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Family › Re: Can I Give Up The Marriage At This Stage..pls Advise Needed by Richy4(m): 11:52am On Dec 18, 2021
Toktee:
I hate it when people like you become economical with truth....something happened to you instead of been honest are personal you are hiding under a friend,ok what's ur friend name?
Until you say the truth i have nothing to say.
But what do you want to do with it if he tells you he was the one or chose to remain anonymous?

He has the right to remain anonymous.. What u owe him is to advise him or totally ignore him... That is why it's a faceless forum.. everything/ anything goes embarassed
Family › Re: Can I Give Up The Marriage At This Stage..pls Advise Needed by Richy4(m): 11:35am On Dec 18, 2021
<<The courtship is Over... check
<< Asobi preparation and wedding funfair over... Check
<< What we are doing now is called MARRIAGE... check
<< She is chocking because the realisation has set in..
<< She needed some space to regroup, rethink on what is just happening
<< Please tell the man to give her three months to decide if she wanna continue or she wanted out...a breathing space is required when she is doing the thinking and evaluations
<< Whichever, he should prepare his mind for the worse... There's nothing like passed pains.. what she is seeing is not what she expected in MARRIAGE grin
Family › Re: Little Girl Packs Her Bags And Leaves Home After Being Scolded By Mum (Video) by Richy4(m): 11:11am On Dec 18, 2021
Sermwell:
It is phycological turture for that family!
I can't even dream of doing that.. But I can't dismiss a way a parent decides to handle his own family.. if it works for them and no body was hurting, fine..

I know that it won't work for my family.. I like to watch soccer.. I will be the one to break the rules already before it starts... grin
Family › Re: Little Girl Packs Her Bags And Leaves Home After Being Scolded By Mum (Video) by Richy4(m): 7:52am On Dec 18, 2021
theamazonguru:
God bless you.
Too much African Magic/Nollywood/movie is dangerous to the sanity of an average human.
Except you can be disciplined enough to limit the use of the television to just watching news.
But how many people can do that.

This year I decided to perform an experiment.
Can we stay 1 month without watching the television?
Guess what, this is the 6th month.
No one even thinks of it again.
My kids' level of Concentration is now on the increase.
They sleep early.
They read more.
Their performance in school is far better.

I am not looking back on this TV thing ooh.
We no watch am for 6 months now and we no die.
No be say PHCN brings light and the next thing to think of is to go and watch movie.
That has ceased.

It's been amazing.
cheesy cheesy grin
Wow!! How did you manage that?.. U will have to give me a 'No Television 101' course...

If I should try that, It will look like someone died in my family...

So what will you guys be talking about before they go to bed that supplement the TV time for six months? Or do u just chase them to go and sleep after dinner?
Family › Re: Little Girl Packs Her Bags And Leaves Home After Being Scolded By Mum (Video) by Richy4(m): 7:43am On Dec 18, 2021
blacknoir:
I pity the parents who think its cute wait until she is all grown up
cheesy It's nothing.. it's just part of growing up... She watched it somewhere I believe thinking it's how to register displeasure when angry...
Many of us did it...U can't be scolded as a child and u just remain calm... Many slammed the door, others did other things like smashing toys on the wall, deliberately breaking dishes etc.. hers is to pack and go grin
Education › Re: Ex-rector Accuses Bayelsa Commissioner Of Sleeping With His Wife by Richy4(m):
<<<When such thing occurred, People will look for some one to blame...
The former rector's wife is an adult..She is not a kid that will be deceived easily..
<<< Putting the blame on the commissioner instead of confronting the wife... Bad move..
<<<Asking the commissioner to intervene on family matters.. Wrong moves..
<<< This is just like that common case we usually hear.. when a woman confronts another woman claiming that she snatched her husband or boyfriend... Exonerating the man of any blame as if he was an inanimate object..
<<< This man should face his wife and let the commissioner be...
<<<If the wife is foolish enough to allow another man destroy what they shared together as man and wife, then it's not worth fighting for... he deserves better... She has made her choice.. He should cut her loose..
Family › Re: How Can I Make My Wife To Be More Responsible As A Good Wife At Home by Richy4(m): 5:54am On Dec 18, 2021
Vision101:
@Richy4

That's great... My brain was not good enough for languages.. I tried Hausa language, it couldn't sink in the way any normal person should learn..,
so I dropped anything/ everything that has to do with Nigerian language.. I so much admire people that can read and write Nigerian languages



@me
Don't mind Ms Maria. She has been oppressing me with her ability to speak and write Igbo language. I wrote ofe Owerri and she corrected me with ofe Owerre.

