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OP, I've been following your story since your first thread. I have no legal advice for you but I'm glad you are not in Nigeria anymore. Just get a lawyer for your Aunt, all will be well by God's grace.

I just wonder how some men can be downright callous. Mental illness has got to be involved.

I have totally forgotten about this woman sef! Abi is she hiding from us?

wadetaw202:
Pls check your original comment and you will see what I'm referring to. Both the man and woman can he guilty. It takes two to tangle.

it takes two to tango, agreed but that wasn't what you said in the first post. You said it was the other way around, meaning its the men who try to make the marriages work most of the time, which is a fallacy.

MOST women have been conditioned to be submissive and most men have taken submissiveness to mean slave. So they act like shi.t and the woman is expected to swallow the shi.t, believing by their slaving attitude, the men would change. Wise men change and daft ones don't while the women who cant swallow shit , leave the marriage.

Mind my usage of the words, MOST and SOME, I didn't say ALL.

Ofcourse the men or women can be guilty but most times, who isn't ready to put in the work required for a good, stable and thriving home? Most men are busy busy busy, making money but the home needs more than money to thrive. Someone told you that just now. Some men get stressed while trying to make ends meet and when they cant control the stress, they transfer their exhaustion/aggression/anger to the closest recipients, their family.

There are numerous issues in a home but all players have to consciously put in the work to keep the home working well.

I was reading a story last night about a boy who lost his sight at the age of two but was able to adjust to it by learning to use his hearing and something called echolocation. Althrough his story, he kept mentioning how his mom helped him through it and I wondered where was the father? They didnt say the father was dead, yet they never made one mention of him. It got me wondering about how absent MANY Fathers are in the family.

I am most definitely not gender biased, my opinion has been formed from what I have seen, heard, read and learnt. Just going through the comments on this page is evidence that our men are not ready to put in their portion of the work even after an experienced man had given his advice.

wadetaw202:
It is one sided to think only the man is responsible for all the problems facing marriages today. Stop allowing your gender bias to blind you.

....its you who is obviously gender biased, not me.

wadetaw202:
Mercy akhigbe wanted to pack out because her hubby wasn't having money again like before

Seriously? So all the broken bones and punches he gave her were for decoration?
Its not enough reason for her to pack out?

wadetaw202:
I think it is the other way round

Have you heard this statement 'A wise woman builds her home'? This is what keeps most women in already failed marriages, building something which keeps falling apart because the other partner isn't interested in doing his own part.

It is rarely the other way around.

AHCB:
I'm curious how you came about that finding. Care to share?

Read the comments from most guys on this thread and you would see how.

The man try sha.....but its all easier said than done. He might not even practice what he preaches.

Most times if a marriage lasts for years, it's because the woman put up with her husband's BS and refused to leave, not because the man is wonderful.

What does he mean by fulfilment of scripture? Abi do they have their own bible that they are fulfilling?...Anyway, birds of a feather, flock......

If Davido can like her picture, wetin consign us in their matter? He obviously has a type.

Them no want make the woman relax and have fun again? Abi is she supposed to wear jalabia to swim?She is obviously moving on with her life, haters can jump off a cliff for all she cares.

This is really sad.

Waspy:

You don't mean it... So my people have gone online to start another unreasonable war as always

just check out the girl's IG page @piamia

You will laugh taya. If only we can unitedly gear our energy into productive things. SMH!

My fellow Nigerians and bad mouth...

Lol..na now una dey release true story after Nigerians have finished her life with insults on her page?

Nigerians poured out their personal frustration on the poor geh, but it was funny sha. Nigerians insults can keep one entertained for a long time.

I dont know how some people can be so Prideful to the extent of being really mean and wicked.

She even has mind sef to reach out to the OP after everything she did. Op if you help her, someone like that might think you are still in love ith her and if you dont, you are wicked.

Help her sha but dont let her use your head.

Na now dey just begin work, thanks to the VP..... If only those envious people who think they were born to rule Nigeria will allow him.

Phyno should be proud.... Then he should sue!

No credits, no recogniton, no permission, copying word for word with the beats, haba! Good grounds to sue.

