Richy4's Posts
Nairaland Forum › Richy4's Profile › Richy4's Posts
1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 ... 110 111 112 113 114 115 116 117 118 (of 356 pages)
 Family › Re: Am I Changing For The Better? by Richy4(m): 10:38am On Dec 30, 2021 |
OP was this the part we shout testimony time, Blessing time  On a serious note,.. what u described is the definition of marrying your best friend and soulmate...No dull moment...Also the fact that u were an introvert helps the waka waka reduction... I am happy for you especially making out time to attend birthday parties and other functions... keep it up man... It least for once since this December we have seen someone enjoying his marriage and not all the complaint of I mistakenly slap my husband what should I do?.., my wife is cheating on me I need your advice...., My nephew stole a phone is he a thief?,.. my mother-in-law slapped her father in law what should I do,.. My wife doesn't want my mother to come for baby sitting, is she wicked? etc..  |
| Family › Re: My Ex Wife Wants To Kill My Pregnant Girlfriend by Richy4(m): 7:32am On Dec 30, 2021 |
How did she get hold of your girl friend's number....There are so many loopholes in this story though 6 Likes
|
| Family › Re: . by Richy4(m): 12:52am On Dec 30, 2021 |
<<<Being an introvert is not a death sentence....Some times it's better to stay on your own and have your self worth and dignity in tact...Some times the humiliations and insults the extroverts takes on daily basis, u might not endure it... <<<However, You have to try and get out of your comfort zone... and meet with people, this is because your future husband can never see you for the first time inside your room, except u were into online dating... u have to go out and meet him... <<<Your self esteem issues, I don't know if you know former late first lady called Mrs Stella Obasanjo... she wasn't tall then but the way she carried herself like she was 7ft when she was alive, graceful, elegant and class... U can also do that.. your height got nothing to do with anything...what matters is your confidence... <<<In terms of getting yourself out there, Start with the baby step.. Good manners will take u places u can never dream of...learn how to say hello...Practice it with old women,,, greet them and mean it.......{Not the waka pass kinda greeting if the person responds or not u don't care}remember u were learning to speak with genuine interest... <<<You didn't say if you were into religion... I would have said ushering in the church would have been another step to take you out of your comfort zone...Any volunteering group can basically help too... like once in a week @ motherless babies homes...Homes for the needy or Nursing homes for the elderly...If u are not doing this, then start it; learn how to boldly and confidently go to school cafeteria to buy coke.. sit there alone and drink while checking on your phone/ killing time while waiting for your next lectures(this could be ones in a month thing)A prince might come up for a chat.. <<<Please while u were trying to get yourself out there be careful about Foxes and Wolves... the fact that you want to eat meat does not mean that you should bow down to a cow...Good Luck 5 Likes |
| Family › Re: My Fiancée Uses Too Much Salt.. How Do I Correct Her? by Richy4(m): 11:02pm On Dec 29, 2021*. Modified: 7:26am On Dec 30, 2021 |
@ Onepointfiveodds, the worst thing u can do in life is to end up with someone that is not teachable or someone that feels he/she is above being corrected...Even organizations finds those kind of people exhausting...... It might seem minor now but later, U will understand how trying it can be...I'm every glad u were not blinded with those Rose spectacles couples wear when in love....This is the best time to take a rain check..... Find out if u can tolerate this attitude...Good Luck buddy... By the way, The good book says U are the "SALT" of the earth...Your woman may have recognized that and decided to add excess  |
| Food › Re: What Is The Name Of This Bush Meat We Caught Today? by Richy4(m): 1:54pm On Dec 29, 2021 |
“The love for all living creatures is the most noble attribute of man.” – Charles Darwin “We cannot have peace among men whose hearts find delight in killing any living creature.” – Rachel Carson |
| Family › Re: Married Men With Experience, Please I Need Your Help. by Richy4(m): 12:47pm On Dec 29, 2021 |
GboyegaD:Honestly there's nothing disrespectful and offensive about a wife that removed a plate that the husband used in eating....Many stay at home mums and wives will gladly do it...That does not make anyone inferior or superior... It is called helping with love which u clearly can't understand... Every efficient stay at home wife will help in making sure that the husband goes to work on time....Removing a plate that the husband used in eating inclusive ...Maybe u got another definition of disrespect that I wasn't getting..... 2 Likes |
