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Bloody disgusting thing

hotwax:
There is an urgent need for my Girlfriend to change her teaching job due to the way she is being treated and the pay was not enough. She was to attend an interview by Friday last week.

The new work place were going to give her practical test. She confided in me that she no longer remember the practical part since she left school. She needed to visit a close friend of her who was going to do a refresher for her.
Her friend is a guy. Going to visit a guy at home sounded somehow. But I didn’t want to be a blocker to her greatness at a crucial part of her life. I kept mute hoping nothing will happen. You know how women can demonize you at that stage of her life. She is desperately looking for Job and all I do is jealous?

Just this Monday, She came visiting me on her way from work to relax a bit while traffic subsides. She slept off. I noticed someone calling her on whatsapp video call. The person tried like 5 times. Out of curiousity, I tried to see who it was (I did not pick the call). I check the profile picture, then went to chat. It was my girl close friends. I went through their chat and saw how they had sex for the first time on this same tutorial day. It seems he has been trying to have sex with her for months but due to their inability to meet, he could not. But the tutorial gave him the opportunity to nail it.

I also know that my girl is aware he has is own girlfriend, she just did it anyways.
I didn’t confront her, and she obviously not aware. But I have been trying to forget her, limiting our interactions.
Now I know why some husband don’t want their wives to work. Just to go for interview, she don have sex. Its that bad for girls of nowadays. Sex every corner..

I just felt I didn’t do anything wrong. I am not at fault.

Where you failed is you allowed her to fool you. There is YouTube and the Internet to teach her the practical. They planned this long before the interview. The interview was just a means to an end.

sammieking2017:
Is it a crime to be honest in this country ? Referencing to the post I saw here yesterday.

https://www.nairaland.com/7315480/thought-honesty-hardwork-pays

I had my own share too, though it's long but I need your advice.

The episode started when the Suffocating and comprehensive ASUU strike is becoming more elongated.

My mum discussed with her boss if I can be working with them depending when ASUU will call off their strike.

Fortunately, they affirmed to my mum's request and I was employed to work as a secretary.

Note: They are both husband and wife running the organization.

My role is to write receipt for all payments entering the organization account, write and ensure all the payments of the day are updated before the next day.

As a result of the nature of my work, this give me access to the boss office as I may need some things to take there. Even if other staff want to access the office, they will inform me first, then I will collect the key and give them whatever they need in the office.

Things was going smoothly until a fateful Friday I was accused of stealing.

The scenario happened like this.

As the secretary of the organization, I do resume work by 7:30am and close by 5:pm.

Apart from the cleaners that tidy the compound. In most cases, I'm the last person that leaves the office. And whenever I'm leaving, I collect the key to the office and park the bags of the boss and his wife into their car, check whether they bought something and ensure everything is placed in their car.

That fateful day, as usual, His wife wasn't around, then I look for the husband to collect the office key and he told me that the office is opened. With no further delay, I moved into the office and carried their bags. As I was going, he stopped me and check the bag. He claimed that inside the bag, where he packed money, the money has been rough handled and the nylon bag that housed the money was found tore.

Then pandemonium began. He insisted that a person has accessed the money and I was the only person that has the privilege to enter the office. I was troubled and confused. My perplexity was so high that I don't even know what to say.

I tried to explain to the best of my knowledge. I tried my best to exonerate myself that I knew nothing about the money. I told everyone that I met the office opened and I ain't aware that the office was opened. Most times, if I see the office ain't closed. I will close it because it's close to my office. But on this day no one to bear me withness. Every odds look against me. We left there around to 5:30pm that day.

I even told my boss that he should count the money that I don't perceive anyone entering the office. But he kept saying that he didn't know the amount he put there and he can't give the precise amount that has been stolen.

Beforehand, I noticed that the environment is full of jealousy. The staff jealous themselves. They envy each other and there are lots of faction within the organization. To be on a safer side. I didn't join any caucus or faction. I play my role diligently and discharge my duty responsibly. I don't do favouritism as I make myself to be honest in all things. There are many evil things that I'm aware of that goes underground but I don't interfer in it or report it except the bosses know by themselves. With my altitude, well with this I thought, I was loved by the boss and his wife.

When I got home, I wept profusely because no one to bear me withness, everyone seems I'm the thief.

I explained to my mum what happened because she has left earlier. She pacified me and said. If I'm not guilty of the stealing, nothing will happen to me and they should use whatever they want to use to look for their money.

