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madridguy:
Hatred don land the senseless man into hot soup. Even the South-South people no carry GEJ matter for head like them. Am double sure someone close to the man would have warned him but he wouldn't listen and now jungle don mature.
There is freedom of expression anywhere in the world but make sure your expression won't cause disorderliness in the society. Even in the US that people are shouting, you do anyhow you see anyhow.

Campaign is over so mind you tongue. During campaign anything is allowed but after campaign you need to caution yourself to avoid wahala.

gabi101:
one of the best topics iv read...come chew some kolanut with me

bebeten:
Rapmoney I will sue u. Dats my name jare.

Adaowerri111:
Very fake story, Abeg do some investigations before you write, stop feeding the public with untrue gist

BALLOSKI:
The chestbeaters from the land of "sleeping sun" suddenly became onlookers and did not beat him for coming to say that in their backyard like they do to every sane mind that preaches that on this forum.



Bunch of empty-threat-and-ultimatum-givers!

ReddLabel:
Alright. Without our belief system/culture, society would probably be chaotic. It doesn't matter the geographical demography, the culture you're born into would form the nucleus of your being/interaction/belief and value. There are exceptions no doubt. It is in our culture for men to do the wooing. It is also in our culture for wives to take care of the house cores.

Get this, do you know western culture we are trying to tailor our way of life in line with dictates a completely different societal norm? What their men do and believe in, our men don't. What their women do and believe in, our women don't.

The bottom line is, you can't isolate people's way of life from their culture. The culture could be wrong though but that's another thing

Ghost21:
You really on point, but nigga must mag, it's really not my fault that I always go for the best! Even if I have to lie my ass off, really talk.

cyprus000:
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I'm not here to dispute the paramount requisite of financial buoyancy, but any woman who cannot stay with me when there's non or little, will be discarded when there's plenty(physical attribute is nothing).

love and money cannot sustain relationship, only 'loyalty' can.

give me loyalty and I will open my bank acct for her, while i cherish her smile like a blessing, and make her happiness my ultimate commitment.

Anyway, I'm of the opine that broke dudes have no business with marriage, not for anybody, but your kids. think of what the world with throw at them when they find themselves at th bottom of the food chain

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ReddLabel:
That's very good. I was quick to judge. Is your lead post not a product of your experience? How do you reconcile it with the emboldened?

ojay2053:
Nice one bro.

faith551:
Thank God you know. One thing you should understand is, if a Nigerian girl decides to love you, you'll be the one trying to escape from her grip.Am talking from experience my man,majority go for the money but at the end they cheat with that good looking young dude who is no where near her wealthy boo or husband

ReddLabel:
Op, your writeup shows the kind of ladies you surround yourself with..

faith551:
True but no too true

IamLEGEND1:
Some guys go wan form hardcore....dey try play girls wayo.

before he realises what's going on,babe don jack him sense+wallet spiritually.
for Naija dating scene,no time for man to dey do Omo Mummy.
everybody na king Kong.if you dull,girl go chop you finish.

Fabulocity:
This one everyone is agreeing with op, let me read the write up.

IamLEGEND1:
Best thread I've seen today.

As a jobless guy myself,i know say my best option na to dey hit and run.

Staying one place na direct plea for disaster. if girl offer me,I knack.....she start to dey catch feels...I run.
#Simple

blayde:
True Talk OP.

Infact beauty or not, money is d oil dt spices relationships. Just dey ur lane till u hammer.

dickhead01:
True talk

tosyne2much:
This is a brilliant write-up Oga Rapmoney... You have never disappointed me

donbenedict:
dey carry sexy shorts they display fat laps for me thinkn say I go mumu

donbenedict:
na so these babes they come my room, if dem no ask me for pepper, e go be salt, if e nor be salt, na to charge fone, one of dem sef come my room ask me if I get water make I give am.. shoooooo!! Water wey I sweat to fetch.. I tell d babe say na little I get.. this babe never fetch water for her life o. Dey form. I tell u my brother, she carry her two leg go fetch water there and then.

donbenedict:
Damn straight!

DropShot:
Only pragmatic and analytical minds will agree with you pastor.

Let's do a simple and quick analogy:

1. I earned N100k monthly for five years. After spending on family needs and other things, I should have N20k left for savings.

2. The N20k I should keep on monthly basis in those five years, I didn't keep it but was using it on frivolities.

3. Suddenly my salary got reduced to N40k for some reason.

Will I still be able to provide for all the needs of my family as I used to when salary was N100k? Common sense should tell me and those around me that I will struggle BIG TIME while looking for alternative ways out.

Even if a wife expects her husband to still meet such needs after knowing the facts above, people around her will condemn and criticize her for not showing understanding as well as lacking perseverance.

Nigerians need to give the government reasonable time and put things in perspective of the times we are.

Only quote me if you have evidence-backed argument to offer. Not the usual inanities.

marvelck:
A lot of girls have found themselves in such situation, but don't usually admit it cos of pride. After leaving her guy cos of another guy, many of them end up regreting it when things start going south (wrong) in her new relationship. Some might try to go back to her ex, while others out of shame or pride would simply decide to move on to other persons rather than go back to an ex she cruelly left...most of the girls you see out there laughing, aint smiling in their hearts. And when you ask them if all is well, they will always tell you they are fine. But deep within them, they know they are not happy. Cos they've made mistakes they keep regreting everyday.