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AbujaCitiBlog:
Men are never loyal to their own gender, they are always bowing down to pussy. Very sad!

Bro.. leave the brothers code and female rage aside, we're humans with emotions. A child's whole world is at stake. Reason am nau...

Let me just clarify some things.
1. For those who don't believe me and think I'm seeking clout like Truvelisback and co., you lots are entitled to your opinions. Not everyone seeks clout.
2. For those accusing me of hiding the information from my 'friend' and choosing a hoe over him, I don't consider him a 'friend'. That dude eh, I just don't want to reveal too much to maintain anonymity. Dude is even currently wanted by the authorities in his state.
3. For those accusing me of blackmailing and collecting money from my guy, please I didn't. He wanted to give me the moment I choose to start tracing her. I never told him I had started. I also have no intentions of blackmailing the lady for money. I'm doing well for myself.
4. And for the ladies that feel I posted this to bash female gender, I confess that was the main reason I wanted to post this especially after the big reveal to the husband - to teach men about the nature of women, however I just can't stop thinking about that little girl.

Abeg I weak.. you lots can think what you want.... I really wish I was the one reading this instead of writing it.

Hey guys,
Pardon the long post.
So when I was still in 200 level staying in school hostel, I had this pre-degree roommate - handsome bad guy. He met a lady at the center he was attending tutorials for Jamb and PD exam. The lady and her mum were living in the town where our school was. They started having sex like mad. They so much had sex to stupor that one day this my guy came back completely drained. We had to arrange Malt and Milk for him to get himself that day. Now this girl was involved with another guy who was already working in all this Oil drilling company and he was alright.

I came back from lectures one day and my former roomie was alone in the room and moody. I asked him what was wrong and he opened up to me that the girl is pregnant and they have tried to abort the baby to no avail. Ha... So wetin wan play like this? He said the girl and her mum had already planned to pin the pregnancy on the working guy's head as this my guy no get shishi plus he couldn't even tell the girl to keep it for him or go and stay with his people because he had stayed at home for like 5 years committing plenty atrocities before his mum managed to send him to school for PD. He was sad because he didn't want another man to take care of his child.

When I asked him about the situation after some time, he said the working guy had already accepted the pregnancy and had already started buying baby things down. lol... The guy didn't gain admission again and went back home. Later he came back and did Diploma... When I asked him of the child, he said the child was a carbon copy of him, that the girl had done intro with the guy but when he has money he would come back for the child..

Last month, I received a friend request from my fomer roomie on FB. Long story cut short, after 7 years, he has blown through yahoo in SA. I asked him about the child and he said he can't trace the baby mama again, her mum had relocated from that town and he has exhausted all means looking for them. I jokingly offered my help and the guy was willing to give me money to help him trace her. I told him I would see what I can do.

It took me a while but I was able to trace the girl on SM and even traced the now husband to LinkedIn. Babe is living well with Oil money and has 3 kids and truly the first girl is my guy's carbon copy.. Damn... I started feeling for the child. Beautiful soft girl-child.

I decided ring the girl and immediately I told her what was happening, she hung up and blocked my number.. lol.. I sent a msg to her with my second line and told her to better call me back before I send a message to her husband... babe called me and was begging.. that my former roomie is not responsible. he was not trying then... she couldn't wait .. blah blah .. that please I should not scatter her marriage... was really crying over the phone... The RP in me wasn't buying it until she mentioned that I should please think about how this would shatter her daughter's life. Omoh the human in me made me pause come begin reason am...

My former roomie's lifestyle isn't really what a child would be proud of.. the guy has done everything from cultism to robbery and still hasn't changed and now to yahoo.......only thing he has now to offer that child is money....He said his mother has been telling him to go and bring the child from another man's house.
I don't care about the babe because ladies always think their hoe-phase would go unrewarded..
I pity for the babe's husband coz he was simp then and has remained so till now oblivious of anything.....
I only sincerely care about the 7y/o child whose life would be turned upside down by this shocking revelation..