| Family › Re: Married Men With Experience, Please I Need Your Help. by Richy4(m): 9:14am On Dec 29, 2021 |
GboyegaD: Look buddy, If u are looking for a reason to hang the OP, there are many based on his foresight challenges... but this definitely is not included ...were u insinuating that a wife will be at home watching movies, OP will finish his breakfast and start washing the dishes before he goes to work? haba!!! Oga hankali 5 Likes |
| Family › Re: How Can I Be Matured About This? by Richy4(m): 7:01am On Dec 29, 2021*. Modified: 11:59am On Dec 29, 2021 |
Shadow225:I don't know why I find this quote interesting ... <<<U sounded like the last child/ born in the family,are you?... My brother, I guess u are young that is why u were sounding this way... But take this like an elder Bro's advice.. <<<This attitude you were exhibiting is the type that brews cold war between siblings forever.. especially when it's as minor as this... and when it lingers longer than necessary, if anyone asks what the problem is, they can't even place when, how and where it all started....Please drop it now.. <<< Your brother likes the girl in question...U were not in his heart.. U don't dictate whom he should be friends with.. <<< When u have your own friend and starts swimming into the ocean of love, he will have no right as well to tell you whom to love.. because it's a matter of the heart... <<< The girl's physical appearance/ attitude is irrelevant to you at the moment because u were not the person dating her... But u as a brother can only point it out to your brother when eventually he asked for your opinion or when the relationship gets serious...but he still has the final say .. <<< Anytime your brother is ready for serious commitment, he will officially approach your father... He can't bring in any Tom, Dick and Harry to your dad... If he does that, u guys might loose counts... <<< Any time u gets an unpleasant message from her, tell her that u were not the one dating her, hence your opinion doesn't count.. she should concentrate on your brother and why she was there and leave U out of it .. <<< When u do not want to do what siblings does best anymore which is covering for each other, please tell him u were done, u don't feel like doing it any more, he should count u out of that... That is your choice and right buddy... <<< Please be happy, it's holidays season.. don't let little thing ruin it for you... Cheers 2 Likes |
| Family › Re: How Can I Be Matured About This? by Richy4(m): 12:21am On Dec 29, 2021 |
Shadow225:Haba!!! Do u know the reason or conditions stipulated to him by your uncle before he moved in? There are certain behaviours/ things one can do in their father's house and can never try that in someone else's house... That is why people always say.." do u think you are in your father's house.." Not trying to be the devil's advocate but what u were trying to make him do is not right... What if he wasn't staying in your uncle's house? What then... If u have issues with him having a girlfriend or a girl u don't like, that is understandable but having issues that he invites guest to his father's house is just.. I don't even know what to say..but let me make it 100% clear, u have no right buddy to tell him where to entertain his guest.. u all have an equal rights in that house to invite any guests that u wishes... 1 Like |
| Family › Re: How Can I Be Matured About This? by Richy4(m): 10:47pm On Dec 28, 2021*. Modified: 12:03am On Dec 29, 2021 |
I'm glad that people that understands the issue have told you what to do... But could U explain further to someone like me that is slow to understand.. What is your headache in all these? <<<Was it that your brother is under aged and should not be involved with a girl at the moment? OR <<< Was it that u were angry that she brings a girl home instead of taking her to your uncle's house where he's living? ( Was it a one bedroom house) OR <<< Was it that they were consuming the food you provided and he wasn't contributing anything even when she brings a girl regularly? 1 Like |
| European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Leicester City Vs Liverpool (1 - 0) On 28th December 2021 by Richy4(m): 8:48pm On Dec 28, 2021 |
Optimistguy1969:Leicester was outplayed by Manchester city bro... They stood no chance of equalising... I was totally embarrassed watching that game that I refused to watch second half... I just hope that the few days relaxation that Liverpool had will help us.. |
| Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Who Can Meet This Job Requirements by Richy4(m): 8:39pm On Dec 28, 2021 |
| That number 8 shows that the HR got sense of humour ... very funny |
| Family › Re: Married Men With Experience, Please I Need Your Help. by Richy4(m): 7:33pm On Dec 28, 2021*. Modified: 11:51am On Dec 29, 2021 |
Sorry buddy.... The laziness was there when u were courting her but u failed to see it because as I always say, when people wears those Rose plated spectacles that was covered with love, they can't see... Even when giant red flags that were flying on fullmast were standing in front of them, they can't see it.. but now, I guess it's getting clearer, u can now see <<<Here is what I think man... <<< There's no need saying that the business u opened for her will not crumble... It will, because the lady incharge doesn't care much... Do not open another one if it crumbles...The wife u have is better off in an office where there's time schedule, project to run that needs deadline.. <<<She will sit up when she has a demanding boss... Her personality cannot handle a business of her own sorry... Except u have a lot of money that u will be injecting into a business that will never yield profit...Let her starts submitting her CV in organisations immediately she puts to bed ... <<< U should get a maid..She doesn't like to cook, or clean and she doesn't want a house help..who does that?... what did she tell u that made you to agree to her terms? What kind of unreasonable expectations does she want from you?... That u should come back from work, cook and clean while she sit and raises her legs on the couch and watch TV? Did u agree to her terms because she is pregnant and will be giving birth to Messiah?  70 Likes 3 Shares |
| Family › Re: Is It Normal For An Adult To Have Issues With The Dad? Or Is It A Curse? by Richy4(m): 10:54am On Dec 26, 2021 |
donleo92:@ bold is the problem man.... it is resentment... You feel that your mum was the side chick... U see that status as distasteful.. u are not finding it funny.... I will suggest that you let your mum fight her battle...You did not know the agreement they had before they gave birth to you... do not get involved...It is not compulsory that all relationship must end in marriage.. try and be civil with him... Cheers buddy 1 Like |
| Family › Re: Is It Offensive To Refer To Someone As Fat In Nigeria? by Richy4(m): 9:17am On Dec 26, 2021*. Modified: 10:06am On Dec 26, 2021 |
Learn not to say it dear.. not only in Nigeria but everywhere around the world... A plus size is a bit better..  You can say for example... I saw a plus size woman on my way to the Shop etc.. it's a bit politically correct.. 21 Likes |
| Phones › Re: Phone Engineers Will Not Make Heaven Walai by Richy4(m): 8:46am On Dec 25, 2021 |
Mechanics are the most annoying... Some times I wonder if they laugh at their customers at their backs.. Especially people like me that got zero knowledge of it 2 Likes |
| Celebrities › Re: Veteran Actor, Sam Obiago Is Dead. by Richy4(m): 11:25am On Dec 23, 2021 |
Please can someone say it's an April fool?... Please let this not be true.. |
| Family › Re: Can I Fight This Now Or Wait Till The Baby Is Grown? by Richy4(m): 10:29am On Dec 23, 2021*. Modified: 10:54am On Dec 23, 2021 |
All this preaching about protection, U clearly didn't get it right? even in this 21st century... People still go raw..not minding HIV? Besides, the way u were not forthcoming about serious commitment to her is also the same way she doesn't want to put all her eggs in one basket... Oh!! So u think u were the only one?..I'm even curious to know.. on what grounds were u fighting for...Was it on the grounds that you were the only man capable of impregnating a lady in your neighborhood or that u have checked her in and out and she doesn't have anyone except you while you guys were doing what u were doing? Please man, do not destroy someone's home because u were looking for something that was not there.. 71 Likes 2 Shares |
| Celebrities › Re: Rachel Oniga: Mercy Johnson In Tears Over Tribute To Late Actress (Video) by Richy4(m): 9:20am On Dec 23, 2021 |
Is there a way the moderators can start hiding some of this adverts... It's becoming a nuisance in every thread... The most annoying part is they don't understand serious and none serious articles..  |
| Family › Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by Richy4(m): 2:22am On Dec 23, 2021 |
yuping:If some of you were to be judges...I will put my chaplet on pure water and pray never to appear 100m close to the court room where you guys were preceding.. jzzz!!!! 46 Likes |
