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Lovelydaisies:
Permit me to share it this way.

Lovelydaisies:
What you wrote up there resembles the qualifications of a mortal sin in our catechism. Sorry for mix-up.

Jennyclay:
Go to the trenches where you belong and eat your desired amount of food that would lock your stomach!

Living large can't be for everyone!! So please stop complaining for just 2k food.

I ate a small quantity of rice & beef yesterday for 7k at a nice restaurant here in ajah. I didn't complain.

You Broke men should stop embarrassing yourselves!! Enter a low budget canteen and eat to your satisfaction with ₦150 and stop ranting please!!

Lovelydaisies:
Hey, are you Catholic?

Klass99:
I gave her solid info and good contact about a job, which led to her landing the job. She informed her mom it was through me she got the job, but never said a word to me about getting the job neither did she say thank you.

Her mother and mine are friends, it was through my mom I heard/knew she got the job. I called her out of the blue one day to ask, I also acted like I wasn't aware of the conversation between our mothers or the fact that she got the job. She pretended she didn't get the job through my info/contact person. I let it slide.

I rarely post stuff on my Whatsapp status but on my last birthday I did just for fun. She viewed my status and never reached out to say hello or happy birthday. It is not her viewing of my status and staying silent that bothered me, rather, it was a nagging gut feeling of, this person doesn't think of you as a pal the way you do, neither do they wish you well.

I don't ignore my instincts about people these days, before I go wound big time.



I like the bolded. Our instinct is the most powerful tool we have to decipher the wrong or negative people around us.

IF ONLY WE HEED TO OUR INSTINCT. Most problems we enters would have been averted.

Soulflai:
I shouldn't have brought this here but the emotional bargage is too heavy for me to move on in. My marriage of 2 years is about to crumble.

I met my wife in Kaduna Southern part in 2017. Our relationship had been a long distance one as I base in Lagos while she also work in Kaduna, but we eventually married in 2020. The bone of contention is the issue of her ex. That point we are dating, I always caution her to cut communication with the guy, she will do it by deleting the number, but later I will find out they're still relating.

Last month, I purchased a new phone and I had to give her my own. So on the process of reinstalling Whatsapp on her phone, I retrieved all the backup Whatsapp messages 7 which left me devastated. The chat history with her ex really left me broken.

On multiple occasions after I paid her dowry, she met with the guy and they had sex. Multiple times pals! Even after marriage, when she is 5 months pregnant, the guy still had her with my baby inside her!

I am really broken pals, I confronted her on this, she started crying that she will cut communication with him. The guy even send some money to her account on difference time this year.

This is the height of emotional damage. I am just leaving each day just to find my leg financially. I am trying my best, but it is not enough.

Lastly, I called the so-called ex on phone to cut communication with her, the guy is in Kaduna I think while we are in Lagos. She also blocked him all avenues likewise. My decision now is that any time I discovered any form of communication between her and the guy, it is over with the marriage. I think she is not really in to me like that, which beg the question while she married me in first instance.

If am your brother, what advice would you recommend? I only choose to be lenient because the kids are just too small to have their parents separated early. If not, I would have sent her parking!.

Right now I am just not happy with life afterall.

Profperfect:
Men! Am broken right now . Like I know shits I have endured , covered , forgiven this lady , not to talk of once my lecturer visited our lodge(room) on going outside to get something in few minutes before I got back , they were already on it. She denied but later agreed cause I almost caught them red handed. The lecturer after like a year called me and confessed that his heart is troubling him that am a good person , that I should forgive him , which I did but each time I see him I remember, she has caused me pains , accusing me of not trusting her but she is actually the one doing things to break my trust fir her daily , tell me how do I trust this kind of a person ,

TheGoodJoe:

Can you enlighten on the stain? I hope it is not the Pandora files. If it is, the money there was money Peter Obi made legally by working hard, and transferred it to his family. It is not stolen funds.

otipoju:
I love her smile...it is infectious.


Na only people wey never enter covenant with demons fit dey smile like this.


Most politicians in their quest for power liase with demons and evil spirits who demand heart searing sacrifices. That is why they are wicked,heartless and love to oppress the citizens.

Nigerians should begin to look for upright men and women to lead them and their conditions will change for good. You can not elect shady characters and expect good governance