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Romanoff:
I've seen things o.

darhray:
Am just seriously tired of this life to be honest, suicide keep coming, sometimes i ask myself if i ever ask anybody to create me. Why create me and put me into hardship, where there are people who have never experience suffering in their life, what kind of rubbish formation is this life like for real, its just so foolish and i am just angry for no reason.

no money
no love life
no achievements
just being miserable and have tried every fucking thing, is this how its going to continue? hopefully one day i can just end it all and forget all this deep thinking every hour

Romanoff:
How many choristers will make heaven when the trumpet sounds?

The devil is a professional in music and the things he does in the choir these days.

Let me sha be going.

Yusufisraelj:
Get his context, the goal is to see through a situation that will lead to both parties holding onto their ego, and silently the issue will degenerate into not talking, two people living under a roof but no love, no communication, no respect until they find solace outside and infidelity begins and before you know the marriage is history.

The context you are bringing has to do with fundamental character problems not offenses in a home where the two are locked on each other.

Secondly the way a child should handle wrong confrontation is different from the way you are painting it, for a child it has to do with a situation being right or wrong and advising them to avoid fights. It's a different ball game than in a marriage setting.

Even more importantly no one in a relationship should be a door mat, one must have his or her do's and don't, and it should be clear to the other party.

Apologising first does not make anyone weak, being taken for granted does, it's different and should be dealt with appropriately. Apologising first means the union matters more than anything else, and sincerely it does.

@ Bold... You really got my attention there...Oh!!! So the context I presented cannot be classified as an offence but character problem because by so doing, no one was offended by it/ no offence was taken correct?...I got you buddy...I whole heartedly understand ...

Also, you mentioned something that I loved so much... you said and I quote "no one in a relationship should be a door mat, one must have his or her do's and don't, and it should be clear to the other party.".. After all is said and done, he/ she did those "don't..", And you as the spouse jumped in to apologize first because you don't want to appear weak in that relationship, Have u not made yourself a door mat? whatever happens to accepting responsibilities?

I thought that this nollywood movies I see on YouTube was a make believe.. Where a man/ woman will keep doing something to their spouse..to an extent of irritating the viewers and u see the spouse going to apologize.. when they have done practically nothing... Hmmm!!!

Anyways, Good luck with it.. I was not raised to be stupid and I will not start now.. Anyone that wronged me should apologize.. and If I wronged anyone, I will apologize.. That's how it works in my own book.. Everyone needs peace and we don't have to play the fool just to achieve that..
No one, no matter how you pretend to want peace like a spouse that plays over his/her intelligence... Those that pretends and are quick to apologies even when they did nothing wrong, I see them as a ticking timebomb.. when they explode, the spouse won't know what hits them... To be real is just the best option for me..

supportnija:
Op, I apologise not because I am guilty , not because I am a coward not because I don't know my right , I apologise because I want peace, I apologise to show you my humility and love...........ABOVE ALL I ADVISE MEN & WOMEN WHO WHO HAVE NO YET MARRIED to study their supposing wife to be, any man who is always right is not a husband and any woman who is always right is not a wife, learn to tell each other I am sorry whenever you are wrong, it is not the soul responsibility of man or woman to be saying I am sorry If any is wrong learn to say I am sorry.

MickzyDonald:
There's something he ain't explaining to you, I don't trust that guy nor the wife either

Xj2020:
We don't leave in the same vicinityquote author=Richy4 post=98811730]But as the friend, have you stepped in to buy the drug in question?
You have to save the situation first before talking about who did what

4ckTOT0:
i actually dont take pussy that serious. she is free to cheat but she knows if i catch her that is the end. and she knows i will always catch her in seconds. i wont be loosing because i am a very rare specimen in the male sexual market.

Ayo2004:
I be indomie generation,I never watch that movie...the only one wey dey my head na jumanji

Ayo2004:
Omo,u don old pass my ancestors o

Unto ancient of days right? ... I still think the movie is in the market and the full movie is on You tube ...

OlawaleBammie:



Did ur moma pursue him comot wit slippers??


African mothers

johnmartus:
Ilorin people have no occupation than begging that's why they worship olushola saraki for century and worship his son for many decades.

Ilorin people are very lazy.

Draslo:
What crawled up your ass? You cannot even spell fool correctly.

It was as if she knew OP from somewhere... The personal attack is just out of this world HABA!!