Anyway, I told her that I wouldn't do anything for now but my guy is very desperate and she better handles it fast and that it's only a mater of time my guy gets to her one way or another... Babe thanked me and hung up. Next day, she wiped her and her husband's SM clean and deleted the accounts.. except the man's LinkedIn of course.. The man don sha accept me as one of his connections.... I've not revealed any findings to my former roomie.. Last time he asked when I want to start tracking her, I just stalled him. I'm sitting on the sidelines for now.. Omoh I weak ..... The good, bad and ugly comments are welcomed.

Omooba77:
Why do many see Church as problem rather than solution?

Nothing more than the lack of power in the church. In the days of the Master Jesus, you cannot encounter Jesus without something changing in your life. No power in the church again bro!!!!!

LoverOfPussy:
Christians why una god nor gree forgive devil na?

Mercy is for the beings that are in the earth under the control of time. The devil, fallen angels, demons and even the angels of God aren't bound by the time of the earth. That's why there's no mercy after death because once you depart your body, you're no longer bound by time. 'His mercies are new every morning.'

Buharinomics. We were shouting this thing since 2015 they didn't hear. We screamed it again in '19, same thing.

Enjoy.

Registered.

Stay until you collect your 1 month salary at least and run. But my last boss employed a tactic, he payed on the 7th and delayed and paid those he loved. Me I just left my two months salaries and left.

They transferred my salary short of 20k, I left with my peace of mind - very important.

fordweber:
Yes, with the use of Barter card..

So one can use barter card like Afri card?

Lol. Same thing I was telling a girl at my office yesterday. She was boasting to me about one guy who was asking her for her number. 'Make he come collect nau', who wan give am before?? lol.. I shook my head because she's just 21.. Na her time... I told her specifically 'babe continue but you'll remember my words that guys no get time again.'

To be a Nigerian is already a disadvantage then to be a man in Nigeria is more than a disadvantage. You have to hustle your blood to be comfortable. Who come get that time to dy 'pursue ' girl twice Infact na girls dy suppose rush guys now like this.

Sorry for your dad's loss. Let us young people still orientate our elderly parents about the tactics of these fraudsters.

The road to recovery is possible but very stressful. Just get to the bank first sha.

Monumental failure of a president

Worst Governor ever. Don't be surprised it's all part of the 2023 agenda

I have one question. What happens to those who couldn't rectify their 0%?

Vanquisher100:
Thanks but I followed the exact instructions. I logged out and refreshed my browser yet I noticed that all my answers weren't saved when I decided to check before submitting

Where you able to retake the test?

Igbo men sha.. I love what they do for their boys.

Mynd44:
Lets pause ooo. What did this guy do wrong?

There is no evidence that the company has a policy preventing sexual relationships among staff
He did not assault her
He did not use his office to threaten her into sex so what exactly did he do?

I won't be shocked if the bank sacks him as he has brought their name into the mud but if he did anything ethically wrong? Nope.

If anyone did wrong, it is the cheating wife. She was the one who swore an oath to her husband and cheated (yes, I will say the same thing about side chicks and married men)

Both were wrong. Adams is also married and also swore an oath to his wife. But if wickedness was in grades, the wife's wickedness would be more.

By the way, any single man that still flexes another man's wife is also foolish.

Can we just keep this thread alive for those who applied? I've been looking forward to meet those who applied.

Talk to one of the mods to take this thread to properties section, you'll find more experienced people there and more people that may give you seasoned advice and motivation. Good luck.

azraeljaheel:
no man is above konji

even covid cant stop it

Says who??

Omoh. I know NLanders will come for OP's head. I support what the commenter above said.

There's a lot of difference between feeling entitled and hoping or relying on your family members for help.

Entitlement breeds arrogance and resentment which the OP isn't expressing.

Family is meant to support each other, how will you leave your siblings and be supporting others? When the die is cast, who will you turn to if not family? When you're by the sick bed or you're celebrating, if family isn't there, who should be there before?

Why do people go all length to make family if family isn't important.?

