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PoliticsRe: Amina Mohammed Resumes Work At UN Tuesday by rectitude(m): 5:19pm On Feb 27, 2017
Nice
TV/MoviesRe: Thin Tall Tony Kisses Tboss. Fans React by rectitude(m): 8:20pm On Feb 25, 2017
This guy needs eviction to go patch things with his family. The more he stays there, the harder it will be for his wife to forgive.
If you agree click 'Like' if not click 'Share'
Let's see if he'll be the next to go home.
FamilyEmir Of Kano, Sanusi Lamido Sets To Ban Polygamy, Says It’s Connected To Poverty by rectitude(op): 3:40pm On Feb 21, 2017
The ex Governor of Central Bank of Nigeria and now the present Emir of Kano, Sanusi Lamido Sanusi has revealed his plans of banning polygamy.

According to the Emir, he alleged that polygamy has a connection with poverty and terrorism. He said further that Muslims marry more than one wife because they are allowed to and end up taking 4 wives who might in turn produce 20 children that would not be trained through education and some will turn out to be terrorists. Read what he wrote below:

Those of us in the [mainly Muslim] north have all seen the economic consequences of men who are not capable of maintaining one wife, marrying four. They end up producing 20 children, not educating them, leaving them on the streets, and they end up as thugs and terrorists”

he said.
The Emir also noted that this new Law will make domestic violence illegal amongst other things. He said:

“The law will address what Islam says on marriage, it will outlaw forced marriages, it will make domestic violence illegal, it will put in conditions that you need to fulfil before you can marry a second wife, it will spell out the responsibilities of a father beyond producing a child.

It is a big law which covers a whole range of issues from consent to marriage, to maintenance to divorce, to maintenance of children and inheritance. It will be the first time in northern Nigeria that a Muslim law on personal status will be codified.”

PropertiesRe: Fire Burns Down Ogoni Quarters, Rivers State (Photos) by rectitude(m): 6:52pm On Feb 20, 2017
Nigerian Fire fighter service needs restructuring as a matter of urgency. I cannot begin to count how many fire incidence occured last year with little or no avertion by the Agency. The number is matching that of last year already and the year is just begining. We cannot continue like this, Senate needs to bring this up in their sessions.
Jobs/VacanciesRe: We Are Not Recruiting – UBA by rectitude(m): 12:34pm On Feb 20, 2017
What a country
Christianity EtcRe: I Was Richer Than RCCG As Lecturer – Adeboye by rectitude(m): 9:22am On Feb 20, 2017
I respect you Sir, remember that back then, pastors were like the least financially bouyant figures. But all that has changed, the church of Jesus Christ has come a long way. And it's on it's way to the permanent site.
CelebritiesRe: Gandoki Reacts To Tonto Dikeh's Marriage Crisis And Instagram Stunts! by rectitude(m): 9:21am On Feb 20, 2017
Good one
FamilyRe: A Family Of 11 With, 4 Sets Of Identical Twins And A Son by rectitude(m): 9:44am On Feb 18, 2017
SuperBlack:
Wonderful. Thank God they were all Born in the days of GEJ and PDP reign. If it's in this Change the man will run away.
Look well, they're not Nigrrians.
FamilyRe: A Family Of 11 With, 4 Sets Of Identical Twins And A Son by rectitude(m): 9:43am On Feb 18, 2017
This is awsome.
RomanceRe: Nigerian Couple Recreates Barack And Michelle Obama's Photos by rectitude(m): 5:57pm On Feb 17, 2017
Nice one
PoliticsRe: Twitter User Compares Nigeria's Recession With Arsenal by rectitude(m): 10:35am On Feb 16, 2017
Hahahaha
Science/TechnologyRe: Photos Of Dolphin Caught In Brass, Bayelsa State by rectitude(m): 5:58pm On Feb 13, 2017
FeloniousFelon:
Bush meat syndrome at play.
Anything including a Gwari hunter in the bush is fair game in Nigeria
Are you saying Gbagyi hunter is also killed or he kills anything, lets understand.
PoliticsRe: Buhari Speaks To Trump On Phone From London - Femi Adesina by rectitude(m): 5:40pm On Feb 13, 2017
Hmmm
CelebritiesRe: Burna Boy Meets Drake, In UK (Photo) by rectitude(m): 9:00am On Feb 06, 2017
He should use the opportunity wisely
CelebritiesCharly Boy's Reaction To Cancelled 2face Protest by rectitude(op): 2:06pm On Feb 05, 2017
Read his piece below...

The Struggle to overcome Political Insanity, Audacious impunity and Mindless looting in Nigeria took a Negative hit last night not just because Tuface Idibia called off the 6th of February, 2017 Protest; because most of the demons we are Fighting against hijack the Peoples Protest and Anger at the Establishment.
We must not Trivialize the Struggle or We will Struggle to make any impact in the Emancipation of the Nigerian Mind. President Muhammadu Buhari is not the Problem of the Nigerian State and this is not excusing his Failures. The Nigeria Political Elite are Vampires Feeding off the Blood of a Willing and Docile Populace. They Loot Because we Hail; The Celebration of Ibori in Delta State Yesterday and Across the Country Typifies the Insanity of our Stupidity and eternal Problem of the Nigerian Struggling Populace.

