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And my argument is that it is a human thing to feel left behind and should not be viewed any other way. That some other person choose to feign it and act like they are not bothered does not necessarily mean that the emotionally expressive woman should do the same. And trust me, this also goes for the male folks as well. Any man that is able and capable but is not able to keep a woman is not seen any differently his female counter part, except that he has the luxury of age which a woman does not. It is very normal for one to feel pressured if all you do every saturday is attend friends' and family members' wedding alone with no prospects of inviting people to your own. IrishKez: I agree with all you wrote cos am a believer in the sanctity of marriage |
GuyFawkes: In all trials, "purely circumstantial" evidence is frequently the clearest path to the truth--even superior to eye-witness accounts. For goodness sake, there have been murder convictions where no body has been found, and circumstantial evidence is all there is..You are contradicting your own arguments. As much as you want him to jailed, there has to be proof beyond reasonable doubts that the defendant actually had the intent to murder his girlfriend. What you think he may have done is not a fact that any serious judge will use as an evidence to put somebody's life away in the dungeon. Most of the witness account either defiled common logic or the established facts. The court of law is in the business of hard evidence not people's whims and caprices of what could have been. |
I would have been surprised if Oscar did not get acquitted at least on the murder charge. Seriously, the state prosecutors relied too heavily on Witness account and the past relationship issues they had. See how the judge logically struck out most of the evidence witness accounts in a way that one can not fault much in her logic. Na only Oscar go fit talk if he intentionally killed his girlfriend in a rage or it was a tragic case of anxiety and mistake. His lawyers played the mental instability argument very well and that is what has gotten him off the hook. The technicalities of the law does not care about witness accounts that may have been corrupted by judgemental media reports of the case. Finally, Mr Oscar will get off with a light sentence for illegal possession of arms and discharge in public place all of which he had pleaded guilty and probably have agreed to a plea bargain that will see him get off with a smack in the butt.... I hope the media will now let this man rest....We now have another OJ Simpson case in RSA.... |
pickabeau1: Dude why are u being diplomatic at the boldedOf course, who does not want a submissive wife. Many of you seem to think that submissiveness means you are going to be a maid or slave to your husband.... little wonder ladies with such mentality stay in constant competition with their husband for authority in the house and still complain about depression and not being happy in their marriage. No woman will be happy in a marriage in which she is in constant power competition with her spouse. He married you to help him build a home, assist him not compete with him. You can never win in such a competition, trust me. You will only end up depressed and unhappy. It is for this reason that ladies with such feminist mindset find marriage too hot and leave it before it even start, only to end up lonely and angry to the point of starting up a feminist movement and even try to convince innocent ladies going through relationship hiccups that they don't need a man to be this and that....yes, that is absolutely true but it does not make it a great idea, YES. What is the whole essence of being all powerful independent, strong and LONELY inside This applies even to the single male folks, let's tell ourselves the truth, human beings are not wired to be stable islands emotionally. That is why we are in constant need to be in circles of friends, family and even strangers. We are all emotional beings after all, no matter wet in u wan claim. |
Kachisbarbie: Then that one would be your business dear, the topic isn't about being married and happy, is it? This is topic for another day.Your answer is very succinct and apt. Nothing is as stvpid a reply as a somebody trying to justify being single in the hope that those who are already married probably are not happy in their marriage, like they wish you are not happy so you can go back to being single like them. A Lot of black women like to hide under the guise of being strong and black like that really means anything outside of fighting off loneliness and the lack of presence of a male figure to help them raise the kids. If it did not mean anything to many of them that claim all sorts of happiness, why then do they use the term Strong Black Women....that in itself is ironical. Many women these days just want already made men, they don't have time for a man whose time has not come regardless of his future prospects. The irony of this state of mind is that many of these same women are not made women either, and most made men want made women like them as well. They too have become wiser in the game. I know a lot of guyz that suffered rejection from women they truly loved when they were just starting out, many of these guy today are made and have become players that are on a kind of revenge mission. Many of them end up marrying women who are just average looking, this of course is after they have sampled all the so-called pretty ladies out there. |
