Travel › Re: How I Was Scammed By A Hotel / Booking Agency At Murtala Mohammed Airport by raphy(m): 10:48pm On Dec 22, 2016 |
Person get money person no sharp.na person wet no get money be the smart guy.and your country man for that matter...this na gobe.
Sorry sir make you de sharp ok .even if you don build mansion finish get 100 cars you need to very smart so they won't milk you dry. Seasons greetings to y'all
Don't forget am still celebrating 10years on this Great forum.. |
Crime › Re: Woman Trapped Robber With Sex Offer (photos) by raphy(m): 9:21pm On Dec 22, 2016 |
So na this small guy dey burgle house .then toto come de hungry him.akwa-ibom toto for that matter.that girl toto must get charm to hook that guy for throat.but thank God she get sense..guy go do Xmas fo prison.sharp girl ... |
Politics › Re: Which Nigerian State Can Surpass Lagos In Terms Of Development In The Future? by raphy(m): 8:47pm On Dec 22, 2016 |
This land is not for sale buyers beware.  I de come build my house for Lagos. |
Christianity Etc › Re: Anglican Church In Rome & Bible And Beer Fellowship Shocks Nigerian Lawyer by raphy(m): 8:20pm On Dec 22, 2016 |
Jesus turn water into wine .beer is stil water wt difrnt taste,nothin wrong in there.europ hv bn schlin africa since. |
Foreign Affairs › Re: Photos: The World In 2016. by raphy(m): 12:25am On Dec 22, 2016 |
Guy you try some pics so touching.  |
Celebrities › Re: Victoria Kimani In Cleavage-Baring, Clinging White Dress by raphy(m): 11:34pm On Dec 21, 2016 |
All white oh her milk shake will bring guys to da yard....am her number one fan tot am yet to see this Kenya bae |
Romance › Re: What Counts As Cheating In A Relationship? by raphy(op): 11:21pm On Dec 21, 2016 |
Ok you guys try o. Doing stuff not meant to do with some one that's not your wife but you have a feeling for.and you call it cheating. |
Business › Re: Photos: Billionaire Femi Otedola Kisses His Mother On The Lips During Visit by raphy(m): 10:54pm On Dec 21, 2016 |
nnamdiokere45: I no understand,na so him mama parlor b? God knw say if hm bless me as I want, na sky scraper she go live. she deserves such How can you understand the house is an old building and the house must be there's her mum live there now with some of there family members.and nothing is wrong with the arrangement the room is just an old style .i hope u understand now. |
Politics › Re: Ayiri Emami Storms Delta Community. PICS by raphy(m): 10:43pm On Dec 21, 2016 |
Lad wan kil me this nyt som ppl post tot I know quote any one.another delta hero apart from ibori .they must be using some sense to jolicate ibori freedom in uk.
I hope y'all see things my way. He suppose to other drinks for the boys hailing him na dey are starving. And he owns a private jet haba! |
Investment › Re: MMM Nigeria End Of Year Party By Chuddy Ugorji, Moves With Bodyguards (Photos) by raphy(m): 9:59pm On Dec 21, 2016 |
He must be very fearful n his heart dey do thump thump thump inside him. A Wht kind of gulder him be sef.legend of guilder or what.
And for una info Mmm never crash so don't panicnext year na we get go run de shows. |
Politics › Re: 6 Assets That Were Seized From James Ibori (photos) by raphy(m): 6:49pm On Dec 21, 2016 |
The man try no be small .all these houses n hs children must hv gon to one iof the best sch in the world. He is a true hero..am aint from delta but the man aint the first in d coruptioin game in the country. There are so many big fish out thre stil goin wit dsa flow. So pardon is all he needed.
