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Family › Re: I Advised My Sister To Give Her Husband Space by Richy4(m):
1Rolake:
She's actually tired of the whole thing but stayed because of our parents and to avoid people talking behind her.
Exactly the point I was trying to make... something must definitely keep her from listening to voice of reason....

Please keep on supporting her and a shoulder she can lean on, I know she will come around but not now, she still have the hope that he will change very soon....It will take her a long time.....I mean a very long time to process the situation and come to terms with what she was dealing with...

Unfortunately there are no much awareness of how loved ones whose spouses were gamblers/ drunkards/ drug addicts feel in the society/ marriages and the support system required if one finds oneself in such situation...

Family › Re: I Advised My Sister To Give Her Husband Space by Richy4(m): 10:23pm On Feb 04, 2022
In my opinion, your advise was in order...But will your sister agree to leave?

The next thing you will hear is ...I'm staying because of my kids smiley....If you act as if you were pressurizing her she will get pregnant again and start pretending to be happy whenever she sees you people..

MRS as a title is not really easy to let go you know?... Some women will rather die just to retain that title embarassed
Family › Re: I Caught My Brother’s Wife Having Sex With Another Man In Their Sitting Room by Richy4(m):
Frame up go soon happen...She go just target the guy when him go come to their house, target when him bro go arrive.....Invite him to help kill mosquitoes for their bedroom...Him brother go walk in... attempted rape go happen... No be so them dey do am for movie? smiley
Sports › Re: Umar Sadiq Celebrates 25th Birthday Today by Richy4(m): 11:34am On Feb 03, 2022
Bustincole:
HBD Bro


help to tell Okoye that he shouldnt give up on wat happen in AFCON, but we still need him in the squad we believe in HIM
Use Singular Buddy smiley
Family › Re: Help! I Saw My Son Last 24 Years Ago, When He Was 2 Years Old by Richy4(m): 7:12am On Feb 02, 2022
24 years is not 24days sir...
How do you think you can make up or catch up with the time u lost being a father figure in his life? If they can survive without u for24 years, don't you think that they can do it again and again?

If u really wanted to have a father son relationship, u would have done that earlier sir... Even if u were poor, it would not have stopped u from coming to check on your son...

By the time they see u at the gate 10 or more times sitting outside the there even if it's for 30mins, they will get used to u... They will know that you meant business.. just saying that u no try Sir...

I only believe that it was because of the medical conditions u spoke about that made u decide to extend a fatherly hand of fellowship... If my assumption is right sir, then it's not fair..
I pray though that you reconnect with him... Because everyone deserves a father figure...( I mean reasonable father figures)
Family › Re: Help! My Crush Is A Ritualist And His Family Are Aware by Richy4(m):
Defrauding people = an office in Nigeria?... God is watching from a distance embarassed..
Politics › Re: Four Convicted For Internet Fraud In oshogbo by Richy4(m): 9:21pm On Feb 01, 2022
Just thinking aloud,....
<<<Do Nigeria have a database that got names of all these criminals and if yes, can it be accessed anywhere in Nigeria?

<<<Again, does criminal activities like this one hinder anyone from getting employed in Nigeria?( ie) while seeking for employment, do they ask if one have been convicted of a crime?
Family › Re: Pouring Out My Mind Before I Go Insane by Richy4(m): 8:16pm On Feb 01, 2022
I clicked to see your picture so that whenever or anytime I hear the preaching of forgiveness, I will put a face to it...But I was disappointed grin

You are a true definition of 70 x 7 in the Good Book...
U have a giant crown waiting for u in heaven buddy....HABA!!!! cheesy
Family › Re: My Brother's Wife Wouldn't Let Their Children Go To School Because Of This by Richy4(m): 2:03pm On Feb 01, 2022
ibechris:
1. She wouldn't take a job.
2. Her husband isn't financially capable.
3. And from the look of things the children would not go to school until they relocate.

U can't help your husband to grow then your a typical example of "household enemy". This is why it's good to marry someone that has a job or a business woman.

This one just used marriage to dump her destiny in a man's house.

I respect women alot but this one no be am honestly.