On Monday we resume back to work. What happened on Friday kept pondering my heart, the wound hasn't been healed yet another mysterious thing happened again.

My own office is at the front of the boss office. My table and chair are placed there but it doesn't look privately. It looks like a reception before entering the main office. I got to my office next day to find that #3,600 has been smuggled into my drawer.

Chaiii! No one to bear me withness again about the money I saw. All things look like I was the one that stole the money, and just hiding under the guise of innocency.

I was extremely perplexed, different thought were ruminating my mind. One thought said if you give them the money they will say you are lying that you just kept it there. Another thought said, who knows, perhaps they are putting you under integrity test. Well! I carried the money, luckily the wife was around and I explained how I saw the money and handed it over to her.

When the husband came, she told him exactly what I reported to her and the husband responded, he might be the money they stole on Friday. He continues, definitely the thieves has returned the money as a result of their actions on Friday.

The matter dies there and no one ever made reference to it again until today when the boss (he) asked me to prepare a bill for a customer.
I've done that already and also listening to him and the customer while they were conversing. In a nut shell. I heard the customer telling him that he wants another bills too. Therefore I was preparing that too, unknowingly as I was preparing it, I have covered the first bills with lot of books on my table. As the boss arrived, he requested for the first bill he asked me to prepare. Unfortunately, it's no where to be found again, �‍♂️. I tried to explain to him that I was also preparing other bills the woman mentioned. I think that was the only mistake I made thinking that would make the work faster for the woman to collect the bills.

All of a sudden, I noticed that he has been seethe with anger. He shouted at me that I don't have regards for him, he said, he asked me to do something but I'm doing otherwise. Before I could utter any statement to clear myself out. Everything has already scatter, he remained deaf to whatever I wanted to say. He insisted that I'm not working with them again, he chased me out like a dog that I have to go back to take my phone.

Amongst all the turbulence, I kept begging him. I prostrated on the floor to show that I'm sorry. But he didn't even looked at me.

For the sake of my mother. I don't want to do anything that would affect her relationship with her bosses, I would have said. I'm not working again and not even bother to beg.

To cut it short. His wife signaled to me to meet an erderly man close to the place, possibly he might listen to his pleas. I did as instructed by his wife, "God bless that woman" The erderly man followed me but another thing bursted. He said apart from this, that he can't employ somebody that he doesn't trust. He made it known to the erderly man that I'm not trustworthy using the past money that was stolen as a case of study.

That moment, tears began to roll down from my face. I didn't know what to say in the midst of everyone. Everyone was just saying, please forgive him, he will change, he won't do that again. I looked at myself and said this is humiliation of the highest order. If I take any step, it might affect my mum too and lead to the termination of her appointment. I don't want her to be traumatized.

I remained calm and crying bitterly. Well! he accepted the elderly man plea for me and they concluded that this is yellow card, that if I do anything bad again, they will resort by giving me red card.
Since ASUU is still on strike now and there's no way I can say I'm leaving there without having implication on my mum employment. Who knows, what will happen next that might get me roped and I will be given red card couple with humiliation. I want men with wisdom to advice me on how I can justify my resignation peacefully.
I don't want anything to backfire on my mum. I don't want her to be traumatized and I don't want them to transfer their aggression on her.

I just want to leave there peacefully because I can't see myself working there again. Even all these things was written with my unbalanced emotions. I know I have been traumatized and accused falsely but I believe I will bounce back strongly and soon or sooner God will revealed the perpetrator in Jesus name.���.

I will be glad if this can be moved to front page.

Brother, quit the place.

I thought same sex marriage is illegal in Nigeria. What happened?

Yes I would.

hammer567:
U ARE IGNORANT.


PEOPLE LIKE YOU TALK ABOUT THINGS YOU DONT KNOW, PRODUCT OF EXAM MALPRACTICE.


YOU BOUGHT YOUR CERTIFICATE AND WHEN YOU TALK, IT SHOWS.



MOST COUNTRIES DONT WANT FOREIGNERS TO WORK OR LIVE WITH THEM, YOU WILL BE FORCED TO PROSTITUTION LIKE YOUR SISTERS IN ITALY AND FRANCE.



THEY CALL IT RIGHT TO WORK AND STAY.

I guess you sold him the certificate for you to know he bought it.

Sonyboom765:
Compare her to Onyeama the Igbo foriegn affair minister that supervised the beheading of many IG o cocaine pushers ever witnessed in Nigeria, I will say she doing perfectly.

