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Shokoloko:
This is why christians deny this fact. The bible says a man with more than one wife should not be a leader. 1 Timothy 3:2. Even a leader of a house fellowship should have one wife.
Why would a man want to know the Lord for 40 years and decide that because of "lust of the flesh"/ second wife you decide not to be a leader? At least departmental leader.
That is living below the plans God has for you.
No true believer should limit his walk with God by marrying a second wife. But if one has already married a second wife and became a believer then he can maintain the wives equally but he is barred from leadership roles.

virginchaser:
You are trying to cash cruise probably, i find it difficult to believe your storyline. You registered about 2 hours ago.

eyinjuege:
OP will be flogged seriously for being inappropriate with females not related to him or married to him.
If he wants to be truly polygamous, then marry the so called single ladies.
They're not as lawless and irresponsible in Saudi. They're even still more liberal than Northern Nigeria

Acidosis:
Na just Nordic countries, US, and the UK dey desperate about emasculating men.

You are correct.. each broken dish, 5 strokes of the 'kane' Broken TV attracts 9 strokes..

I equally saw your fear based on her anger issues.... She can possibly set the house on fire
She needs to go for an anger management classes..

If she was Angry, there are so many ways she can get to her man that will hurt him so bad ie if she truly knows him.. instead of destroying properties..

naija4life247:
If you travel abroad with this type of mentally unstable woman, then we will read about your imprisonment here on Nairaland.

I wish you what you deserve.

It depends on the Abroad man... If they travel to Anti-feminist capital city of the world Saudi Arabia,

They will flog some sense into her really bad... Not minding that OP was the one provoking her

princeeze1:
In trying to sound correct, was it the husband that walked out of the marriage?

No it was not the husband that stepped out of the marriage....And that was not a license to cheat or get another woman execpt if it was discussed by the couple involved... remember, they were not divorced yet so they were legally married... their marriage contract is still legal and binding... And I am not trying to sound correct buddy.. I am correct ..

Acidosis:
Same way Nollywood created awareness about money ritual?

Actually, I was born before Nollywood started.... But before then, my dad used to drum it into our ears( myself and my siblings) way back that whenever we find ourselves anywhere and we happens to see money, we should not pick it up or we will turn to a yam or tortoise...those that were born before Nollywood era can attest to it...

It's just like saying movies opens people's eyes to cheat on one another..... the game has always been the game but different players...

Nollywood is not really to be blamed for rampant ritual cases in Nigeria... when a movie is being produced, it was meant to educate and inform people...The producers can not be held liable if some people decides to choose the negative instead of the positive...it's just an individual choice

Onyiiobi7735:
I pity those listening to this woman.Most of these Pentecostal churches make people stop going to church. I personally will never advise Catholics and Anglicans to leave their denomination. Rather I tell them to stick like a leech to Anglican or Roman Catholic.

ObiaboAdoka:
In my place for her to b accepted back by the husband she must swear "ALEKWU" to know if she didn't commit adultery.

Is she the only one that must swear?... Is the Husband permitted to swear the Alekwu too that while both of them were cooling off, He did not commit Adultery as well?

Not trying to be the devil's advocate here but a believer of what is good for the Goose is also good for the Gander

Darlingme:
Why is gambling addiction on the increase lately?
What's really happening?

Roma10:
I was really expecting an advice
How will I put them right on this
As their teacher

You should know that some people were gifted in terms of drawing and some aren't... Like myself, I was not.. I can't draw any thing nice to save my life even if that drawing depends on it...

In my junior high school days, our fine art teacher noticed that I cannot draw...She was not sad about it because she knew that I was smart, answers her theoretical questions all the time in the class, attends her lesson with close attention... but when It comes to drawing,Hmmmm!!!! ...
She rewards me with 3/5 all the time...I have never scored zero no matter how terrible the picture was... I remembered that I never scored 4/5 nor 5/5 ....Please learn to encourage them more especially the smart ones that can't draw...

I also wanted to say that telling them not to write on the line was not necessary, u would have asked them to draw on a plain sheet so that they will not write on the line... where they wrote was exactly where they found the spot to label the specimen

olukaygold:
Im getting scared of marriage with all these news im reading about Marital issues on nairaland...Man go hustle out from grass to grace and still later settle down with one ungrateful woman, just common peaceful home,would be very difficult to offer by her. Future is female indeed.. .