Now we retreat to regroup and replan and we will lock hands to synchronise our objectives. For me, it is #ALUTAETERNAL, because If we no plan well things no go work well. No be everybody get that kin heart to stand tall when jungle mature. The real tsunami it's coming, and no doubt I will be on the front line. I will take the First Bullet; let my body be the first to drop; Let my Blood be the first to wash our LANDS.

Will the Nigeria youth back a Full Blooded Peaceful Political Mass Revolution at the Federal, State and Local Government Level? I doubt. But, I no go give up on my children, The Coalition of the Frustrated, Angry and Hungry, as well as this country that I love. We must sustain the pressure and cannot turn back as the Revolution Continues. We must begin to resist political insensitivity and mindless looting of our common wealth.
I, AreaFada will fight so fear will no longer cripple my people. Our MUMU don reach last bus-stop. And before we go start to chop sand sand, we go enter street and purge our lands of political dictatorship, oppression, poverty and corruption.
We must not walk/work alone or we will fail miserably. The Nigerian politician is our eternal enemy; The Nigerian people are the willing victim and it is time to channel our anger peacefully towards making governance work for us and not against us.

We must stop being the victims and become THE FEAR/THE MOB.
If our yeye Leaders no fear us, change no go come.
We Dey Prepare; We Dey Come to a Local Government, State House, State Assembly or an Arm of Federal Government Near You be cause #OurMumuDonDo

Charlyboy Oputa(AreaFada)
President.
Frustrated Nigerians.


https://www.instagram.com/p/BQIHIBOgaf4/?hl=en

CareerRe: Crippled Man Sells Air Freshener & Polish In Abuja (Pics) by rectitude(m): 1:22pm On Feb 05, 2017
Kudos to him
PoliticsRe: Okorocha Flaunts New APC Membership Card (Photos) by rectitude(m): 10:14pm On Jan 31, 2017
Did he decamp and recamp again or what. Thinking out loud tho
TV/MoviesRe: Gifty Of Big Brother Naija Is Married To David Sorochukwu Akumah (Photos) by rectitude(m): 4:29pm On Jan 30, 2017
Wonders shall never end, but I watched her fault miyonce on flirting with her when he already told her he has a girlfriend, and she claimed she was single that she's is the one is is free to flirt. Na wa o shocked
InvestmentRe: Top 10 Lies That Mavrodians Told Themselves Before MMM Came Crashing Down by rectitude(m): 12:29pm On Jan 26, 2017
I am convinced that the moderators of this Forum has a personal hatred for mmmm. They've never posted anything good about them. This is againts the ethics of journalism .
PoliticsRe: Photos Of The Female Soldier Who Died In Army Uniform by rectitude(m): 2:44pm On Jan 23, 2017
emmysam2:
So sad.
Ina Country where mortality rate is getting lower and lower, getting a military posting to the north is like telling you that your mortality rate is less than half what it was,
Google and other search engines should list cities of Northern Nigeria as some of the Deadliest cities in the world.
And to what good would it do to Nigeria?
FoodRe: Recipe: How To Make Nigerian Fried Rice, Full Steps by rectitude(m): 6:31pm On Jan 21, 2017
Helpful thread. Fried rice has always been my fave.Thanks for sharing
FamilyRe: "My Wife Sleeps With Her Pastor" - Leonard Dilkon , Ex Reps Member by rectitude(m): 8:05pm On Jan 20, 2017
How true is his claim. Hope it's not a matter of holding unto something to justify himself.
InvestmentRe: BREAKING: MMM Nigeria Begins Payment Of Outstanding Mavro by rectitude(m): 1:58pm On Jan 20, 2017
Welcome development. This should make front page of the moderators are really objective on this mmm issue.
InvestmentMMM Has Frozen Accounts Once Again, Any Explanation To This? by rectitude(op): 5:07pm On Jan 17, 2017
Has anyone else discovered that mmm has reversed their GH and further frozen the accounts such that available balance is showing 'Zero'? I need an explanation to this from the mmm Pros. if there is, Coz there's no such announcement on their site as it is their custom to announce any changes made.
GamingRe: 5 Beautiful Nigerian Mobile Games That Lit Up 2016 by rectitude(m): 10:21am On Jan 17, 2017
Let's leave games for the gamers
Car TalkRe: Meet The 1,000 HP Mercedes Hypercar. by rectitude(m): 12:50pm On Jan 16, 2017
Cool
Jokes EtcRe: Hilarious Answer To Why Economics Is A Science Question by rectitude(m): 7:15pm On Jan 06, 2017
Lol
SportsRe: Ogbein Fawole Dies Of Heart Attack In Lagos 2 Weeks After Deportation by rectitude(m): 8:03pm On Nov 13, 2016
Hmmm
RomanceTragedy Of Relationship [part 3] by rectitude(op): 9:04pm On Nov 04, 2016
The truth is, it is so hard to find a good man , and you never know what you really are
or how tolerable you are until someone tells you, that’s what relationship does
but before you go into it, cherish the moment of singleness because after all, there are benefits.


