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kollinz1234:
suggest how he would have done so

He could have avoided this whole thing by being indifferent to both Russia and America. Him and his handlers decided instead to put the lives of their citizens at risk so as to embezzle fun without being caught.

smirn:
Imagine a region in this country that has been agitating for secession, that never believed in one Nigeria and for almost 7 years now, these people has heightened the level of insecurity in the south east just to make the country ungovernable and now they want to sell one of their own to a country they never believed in. They want Obi to become president of the zoo. Many Nigerians may be so gullible but not all Nigerians are foolish. The Obi movement is an extension of the ipod agitation.

What about the North and the boko haram they to spite GEJ government and later fielded their son and won?


Go and kill yourself.

kollinz1234:
ok so what do you think Zelensky would have done differently?
Do you really know what Russia is demanding?

For the peace and life of his people, there are a million things he could have done differently like, staying out of the whole trouble.

ubunja:
RedPill Movie of the Day: 2012 .

I have watched the movie. When I did, I was not this matured both in age and mind.

Thanks for the breakdown.


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Please no one should quote the whole thing. Abeg cut it or reference the part you want to talk about. Cheers.

LordAdam16:
"Hype and Insha Allah" don send Ukrainians to trenches and underground shelters.

Winter na still next month.

-Lord

Guy I get news on Russia and Ukraine war undiluted from you, I just say make I hail oh.

pansophist:
Ashawo de, but how you want take enjoy sex wey dem put you for timer, with rules and regulations such as no kissing or you pay extra

And what people actually want is not sex, it's true emotional connection with a woman/man that loves them despite their imperfections.

Sex strengthens love, not the opposite. It's painful to reach the pinnacle of material success, a place you think it's the answer and will make your romantic life easier, but realise that it's lonely up there.

I am lonely, e remain to reach that pinnacle. I no go fit ever complain.

I am alone by choice because I have a target and being with someone is a gamble, I might achieve my target faster or I might not. I do not want distraction.

tensazangetsu20:
If they were even doing the social media on their own no one send like I can't go to YouTube and look for Nigerian channels to watch but no they must run stupid ads and be disturbing people. Person will see wetin he no wan see by force and they never talk about better things like the best courses to study the best careers to invest in how to maximize your credit score. When to buy a home or stuff. It's always before you come marry this marry that. Every 3 market days the same nonsense shit

Baba, Nigerians are very useless even to themselves. A lot of things Nigerians are doing regarding japa, Indians have been doing it since but they kept quiet and left the messages amongst themselves. But here we must show say we no deh naija. Nonsense clout chasing.

Ahmed0336:
Ashawo house no dey there?

My guy, ashawo deh but it cost as much as £40 per round. Till day break can go as high as £200.

kollinz1234:
...but u will love to see Zelensky just offer Ukraine to Russia and just rest abi

No, that's a horrible thing to think of. It wouldn't have come to this if Zelensky valued the lives of Ukrainians. GEJ valued the lives of Nigerians that's why he didn't go further to challenge the outcome of 2015 election.

kollinz1234:
you must be a coward then. A man who will rather kneel in slavery and leave than stand for freedom and die

From my calculations, Russia was never a slave during Putin regime. So yeah I'm Putin coward.

Maxxim:
What still battles me is that up to this moment, journalists in ukraine keep claiming they're winning the war, smh

It is Psychology. They plan to achieve two things:
1. Push Russia to go unethical (Russia has been threading with caution and has not gone full blown war, can not use nuclear even of it a full war)

2. Demoralise Russian army.

kollinz1234:
Putin is weak man

I'd rather be Putin weak than Zelensky strong/alpha man

ednut1:
The west is leading ukraine to where dem no know

I sure say any Ukraine weh sing 'carry me deh go..' go deh regret am.

Everybody wants to trend.

efelicity:
I noticed a drastic change in my wife's behaviours lately. She doesn't cook, doesn't prepare our two kids for school, always citing body pains. I took the responsibility of cooking and preparing our kids. That is just by the way, she stopped having sex with me always saying she doesn't have the feelings to have sex. I suspect her of cheating because few weeks ago i heard her listening to WhatsApp voice note, a chat between her and another man. I demanded to have the phone but she refused. My wife answers calls at odd hours of the night but if i query her she would claim it's a friend or her boss at her work place. It's morethan a month when last i had sex with my wife.