I'm learning. The young shall grow.
My brother if your brains can accommodate it, please learn.. it is good..As I dey now, anything language will be a waste of time and effort..

I always depend on Google translation grin.. Thank God for technology cheesy
Health › Re: "Why My Husband Jumped Into Lagos Lagoon" - Wife (Video) by Richy4(m): 8:24pm On Dec 17, 2021
Guys please what is Colorado and Arizona? Google refused to provide a better answer... Giving me names of states in America and it's population and cost of living angry..
I have a faint idea that it's a drug but there must be differences embarassed
Family › Re: Little Girl Packs Her Bags And Leaves Home After Being Scolded By Mum (Video) by Richy4(m):

grin grin grin
What can one even do in this situation but to laugh...
They should probably reduce the African magic channel or Nollywood they were watching in front of that kid.. Thinking she wasn't observing..
Family › Re: How Can I Make My Wife To Be More Responsible As A Good Wife At Home by Richy4(m): 6:01pm On Dec 17, 2021
Mariangeles:
I think Hausa is the easiest Nigerian language and I hope to learn it in my life time.

Thank you.
cheesy That was precisely what I kept on hearing people say those days.. How easy Hausa language was...

I managed to fly through it when it was compulsory in SS1... I guess I was smart enough to thick the correct multiple choice answer.. though I have zero knowledge of what I was doing. smiley

However, please keep it up in terms of writing your language.. It's a thing of pride..
Celebrities › Re: In 2022 Every Celebrity And Public Figure File Will Be Opened – Kemi Olunloyo by Richy4(m): 5:45pm On Dec 17, 2021
A little bit of PH prison of few weeks did not teach her anything or is it that she refused to learn from it?...
This time around they might probably lock the prison door and throw the key away smiley
Family › Re: The Worst Embarrassment You Have Received As A Result Of You Not Having Money by Richy4(m): 5:17pm On Dec 17, 2021
VTJN:
How a course mate keeps reminding me how miserable i was back then in school. Living like an orphan, a puppet, who practically live from hand to mouth

He constantly reminds me how difficult it'd be getting a job in this present state of the nation. Not even me, a son of nobody. He always reminds me of my worries

I'd shed tears at my closet, wet my pillow and slept off. I keep asking God for his mercy upon my life. His narcissistic behaviour and utterances had made me developed hatred for my family

This had always been the embarrassing moment i got from this particular guy.
That my friend was bullying.. He was saying all that to feel good about himself but deep down, he is empty...

U should have known better than that... And he has succeeded in making you do what he wanted which is hating your family...
Family › Re: How Can I Make My Wife To Be More Responsible As A Good Wife At Home by Richy4(m): 5:01pm On Dec 17, 2021
Mariangeles:
Thank you.

I’m from the southeast, but grew up in the southwest, so I know and can write both languages quite well.
That's great... My brain was not good enough for languages.. I tried Hausa language, it couldn't sink in the way any normal person should learn..,
so I dropped anything/ everything that has to do with Nigerian language.. I so much admire people that can read and write Nigerian languages
Family › Re: How Can I Make My Wife To Be More Responsible As A Good Wife At Home by Richy4(m): 4:48pm On Dec 17, 2021
Mariangeles:
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Why would any woman want to drop her job to be a housewife? Ashi gbakwa ihe ojoo!
smiley Pardon me.. I just want to know your State of origin... It seems that u can write your language very well.. That is admirable maybe cause I can't write any Nigerian language with confidence..
Education › Re: Viral Video Of Little Girl During Worship In School Assembly Draws Reactions by Richy4(m): 8:46am On Dec 17, 2021
Imustnottalk:
When I was a kid I always tell everyone I meet that I want to be a pilot but as I dey grow up the dream scatter for road grin grin
Why? What scattered it? Mathematics problem? smiley
Education › Re: Viral Video Of Little Girl During Worship In School Assembly Draws Reactions by Richy4(m):
Wow!! cool cool cool cheesy smiley
She may have been observing her parent or keeping a close eye on the worshippers whenever she goes to church...