TEN ADVANTAGES OF BEING SINGLE

1. You manage your own time
2. You manage your own priorities
3. you manage your own friendships
4. you manage your own space
5. you manage your own relationships
6. you manage your own life’s purpose
7. you manage your own intellectual development
8. you manage you own body
9. you manage your life’s plans
10. you manage your life’s values
11. you manage your spiritual life
12. you manage your own financial investments

There’s no where that it’s commanded “Thou shall get married”. marriage is not a do or die affair.
But if you think you are now ready for it, then you need to consider this:

God is too smart to choose your mate, he only gives you prospect. he knows that when he chooses your mate and it doesn’t work out, you can always blame him for your misery. So do not be deceived when someone comes in the name of God to sway you into marriage.


You’ve got to study people a long time to know 10 percent of who they are… they will never tell you the truth, they will lie to you, especially if they love you, they will make you think they always like to clean the house, they will make you think their breathe always smells fresh.
it is when you start living with them that you get to know who they really are…so before you choose, be sure it is who you can live with.

What people do is that they experiment, and when the experiment doesn’t work, they blame everyone else.
Marriage is the most important decision you will ever make in your life.-this is a relationship decision, it is about how you relate to another human.

Sometimes its easier to buy a car than to choose a spouse. Choosing a right partner for marriage must not be taken without careful thoughts…Am so tired of seeing marriages fall apart.

Be careful when someone says “I Love You”.
The greatest danger of love is when you simplify it. When someone says i love you! ask them what they mean, because there are four kinds of love

1. STORGE- Family Love
2. PHILIA- Friendship Love
3. EROS – Intimate Love
4. AGAPE- Unconditional Love

So when you tell somebody i love you, what do you mean? most of the time when a man tells a woman i love you, he means number 3. (i want to go to bed with you) that ain’t love, that’s lust.

So instead of him using the right word for his motivation, he uses the general word… he’s supposed to say ‘i EROS you’, so the girl will know what kind of love he means.
The second one is PHILIA, which is friendship love- But this is the one that people can’t handle too well.

A guy and a girl go out for a cup of coffee, and all she wants is PHILIA, but he wants Eros, and here they are trying to drink coffee, there’s a definitely going to be a problem. so you see, we can’t even have a good time with each other any more, love is so complicated. So when someone says they love you, you better find out which one they mean.

The only love that is permanent is AGAPE because it is eternal. Love is not emotions, love is an act of the will, AGAPE is an act of the will.

As a matter of fact, love is a choice, because you will always meet other people that are richer, more intelligent, taller, darker and cuter than your spouse, when you get married, people don’t vanish. you will always meet a guy who is ready to give you anything, and he likes you, and he says the things you want to hear- what are you going to do?

And for the guys, you will always meet women who are more endowed, more beautiful and more sexually available, and they may even make advances at you, what are you going to do? All you have is a choice… that is what love is, You have to keep your choice. When you get married, the only thing that keeps you married is your decision and that’s all. Feelings don’t keep you, ring don’t keep you, sex or any other thing don’t keep you in marriage but choice. You have to understand that.

To be continued.

Source: http://www.fixmeblog.com/tragedy-of-relationship/

PoliticsNigerian Asks People To Raise Money For Ex-presidential Spokesman? by rectitude(op): 8:04pm On Nov 01, 2016
Reuben Abati (SaharaReporters)
In a bid to meet his bail condition, a fund-raising campaign has reportedly been raised for Reuben Abati.
According to reports, Abati allegedly collected N50m from the former National Security Adviser (NSA), Sambo Dasuki.

The former media aide of ex-President Goodluck Jonathan, was later granted bail on October 28, 2016.

Abati is still in the custody of the EFCC because he has not been able to meet the anti-graft agency’s bail condition, Premium Times reports.

Reports say Ettu Mohammed, on Sunday, October 30, 2016, opened a fund-raising campaign on Gofundme (an online fundraising platform).

According to Premium Times, Mohammed said “Reuben Abati the spokesman of ex-president Goodluck Jonathan is under lock and key for voluntarily collecting the sum of 50m Naira from Sambo Dasuki.

“We believe he must have been under the influence of Aso Rock evil spirit.”

“We are begging Nigerians to save Reuben Abati from detention.

“Two weeks ago, he said there were evil spirits in Aso Rock but he was running around for Goodluck Jonathan to return so that he could continue working on the same place infested by evil spirits," he added.

Further investigation on the fund raising platform did not reveal any account related to Reuben Abati or Ettu Mohammed.

Source:
http://pulse.ng/local/reuben-abati-nigerian-asks-people-to-raise-money-for-ex-presidential-spokesman-id5680907.html?utm_medium=email&utm_source=newsletter&utm_campaign=daily-2016-10-31

CelebritiesRe: Photos Of Adekunle Gold On Brooklyn Bridge by rectitude(m): 1:13pm On Oct 21, 2016
Cute

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