I prefer Phyno's version sef. That igbo accent dikwa very sexy

Jelal0007:
Don't just go about insulting people madam. U're just busy ranting here and there without understanding the real causes of the current situation we find ourselves in. U're the one talking rubbish here,no offence. It clearly shows how uneducated u are about the economic woes in Nigeria and how it started. What was the genesis of recession and inflation in our country 2day? We are basically a nation where we rely on one commodity (oil) 2 survive. Un4tunately,the price of oil 2day has crashed compared 2 what it used 2be. If u're a worker and u're being paid 100k/month and all of a sudden ur employers start giving u 40k/month,how do u survive? The only way u survive,is if u have good savings. How much was in Nigeria's external reserves b4 GEJ? A:$62B. By the time he was leaving,despite oil boom where oil sold 4 over a $100/barrel he failed 2 save a dime 4dis country. The external reserves was depleted 2 around $29B A fact confirmed by his own Minister of Finance,Okonjo Iweala. Our situation is dire no doubt,but we should be thankful it didn't get worse than this. In venezuela 2day,another that relies heavily on oil, inflation has gone up over 300%. A consequence of over dependence on oil. 2day,we're trying 2 diversify the economy by looking in2 solid minerals and agriculture exports. Do u think an economy is diversified in just 1 year or 4 years? If u're ignorant of all these facts,go and get urself educated on socio-economic issues. Not just coming on NL 2 insult people. And mind you,there's no international conference a president is invited to that's useless. Roger that.

same old recycled trash! Save it for who cares.
Meanwhile... https://www.nairaland.com/3826890/buhari-failed-nigerians-sheikh-gumi

Jelal0007:
Lmao,ur comment lacks substance but full of petty sentiment. Was the Ajala travelling for jamboree? What do u even know about politics on the international scene? Abi u just be typical buhari hater. There are alliances 2 repair and assistance to request. The VP right now is attending the G7 summit Nigeria was invited to,shey dat 1 na offence ni? Naija sef. I tire.

Does the VP attend every irrelevant conference he is invited to? Internatiinal politics indeed! What did all the so called repaired alliances do for the country?

Did it bring in any investments? Did it stop the naira's fall to N500/ $1?

Did it make china come and crash the dollar?

Did it stop businesses/ companies, including international companies from closing down and people losing jobs?

Did it stop food prices from skyrocketing?

What single thing did it do for the common man on the streets besides impoverishing people, increasing crime rate and driving many to suicide?

Look, stop copying me to say rubbish, if you want to be a brainless zombie you are free, but leave me out of it.

martyns303:
Neo-medrol. Thank me later

Neo medrol for sure. I know a lot of people (guys and girls) who use it and it works very well. My sis uses it too. Me, I have fresh face naturally so no need.

@bossman44

OP, where is the prostituting abeg?

Some Pastors take this authority thing to another level. Where is the rule that tucked in​ shirts show that one is holy? Then, why embarass someone in public? Why not call him aside and talk to him Instead of treating him like a vagabond as if the pastor feeds him or pays his salary.

Religion is in the heart jare..... Yeah, its good to worship with fellow believers but when a Pastor becomes so Prideful and annoying, its probably time to Port chuches.

They say when a person dies, he is gone but I've personally seen somethings which makes me suspect that our dead loved ones are still around and once in a while they can muster enough energy to send a message.

Many might not be strong enough to appear as ghosts but they leave messages via dreams.

kelly72:
I have an acquaintance who was a brilliant medical doctor in Nigeria. Between FMC Owerri, LASUTH Ikeja and a couple other places, he practised 6 years and left Nigeria for England. 5 years later he moved to Australia where he is now a first rate physician. This guy scares me to death.

He told me that all through his practise in Nigeria, he discovered that Nigerian medical doctors including himself were like a blind man looking for a needle in a hay sack. He said the best qualified medical doctor in Nigeria is as best useless. Why? According to him, without medical facilities and modern functional equipment, the doctor is useless, it is not his/her fault.

For a long time I was suffering ulcer.I had serious internal heat and I was wondering what was wrong with me. Then chest pain set in, serious pains inside my ribs, severe headache and constant ringing in my right ears, all sorts. All of this while I was intermittently seeing doctors and would be given a few pills and told to get some rest, its not that bad, but I was dying. then one midnight, I just came out of the toilet when I collapsed. That was October 2015.

