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FamilyRe: I Made A Widow Smiled Last Night. by Rapture4real(m): 6:06pm On Nov 11, 2022
You did well. It's not Pharisee but you challenge others. God doesn't joke with the widow, orphans and the needy. God bless you for what you did. We shouldn't day because of the economic situation,we shouldn't show mercy. Whatever you do to others ,wait for you in future.
InvestmentRe: Crypto Is Not Just For Me, Massive Loss (millions Gone Under 2 Days by Rapture4real(m): 12:55pm On Nov 11, 2022
I logged in because of you.

Don't sell it. I bought Ethereum of #30000 worth around August 2020 and sold it #70000 Jan. 2021 . Crypto is more reliable than other online investment. It is as real as physical cash but with global impact. Wait. It will soon shoot up. Invest in long term. Don't be too greedy. You will recover it. Just secure your login details.Reinstall the app.
PoliticsRe: Femi Adesina: Nigerians Will Miss Buhari, Did His Best Amid Distractions by Rapture4real(m): 8:36pm On Oct 07, 2022
Now I agree this man is not well.
PoliticsRe: Buhari Welcomes Release Of 23 Kaduna Train Attack Victims With Much Happiness by Rapture4real(m): 7:26am On Oct 06, 2022
If the victims are allowed to speak to the press, they will spill beans that will expose Buhari and APC wickedness.
FamilyRe: This Is My Problem With My Wife by Rapture4real(m): 7:40am On Oct 04, 2022
Rtk5:
I've been married to my wife for almost five years now. My major problem with her is that she lacks gratitude, she doesn't have the spirit and character of appreciation.

Infact even if you buy a private jet for her, she will be happy at the moment but after 5mins she will forget that you've ever done anything for her and if you don't do things for her, you will see her complaining more than the way Nigerians are complaining under buhari.

This her attitude is really becoming unbearable.
My brother that's the attitude of 90% women. I've been married for more than 17 years. The sure way to frustration is trying to please a woman. Do the little you can do without even expecting thank you. Pls don't forget your parents and family. If they ask for 100 things and you provide 99 of them, the 1 you're not able to provide will make her nag you to frustration. Spend your money on yourself too Don't be bothered if she's gaining attention outside.God cannot please them. They add, modify, reshape, what God has given them hair, eyelashes,nose, butt etc, how do you now think you can please such person. My friend face front and move forward.
CrimeRe: Police Recover Decomposed Bodies Of 2 Ladies Inside CMD's Office In Kwara by Rapture4real(m): 1:15am On Oct 03, 2022
When a criminal confesses to the commission of a crime or proved to have done so, he should be killed immediately,no need for Court again. It will be a grave injustice to the slain victim and his/her family to let such man go.
PoliticsRe: When I Become Governor, Oyo Bus Terminals Will Be Converted To Library - Teslim by Rapture4real(m): 8:07am On Oct 02, 2022
Olodo.


Oyo Governor come 2023 Seyi Makinde PDP
President come 2023 Peter Obi LP.
TravelRe: 7 Burnt To Death As Commercial Bus Catches Fire In Lagos by Rapture4real(m): 8:48am On Sep 27, 2022
Moneyboyz:
It's sad, one way or another we all will leave this world.
I hope to leave peacefully in my sleep and in my house when the time comes.
..and beside your wife. Matan ra re je. It doesn't matter how you leave this world. What is important is where you end up with after leaving this world. No one knows when, how and where he/she will die. Accept Jesus Christ and free from fear of death and have assurance of making heaven. Period.
PoliticsRe: Peter Obi & Datti Baba-Ahmed Meet With Abdulsalami Abubakar And Babangida by Rapture4real(m): 8:09am On Sep 26, 2022
Is that not Gotv remote I saw on Babangidas table?
CrimeRe: Police Officer Shoots At A Man Wielding Machete At Him (Video) by Rapture4real(m): 12:29pm On Sep 25, 2022
If not that the young man is not well, why wielding a cutlass in the presence of a policeman holding gun. The police man is even nice for demobiliising you. It is called demobilization in self defense.
PoliticsRe: Buhari: Insecurity Will Soon Be A Thing Of The Past by Rapture4real(m): 12:18pm On Sep 25, 2022
Exactly immediately after you hand over. We all know you're behind it. God will judge you and your generation unborn for putting Nigeria in this terrible condition.
Christianity EtcRe: My Greatest Sexual Temptation As A Christian by Rapture4real(m): 12:11pm On Sep 25, 2022
My brother,if you're a born again, that was a stupid move you made. Don't try it again. The worst you would ever do if need be is to ask her to sleep the mat or she sleeps on the bed while you find your way elsewhere in the room. No anointing immunes a man from sex. Sexual attraction is a powerful force. We the Baptist studied a topic in our Sunday School today on The Scepter was given to Judah. Why? Reuben,the first born of Jacob had sex with his father's concubine and lost the inheritance. Sin is dangerous and can occur unexpectedly.
CareerRe: 7 Types Of Bosses In Nigeria's Corporate Outfits by Rapture4real(m): 3:55pm On Sep 22, 2022
Fryzi:
I have one of the best bosses in this life. But right now he's down on cancer & fighting to live for over one year now & he's not responding to treatment. He's now so small & thin you can't even recognize him. A man with the good heart. A philanthropist. I hope he survives because the rumours I hear is heartbreaking. Business right now down on a zero. We just surviving now on God cry
I pray the Lord heal him in Jesus name. Good people don't last while wicked bosses look unshakeable. God understands.
FoodRe: Five Benefits Of Eating Kpomo by Rapture4real(m): 1:43pm On Sep 22, 2022
Ponmo reduces hypertension and anxiety because it makes you not to think of where you will get big money to buy fish and meat. grin grin grin grin
Foreign AffairsRe: Trump Mocks Biden For The 14th Row Seat At The Queen's Funeral by Rapture4real(m): 3:40pm On Sep 21, 2022
Generalwoodz:
Osibanjo and co are standing outside under the canopy
grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin grin As if you knew what was on my mind
Christianity EtcRe: Prophet Shola Who Foretold The Death Of Queen Elizabeth II Trending On Twitter by Rapture4real(m): 10:49am On Sep 20, 2022
There is no big deal in this. God can reveal his mind to anybody. Giving accurate prophecy or revelation is not a sign of righteousness.

