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Family › Re: It's Our One Year Wedding Anniversary by Richy4(m): 8:03pm On Dec 29, 2022
I was expecting this... See how good news sounds so boring to a lot of people.. assuming he said that he's leaving his wife of one year...
Showcasing those pictures.. it would have been up to 19 pages by now.. Humans smiley
Crime › Re: Ugandan Man Beats Wife To Pulp For Interrupting His Sex With Another Woman (Pix) by Richy4(m):
Wow!!!..
<<Adultery on their matrimonial bed... shocked
<<Adultery on Christmas day...
<<Assult causing injuries and bodily harm embarassed

How do we exonerate this man from wrong doing?..
If you were his lawyer what will you say to the honourable court in his defence?... grin
Crime › Re: Gunmen Who Raped And Molested An Army Personnel Have Been Arrested by Richy4(m): 7:04pm On Dec 29, 2022
O'boy!! Was that NYSC drilling that I'm seeing on that picture? smiley
Family › Re: What Are You Grateful For In The Year 2022? by Richy4(m): 7:00pm On Dec 29, 2022
I thank God for the gift of life...
Family › Re: Lady Breaks Up With Boyfriend After His Mum Asked Her To Wash Plates by Richy4(m):
yomi007k:
Oga.

Even if it is on the moon, after person use their money cook for you is it too much to do the dishes?

And this is a house that you plan to become family with.

So in her own parent's house, it is her mother that will do dishes when she is around? Abi oyinbo no dey use plates and dishes

I believe the guy's family don't have money. If they did, she would have behaved appropriately.

It could be that they use dishwashers at home.. Many families uses that .. that could be the reason why she sees it as labour intensive..

I don't think it got stuffs to do with family being rich or poor... If it was Nigeria, I would have believed you..

Culture and up bringing played a major role in this...if you read on people that commented on her page that came from the same background as her, u might put two and two together..

Some Oyibo house hold believed that if someone happens to cook, others should do the dishes when the time comes... It's not like ours..

I find it odd though that people can end relationship because of ordinary dishes.. it's not as if it was a funeral or wedding function where they abandoned her alone to do the dishes...
Family › Re: Lady Breaks Up With Boyfriend After His Mum Asked Her To Wash Plates by Richy4(m): 5:56pm On Dec 29, 2022
Rrchrd:
Am seeing nonsense comments here

So if i take my gf to villa now my mum can't ask her to wash plate if my younger ones isnt around
Or is it your mum that will wash plate if she comes to ur house

Even @my age am stil washing plate

I can never marry any woman who isnt humble, homely & well_trained.
It is not applicable to Nigerians buddy... It's a different cultural settings.. They probably sees it as labour intensive as she puts it smiley
Travel › Re: 200 Cars Involved In Massive Collision In China's Zhengzhou due to dense fog by Richy4(m): 5:45pm On Dec 29, 2022
Wow!!
That reminded me of the Cartoon Cars of lightning McQueen smiley
Family › Re: Lady Breaks Up With Boyfriend After His Mum Asked Her To Wash Plates by Richy4(m): 5:32pm On Dec 29, 2022
Maybe it's not Indonesian culture for females to use chores to showcase their wife material qualities...

That one that says it was a redflag got my cracking smiley
Family › Re: Boy's Converstaion With His 'Deadbeat' Dad About Christmas Gift Sparks Debate by Richy4(m): 5:10pm On Dec 29, 2022
Prettychild:
The truth is that you can’t get respect from a child whose Mum you disrespect
I didn't read the part that says his mum was disrespected... He said that his mum made him mad..

Even @ that, since he is leaving with her, if she raised the kid to be respectful regardless, was that too bad? He's just 13
Family › Re: It's Our One Year Wedding Anniversary by Richy4(m): 4:56pm On Dec 29, 2022
Enemyofpeace:
Mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeew!

Show us your present photos. I'm very sure you have lost wait due to lack of good food and peace of mind.
embarassed embarassed

Family › Re: It's Our One Year Wedding Anniversary by Richy4(m): 4:50pm On Dec 29, 2022
AwesomeGod10:
One year ke, small time you people will celebrate 1 month wedding anniversary.