I'm not harsh and I provide for my family. But my wife's behaviour ir burning me deep in my heart. I sometimes cry when alone in office or at home. Please advse me on what to do as iam pained and confused.

Solution: Get yourself a call girl

Acidosis:
Some Nigerians will disgrace you. They will ruin YouTube the way they wrecked blogging. Zero creativity, zero innovation.

Honestly.

Acidosis:
Grace found him.


Unrelated. Nigerian YouTubers, I take God beg una, what's all this thing you people do in the name of voice-over? 2 minutes video and you people will spend the first 1:45 minutes talking rubbish. No creativity at all. You can simply upload the video and provide a basic subtitle. Why are you people like this? I no wan dey hear una voice again. I take God beg you guys.

I thought I was the only who has grown tired of the thing. In fact I have stopped opening such videos. I have no interest in them again.

Raalsalghul:
Hard to find balanced takes these days.

I already know two people who embarked on this U.K journey and have been successful based on their targets and expectations.

Does it mean everyone who goes there will be successful? No.

But opening threads upon threads 247 predicting doom and gloom is nothing short of witchcraft.

People will always migrate for reasons best known to them so the over arching theme/message which should be tailored to such individuals is: do your research, manage expectations and be ready to reskill/upskill.

Whether someone sells their property, quit a high paying job to migrate is non of your fucking business.

It's their decision and their life. They will deal with the consequences, not you.

Nigerians and taking panadol for another person's headache.

Haba!

Correct response. You don't go to another man's land expect to start at the top just like that when you don't even have any value as such to offer to the country at that moment. This is the reason a lot fail when they come. I am a banker, I was a manager... So I can not do all these. There is diginity in labour and that one has decided not to do those looked down labour does not mean others doing it are fools. You get ICAN, you get experience for audit, no problem, no one is asking or begging you to leave your position and start all over abroad. I know everyone has the right to air their opinion but sometimes it goes from having that right to air opinion to envy. There are prices to pay for everything in this life, it depends on what you want that will qualify the price.

pansophist:
I'll get back to you

Alright. I did send an email to email on your profile

Tekes:
Thank God man is your Father, brother and husband.

So you took your time to marry a dog,

and you were form from the sperm of dog,

Matter of fact, a dog is currently bedding you and filling you up with his sperm.

What does all these make of you?

A b!tch. A literal one and not figuratively.

TonyeBarcanista:
Audio #75bn that Obiano is yet to see...

You showed us pictures. But you never made reference to the newspaper that published it so that we can make research on it and prove you wrong.

Illiterate.

pansophist:
Bro it's not about money. Go off that mindset. Money only helps you facilitate the visa/residence category that you've already qualified for.

So for example if you have an admission somewhere, then money will help you pay tuition fees, book flights, act as bank statement, pay visa fees, insurance, accommodation etc. Money is a facilitator, NOT the qualification.

There are millionaires in every corners of third world countries, who can't get residency elsewhere with their money. So instead of ask the country 6M can take you to, determine which category of visa you'll qualify for.

Alright. Let me rephrase the question.

I want a country where an 19yo who is just starting out life can start out and achieve his dreams. He doesn't mind any country, but I am considering my pocket while trying to get him the best in the sense of obtaining citizenship of that country.


I want something for him, that in the end, he will be glad and forever will remember me in his life (note I know it is out of control). I want something I will do for him and be satisfied because I am doing it like I will do to myself.


Is it OK I pm you?

pansophist:
When you've gotten your passport, increased your funds and ready to start, mention me. But try change your 4M to hard currencies, to preserve it from deprecating.

Baba I am patiently waiting for countries you will list that one with 6m can go in Europe.

pansophist:
Me wey don wake since

If you knew the kind of anger that dwelled in my heart for years as I begin to understand the evil (western imperialism) this world is built upon? I was depressed even. But again, it is the understanding that we do NOT live in world of justice and fairness, but a world where civil law (e.g international law, treaties, domestic laws, etc) are just masks of the true law beneath, which is, the law of the jungle. Where the strong oppress and impose their will on the weak.

A unipolar world where is the west on top, and the rest under. A world where real-time oppression has been dressed in euphemistic code words (eg invasion is called military intervention, terrorists are called freedom fighters, raping a foreign land is called spreading democracy, etc). A world where the color of your skin and the color of your passport will largely determine how far you will go in life, regardless of your hard work).