There's a loosely proverbs that says...' As a nanny goat is chewing, the kid will be watching and observing it's mouth...

On a lighter note, I won't be surprised if the name of that school is Oversized international Nursery School..
I mean were they allergic to proper school uniform measurements... Every child is wearing an oversized uniform...
That's why many kids dislike their childhood pictures smiley
Travel › Re: Why Is It So Difficult To Obtain A Nigerian Passport? (Photos) by Richy4(m):
I think some Nigerians are simply the cause of their problem... Imagine how bold people were proclaiming that they bribed their way to get a passport...
No one has paused to ask if that was a criminal offence or not... Even people were encouraging OP to find an insider and bribe them... And the same people will blame Nigeria.. meanwhile in their own little way, they were aiding and abetting crime

It was like a norm for individuals to bribe officials in Nigeria... Some might forget themselves and take that attitude abroad and land themselves into trouble...
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Liverpool Vs Newcastle - (3 - 1) On 16th December 2021 by Richy4(m): 10:56pm On Dec 16, 2021
That was a very good performance guys... I'm always proud to be a Liverpool fan...Alexander Arnold, that was a good kick...Newcastle played better than they have ever played this season smiley
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Liverpool Vs Newcastle - (3 - 1) On 16th December 2021 by Richy4(m): 10:01pm On Dec 16, 2021
dikcom:
Whenever Liverpool looses possession, they will pursue Newcastle like say Newcastle thief person phone grin grin grin
That was because Newcastle are dangerous with counterattack...Despite the fact that they are not good this season, no one can take that fact away from them when it comes to Counterattack smiley...
Politics › Re: Borno Bans Distribution Of Food To IDPs, To Close All IDP Camps In The State by Richy4(m): 7:50pm On Dec 16, 2021
The state governor should do a little bit of rethink on this matter... If not, there might be more kids on the streets with plates on their hands... And that will not be a good picture/ Image Nigeria wanted..
Education › Re: Police Storms Alcohol-inspired Secondary School Students Sex Orgy Party (Photos) by Richy4(m): 6:40pm On Dec 16, 2021
I believe they didn't use protection considering the state they were in on that picture.... Just imagine how STIs and HIV might be really watching them and smiling.. angry..
Family › Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by Richy4(m): 5:32pm On Dec 16, 2021
Twelve30:
Omo nice advice o.
Chief... you don tey for this world o.
grin grin grin
I tell you... I'm pushing thirty-Ten in next 5months..I'm scared but I have been told it's the new twenty...
I might quit Nairaland then or just observe from a distance.. it might be my new year resolution
Politics › Re: Oby Ezekwesili Appointed Nexford University Board Of Directors Member by Richy4(m): 2:48pm On Dec 16, 2021
chudez0147:
You called it JUST ... smh
I taya.oo my brother smiley..
Politics › Re: Oby Ezekwesili Appointed Nexford University Board Of Directors Member by Richy4(m): 2:32pm On Dec 16, 2021
aspabay:
She has been running advert for Nexford University since na, this na just to make am look like one big appointment.

Na just brand ambassador for Africa and Nigeria
Haba!! Just look at how u downplayed the whole thing... Lord have mercy.. embarassed
Family › Re: Elder Bros Wife Mouthed Me Out! What do I do now? by Richy4(m): 11:08am On Dec 16, 2021
I don't know why I believed you 100%...It could be because the truth was glaring enough...

Since your brother doesn't want to listen to you, simply send a text message to him stating everything that u have said here... There's no way he can delete it without reading...

End it by saying if he refused to believe u, that it was fine.. That u thought by now, he would have known the kind of person you are... Then stay away from them...