I pity your brother seriously.
My brother, I don't think this was the case..... If u check their history, there's a possibility that it was the man that begged and begged and begged before the woman agreed to marry him.... So when she entered into the marriage proper, She will feel like she did him a big favor marring him...

That's why I was never a fan of too much shakara of the opposite sex.... If u ask her twice and she said NO or she will think about it, move away very fast... let your legs have wings....I was never into worthless challenge....in term of bragging that I finally got her...

Just imagine,... She was jobless and was in full control like this.... just imagine that reverse was the case and she happens to be the breadwinner...

I only feel so sad that those kids academic progress has to slow down because of a selfish individual who was using their future to play card...I wish there's something to say to her that will make a change...a selfish person can hardly change...
Family › Re: My 3 Year Old Isn't Catching Up! by Richy4(m): 11:31am On Feb 01, 2022
ImaIma1:
At 3,my daughter was writing 1-100. Her own is too much. Always asking her teacher to give her more homework, thereby giving more work.

Buy op need not worry. They all eventually catch up. When they are in primary 5/6, nobody care who started writing first. All of them will be on the same level.
@ Bold is basically what is making OP feel that her daughter was a slow learner... A neighbor might also tell him on how her daughter or son has started Algebraic equation @ 3...Then the pressure will be there on the kid... the competition will be on..

Just like what u said, .."nobody care who started writing first. All of them will be on the same level"...But many parent will not buy that idea... the bragging right should be maintained at all time...
Sports › Re: Arsenal Cancels Aubameyang’s Contract Ahead Of Barcelona Move by Richy4(m): 11:10am On Feb 01, 2022
mastermaestro:
So you wanted him to continue to waste his time in a worthless competition while his career slips away? Dude acted quickly to save his footballing career from total collapse.

Listen, someone at Arsenal must have hinted him that his time there was over. Then you expected him to continue running around for a national team and country that couldn’t do much for him?

Hey, learn to act wisely and quickly before you end up a loser. Nobody really cares about your dreams. Know this and you will be successful.
You cannot judge every country because of the one u came from... U are not in a position to know if their country helps their citizens or not...

When your country calls, you answer/ obey...besides it is a thing of honor when one represents their country...If you are not patriotic about your nation, there are some people who can die defending their country flag ...

I'm not gonna blame u based on your experience about Nigeria.... As for your last paragraph, Thanks I really appreciate that...I will think about it.. but for now, save it for the next person.. because I don't need it smiley
Family › Re: Why My Annoying Dad Is About To Do To My Social Life by Richy4(m):
This young man will not kill me ooo... You don't like going out during day time, u be vampire? smiley

Listen... Do you know what it takes to pay tuition fee in a private university?... Do you think money grows on trees?...You were in the middle of the river showering, all of a sudden, u decide that u have had enough without completing your bath.. who does that?... He paid 100level, 200L and maybe 300L and you said no more because u think u are now wise to study what u wanted...

I'm even trying very hard to believe that he will start all over again for you and u were not grateful.... If you were in your father's shoes, and your own son did that to you, how will that make u feel?

Honestly your dad is a good man because if it's me, u must complete that programme... then u will be the one to train yourself on your own career choice...U are not even happy that he will be paying for your transportation after what u have done... For me, U will walk to OJO...
Sports › Re: Arsenal Cancels Aubameyang’s Contract Ahead Of Barcelona Move by Richy4(m): 8:18am On Feb 01, 2022
If a player went to see his family due to emergency, I don't see anything wrong with that... Family comes first in my opinion...How can he perform well while playing soccer when his mind is somewhere else...

The only thing that angered me about him was abandoning his team mates in AFCON and fake COVID-19/ heart attack just so he can go and sign Barcelona contract.. that's just infuriating...
Politics › Re: Buhari: I Could Have Done Better If Given More Support by Richy4(m): 8:08am On Feb 01, 2022
All the 30k monthly payroll candidates here on NL will avoid this thread...If this should be coming from their master that he himself did nothing...What will they defend embarassed
Family › Re: My 3 Year Old Isn't Catching Up! by Richy4(m):
sisisioge:
grin grin grin

No o..
You are missing the point. It wasnt the parent that raised the concern, rather the paret thought the kid was smart until the teacher spoke. Besides, we need to trust the teacher here....if she's concern about her performance, it meant the other kids are able to grasp what she couldn't. No harm in voicing the concern....she might simply be dyslexia or something. I dont know o embarassed
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I got your point... But I want you to raise your hands and do some counting for me... Count 1 to 3....Pause and check what a 3 year old should be performing for a teacher...