The same thing that happens in the OP's family is what happens in mine. When we were younger, If you want to buy phone, we pass offering basket from eldest to youngest. It brings love and unity.

If you can't rely on family in times of need, then something is wrong with your family. No matter how hard you try to paint it as entitlement.

To the OP, thank God say hustle don dy pay, leave your brother and focus on your hustle. At least you have friends who can help you build.

Fussion1000:
Few of advantages of gfs over olosho

1. You learnt a lot from relationship which you will take to ur own marriage
2. Ur gf will sex u to ur own 10001% satisfaction, olosho only interested in ur money.

You can sex gf if you are koboless but not with olosho

You can take gf to party and show case her as ur babe not in olosho stuff

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Overall is that gf may become ur wife , money u spent if she become will not waste but olosho will not even greet u second day



If you are unable to toast a girl and be with you out of numerous that not in relationship, means "you don't have life",


The only advantage of olosho is that , its ready made stuff.

I will advice you to be like a real man first and drop anything call sex for now

Really??

Please stop displaying your ignorance man. You don't know the peace singleness brings.

Spreads mat.

talktrue1234:
, I am a Yoruba guy and I have been to Akwa-Ibom and Portharcourt, I can beat my chest that ladies from Akwa-Ibom (at least those that I met then) don't beg like Yoruba girls do, I noticed girls from that side would rather do runs than depend on guys. And if you look at Akwa-Ibom culture you will notice that the women work very well, in fact during my short stay, I notice they have more women farmers over there, early in the morning you will see them riding their bicycle going to the farm(I love Akwa-Ibom ladies, even God knows)..

Hahahahahaha.. I can relate man... I served in Akwa Ibom and 70% of corpers posted to Akwa Ibom in my batch were mostly Yoruba ladies. In my lodge, about 95% of the ladies were yoruba. They can tax person eh.., which kind wahala be this? They will look for every avenue to milk you of the small 19.8k then.

When they come with their smile and say Regardless buy me sharwarma nau. I go tell dem say babe na the same 19.8k FG dy pay us., no dy tax me.... Dem go say which kind woman you go marry sef? I go say na better one wia no go beg...

Abeg I love Yoruba o.. Majority of my guys na Yoruba..

After reading this, fuel pump price came down. Thanks Nairaland Mods.

goodheart02:
My dear, there's nothing financially stable about being a medical doctor in Nigeria. And that lady really loves him because my own girlfriend left me when I faced issues in medical school after my second mb exams. I bounced back to who I am today because I managed my psychology properly

Lol. Firstly, you may not attain financial stability by being a medical doctor but you can comfortably pay your bills. You guys buy cars after housemanship nau.

Secondly, that your babe left you when you faced issues proves me right. If only she saw that you will bounce back, she would have stayed to secure her future. Girls don't necessarily stay with guys because of love but because of what they stand to gain.

Lol. Sharp girl. She saw a financial stable future in the young doc. I wonder if she would have agreed to date or not have broken up with a forestry and wildlife technology graduate during your numerous quarrels.

Congratulations to your union jare.

alaribe1992:
Well to cut the story shot, I just went on Facebook and revealed my identity to her and sent her the breast pics of her she sent me.
She isn't online right now,

So wetin come happen?

Jannuxajj:
But it is a very big problem because we both stay home alone everyday and this brings out the feelings I have for her because I truly liked her. But the most painful part is she doesn't even have a tiny spark of feelings for me.

I focused on my hustle and for the first time I had almost a million in my account. I used style style to make sure she sees my account balance.

The major pain of this issue now is there is this our young neighbor guy that usually come and pick her with his father's tinted glass car. they will drive to one corner and wind up and that drives me crazy. I will start imagining what they are doing in the car.

You're still buying her things?? Don't you read through romance section Oga focus on your hustle and stop being an annoying simp.

mariahAngel:
I never thought this was ever possible for a man.

Lol.. If you never thought this was possible for a man, you may be taking Nairaland too seriously.