That woman doesn't like u...Do not even try to impress her because it won't work. No matter how hard u try... Besides, assuming u gave her that oil for free, she would have remembered another thing she's gonna do with the money without giving you a Kobo

If this whole thing blows over, when next you were visiting and your brother isn't around, do not enter into that house.. no matter how broke u are... It's not a good idea..
Politics › Re: Who Can Still Relate This Buhari Picture In 2015? by Richy4(m): 4:10am On Dec 16, 2021
I think I remembered it cool...
<<<That was in the good old days when he could not afford to pay or buy the candidate ticket and well-wishers bought it for him to run the presidency....
<<<When he has only one pair of shoes..
<<<when one dollar equal one Naira negotiation was ongoing...

Phones › Re: I Bought Four Iphone 13 In Two Weeks, I Can Pay Your Bills – Nigerian Lady Says by Richy4(m): 12:59pm On Dec 15, 2021
Assuming Nigeria Na country wet dey take tax serious, they for do follow her matter... To know if she's who she really says she is... And if her tax file is up to date smiley
Business › Re: My Cousin Sister Stole 200k From Our Business And We Want To Do This by Richy4(m): 12:05pm On Dec 15, 2021
Ebubechuwku:
If they can do that to their sister, they should do that to her also... that action of hers is called stealing.
But normally, inflicting injuries on someone doesn't change them. They can talk to her, let her know you are disappointed in her, advice her, lets her see reasons not to engage in stuff like that again and ever ask her some personal life stuff like school, like what is she intending to do after school and all those stuff, so that she will feel she is also a member of the family.

If pikin fall inside dirty water, will they troway the dirty water with the pikin because say the pikin fall for dirty water??
grin I understand what you were trying to say and I won't dismiss it.. I would have also said that they should talk to her.. But considering that amount, She has no fear anymore..

Anyone learning to take something that wasn't his or her's will take a little to avoid being caught.. What is she doing with 200k... Her case might be a hopeless one talking to her considering the group she was moving with..

To avoid burning the bridge between the two families, They should send her to her family...To avoid stories like why didn't you send her home
Business › Re: My Cousin Sister Stole 200k From Our Business And We Want To Do This by Richy4(m): 11:19am On Dec 15, 2021
Ebubechuwku:
Sending her away won't solve the problem. What if their real blood sister should behave in that manner, will they send her away also?...

Treat the case the way you would do to your blood sister also..
What if it was their sister and they decide to send her to guard room as they proposed,..
Do you think if the same measure is carried out to the cousin it will go well with the cousin's immediate family members?
Business › Re: My Cousin Sister Stole 200k From Our Business And We Want To Do This by Richy4(m): 10:50am On Dec 15, 2021
Sure.. she has started mingling with bad eggs... People that dates scammers and so on.. she will have to practice with immediate family.. just to belong.

Call her parents if they were alive and explain the reasons why she must take a one-way trip to them... Tell them everything with facts so that it won't look like you guys were deliberately accusing her falsely...

It is a family matter, The family might not forgive u guys if you do that...She has graduated from college.....
Why did u say 'Cousin Sister' though,.. I was thinking cousin is cousin as one starts reading the article, u get the gender.. (initially, I thought it was your Sister's cousin)
Sports › Re: The Whole Premier League Managers Should Protest 4 Pep To Leave England by Richy4(m): 10:11am On Dec 15, 2021
Soccer is not a game of 1+1 theory that u can just predict..
If ordinary Crystal palace everyone was defeating can give Manchester city 2:0, Tottenham the same thing...
Why would you be so sure that the undermined team might not spring up a surprise?..
Family › Re: Can You Answer This Interview Question? by Richy4(m): 2:24am On Dec 15, 2021
ChiefSosa:
Lol, far from that, boss!
We're all here to learn, and no one knows it all, including me! I've just met lots of people that confuse this theory of evolution, and the confusion is so widespread that even I thought we evolved FROM apes. I had to study excessively for a long time, only to find out they meant we evoluted ALONG apes and it was just confusion in semantics. We all learn everyday, and I can also learn from you!
I understand my Brother... what they were just testing the OP was to find out if he can think on his feet.. That was the way I view it...His ability to provide a controversial answer that doesn't go down well with everyone is what they wanted...

It was just like asking on an interview, if you were an animal, what kind of Animal will that be and why...There was no specific answer to that question but if one's job requires attention to details and targets, one could go for an Eagle..

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