot 7 times and could still talk!
and why would you be driving around wearing 350grand worth of jewellery? at least now he knows! thank God hes still alive!

and yes, he is fckin FIT!

[quote author=Orton1_0 link=topic=584067.msg7517514#msg7517514 date=1294856900]Emm sorry but how old are you?
Cos ev'thing you've said in bold sounds childish!. . .no mischief intended.[/quote]excuse you? ive stated facts! if you open your eyes and take your time to actual study a 2 year old male and a female of the same age you will agree!

suprted:
Most girls I know were well-behaved, never got into trouble, never did runs, overpopulated the fellowship- I think there was one guy and his junior sidekick lol. Then again I went to an ajebota school.  

Bottom line is, I think if parents are on point like those of the girls in my ajebota school were, they won't get up to mischief.  

If you cannot train your daughter to understand that she can't have everything she wants, and you can't instill in her self-respect not to hoor around to get it, then you've failed as a parent in my opinion.

I went to a village school and its exactly the same! females are less likely to be notorious, are neater, can take better care of themselves practice thier religion dilligently and are less likely to get into trouble!

but training goes both ways, whoring isnt something that comes around because the girl doesnt get money from her parents, thats like the equivalent of saying thats the reason boys turn to crime!

chic2pimp:
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Arrogance is certainly one of the Non Physical Attributes Ladies find attractive in Men. Though most won't admit it.

you really think so? arrogance can make the man on earth look ugly!

o yea i feel i need to add, ayo did have an office before it was on top of the resturant in dalston but he had to move because they were renovaying the building

Thats officially a pisstake! omg soo funny!

but hold on couldnt atiku just accept the additional support?

Erm excuse me;

How will it be more difficult to RAISE (i say raise because girls are not dogs)

A gender known to be smarter
Well behaved
Adaptive
Independent
Mature
focused/polite and
respectful?
this is talkless of the fact that girls are more caring, show more concern, more helpful attentive to their surrounding extremely smart! resourceful the list even goes on! Thats why girls tend to have creative hobbies/toys while boys tend to play with nonsense! lol

The WORST possible behaviour you can find in a toddler will come from a boy! same goes for a male teenager and a fully grown man!

Girls are less likely to be attention deficit or dyslexic, meaning they have no difficulty paying attention and are better at picking up new things.
kmt this belief is probably the reason why black men turn out soo awful
Instead of correcting and disciplining a boy they will spend all their time concentrating on a girl who has no problems!
Africa the penis worship needs to stop!

Boys are VERY VERY difficult deal with, succumb VERY EASILY to peer pressure, are most likely to pick up very bad habits, less likely to learn lessons and most likely to indulge in criminal behaviour!

lmao! accept the woman is happy!

incredibly thick! (the thickest polish woman ive ever heard of!)

but happy. . . . . . you see not using your brain can sometimes work out for the best!

but i dont advise anyone to try it!

[quote author=Mrs.Chima link=topic=583280.msg7516818#msg7516818 date=1294850345]Not all woman want a unintelligent man.  There is nothing attractive or sexy about a unintelligent man.  I guess unintelligent men should be confined in a mental institution waiting removal.[/quote]Lol nope- one womans smart is another womans stupid!

so in essence theres a male for every female that likes intelligent men!

daduke2k:
wotz wit d wowing?

Its the stupidest thing ive ever read!

o God TGI. . . . TGI. . . . . . .TGI

its the only american resturant I go!
I refuse to believe food can be any better than that!

o TGi o TGI o TGI *drools*

presidential in se has good food but they are very unproffesional (no suprise there!)

I will also like to know of good restaurants in Naija actually??

Seriously i was just wondering if blackteeth was just intentionally tryin to wind iice up, cos if not he needs to go grow himself some intelligence with that soo called brain power he has!

Blackteeth:
Some people may be smarter than the others, but the difference is just neglible.

WOW! just WOW!

The thing about nigerians that amuses me; your all soo quick to jump on a culture/race wagon when it comes to dating.
If you all pull your headz out of your arses you will realise there a whole world outside of nigeria and a whole new species other than nigerians! Probably the reason we have soo many tribal problems in nigeria.
Consider everyone as an individual FIRST then take notice of her ethnicity LATER! Looking at things the way you do will stop you from getting to know people properly and never allow you to fully enjoy your relationships!
GET TO KNOW HER, you may just fall in love with her personality

gd luck!

paule:
Is that your view?

no all the points you have mentioned are b*llshit!

Its because you keep introducing too many girls as your fiance! she probably knows theres something wrong with you!

B*llshit

LOL- 'its one child you send on an errand' if a mother cannot ask her child to do something simple for her then theres a problem!

Your reason for not wanting to help your mom is rather foolish, even if your not friendly with them, how difficult is saying; 'my mom sent me here to to lend your bowl'?
Saying no is easier when theres justifiable reasons of doing so, in this case there really isnt

The police in america are definitely alot more brutal; its sad to hear but the reason soo many blacks are frisked and searched is because soo many of them are criminals, there is a higher proportion of blacks in uk prisons than any other race! There is more crime in predominantly black areas so there will obviously be more security. This will mask outright racism, but i think americans are alot more racist in general.

awwww village nicknames
if i were to translate;
my dads oldest uncle we all called 'my oldest grandad'
the younger ones were called 'grandad' and 'grandma' and my actual grandad was called 'my grandad'!
I call my mums aunt 'my mother down the road' and my grandma i call 'my mother'

The man new the lady is in love with him and still wanted to be her friend?

Whats that saying about about how people go out looking for trouble and freak out when they eventually find it?
The man needs to be very very careful, stop trying to make friends outside and go home to your wife! kmt
when the ish hits the roof they will be claiming 'its the devil'!