While it is understandable that marriage should not be emphasized to a woman to the point stigmatisation, it will be folly for any woman to downplay its importance in the scheme of her being happy and fulfilled, Yes. This is true even for man. Seriously, I am yet to see a single person that likes being all by themselves, even the celibate priests in their solitude crave for companionship. In my own experience as a young man that has interacted with many ladies both educated and non-educated, it goes beyond beauty and accompanying character flaws. There is the issue of doing things with cultured moderation. That is where many times it seem like the really pretty ladies and very educated ladies seem to get it wrong and many men see it as arrogance and character flaws they can not Kiev with. I have noticed that it is easier for emotionally expressive, sincere and humble women to get married than the ones that are very educated, logically expressive and very proud women to get any man to take them seriously. To many men they are a piece of work they are not ready to do seriously. It is easier for an unexposed woman with just a little above school cert to get married than for a PhD wielding female professor to get married, this is true for women not just here in Africa but everywhere. The fact is this, a woman that knows too much of what she wants always end up being the beautiful well exposed single and lonely woman. No man wants a woman that will continue to be a challenge to him even in marriage. So the key here is moderation. |
The question that nobody is asking the Aussie that is making a wild claim from far away Australia is what really did he negotiate with the so-called Bokoharam commandants? Who hired him as a mediator or Negotiator cos the Nigerian government obviously did not hire him, so who is he working for? Any white man can make an allegation, does it mean we should now hound anyone he mentions? How come he could not divulge the same information to the intelligence agencies in Nigeria or even abroad once he was privy to such sensitive information. He had to wait after over two months when SAS had left the APC to join PDP to tell us that Boko boys decided to come clean and revealed what we don't already know before..... like seriously, who in the North did not know that SAS had a "Love gone awry" tag with the Bokoharam sect....how is that news to us. And to put a surprise element to the twist he had to bring in the name of the much hated former COAS who the North thinks was on a mission to avenge to death of the Biafrans that died during the civil war... so lame!!! Whoever the Aussie has been speaking to is a propagandist and is possibly working with the Aussie to divert attention from himself and the real northern financiers of bokoharam. Until the Aussie has solid evidence to back up his claims of ihejirika's involvement outside of his Job as the COAS, it will be very lame and unproffesional to question the integrity of a retired General who has done more to curb the bokoharam sect on the basis of wild claim by some unknown Aussie mouthing off in an unofficial TV interview. |
londoner: Okay, I also respect your right to your own opinion.If you follow the stories about these girls and the way the media kept suggesting and how the manufactured Shekarau kept playing into the suggestions, logically, you will come to the conclusions that the so-called new shekarau is an imposter and was acting based on the prodding of suggestions by the media. I will give instances: remember when the Nyanya blast happened, the next day it was reported that a girl school had been raided by the same Bokoharam. Curiously, the same Shekarau that was quick to claim responsibility for the Nyanya bombing the previous day went dumb and numb about the incident that happened the same day he was busy claiming responsibility. It was until after two weeks that the !diot illiterate remembered that he had about 236 girls in his custody, this was after the media had gone agog in speculation of if really those girls were kidnapped. During this time, until Kema Chikwe openly expressed doubts about the incident and questioned why none of the so-called missing girls parent had shown up or provided any evidence of their missing children that we started seeing fictitious parents popping up from nowhere. To buttress their claims, the same !diot claiming to be Shekarau released a video of girls doing recitals in some random place with no militant guarding the place or even Shekarau showing in the video. instead we saw a doctored video that showed a separate deranged Shekarau wanna-be poking fun at the Nigerian government and threatening to sell the girls in another part of the video. I have seen countless videos of the real Shekarau and I know he does not have the personality of a joker or any humor in him, his mannerism was always serious and fierce and nothing like the imposter that was amusing himself in the new shekarau video and scratching his head like some crazed fiend under the influence of some hard drugs. obviously, the guy was working with somebody up in the politics of the north and was getting all the nonsense prodding from his handlers. I can go on and on about that chiboj hoax but it is just not worthy of serious discussion as it was a joke that was taken too far. |
nduchucks: Stop pretending to be confused, we know better.so how does this translate to ihejirika financing your brothers in the jungle that is where he is confused. |
PetroDolla3: another shitnigerian maggot!Blackie Chan don't quote me again abeg, I am not the reason for your loss. I don't give shi at if the Ghanaian economy dies off tomorrow, face the ppl you are playing childish games with.....I discuss facts and figures and not little inconsequential Ghana with an exaggerated economic prospects in paper...Lol. |
londoner: I believe that girls were kidnapped in Chibok, yes.....Lol...OK, I respect that...it is your opinion share. I am just not the type to be carried away by popular propaganda with no substance. |