A world where even though our forefathers fought for independence from colonialism, what they actually achieved was a transition from a dying method of manual exploitation to a more sophisticated, self-sustaining method of perpetual enslavement. You can't actually call yourself independent when after getting your so-called independence, you were ushered to all the international institutions your so-called oppressors control such as IMF, UN, World bank, ICJ, etc.

Where their multi-national corporations control all your natural resources, impose on you their political systems, draw your borders, speak their languages and validate yourself through their numerous award systems (such as grammy awards, democracy points, etc). As far as I am concern, Nigeria and Africa as a whole are still colonies, it is as simple as that.

I have never been a fan of America, I always had this feeling that something sinister is going on with the way they're parading themselves as police of the world. Like who made them that?


My problem is, why the European countries allowed a country in another continent invade theirs and made things very costly especially gas? Why did the allow a country they once colonised come to Europe and disabilise their economy? How did this once British colony convinced their colonial masters that they have the best military?

Warburton. £1.35

ontarioache:
Hello all,

A mutual friend has drawn my attention to this thread

https://www.nairaland.com/7357845/complex-marital-issue-thoughts-please/15#117128240

MY RESPONSE.
First let me thank our mutual friend Imelda for drawing my attention to this.

Well, I am here to set the record straight.
I did not see any need to respond, but some commentators really got me laughing hard so let me indulge you all.

To kick start, I am in touch with my 2 kids on almost a daily basis, and the event she described is not the first time. Hanging up on me is a routine since we married, it has happened un-countable times. Also the guys that said I am childish are right, when they finish reading they will truly know that, no man will behave the way I have, except a child. Lastly, I am fully responsible for the upkeep of my family, every penny and not much age difference between us. I have never hung up on her for one day. She has even blocked me on phone over some arguments while we live in same house. (LOL)

For the readers, what happened is this :

You called me that you were going to made some budget and you will be spending … amount of money on that plans- you know the plan. I told you it was okay and we kept on talking about It. ( I did not raise any issue immediately to avoid conflict) so after some days, I told you that next time, it will be appropriate that we ought to discuss such plans together and that it was not the best for you to decide all by yourself and only informed me of what you have chosen to do for a decision that affects the both of us. You flared up immediately that I do not have the right to tell you that, and THAT YOU ARE ALONE WITH THE CHILDREN (like you always say) and furthermore, you said you have many things that you are doing at the same time. I then replied you that I also have many things going through my mind. ( I replied you this way because you always say this, anytime I want to have a discussion with you. You even say this even while we were together, and I will just be amazed). You flared up and insulted me then hung up.

I called you immediately many times. I called you again at night, I sent you several messages, although I did not apologize directly but the messages I sent reflected that I was sorry. In one of the messages, I explained that I was critical of the amount you intend to spend , because you do know we have other more pressing plans that we needed funds for, and that what your budgeted was a bit too high. But you refused to let go like you have always done for these 8 years. Every week for 6 weeks I sent you messages that you never replied to.

In this period, you also changed apartment without even deeming it fit to tell me. (Yes I know before this misunderstanding, it was already the plan that you will be changing apartment. But the anger still did not allow you tell me as at when you finally moved to the new apartment, till now, it has been more than 3 months that you moved, you still did not inform me although the children told me about it, you know they did, but I expected that at least you should tell me about it by yourself.)

I did not just stop picking your calls because I wanted to stop, I did it for my self respect and sanity. It is the first time I am refusing to pick your call, or even not to talk to you after 8 years of marriage.

Have I ever held any grudge against you for more than 24hrs ?, have you ever had to apologise more than once on anything without me accepting your apology immediately, that is even if you choose to apologise at all. ? !. Rather you are the one that reminds me at every giving opportunity that I know you can decide not to talk to me again and stay on you own, and that I am the one that will suffer. In precise terms, you always do this, while I was at home. You can stay on for weeks and months without talking to me for the slightest misunderstanding, I am always the one that will try and make peace, and each time you either humiliate me by refusing to make peace till whenever you are satisfied. It has been like this for these 8 years. Even if I want to hold a discussion with you at home, it is either you are busy on the phone, and If I try to ask you to focus you just tell me I should summarize and that you listen with your ears, and not your phone or your hands. However, sometimes ( like 20 per cent of cases) you do listen to me.