For instance,I had a revelation overnight that a popular big pentecostal pastor who is even a father to Bishop Oyedepo died. He is old anyway but I saw the revelation that he died. If it is God's will, it may come to pass because he is aged already.

What is important is living the life of Christ.
CrimeRe: Nasarawa Man Chops Off Opponent's Wrist For Assaulting His Girlfriend (Graphic) by Rapture4real(m): 12:34pm On Sep 19, 2022
Imagine how wonderful the South would have been without the Northern region.
FamilyRe: Mothers Please Advice A Frustrated Married Man. by Rapture4real(m): 10:20am On Sep 15, 2022
Militant1:
I will try to be brief and straight to the point.

My wife stays up late (11pm -12 am) every blessed day.... That's the problem.

We live in Lagos and have 2kids, 3yo and 8 months. My wife was working before but left the job when she gave birth. There is a job waiting for her when the baby is 1y6mnths, therefore she is a stay at home mom.

We live on the mainland but I work on the island so I live home as early as five. In our house we have all the amenities you can think of; 24 hrs light (NEPA plus inverter), running water, gas, 2 washing machines etc to make a home 95percent comfortable but my wife can't seem to cope and it started when we had one child.

She doesn't wash my clothes, my office shirts and suits are given to dry cleaner to arrange while my other laundry I do myself every weekend with the washing machine.

When I get home by 7pm or 8, that's when she now starts rushing to bath the kids and prepare dinner, so we eat by 9 or 10. Before the kids play play and play, by 11pm we are still awake. Sometimes I go to bed by midnight and have to wake up by 4am to go to work again. It's impacting on my health and my work. She will sleep by 12 am and wake up by 8 or 9am the following day.

I have tried to beg and appeal to her. If I eat out and come home to just sleep, she go dey vex. If I just come home shower and sleep the kids who have passed their bedtime will be playing and when madam is ready to sleep they won't agree to sleep. She will beat them, guess who they will come crying to- daddy that just started sleeping and has to wake by 4am, I will now pet and pet till 2am before kids sleep.. I have advised her that kids have a bedtime(8pm). When I man up and off the tv by 9pm and tell everyone to go to bed, she says I am disrespecting her. She reports me to her mum.

Worse still our sex life is horrible... We have sex like once in 2 month.. At 35 I am in my sex prime and can Bleep everyday but she doesn't seem to care about me because she is always tired am I pity her so I don't demand sex so much.

I fully understand stay at home is not easy and I help her when.

I tried to create a schedule for her.

Wake up by 6am
By 7 she suppose don clean finish
By 8 breakfast should be ready for her, kids
9-10am bath herself and the kids
10-12 do any other stuff in the house
12-3pm rest, watch movies, chill
3-5pm... Do whatever she likes
5pm boil water and bath the kids
6pm she don bathe and bath kids
7pm... Food don done... Everything dey freezer
8pm we eat
By 9 everyone goes to bed and we knack 1hr

I throw the trash every day
Na me dey go market buy foodstuff
On weekends I clean the house
I wash my all my clothes
I provide all the finance in the house
I satisfy her on the bed when we naka. She begs me that she's tired
I buy her gifts, drop 3k for her everyday
Why should we have a house help when she is a stat at home mum (for now)

So what's the problem..


Mothers, are my demands too much?
Mothers, please when do you close your kitchen and go to bed?
Are you still awake by 11pm every blessed day.
Am I crazy?

Please advice me.

I have begged her, pleaded, shouted, done everything. Sometimes I intentionally come home late (10-11pm) thinking that the kids have gone to bed but my first child will be watching cartoon.