Seun, Lalasticlala, and other mods, rule 2 has been broken by this fella. It will be a shame if it continues and nothing is done.

Justwise

Sonyboom765:
Brain dead fool na Buhari carry foolish Igbo go rob bank for Dubai, na same Buhari go de do olosho advert for Dubai mall. Na him go de do yahoo, scatter everywhere for Dubai.

Hey man, Igbos are the least cause of your problem. This is done by every Nigerian, whether Igbo, Yoruba or Hausa. Don't forget the popular Yahoo con artist that is being held in prison till today was caught in Dubai and na Yoruba boy. So better face the cause of your problem, it is not one race in naija that is your problem.

Ebubu:
Which educated person will read the jargons you wrote ?

Please, type like a primary 6 graduate nex time.

An illiterate will not read the jargons inoki247 wrote. Mind you, you can be educated and still be an illiterate.

If you doubt the above, by now you should know the word 'jargon' is a synonyms of the word 'register'. This means using words that is peculiar to a particular Register (Medicine, Politics, Business) and not an insult.

SerikiFulani:
Dubai is overrated as fvck

Why are people going there and lamenting on this visa change?

All these women suffering bipolar.

etoluw:
you can first use regex to check/sanitize the account no before you send it to paystack

Correct.

This is not South Eastern attire.

Buhari did it and even took our name "Ole chukwu"

Yet we are the 5%.

It won't work this time.

Lexusgs430:
And his dick was already erect, awaiting her already wet passage, that accepted the cum and delivered the goods ..........

Accidents madia.

crackhaus:
Do it secretly if you have doubts, there's no excuse good enough to not do it.

I won't do it secretly. As he is being born, we will check it, and still go other places and do it.

Lexusgs430:
How do you mistakenly get someone pregnant.......

She tripped and fell on his d!CK. Accidents happens my guy.

Idiot that's supposed to be in a care home.

pansophist:
Read often. Read and read. Thats the way out.

I can not over emphasise the benefits of reading. My mother when we were younger introduced us to western books, Animprphs, Goosebumps etc. Now one will say they're just book, I also read them. I am speaking from experience, I read this books till I got into university and guess what, my English was so refined in universities people made fun of me. But I wasn't deterred. I am in UK, and this English people don't believe me when I tell them I have only just come. They think I was born here.


So read books. Not just any books, read wide.

MadeMen4Life:
You are very right, those who don’t believe don’t have to believe. You might be earning £20 per hour as a carer if you work for an agency, depending on the type of agency you work for/your role… Got here December last year, started with an agency who was paying £11.5, felt the money wasn’t enough, moved to another agency paying £20 per hour on weekdays, £25 on weekends… Same Healthcare Job… Still heard about another agency that pay as high as £30 per hour but not currently recruiting HCA… Bottom line is, £11 per hour is really a small amount to some people even way before they came here…

All the best

Biko help me with the agency's name.

Aligator12008:
Thank you for the response.
It's the skilled worker visa, I am just scared about the implications if I could switch since the student visa has just been granted and how to go about the application for a skilled worker visa.

You can switch, apply, if you are not granted, you continue your studentship, if not you get a job.

Didn’t Buhari say he will diversify economy, what happened?


They have come again with their lies again.

Two people came out to talk. One talked about the achievements of a state because it was capital then claiming it was his doings. The other talked about how he will get Nigeria out of this mess.


Nigerians, choose wisely.

espn:
The misuse of the word influencer is irritating.

I don look am, where the influence from come? So if I open IG come deh post pics I don become influencer?

pansophist:
Why you de mention my name in vain naw?

Slip of thought?

lilyheaven:
The one they do here in Nairaland can be hurting

Ah swear.

I will rather face racism than face tribalism. The former I can deal with, the latter, has no dealings.

We wanted change. We got change. Sensible people will want to do away with this present government and the party. But Nigerians are fools and are in love with their captors

Redemption is far. A nation so backward in all its aura. I can't even say may God rescue this nation as the demons holding on it does not want to let go and the people being held are still in love with their captors.


When Jesus Christ said "it is finished!", God somehow showed him Nigeria and he weeped.

mizGene:
I did, got BRP after 3 weeks even though I paid for priority.. You are instructed not to travel out whilst the application is being processed. Not sure if there is a way around it...

OK. I will wait for it.

Lexusgs430:
Anything immigration, is not my forte........

Omo.

Lexusgs430:
When the real owner of the money, wants it nko ........

Pele....



Try answer me where I quote you abeg.