londoner: Is that true though? No one is also castigating Sheriff here on the thread. If they have please copy and paste it here for me to see.Don't take that tribalistic person seriously.... he is one of the !diots that turned a hitherto argumenet about an allegation into a tribal war of words. Tribalistic jingoist like the fool like to hide in the guise of finding the truth to spread their hate message.....go through his posts it is rife with Igbo this Igbo that.....kids whose parents have down seed of tribal hate on them, what can you possibly reason with them for....they will never see beyond their tribal sentiments. |
Jokay07: hmmm, igbo people and their way of reasoning shaaaa!!Yoruba people and their false sense of judgement. You leave the smelling shit in your house and want to talk about the fart on some else's.....kid mind your damn business. Yoruba can not tell ignos how to reason or view the Nigerian politics, go and dictate your nonsense to your Hausa allies. |
londoner: Iagree, that is true for some and probably many here on this thread, but at this point we need to focus on Nigeria and stopping BH. Diversions will not help at this stage. This is what the Australian fails to realise.Lol....like seriously, you believe this chibok story, comm'on dear, that is one big gimmick. That story is nothing different from this one. |
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Okijajuju1: https://xfmnewscenter.com/news/images/photos/25229.jpgLol.....okija you are one sick funny dude....this got me laughing very hard.....The Ghanaian economy is getting close to Zimbabwe's.....even with the revaluation exercise, the value of the cedis has continued to be worthless... too much lies about the true state of their economy. |
peppyluv02: Kitikpa gba pia nna gi amu! Ekwensu tu ba nne gi ime!Lol..... babe you dey vex o....but the ed!ot deserves to be told even worse..... we all know how badly they want this to be true because it is an Igbo man |
londoner: That's true, although human beings are capable of anything, so its not impossible for him to have a hand in it. I also think Sheriff may not be guilty of being a sponsor. There needs to be factual evidence presented.My sister it is very clear, these tribalist hiding in the guise of wanting answers are not interested in what the Aussie said or the illogicality of if, they are more interested in satisfying their tribalistic needs to be proven right that an Igbo person can do anything.....blablabla deep inside many of them go around with this misconception of a competition with an average Igbo person.... it is that need to be right and the Igbo man wrong that drives many of these foolish kids posing as intellectuals..... to them , it is a we against them competition and there has to be a winner.... |
datribune: Ur tantrums will not answer d question of his sponsorship on d BH carnage. d General should embrace d great platform of d ICC or be forever labelled as a sponsor of terror.hahahaha .....not when a retard is the one asking the questions, trust me, nobody will give importance to a retarded kid asking retarded questions that are way beyond his intellectual grasp....keep asking and wishing ....you just might get that bullet in the butt...lol |
chinazaekperem2: Let's tell each other the truth, nothing will happen to ihejirika, nobody can do anything about this allegation. We should stop crying.what do you expect to happen to him ...like seriously, he should be hounded because some Aussie says so? guy na wa you o. |
londoner: Something is not consistent here.....This article suggests that some leaders were going to take him before the ICC for crimes committed by soldiers in the fight against BH. We all witnessed the world media also suggesting the same abuses.and then suddenly he is one of the major financiers of the same people he was accused of killing extra judiciously.... Lol...it shows you the depth some people are willing to go if it is an Igbo man involved. They are ready to go against solid fact and logic just to prove what they want it to be since it is an Igbo man....lol |
whitecat007: The only people delutional here are you and your co- travellers. Your god is being made to face his many sins, and whether you like it or not, it's getting beyond where your corrupt sets can reach. As I type criminal charges are being built against your hero. Shut your face and go and wipe your butt, you've been pooping in your pant since you heard the news.hahahahah....what a 4cktard, your case is hopeless walahi. let me know when you and your other co-!d!otas finish up with your pile of nonsense, I go like use the paper pile clean nyansh....lol |
londoner: Hmmm so, why is it that the only one of the two accused being discussed here is the one of Igbo extraction?The fact is that most of these Yoruba kids will be happy at the prospects of an Igbo involvement in terrorism. Let's call a spade a spade. They will try and do anything to give a meaning or sense to the baseless accusations of ihiejirika financing terrorism.... even when logically, the whole story is obviously a hogwash. They just want to see what they want to see...Lol...the mention of Igbo makes many of them lose all sense of better judgement and fairness.... |
datribune: Whether u want to believe it or not there will always be questions about his role in dis carnage. He was cited & there will never be a greater platform 4 him to clear his name or be forever tainted as a sponsor of terror.Questions from an inconsequential nonentity like yourself?... lol , don't hold your breath kid. The only answers you will get is a bullet in your butt if you keep arguing like a retard trying to outcompete other retards... |
