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Family › Re: The Single Mother Of 1 I Married Is Actually A Mother Of 4 by Richy4(m): 12:40am On Jan 09, 2022
What I don't understand is, if u happens to forgive, and take her back,
<<<who will take care of those kids?
<<<Is she seeking for forgiveness just for you to take care of the kids or
<<<Are the kids gonna be with their biological father?
<<< How can she intentionally wanna trap someone with pregnancy and four kids? Not even 2? What kind of error of omission was that?

Christianity Etc › Re: Mummy G.O Fabrics Now On Sale by Richy4(m):
If one buys this fabrics with master card, can the person make heaven?...
Due to the noise people were making about this lady, I was forced to google her and I find her interesting.. especially the master card and clean cut preaching. .
I guess Na me go dey the hottest part of hell because based on her preaching that I watched online, I have master card, I am a soccer lover and I do clean hair cut ..How we go take negotiate the hell?..

Family › Re: What Should I Do To Restore My Happiness Back. by Richy4(m):
If u were my kid brother, I will tell u that your Psalm 23 was really working...

Goodness and Mercy has followed you all the 33yrs of your life and extricated you from the shadow of death and you were not happy?...

Chai... Imagine funding her stay abroad and one day u woke up with an SMS that it was over... U would have committed suicide the way u were carrying on with your blind love...

Please do not think about what people might say based on what happened.... And please in future, stop the madness of telling a total stranger that u want to marry her within 2 market weeks of meeting her.. who does that?.... Is that a new pick up line nowadays?.. smiley
Family › Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by Richy4(m): 8:22pm On Jan 08, 2022
seanwilliam:
you’re right . And I agree. But come to think of it, what if she changed after marriage? What if they didn’t court for long? And what if they didn’t have close relationship while dating ??( I mean they didn’t get to know each other very well probably due to work, distance etc )
My brother, Marriage is a serious business in my opinion... One can't afford to make such mistake.... There must be one redflag she will leave behind no matter how careful might be just to get hooked.. he choose to ignore it...A stubborn person can display a bit of it during courtship... My brother decided to ignore it... Probably because he's the calm type and the sister capitalised on it...

U can agree with me that some people do not like trouble naturally and they can do about anything just to avoid it...OP might be in that category..
Politics › Re: New Year Celebration By Nigerian Christians Unjust To Muslims --MURIC by Richy4(m): 7:43pm On Jan 08, 2022
Truthisunique2:
come join us celebrate our gegorian calendar but we no go celebrate islambad new year sha

Our calendar na to allign the date of the death and resurrection of Jesus we create am for originally
I'm gonna give you an assignment... Just go to Google, type in" why January begins from January 1st... Read everything u have seen please that interests u.. and come back so we can have a decent conversation. cheesy
Politics › Re: New Year Celebration By Nigerian Christians Unjust To Muslims --MURIC by Richy4(m): 7:28pm On Jan 08, 2022
Truthisunique2:
All is free to join us but some say Dem get their own calendar
Join U where please?... So u actually believed him that 1st of January was Christians celebration alone? shocked
Health › Re: Black Soot: What My Ceiling Fan In Port Harcourt Looks Like (Photos) by Richy4(m): 7:01pm On Jan 08, 2022
grin cheesy
OP, U are lucky there are no Kenyans on this forum.. Haba!!
Sports › Re: AFCON: Burkina Faso Protests, Calls Players COVID-19 Antigen Tests "A Scandal" by Richy4(m): 6:54pm On Jan 08, 2022
So people are now using COVID test as an elimination tactics cheesy
Family › Re: Good And Bads On Nairaland. by Richy4(m):
I remembered the very first day I clicked on Nairaland page... 3rd October 2009..
I remembered that day was a Saturday because we were celebrating independence day on that day... And someone on our table made mention of Nairaland..He said that if we want to laugh, and remember home and the way Nigerians reason things, we should go there. .. and truly that night I went and I loved it...

I still remember the thread that got me hooked... It was a woo challenge or pick up lines.. Where any one can mention any one he or she likes... And say some good things( in any language).. it was really funny because there were so many bad lines... In all these, it was just harmless matured fun...No insults because it was done by mature minded individuals...

I was a guest for almost 2yrs..I loved the intelligence most Nigerians exhibit then... The maturity was there, I guess because data was expensive and smart phones not affordable then... Those that could afford it were the working class... That could explain the maturity... When Advice is being given, it doesn't smell gender based...

Nowadays, It's a different case altogether.. Then, Romance section used to be the best section in Nairaland, but after the popular Nairaland crash of 2013, it turns to where folks do tales by moonlight..Any adult heading to romance section is just going there to insult his or her sensibility..

Nowadays, People gives advise based on their gender,.. The tribalism is just getting worse by the day...

I'm not naturally an Angry person but what makes my blood boil was in the middle of a sensitive discussion, someone will place an advert...For example, Some one might be talking about the death of a loved one, u will see a long billboard sign of computer for sale or shoe adverts... And the moderators that pushed that thread to the front page will ignore it as if it was pleasant to see that advertisement at that time..