The search for healing took me to about 8 hospitals including Ancilla, General hospital Agege, LASUTH, LUTH, ST. Nicholas and a few other privates where I met countless doctors, consultants etc. I have a huge library of lab test results, scan results and other inquiries touching nearly everything, many of which were repeated as many times as I met a new doctor. Each time I left the hospital worse than I came. My total expense was already inching towards N700,000 but nothing was coming forth.

What I noticed about the doctors I met especially at the government hospitals was that, perhaps because the crowd is usually much, and maybe because there isnt much pay in it, plus poor training as well, they do not seem to pay enough attention to the patient's complaints. And, to a large extent, they have no answer if your case is a bit worrisome. A doctor once referred me to a consultant. In the referral note, he put my age at 66 eventhough 45 was on my card and I confirmed my age when I met him. He also wrote one other thing wrong in the leter and the consultant was irate. "What is wrong with these young doctors? She roared.

When no healing was coming forward inspite of heavy expenses on medicines eventhough my house was looking like a pharmacy, I contacted my Australia guy and explained everything. First, he told me those first things I wrote in the first paragraph. He told me I was unlikely to get help from any doctor in Nigeria because one, a doctor without efficient investigative equipment is a time waster, two, Nigerian doctors are ill trained, three, they are so commercially oriented that your troubles are secondary to them. He told me he was in the system too.
Then the clincher;

"You will die if you do not move quickly to Ghana or india, at least the two nearer and cheaper places" Looking at me, I was already drained financially, more symptoms had joined - heart palpitations and anxiety, I was virtually living on lexotan day and night. I stopped every medication, no more doctor, just waiting for the hour since I did not have the dollars even for Ghana. Eventually I began to study my own body.

I examined what I was eating especially and over time saw it had a hand in my problem. Then he called me and asked me to take pictures of all my scan results and lab tests and send to him. I did quickly. First, he told me that all the ECG markings were very bad, that the machine that sprinted them must have been 50 yrs old. He condemned all the CT scan results as poor, the Ecocardiogram pictures meant nothing and cannot be relied on, chest x rays was also not good. He condemned all lab results for inquiring wrongly and said the reports were largely amateur.

He said where he worked for instance, one of the many heart exams they do is to bring the patient and keep him around. Once he starts having that pain then the machines are fixed on him and he is asked to run on threadmill. This way his problem is detected in less than 5 minutes and they will then attack either by way of simple surgery or medication and the patient is well shortly.

He asked me to find any lab where there is at least semblance of modernity and repeat only the ECG. I did at MECURE and sent him pictures of the markings. He later told me there is no problem with my heart and that I should not surrender to any heart examination in Nigeria again. Then he asked me to find a pharmacist and let them both speak on phone. I found an elderly one at Ogba and downloaded my story so far to him. Hmm.. he said. "This is daunting, but not insurmountable, so far you need to be careful with doctors, they will be using you for experiment"

He told me there was no need to speak to my Australia doctor yet. He wrote out some drugs, mostly mixed and some syrups and asked me to go take them for two weeks and report o him. After the fourth day, I could sleep up to 4 hours at night, a rarity for two years. Then slight improvement continued. I dropped vicks inhaler, dropped ventolin inhaler, required less of lexotan, no longer almost collapsing in a crowd especially church (countless times I left church 20 minutes after arriving there), my chest was no longer about to explode and a few more.

Then I went back to him and got another set of drugs that I am taking now. He told me I had chest and lung infection, the ulcer is there and also need to see an ENT for the ringing in ears. When he asked that I do HIV test, well I brought in 6 different results of HIV test I did between December 2016 till date, all negative. Each new doctor ordered a fresh set of tests.

So, I am able to write this long contribution because a pharmacist seemed to diagnose me better and has gone for the problem. I complained of severe chest pain, pains inside my ribs, difficulty breathing, occasional phlegm inside my throat, headache, dizziness, heart palpitation and anxiety. Doctors were lost and instead tossed me from person to person for two years.

That is my story. I have a feeling that the pharmacist will get all of it out. I told my guy in Australia what is happening and he yet doesnt believe anyone has that medical knowledge, patience and honesty to help me. All what I have spent since I went to that pharmacy one month ago is N6,700. Compare this to the nearly N700,000 I was made to waste on meaningless tests and expensive drugs, Some cost me N15,000 weekly.

wow

Did he mean, "She is a Fat ass?"

Am just asking a kwestun oo....

This is what happens when you employ a child as your maid

Why does her body look so strong? Babe has got hard looking curves.