datribune: No I don't. A man is innocent until proven otherwise. Anyone opposing d general's day in court is doing him a disservice because there's an ugly cloud hanging over his name. We don't know why GEJ fired him. We can only speculate on why d northern elders were so critical of him. All these ar bad 4 d General. Anyone dat truly loves d General will not deny him dis good opportunity to clear his name.oh please shut up! some of you kids just like to blab nonsense you hardly understand and personalize issues. That we are here arguing over an issues does not mean anyone is stopping the 50 stand up comics from going to Pluto to report ihiejirika to God. Stop assuming the nonsense in your head is anything close to reality.... imagine a simpliton like you making a careless statement as an ugly cloud hanging over his head yet you can't prove anything besides the incoherent gibberish of an Aussie that is not brave enough to report his findings to the authorities.... scheew. |
whitecat007: Word!!!!Delusions of grandeur. It is on the basis of this nonsense you want ihijirika to be prosecuted? how childish and moronic can you lot get.....so the security agencies should start listening to slowpokes such as this for evidence....lol |
datribune: Here lies d problem of ndigbo. While other tribes will in d national interest withdraw their support frm theirs if cited for any wrongdoing, ndigbo will rather support even barefaced crimininalty as far as it is perpetrated by an igbo. Many posts frm dis so-called igbo nationalists on dis forum ar a disgrace. It is shameful dat they can not see how bad it makes dem look. How can other tribes support or take dem serious on & off dis forum.You mean the way the Yoruba tribe has not been supporting Jagaban with all his shenanigans and financial embezzlement. You lot think you can dictate and lecture people in the other region how to play politics.... Lol...you only dishonestly remember to be detribalized when the person involved is not Yoruba.....so much for your unsolicited lectures and hypocritical sermons. |
lanrefront1: GEJ can't be better than these people.what has this got to do with anything... Lol...some of you are just unnecessarily angry and bitter that it impairs your sense of judgement, to you all, it is white and black and GEJ must slide to your whims and caprices...lol |
arsetalks: Even the devil is ashamed of this post of yours. I don't care who rules. I care more about the peace of this nation. I don't want to tell my kids unborn horror stories and if I have to, it must be with an happy end and whoever rules who will make that possible I will support.Guy shut up....you are just a kid with an internet. If you expect that the Federal government will prosecute anyone on the allegations of a self-appointed aussie who only gained voice to talk about Bokoharam sponsors in his country then you need some serious deliverance from mental slavery. |
Only an incredibly stoop!d person will run off with the illogical bullshyte from the Aussie to make any concrete decision. Most of what the guy is saying only serve to show that he does not really know the politics surrounding terrorism in the North. Whoever gave him such information is obviously in the business of propaganda. It is obvious why they name dropped SAS and Ihiejirika.... SAS obviously used to sponsor the religious BokoHaram at their infant stage when the overzealous religious lout, Yusuf was their leader. SAS used his position to get their leader killed extra judiciously and outlawed their activities when they became uncontrollable for him. The man too has been hiding from the vengeful BokoHaram that will do anything to payback his disloyalty to their cause and killing one of their own. Let's be fair, he too has been at the receiving end of the Bokoharam terrorism, losing loved ones and close allies I guess it is Karma. Ihijirika obviously dealt a very wicked blow to their activities, killed the real shekarau and gave them a thirst of their own medicine by showing them an unparalleled violence they never thought the Nigerian military could unleash. The man just was violent in his method...Lol....would order shoot at sight and brought out the killers in our soldiers to the point some Northern leaders misinterpreted it to mean a probable revenge for Biafra... Lol...this brings me to my main point: The main sponsors of Bokoharam are still living the Northern leaders threatening fire and brimstone if GEJ continues to have expectations to be president beyond next year. The whole Aussie story is nothing different from the illogical bring back our girls bullcrap, these are all ploy to continue to give a dog a bad name before hanging it. What will be the rationale for the Bokoharam group to release names of sponsor if not for propaganda and rubbishing the government and make it look like a lameduck....Bokoharam is purely a northern creation. |
Guy dont bother yourself stressing over a kid's ignorant opinions on issues that are clearly out of his depth, if you notice people that can't seem to understand his rants have left him to drown in his ignorance. The last thing you want to do is bandy words with a kid still living off his parents and trying so hard to come across as smart even when he clearly does not understand the dynamics doing business and politics surrounding contract signing. nLet him play with himself like a freak jor, when jhe gets tired he will move on, no need dignifying incoherent and ignorant posts from some random kid that is unnecessarily excited undeniableGrace: @aresa |
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This applies even to the single male folks, let's tell ourselves the truth, human beings are not wired to be stable islands emotionally. That is why we are in constant need to be in circles of friends, family and even strangers. We are all emotional beings after all, no matter wet in u wan claim.
The same for Ghana. Ghanaians have a far better life than those animals in your suffering and smiling sh1thole. The statistics are there for any sensible person to know. just check out the United Nations Human Development index and you will see the nigeria has become the armpit of the world 