Anyways, We can't start this year with complaint .. There are people on family section that I liked and respected a lot.. They always remind me of the good old days...I kinda see them as family and I am happy that they made it to 2022..... Though it is a faceless forum, a lot of people have made faceless friends, gotten good advice from faceless individuals.. that's the beauty I see on Nairaland...
Family › Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by Richy4(m): 2:51pm On Jan 08, 2022
cococandy:
Extremely embarrassing. embarassed

I wouldn’t even be able to show my face at work the next day
It is really embarrassing my sis...
How are u doing by the way? Happy New year... Hope you had a cool holidays.
Family › Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by Richy4(m): 12:55pm On Jan 08, 2022
tommy589:
My friend said, I should understand the fact we are wired differently and emotionally blinded to see signs or don't take signs seriously. His remark was due to the fact that I used to get angry and do question why some people are so gullible and find themselves dealt with by the wrong hand.
Not that I didn't have imperfections in my past marriages,but I won't allow you to torment me. My motto is to get the output of my input, If not, you walk or I walk.
I have a darling now that I am living the rest of my life with

I'm happy for you my brother that u were able to find love again...
But I feel really bad for OP honestly... Imagine my spouse calling my work place over domestic matters... It's just a sin in my own book honestly...

No matter the domestic dispute, she shouldn't have gone to that angle especially if she didn't find the job for me... What's her motives behind that if not to get his appointment terminated...

To think that her tuition fees comes from that same job she was tempering with is a different abomination raised to power two smiley
Family › Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by Richy4(m): 12:03pm On Jan 08, 2022
tommy589:
@richy 4, I guess you are making fun of op
embarassed
I didn't mean to honestly but i don't know how he missed all the red flags during courtship... it was not as if he was somewhere abroad and they matchmake and parcels a wife to him to marry without courting
Family › Re: My Marriage Is Falling Apart And My Wife Wants To Sabotage My Job. by Richy4(m):

I will echo Amen to what the other person said about renting a room but let it be for an office space...

I know from kindergarten that one doesn't poo where they eat... But your wife must be a different species not to have known that... Do not jeopardize your job buddy.. it's hard to come by nowadays..

Rent somewhere, buy an office furniture like a chair and desk and a little mattress.. Just for your office purpose/ a refuge where u can run to when it gets hot at home... don't disclose the location even in the heat of passion.. or Samson and Delilah moment..

I will never advise u to go for a divorce... God forbid!!! U saw her, did courtship, loved all those 'wonderful qualities' I believed did not start today...How can any sensible person advise u both to go your separate ways grin
Forum Games › Re: If This Man Dies, What Killed Him? (Photo) by Richy4(m): 11:10am On Jan 08, 2022
Fiscus105:
You got it! Carelessness kill him!
Imagine the time he spent looking at ladies to the extent that someone dipped hands inside the pocket produced a poisonous substance cheesy
Family › Re: Is Putting 'Myself First' Same As being Selfish? by Richy4(m): 11:04am On Jan 08, 2022
That could be the problem of putting others first.. U have mentally taught them that u comes second...U are just an option.. never forget that.. your happiness comes first cool
Crime › Re: Man Tried To Kill Wife By Flying Plane Into Their Home In US But Killed Himself by Richy4(m): 7:01am On Jan 08, 2022
Is anger really equal to madness?...I mean how do one explain this? sad
Forum Games › Re: If This Man Dies, What Killed Him? (Photo) by Richy4(m): 6:49am On Jan 08, 2022
I would have chosen none of the above assuming it was there.. smiley
Because he got a crazy chronic case of wandering eye disorder grin...
Family › Re: So I Am Getting A Divorce... How Do I Adjust? by Richy4(m):
It is not the end of the world dear.. Just go to Google and type that head line question u wrote up there, it will bring so many options for you to choose.... Read it with open mind and take the one applicable to your situation.

The area that I'm interested in is about the kids welfare... Please try and be completely honest with them and no criticism of each other or blame game when explaining that it didn't work out with their dad...So that u won't bring up damaged kids.. who will grow up hating men/ women or disliking marriage...
Education › Re: Please Guys What's Is D Meaning Of This Abbrev LMAO by Richy4(m): 9:40pm On Jan 07, 2022
Pearlqueen:
Laughing My Ass Out
I thought the O stands for OFF cool
Family › Re: Na Juju; Nigerian Man Show Off The Love Of His Life, Woman Old Enough To Be His by Richy4(m): 8:21pm On Jan 07, 2022
Thank God she's not white... Because we know what they would have said the man was seeking...
Now that it was an African, it was the woman that was diabolical...It was No longer the man seeking for something like green card, but it was the woman holding him 'hostage'.. Haba!!! This world smiley
Health › Re: Corpse Goes Missing In Ebonyi Mortuary (Photo) by Richy4(m): 4:54pm On Jan 07, 2022
Misplacement of tally numbers by a careless mortuary attendant...