Family › Re: Boy's Converstaion With His 'Deadbeat' Dad About Christmas Gift Sparks Debate by Richy4(m): 4:36pm On Dec 29, 2022
PoliteActivist:
Y'all missed the kid was just being sarcastic. The dad was the first to say "when I'm free". He was just sarcastically returning it to him!
Assuming that in the course of their conversation the father asked him to call him someday and he said that, I would have said he was being sarcastic...
His father putting a call through to him and him, ignoring the calls and makes such remarks changed the narrative in my opinion
Family › Re: Boy's Converstaion With His 'Deadbeat' Dad About Christmas Gift Sparks Debate by Richy4(m): 4:25pm On Dec 29, 2022
pocohantas:
The boy is/was disrespectful to the dad.
He is already treading on the wrong path and the mum, rather than caution him, is praising his actions. This tells a lot about her. That is not to say that he is any better for accusing falsely.

They all have a lot to learn, but I can tell they are AAs. They won’t learn and the cycle continues.
That's why I like you.. I have never seen you condone wrong parenting...U will make a good mum... grin
Family › Re: It's Our One Year Wedding Anniversary by Richy4(m): 4:06pm On Dec 29, 2022
Congratulations... Uncle Richy is happy for u both... Keep on keeping it real buddy.. smiley God Bless cool
Family › Re: Boy's Converstaion With His 'Deadbeat' Dad About Christmas Gift Sparks Debate by Richy4(m): 3:58pm On Dec 29, 2022
dahmie2013:
Nothing was wrong with the last comment. The child was simply angry and did not want to pick his call. The child even did well to want to return the call.
We might share different opinion but I won't want my kids tell me such crap...
The father was not a role model no two ways about that but in a normal circumstances..
No 13yr old child of mine will tell me that he will return my call when he is free...If u see nothing wrong with it, that is perfect, but I do..and I frown at any kind of disrespect.. embarassed
Family › Re: Make Una Help Me Beg These Guys To Release My Destiny Oo by Richy4(m): 2:48am On Dec 29, 2022
Wow!! shocked
That seems like serving life sentence...

But I think the punishment was extreme and and harsh...5year maximum would have been a better punishment for whatever it is that you did....
20yrs ban or more should have been reserved for fraudulent individuals on this forum...
Family › Re: Boy's Converstaion With His 'Deadbeat' Dad About Christmas Gift Sparks Debate by Richy4(m): 1:47am On Dec 29, 2022
The dad was totally wrong... If indeed he wanted to get something for them, he would have called or texted the kids to ask their mother for their measurements instead of their mum... It's not rocket science...

In my opinion, the last comment of that kid was disrespectful.. I wonder why the mother was so proud of sharing that instead of cautioning him...It might backfire on her someday if she continues to indulge that kind of comment... He might also say that to her someday if not corrected at this early stage.
Family › Re: My Cousin Sister by Richy4(m): 4:12am On Dec 28, 2022
Put fear of HIV in her... Explain to her in a plain language that the Older man might be seeing some other girls.. Teach her how HIV circulates with multiple partners...

Please explain to her also that if she gets pregnant tomorrow and tells the man, he might deny her and finds her repulsive..All the love he used in deceiving her will varnish... All her dreams and aspirations will be stagnant except if a miracle happens and she finds her feet again to further her education....

Teenagers in the village, who were beaten by circumstances beyond their control falls victim of older men like that....Since it's a village settings,tell the predator that you are reporting him to kabiyesi for child abuse...I don't even know if that will hold water.

I can't judge her... when she needs sanitary pad, toiletries, underwear, clothes etc, no uncle, aunt, father or mother will come to her rescue except U...and u are not always available or around...

However, If she starts using what she has to get what she wants @ this early stage, I fear for what she will become...
Family › Re: Nigerian Lady Serves Husband An Empty Plate For Refusing To Help In The Kitchen by Richy4(m): 2:13am On Dec 28, 2022
NoToPile:
Uncle praise if you want to praise which one be some women dey try. Shey e get any woman wey no dey do the scenerio you described below the bolded?
Have you heard something like this..
Honey can we go and eat out? I am tired..The last thing on my mind is to enter that kitchen and cook besides, we just came back together... Just go and fix something for yourself..

Those type were not on my felicitation group..I always think ahead before I type.. smiley
Family › Re: Nigerian Lady Serves Husband An Empty Plate For Refusing To Help In The Kitchen by Richy4(m): 1:42am On Dec 28, 2022
tunjijones:
Women dey try ooo. Especially my wife.