May God giv me the strenght to work very hard n build my house so my children n children wont suffer in this life as my late parents suffer ijn amen.. |
Travel › Re: PHOTOS: 140 Nigerian Returnees From Libya Arrive Lagos Airport by raphy(m): 5:13pm On Dec 21, 2016 |
Who want to deport a poor n very sharp refugee whn they knw africans are suffrin.he hv been there fo long they houses them n he gies to work. prettyboi1989: ehen dats one hell of a risky gamble o jst like a russian roulette. no wonder people dey struggle to cross the sea weekly since they know they wont be deported. |
Sports › Re: John Utaka Wins Japanese League Highest Goalscorer Award by raphy(m): 5:09pm On Dec 21, 2016 |
Thats is peter that former westerlo of belgium player so this dude still de score great goals. Wht a great way to end the year in style .his seniir hv gone to egypt to play fo ismaily i guess so.after he marries hs whyt bae. Me will get married to my whyt bae someday by hs grace. |
Travel › Re: PHOTOS: 140 Nigerian Returnees From Libya Arrive Lagos Airport by raphy(m): 12:05am On Dec 21, 2016 |
They wont b deported they wl learn a trade.my frien made it pass d sea he is in italy now.learnin n workin prettyboi1989: oh yea, i hear alot about boat mishaps of people who tried crossing from libya into europe. the part i dont get is what happens to those who are rescued by d coastguards and brought into spain, will they be deported after recouperatig? |
Travel › Re: PHOTOS: 140 Nigerian Returnees From Libya Arrive Lagos Airport by raphy(m): 11:59pm On Dec 20, 2016 |
Wlcm bk tb joshua chuch straight fo ya goodies |
Romance › Re: 7 Advantages Of Abstinence From Sex For Men by raphy(m): 11:50pm On Dec 20, 2016 |
Thnk God am stil a virgin.. |
Sports › Re: Sunday Mba Builds A Mansion In Abia (Photos) by raphy(m): 2:41pm On Dec 20, 2016 |
good investment but waite o which club this guy dey sef?  |
Crime › Re: Pics Of Arms Concealed In Car Imported From USA Recovered By Customs In Lagos by raphy(m): 2:38pm On Dec 20, 2016 |
that is were it has always pass through all these years ,so its now there eyes start to open.make GOD giv some law enforcement agent sense ijn amen. |
Romance › Re: What This Girl Did To Me Just Made Me Hate Girls. by raphy(m): 11:51pm On Dec 19, 2016 |
Ok bae noted but double is still there sha .season greetings to u. wizkidblogger: Where did you see all that na? DoubleYourDating is not same as double dating... |
Crime › Re: Nigerian Man Who Spent 16 Years In Prison For Crime He Didn't Commit, Released by raphy(m): 7:27pm On Dec 19, 2016 |
D man should hv been on d payroll by now.but becuz its nigeria he will be there fo till...jesus visit him |
Crime › Re: Daughter Of General Treasurer Of Assemblies Of God Killed Over Offering Money by raphy(m): 6:07pm On Dec 19, 2016 |
What is this one saying?oh may her gentle soul R.I.P amen ayodejijoshua: happy married life yu no divorce jst like other we should nt mention  ayodejijoshua: happy married life yu no divorce jst like other we should nt mention |
Romance › Re: What This Girl Did To Me Just Made Me Hate Girls. by raphy(m): 6:00pm On Dec 19, 2016 |
This makes correct sense. DaySpringer: I have seen your post and your problem is complex and most of it is internal... Yet you are trying to find a solution externally.
Seems you weren't shown a lot of love early in life and till now you still seek that person that will come and make you their center of attention and make you feel that love that you think you are lacking.. Even if you get a girlfriend, she has to always show you a lot of attention if not you will doubt her love. This also means that you will be very clingy. You know the irony of all this? The same need for attention and clinginess you will display will make ruin that relationship.
This neediness also shows in your behaviours sub-consciously and girls pick up on it which accounts for the reason for most of your rejection.
Did i forget to add Low Self-Esteem?
Here you're not even talking like a man who knows his worth as a man, so the rejection you receive from girls means that you won't get married? That means you will fall for the first girl that seems to really want to marry you because she is the first girl that didn't reject you or rather one of the very rare ones who didn't.
OP There are many principles and coded knowledge that apply and are true in this our world of dating and in the world of relationships at large.
Like i mentioned early you found a girl that seemed like she was the one for you and instantly you fell for her.. and then asked her out, you weren't sure she was fully attracted to you, you let your neediness shine through and you wanted to possess her instead of being patient and waiting till she was totally hooked to you.
