₦airaland Forum

ObiaboAdoka:
And wat if she is not EDUCATED?

The OP was the one that brought this issue here on behalf of the lady... He as well will have a role to play researching and educating the woman based on what the internet/the tips was all about..on how to help a gambling spouse.

Jmichael1:
tips or no tips,notin can change him if it does nt cums 4rm his mind...

greenie77:
Nothing whey person no go read for Nairaland.

The whole thing is a bit embarrassing to read ...

Majesty33:
With this in Nigeria, u can conquer any mutherfuckin gridlock in Nigeria, especially Lagos.

E go get accident because of numerous NEPA cables and landline cables littered all over the city... How the thing go take land when livewire is everywhere... It has never occurred to Nigerians the need for underground cable usage..

sharpwriter:
Styl plus

damosade:
YES..

Creation of alternative ip channel using a designated IPTV.
It is a ROUTING process. little bit technical . imagine a channel created during your watsapp call or your zoom call . is now personalized for you on your �.. or a scenario where your sender phone and you as a receiver phone is left open or not off like 2 months.
Hope you geriit? If you don't ,..

Mariangeles:
That could be true sha.
Kinda like appointing a possible thief the watchman.
Reminds me of when my sister always went late to school, they had to make her the gate prefect.

Ishilove:
Addresses and phone numbers

Ishilove:
One day, my former boss called me into his office and gave me a list of things to buy and dispatch to his numerous girlfriends. His friend was in his office with him and jokingly exclaimed "Ishi, so you are aiding and encouraging him??"

I replied "Sir, I see nothing, hear nothing and say nothing."

Tell the secretary the same thing. She is there to work, not intervene in the marital affairs of her boss.

ImaIma1:
If I hadn't experienced it, I would have said it's a lie. My eldest sister blocked me without knowing. I told her that her number was always busy. She said someone else complained of the same thing, and that I should help her check her phone to see if there was a problem.

Lo and behold, she blocked people without knowing.

I remembered the very first time I blocked a number, that was in 2013 with my now discarded old Samsung Galaxy4... Those marketers number that calls and when u pick, a machine will start talking....

I was desperately looking for a digit to press to block them and get my sanity back because I have never blocked anyone before then... it was not easy to locate until I eventually found it... That made me think that before one goes to that blocked click area, one must have that in mind to do so...

Though I might exempt those who were not IT savvy...I don't know if OP's wife is included or not... that will be his call to make if the wife was or not....

But according to what the OP wrote, I believe he must have told her his mother could not reach her when she called several times.. she never acted on it to know if something was wrong... But when u told your sister, she quickly acted on it... She practically asked u to check for her if there was a problem..

That's part of what we are talking about.. if it was deliberate act or not... which by the way, it's not a big deal if it was because she has every right to do whatever with her phone...

Matheusmartin:
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This part sweet me.

People were basically trying to give an excuse that it was a mistake... I don't just buy that... I mean what kind of phone were they using that blocks people easily?... Blocking people is not the same as a phone that was Pocket dialing..haba!!!

PlsBanMe:
Some here are not married and will likely give you useless advice.

Listen, your mom might have been blocked for being over caring. If she calls your wife too often due to her care and love, your wife might not like it. She may take it as disturbance.

As a married man, discuss your discovery with your wife first. Ask her why she blacklisted your mom's number. If she tells you the reason, reason together. If she denies it, ask her to remove your mom from being blacklisted.

Not talking isn't good. It will make you unhappy, make her untrustworthy and she may not even know what she has done. Talk to her about it immediately so you can move on. There are many things in Nigeria that can make you happy. Don't make yourself unhappy.

6ixT8:
No one is safe with him, was just to emphasize how he can't tame his whilly.

macrodata:
I think his problem is that he has a problem wooing ladies, but has no problem if there is a transactional arrangement.

What beats me is how people get addicted to habits and find it hard to break away. By the grace of God, all it takes for me is one decisive thought.