The kid might probably find the whole thing exhausting hence refused to do anything... that does not mean she doesn't know anything.... I wish I could lay my eyes on that teacher honestly...

What exactly does the teacher really want from a three year old if not to make her sleep and wait for her mother to pick her up,... we are talking about a three year old hereooo not 8 or 9.... the one wey pain me pass na the extra lesson that was mentioned......

In my opinion, that was unnecessary pressure from the teacher...The experts knows the reasons why they believed that kids should start schooling at the age of 5...And she (the teacher) should be handling grade 5 or 6.... not the age she was handling presently because she got zero knowledge of that particular age bracket..
Family › Re: My 3 Year Old Isn't Catching Up! by Richy4(m): 11:02pm On Jan 31, 2022
sisisioge:
Haba....remember that the same teacher hashad experience with pupils in that age bracket and surely knows the developmental expectations at the age. If she's not satisfied with her book growth, she must have good reasons fa.
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A three year old that was supposed to be playing, sleeping, coloring and singing.....waiting for 3 or 4pm so that the parent can come and pick her up is whom they organized an extra lesson? ...That's suffocation... they will make that kid to dislike school system if care is not taken...It makes me angry when unnecessary pressure is mounted on kids just so the parent can brag of how genius their kids were....
Family › Re: My 3 Year Old Isn't Catching Up! by Richy4(m): 10:50pm On Jan 31, 2022
As the teacher is organizing an extra lessons for a three year old because she can't cope... Please make sure you buy her JAMB forms next year OGA.... So that she can graduate @ 8 ....what a suffocating parenting angry

Sports › Re: Aubameyang Arrives In Barcelona To Seal Move From Arsenal by Richy4(m): 9:14pm On Jan 31, 2022
Africans will always be Africans... The dude just left his National team dry and cold because the contract might clash with AFCON... and Fake covid/ heart attack...There is Godooo embarassed
Events › Re: Man Prepares Own Grave And Buys Refreshments In Preparation For His Burial by Richy4(m): 9:06pm On Jan 31, 2022
gasparpisciotta:
Everyone of us should prepare for that day.
But not like this.... That was the responsibilities of insurance companies..
Life insurance policy offers death cover even if the insured dies months or years after the illness...
Not kids seeing and carrying coffins sad
Politics › Re: Governor Sani Bello Evacuated By Helicopter From Abuja-Kaduna Expressway by Richy4(m): 9:00pm On Jan 31, 2022
A... is for Apple

P.... is for Privilege
smiley
Celebrities › Re: Why I Refused To Marry Rita Dominic — Jim Iyke by Richy4(m): 7:49pm On Jan 31, 2022
That lady sure knows how to respect herself even till tomorrow...I got nothing but respect for her...
Family › Re: My Wife Lied To Me by Richy4(m): 1:55pm On Jan 31, 2022
felixalida:
Both will be appreciated
OP, I made out time to read/ research on Ovariann Cyst because I have zero Idea on what that was... And I discovered that it was treatable...

You know that some of these big medical names can sometimes scare people...As a matter of fact it has nothing that suggested that the cause was as a result of multiple partners or promiscuous lifestyle.. which means an ordinary girl can still have that....
https://www.mayoclinic.org/diseases-conditions/ovarian-cysts/symptoms-causes/syc-20353405

In terms of your relationship, Everyone has one dark past or the other including you .... though some past are dirtier/ darker than the others...In fact some people got dirtiest/ darkest past ( depending on what the person researching was looking for)....

And while in courtship, People don't go about with billboards proclaiming their dark past except the ones that will seriously hurt the partner involved when discovered accidently...like womb removal, being a baby mama/daddy.. drug addict/ gambler, etc...

Some past were forgivable and are kept in the dustbin of history by partners with big hearts as long as it remains in the past, some unfortunately were not...