| Family › Re: Wife To Husband; Yes I Slept With Another Man. What Should He Do? by Richy4(m): 1:42am On Dec 23, 2021*. Modified: 2:10am On Dec 23, 2021 |
If this is true, then let him know that Marriage is no longer a do or die affairs.. They said if you see a bird dancing along the road, the drummer is not very far... whoever that is beating the drum your friend's wife is dancing is not very far... That man should play the irreconcilable differences card already..( He can file for a divorce on ground of infidelity).. Since he has done everything to please her and nothing was happening... Even if he starts studying all the Kamasutra sex positions, or travel to India to study it, it might not change anything... I'm just wondering why he was begging and wasn't finding her repulsive.. anyways wetin I know self ... 50 Likes 2 Shares
|
| Politics › Re: NBM Of Africa To BBC: We Are Not Cultists, Your Documentary Is Libelous by Richy4(m): 5:29pm On Dec 22, 2021*. Modified: 5:47pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
Thanks to Google... I no no wetin be NBM until I googled it..... But I know their other name well well... who wouldn't Considering the university I attended, we knew what they represented... Them for call am the name wey every one take Sabi them now.. all this baptism names to make them look good no too make sense 13 Likes |
| Family › Re: My Younger Brother Is A Bone In Our Throat. Pls Help! by Richy4(m): 3:30pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
U guys are feeding his ego and indulging his behaviour by giving him whatever he asked for.. That's why... That's all I have to say... 7 Likes 1 Share |
| Politics › Re: Aisha Buhari Is Neither Pregnant Nor Sick - Sulaiman Haruna (Aide) by Richy4(m): 12:08pm On Dec 22, 2021 |
So if she was not sick and was not pregnant.. then it's safe to say that she bought a soccer ball from Turkey and hides it under her clothes just to surprise her son.. 1 Like |
| Family › Re: Is It Right For My Wife To Serve Her Brother Food Before Me In My Own House by Richy4(m): 10:17am On Dec 22, 2021*. Modified: 10:48am On Dec 22, 2021 |
I was thinking that a proper host will make sure that their guests get served first? Y are you playing a brother/ sister card man? This is just unnecessarily petty.. 123 Likes 7 Shares |
| Crime › Re: Nigerian Man Risks 20-Year Jail For Defrauding American Citizens Of ₦272 Million by Richy4(m): 8:57am On Dec 22, 2021 |
He's blaming his team mates in Nigeria for extortion as if he won't get some percentage cut... What a shame, U go out there and add more dirty inks to the name of the country.. Karma will visit each an every one of you... 1 Like |
| Family › Re: I Suspected My Wife Was Cheating, I Set Her Up by Richy4(m): 7:47am On Dec 22, 2021 |
wow!! Nigeria is now advanced technological wiseooo...I'm glad it ended well for both of you... U didn't strangle her for picking a call 7 Likes 2 Shares |
| Family › Re: Mixed Reactions As Underage South Sudanese Boy And Girl Got Wedded by Richy4(m): 10:33pm On Dec 21, 2021 |
What do they know about marriage at that age?... I pray with the rest of the well-wishers that it doesn't result to a very very long journey for them.. Because they are not matured enough for that institution.. |
| Family › Re: My Elder Brother Offended Me I Took This Decision N Now This Is Happening by Richy4(m): 10:17pm On Dec 21, 2021 |
Since you have made up your mind not to have anything to do with him,..U have forgiven him and you were happy about the way things were at the moment, Just stick to it man... Your happiness is what matters in all these... Let him seek u out for a change... When next the gossip well wishers ask you to go and apologize, tell them to bring with facts where it was written that the younger ones should apologize first to the elderly ones even when he/she was wronged... If they can bring where it was written, dude apologize..If they can't, please stick to your guns... If they wanna stress u or press u more, tell them u want to sleep.. that u will be having a long day tomorrow.. excuse yourself... It is a very simple task.. trust me 3 Likes |
| Foreign Affairs › Re: Madagascar Minister, Serge Gelle 'Swims For 12 Hours' After Helicopter Crashes by Richy4(m): 9:50pm On Dec 21, 2021 |
I am happy for him... His fitness and probably daily exercises has played a role in his survival... Unlike some officers that were competing with potbelly 4 Likes |
| Family › Re: What's The Name Of This Animal? by Richy4(m): 7:29pm On Dec 21, 2021 |
Impala Antelope |
1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 ... 110 111 112 113 114 115 116 117 118 (of 356 pages)