Again your neediness and need for attention shininig through, almost every guy has gone through this with a girl before and the mark of maturity is when the guy is able to take things coolly, acknowledging that almost every girl does this; infact the mark of a well collected player is being able to spin it and make the girl feel like she missed out on something exciting, list all the things she missed and make her want to make it up to you next time she sees you. Other guys would use this opportunity to make the girl more into them but you're here whining like a baby. Look at your victim mentality, "Being treated by ladies"
The girl called you and apologised to you and you're still here, whining, Some girls don't even bother. She deemed you important enough to apologize to you and yet your low self esteem didn't let you see that. You still had the victim and crybaby mentality. No girl's actions is supposed to determine, your worth, the fact that the girl did not do the necessary things in order to make sure she could see you, means she is uncoordinated, the problem is with her not you.
And Right here is the greatest expression of Low self esteem. Bro, those things might attract a girl but those things won't keep a girl, Infact those things are not the most important things to have when it comes to getting girls, I am sure you have heard of Ugly guys getting and banging the hottest babes, that's your proof there.
There are guys with what you have that don't need to talk much to get a girl.
Do you know that all relationships have their own problems?
Do you know that not all relationships that look happy on the outside actually are?
Do you know that almost all relationships eventually end?
If you cannot be happy with yourself when you're single, how can you be happy with a girl in a relationship? you will burden her with all your emotional needs (leading to you becoming insecure and clingy) and no human is meant to carry the emotional burdens of another, eventually they will break or leave and guess what? You'll be right back where you started.
So Bro what is the solution for you? 1. You need to learn to Love yourself.
2. Do research on Low Self-esteem and all it's manifestations and work on getting rid of it. Self-Esteem does not come from what is on the outside or what you have but what is on the inside and that's why it is called "SELF-esteem"
3. Find things to do that make you happy, have hobbies. Learn to be able to enjoy yourself by yourself or with your guys and that will naturally draw girls to you.
4. Learn something, boosting your skills boosts your confidence and if you already have an amazing range of skills write them down and be proud of them and work to improve them.
Now get yourself out of that Self Pity shit, Girls are too flaky and unreliable for you to base your happiness on having them!
Cheers mate. |
Romance › Re: What This Girl Did To Me Just Made Me Hate Girls. by raphy(m): 5:52pm On Dec 19, 2016 |
You teach guys how to double date?you teach em how to have 3soms as well.ok wizkidblogger: Kenshinmunac the prob is how you relate with them. Sub to doubleyourdating.com and your life will change for good.
I can bet you act like wussies around girls. |
Romance › Re: What This Girl Did To Me Just Made Me Hate Girls. by raphy(m): 5:47pm On Dec 19, 2016 |
Some naija girls and there games .are just very trickish than d magician at timed i dont think i will marry a naija girl .cuz i lov my foreign girlfriend am watchin her grow to become a beautiful woman.
Guy God tym is d best good girls are hard to find while the bad ones rule the earth.quote me if u like |
Family › Re: This Nigerian Lady Is So Proud Of Her White Hubby (see Pics) by raphy(m): 1:19am On Dec 19, 2016 |
Am proud of my whyt girlfriend as well whn i marry her d pics will go vira |
Romance › Re: Guys/men Check That Ass Real Well O.(pics) by raphy(m): 4:32pm On Dec 17, 2016 |
that guy don smoke too much weed see how he wan tear her bum bum  |
Celebrities › Re: Regina Daniels' Skimpy Outfit Gets Her Blasted By Fans by raphy(m): 3:36pm On Dec 17, 2016 |
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Celebrities › Re: Niyola Giving Male Fan Lap Dance On Stage [PICS] by raphy(m): 3:29pm On Dec 17, 2016 |
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Christianity Etc › Re: Reigners Church Building Collapse: I Don’t Want To Be A Bishop Again - Akan by raphy(m): 7:42pm On Dec 15, 2016 |
softwerk: No Ohh!!! You must be Bishop and even Pope Akan sef!
Since earthly titles are now the gate passes to heaven 
After people don die finish! na by force and fire? haba |
Culture › Re: White Mass Choir Do Christmas Carol In Nigerian Language (video) by raphy(m): 6:20pm On Dec 15, 2016 |
if its true then am  proudly a naija pikin |
Properties › Re: Two Storey Building Under Construction Collapses In Lagos (Photos) by raphy(m): 6:18pm On Dec 15, 2016 |
i dont see any building that colapse there .are you looking for attention? |
Fashion › Re: Hilarious: Make Over Pics That Will Surprise You by raphy(m): 2:33pm On Dec 12, 2016 |
no be smal thing be this oo no wonder girls want to die for for just a day.. serious magic  |