Please advice me. I am going crazy, Lagos is stressful
I feel for you and I can relate. Life is not balanced. You see a woman who wants your kind of man but couldn't see. A good man marrying a bad woman and vice versa. Just be patient and pray. She can change with time. When they're looking for husband, they will behave as angels once they get one they show their true colour.
TravelRe: Why Do Nigerians Abroad Stay Several Years Without Visiting Home For Once by Rapture4real(m): 4:25pm On Sep 14, 2022
When you consider the cost of traveling to and fro, it will be better you send the money for them to do the occasion. Some may come and not return again
PoliticsRe: 2023: Most Nigerians Prefer Mixed-Faith Presidential Ticket – New Poll by Rapture4real(m): 8:01am On Sep 14, 2022
AllTheWayUp:
Tinubu Muslim Muslim ticket is dead on arrival and buried, know this and know peace
I believe you.
PoliticsRe: Akeredolu Apologises To Clerics Over Muslim-Muslim Ticket by Rapture4real(m): 8:53am On Sep 13, 2022
It is a slap on the Christians and they did it deliberately. There is no forgiveness for deliberate calculated preconceived sin like this. We Christians condemned it in it's entirety. How I wish IPOB/ESN are fighting to defend Christian faith.
PoliticsRe: Chase Out Any Igbo That Fails To Vote Peter Obi From Igboland - Pastor by Rapture4real(m): 8:50am On Sep 13, 2022
Supported. We sensible Yoruba people are voting for Peter Obi.

Why I will not vote for APC?

1. They are dubious. They used pastor as running mate to win the votes of Christians and get to power but now dumb the Christians.
2. It will continue the hardship policy of Buhari.
3. It will embolden terrorism the more.
4.Christians will be more maginalised.
5. Muslim Muslim ticket will be the order of the day because they have experimented it and it has worked.
6. Tinubu betrayed the Yoruba nation by not sincerely condemning Funlani Banditry against the Yorubas because of his ambition.
CareerRe: Will You Return This To Your Company? by Rapture4real(m): 3:02pm On Sep 12, 2022
papiilo:
Morning guys!

So this company where I work paid me twice in error. Do you think they will detect later that they paid me twice?
That happened to one of our staff. He kept mute. I discovered it with the Accountant,he was feigning innocence.

It will still be discovered latter during reconciliation of accounts and you might put yourstin great trouble.
Christianity EtcRe: Pastor Lines Up Bachelors In Church, Asks Single Ladies To Select For Marriage by Rapture4real(m): 9:29pm On Sep 11, 2022
Une7:
Jeremiah omoto fufeyin
Imagine what happened five years ago which O watched life is what Igbere TV is broadcasting as if it just happened.
PoliticsRe: Queen Elizabeth II: Boss Mustapha Pays Condolence Visit To UK High Commission by Rapture4real(m): 7:49pm On Sep 10, 2022
That woman come take bottle water inside her bag enter UK High Commission office.
HealthRe: The Man Who Invented Alabunkun Powder. by Rapture4real(m): 12:44pm On Sep 10, 2022
My mother could not do without Alabukun and tea Bongo in early 80s. Interesting to.kmow that the inventor was a Nigerian.
Foreign AffairsRe: Pictures Of Health Ministers Of The U.S, U.K, Belgium & Canada by Rapture4real(m): 9:43am On Sep 09, 2022
When the health minister is not healthy.
FamilyRe: My Sister Is Draining Me Financially by Rapture4real(m): 6:42pm On Aug 28, 2022
Useless and shameless sister.

If I were you, I would take my daughter away from her to a boarding school or look elsewhere. Human beings are wicked.
RomanceRe: Masturbation, Betting Have Killed Me Help Out by Rapture4real(m): 4:02am On Aug 27, 2022
The devil has nothing good to give any man but destruction. Unfortunately,you will still see some people who will tell you that your experience is normal because they also are trapped in it.

Repent and run to Jesus for deliverance. No motivational or psychological solution can free you. I don't know any physician who is a specialist in your problem apart from JESUS CHRIST. With Jesus ,there is hope.
SportsRe: Tobi Amusan Takes On Jasmine Camacho-Quinn At 8:23pm Tonight by Rapture4real(m): 8:02am On Aug 26, 2022
As long as she doesn't go before Buhari to kneel down, she will continue to win. Joshua has learnt his lesson. He needs to go to MFM for deliverance from bad luck. When we chased Goodluck away, na bad luck remain.
CrimeRe: Gunmen Killed 21 Cows In Rivers – Miyetti Allah by Rapture4real(m): 8:00am On Aug 26, 2022
How many souls have been lost as a result of Miyetti Allah Fulani terrorists attack? Which is better to die- cows or human being?
SportsRe: UFC 278: Leon Edwards Defeats Usman Kamaru by Rapture4real(m): 8:10am On Aug 21, 2022
Joshua se ti e,o lule,Usman se ti e,o lule.Talokan ko tun lule, Tinubu ni subu kan.Obi ni gbega kan.

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