It's gonna be bad for them if the others have buried the lady in question without checking...

This is th the best time people wished that the dead could speak up..
Family › Re: Marriage Brings Financial Success? by Richy4(m): 4:02pm On Jan 07, 2022
Botking:
Get married first then you will understand the perspective
Funny.. What made u think I wasn't? Because I asked u to substantiate your claim? smiley
Family › Re: Marriage Brings Financial Success? by Richy4(m): 1:12pm On Jan 07, 2022
Botking:
Marriage make you a more better individual then a single fellow
Any prove?
Family › Re: I Don't Know If This Is Normal? Nairalanders I Need Your Help. by Richy4(m): 11:12am On Jan 07, 2022
It is normal... U are not shying away from anything... It is called 'working behind the camera' many might not understand this... U might be the one doing all the hard work... But the ones in front of the camera takes the glory (which might be really annoying at times..ie if u work with people that doesn't know how to appreciate)

If u recognise who u are and are comfortable behind the scenes( without regrets) and can make significant contributions/ impacts while u were there, Please stick with it... We all can not be leaders, if we all are, who will the leaders be leading...

You are totally normal and many have seen your hard working nature and qualities, that's why u were been called at all times for something... It takes those with detailed oriented mindsets and eyes to see people working behind the scenes though...
Sports › Re: BREAKING: Cristiano Ronaldo Is Leaving by Richy4(m): 6:06am On Jan 07, 2022
If this is true, then it's a good decision...
When they got players like Greenwood who will be at the centre of the field and aim to score there instead of passing to the players in a better position and so many other selfish players like him who wants to shine as well,... How will he cope?...
They will be there just to frustrate him...He can't run around the field all by himself?
Sports › Re: Pharaohs Afraid Of ‘Black Magic' Ahead Of Eagles Clash by Richy4(m): 7:01pm On Jan 06, 2022
And the Moroccans did not remember to bring their mobile Hotels angry?
Family › Re: How Do I Tell A Family Member I saw him die last night? by Richy4(m): 6:38pm On Jan 06, 2022
Double0h7:
I wouldn't tell someone I saw them die.
I had a dream that was a lucid dream about 3 weeks ago of my own death. It really freaked me out and it was so clear that I remember it clearly until now.

I fell asleep watching a true crime episode so I know that it was just my brain processing what I last saw before bed and the show was probably still playing while I slept so I was picking up on it.

I dreamt that I was shot in the head in the middle of an argument at home. I still remember the feeling of the bullet lodged in my head and I was saying my last prayers because the medical team were ignoring me.

I found so much comfort that God was on my tongue throughout the whole ordeal and I woke up feeling good. I prayed that when I do die may my prayers and the name of my creator be the last words I utter. It was a reassuring and validating dream despite the content of the dream.
Your last paragraph almost made me go mushy smiley.. Nothing will happen to u for now.. just keep the hopes up....If u argue too much for real, maybe it's time to argue less and let certain things slide...
We will all die someday, we only pray for postponement...
Family › Re: How does a person start a DIY Divorce Process. by Richy4(m):
Kobojunkie:
What in the world is with the emotional rambling? undecided

The OP asked a simple question. If you don't have anything sensible to add, move on. undecided
WOW!!! shocked shocked The first time u made perfect sense. This year go good no be small.... I can see the signs already smiley.... lipsrsealed
Family › Re: An Ex Husband Called Me To Come And Take His Wife by Richy4(m): 5:21pm On Jan 05, 2022
sisisioge:
grin grin grin

Honestly o....I felt like hitting sense into his head. May God help him.
smiley
U did really well by drumming some sense into him... I hope it hits home though...I am a "believer" that EX should remain in the dustbin of history..
The idea of calling an ex randomly especially when one has nothing in common with him/she like(children) is just BS in my opinion...
By the way welcome to 2022 ..I hope u had a cool holidays....Wishing u the best this brand new year
cool
Family › Re: An Ex Husband Called Me To Come And Take His Wife by Richy4(m): 2:28pm On Jan 05, 2022
sisisioge:
Oga! Biko your obvious loss for what to do is becoming annoying!

1. The babe blindsided you by marrying someone else while you were investing your time and materials on her. One would think you would be wise enough to let her go completely.....no continuous friendship with her and her husband. What is the point biko?

2. She is even using you as her alter ego in her marriage. You should come and carry her,you buy things for her....hian! What a mofoish position to hold. You were not good enough to marry, only good for the things you buy.

And the husband and wife are now calling you as the third party puppy in their silly banter, yet you wonder what to do! I'm vexed! Good evening!
I'm guessing that LCM must be your greatest strength in mathematics while in secondary school smiley.... Just looking at how you demolished the whole analysis into simplest form for him to understand makes me happy smiley...

It was a thing of ego for him initially ... but with what you have written, I don't know what he might be thinking right now but I pray he understands what u said... It's not good for a son of the soil to keep on dwelling in fool's paradise in 2022 lipsrsealed..

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