It all depends on the spouse....So what do you want to do? be a partner with a big heart and let go of the past or increase the divorce statistical rate because her past was overwhelming?...The choice is all yours buddy..

N.B: I understand that your major issues boils down to having kids... So i still wanna know, did the doctor said that u can't have kids even after treatment?
Family › Re: My Wife Lied To Me by Richy4(m): 12:11pm On Jan 31, 2022
What Kind of Advise do you really want OP ?

<<< Medical Advice
OR
<<< Marital Advice huh

Family › Re: We Are Gradually Moving Into A RITUAL GENERATIONS by Richy4(m): 4:16pm On Jan 30, 2022
Parents have seen situation of things and the shape of Nigerian Economy...So they should give birth based on the shape of their pockets...so that they can give a proper training to those kids..

The time has passed when people says... God is the giver of Children... Hence on planning...U will see a man with low income with 6 kids... in other to be like their mates, they engage themselves to different vices .. ​

Some of them, because they wanted to have male children, will give birth to 9kids...
I strongly believed that Parents should share 60% of the blame....

The Nigerian Government will also share 30% of the blame because they failed their citizens...

Youths should share 10% of the blame... Election time is fast approaching... u will see them selling their votes just for a bag of rice, t-shirts and cap as if those will last for 4 years...No vision/ thought for the future... they will only think of now...If they can use their votes wisely, who knows what might happen
Travel › Re: 6ft Monitor Lizard Climbs Shelf, Raids Store In Thailand (Pics) by Richy4(m): 8:39am On Jan 30, 2022
And staffs didn't see it approaching? No alarm/ alert from outsiders so that they can close their doors?

Speaking about working in a place that doesn't belong to you.. smiley
Family › Re: I Have Depression And I Want To Vent My Feelings . by Richy4(m): 5:37am On Jan 30, 2022
I will not take a poison threat lightly.... Because out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks'... A lot of people have died because they were staying for the kids...
Just my opinion angry
Politics › Re: I’m Running My Nigerian Presidential Campaign In London: Tinubu by Richy4(m): 10:04pm On Jan 29, 2022
Hopefully not in London hospital the campaign will kick-start embarassed...

I pray the hospital trend doesn't repeat itself after 2023 election because Nigerians love recycling events a lot..
Sports › Re: Gambia Vs Cameroon AFCON 2021 Quarter-final (0 - 2) On 29th January 2022 by Richy4(m):
SmartPolician:
Super Eagles appeared to be good because they met inexperienced teams. Whenever you play a good team, it's either you do your best to march them man to man or appear useless.
Super Eagles did not appear to be good... They are good... The only problem they have was Goal keeper... They don't have an outstanding Goal keeper like during the time of Vincent Enyama...

As for why they were kicked out, technical team were not that experienced smiley
Health › Re: Photo Of 20-Year-Old Zambian Female Student Who Committed Suicide by Richy4(m): 6:33pm On Jan 29, 2022
And she may have welcomed the New year with enthusiasm...

It's Just sad..
Education › Re: Federal Poly, Nekede Bans Students From Driving Private Cars On Campus by Richy4(m): 3:41pm On Jan 29, 2022
Foolishness!!!....
Their mates in other countries were using that to generate income for their institution...

There's no free parking in many higher institution except on Saturdays and Sundays...

Every year car owners were made to pay close to $800...

They will issue each car owner a sticker to show that he/ she is permitted to park within the school premises...

There will be constant security patrol...
Any one without permit will be issued a fine... The campus security will make sure of that...

Is it that they don't know how to make money or was it an envy?
Family › Re: Woman,26 Who Came Out As A Trans Man At Age 19 Reveals She Is Now Back To Female by Richy4(m):
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I don't even know which one is better.. She pulled both genders nicely based on those pictures...
Those drugs alone may have cost her some fortune to maintain the male status
Family › Re: Tired Of Living by Richy4(m): 11:57am On Jan 29, 2022
frozen70:
You don't have to insult him, you are not in her shoes

Learn to be respectful, people are going through different stages of life
That's just some people's mentality... If they don't insult anyone, They will feel as if a message has not been received/ passed across...

That's how some of them were raised from home angry....

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