Even when the children are being difficult, you threaten them by telling them to go ask their father the kind of person you are, and that you do not tolerate nonsense from anyone.(lol, when I was young, our mothers threathen us with our father) Yes, you are right, I wonder why you are so proud of these difficult attributes of yours.

Recall that before that very day that you hung up on me,( in fact also since the beginning of the union), you have been insulting me on each time I call, If we are discussing and I ask you a question about what you have said, you always say that I don’t pay attention. You accuse me of not caring about how you managed the children alone by yourself. I understand it is hard to raise 2 kids under the age of 6 all by yourself, however like I have always told you, lets thank God, it could have been worse- not having children is hard, having children is also hard.Remember at home, your mother and your sister once said that, I show too much care for the kids and that is the weakness that you are using against me. This is from your own family. Imelda was also there !

I can barely talk to you on phone, each time I call you, you tell me you are busy with the kids, and most times you just ask me to summarise and then you hang up even while we were at home together, you say the same thing.

Recently before this sad event you even said if I do not call before 9.45pm, I can no longer reach you, few times when I have to call like few minutes to your deadline, no matter how important our discussion is, once it s 9.45 pm, the phone disconnects and that will be it.You can not even bend that rule for me. You barely return my calls, if you see my missed calls, sometimes it may take you days and most times you do not return them at all, if I ask, you are quick to say, you are alone managing the children and that your are already too stressed up to be bothered about missed calls.

Much earlier than this incident that you hung up on me, you asked me never to wish you any kind of good wishes like happy birthdays, Christmas, mother’s day and all those. Because you said I do not care that it is all lip service. I thought it was just frustration, but for the last 1 year, you have consistently refused to respond to my Christmas, New Year and even your birthday wishes.You ignored all my wishes!
5 months before that faithful day that you escalated your disdain for me to a whole new level, you talked to me on the phone with reckless abandon, even on my birthday, you managed to call me around 11 pm and your birthday wish to me was this “ I WISH YOU WHAT YOU WISH YOURSELF”, I told you it was not a fair wish, and the next thing, it led to outburst again and that was that, and you hung up.

Remember, you forgot my birthday for the past 3 consecutive years.

Obviously, in the preceding 5 months, you have been looking for what I will do so that you can cut me off, the opportunity came and you took it like a Viking.

How often can a married woman stay without getting in contact with her husband for this long over a matter as simple as that, and she is not bothered at all.

I needed to let go for once. I am tired of fighting for the advancement of this union. It has been 8 years of this gruesome treatment. You think everyone is wrong apart from you.

Please if there is any FALSEHOOD in what I have written, I will be glad that you tell your audience. IMELDA YOUR SISTER IS READING THIS AND SHE CAN TESTIFY TO ALL THESE. Moreover, this is just one small aspect of all that has happened these past 8 years. I just decided to skip a thousand others.I only choose to focus on this alone. You know there are a thousand things that are worse than this that you have done.

I am glad that the vast majority of your audience could not be manipulated by your story.

Maybe I would have just stayed back home in Nairobi 7 years ago, may it could not have been this bad. This is my Canada reality!

I would be a liar if I say it has not been daunting and I do not miss you. However, I have since come to the realization that no matter what , no man should dine in the table where love, respect and dignity are not served ! This is my new reality!

Dear Wife, Enjoy your own reality that you created for yourself and stay blessed...!

Aptly done. However she will come back to ask for forgiveness which she doesn't mean. She wants to have the last laugh or talk or blow...

The best way to relate to her is indifference. Be indifferent with her.

pansophist:
Perfect. What's your highest level of educational background and your age? Do you have an international passport?

I'm particularly interested in this.

obedience4:
Hey bro dislike us am enjoying freedom,
While you are in the shite hole eating corn

Funny. I guess Europe is the new shithole.

Fuc.king third world with a Gucci belt (USA)

My hate for USA continues to increase every day. I dislike the country and the people in it.

Ekpekus:
World cup is in 2026... not 2024. It is the Euros that is holding 2024

Oh. Tankio

Am I the only one getting confused with the football age. 35yrs now, will be 39 in summer 2024...or is my eye paining me?