I know I don't tell her as much as she wants me to te her that she is trying.

Wifey... Make I talk true and forget all this alpha male shit... You are really trying. Am so surprised how you changed from the hangout and shawarma chic immediately we got married to a mother and a helper. You are the best dear...

I see a you do. And I appreciate. I wld try to appreciate you more.
The opportunity will present itself on 1st January after breakfast or Lunch... Just tell her how u appreciate her and leave her blushing cheesy
Family › Re: Please, How Can I Remove Rust Iron Stain From White Clothes? by Richy4(m): 12:49am On Dec 28, 2022
OP, have you tried soaking over night?
<<Put water in washing bucket
<< Put Detergent inside the water
<< Since it's white fabric, u put bleach and shake the water to bring up foams
<< Rub some soap or detergent on the affected areas
<< Put the fabric inside the water and leave overnight..
< There might be some changes when washed the following day..
Family › Re: Nigerian Lady Serves Husband An Empty Plate For Refusing To Help In The Kitchen by Richy4(m): 11:37pm On Dec 27, 2022
Isabi4lov:
Your first paragraph grin
grin grin smiley
Family › Re: Problematic Inlaw! My Wife Parents Don't Like Me & I Don't Want Or Like Them Too by Richy4(m): 2:50am On Dec 27, 2022
Take it easy buddy...I think your marriage is over crowded... From inconsiderate inlaws to your own family members "trying to find out your wellbeing"
Maybe it about time you "decongest some clutter"

2yrs is almost the hardest part in every relationship...
Finance could be a bigger challenge too in a relationship.. keep encouraging her to find a job.... help her too in terms of looking for openings... Contact your friends too for a look out for availabilities as well..
This too shall pass if u apply wisdom..
Family › Re: When Does She Mean That "Seeing You Reminds me Of My Husband"? by Richy4(m): 1:42am On Dec 27, 2022
Abujaexpress:
You are invited to my church this Sunday
What colour of handkerchief should I bring for the Sunday service dance lessons..Pure white or stripes smiley
Family › Re: Bayelsa Man Absconds From Marriage Ceremony (photos) by Richy4(m): 12:52am On Dec 27, 2022
Imo indigenes don't cover their brides during traditional marriage though....
Are they 100% sure it really happened in Imo state?..it sounds super fake..
Foreign Affairs › Re: 'He's On His Own': King Charles Ousts Prince Andrew From Buckingham Palace by Richy4(m): 2:31am On Dec 26, 2022
Some people stepped into this world just to do nothing honestly...

These guys were just born with more than Silver spoons... Maybe Emerald spoons in their mouths will be a better description...Haba!!!

You wake up in the morning once or twice In a year... go to an orphanage.. shake hands with kids and take pictures for publicity benefits... Full stop.. u got paid for royal dutiessmiley
Travel › Re: How Texas Cold Turned My Water To Ice On Christmas Eve by Richy4(m): 2:16am On Dec 26, 2022
yinkeys:
Climate change
Nigeria is also getting hotter
Yea the global warming crusade should be taken seriously around the world...
I don't even want to imagine how the homeless were feeling in that low temperature sad
Family › Re: Nigerian Lady Serves Husband An Empty Plate For Refusing To Help In The Kitchen by Richy4(m): 1:02am On Dec 26, 2022
No be say I wan praise all womenOoo... Honestly some of them dey try...

Imagine returning from a function with the whole family like Church or any outing for that matter, Some of us usually get tired and exhausted...

But Na she go still enter kitchen go fix some thing wey the family go eat... No question asked about it... Where she got those little extra energy to go inside the kitchen and cook since we attended the same function , I can't tell... Some times we men takes some of those little things for granted...

Anyways, I will use this golden opportunity that festive period has offered to salute the women in the house who are doing all things possible to keep their homes... Well-done..
Travel › Re: How Texas Cold Turned My Water To Ice On Christmas Eve by Richy4(m): 11:49pm On Dec 25, 2022
I thought Texas is one of the warmest part of US.. -7° is not really warm smiley
Just wondering what the temperature in some coldest part like Alaska will be registering..
Sports › Re: Mohammed Salah Again Faces Backlash From Muslims For Celebrating Xmas by Richy4(m): 11:44pm On Dec 25, 2022
It will happen again next year grin grin grin
He always give them something to mourn about every 25th December smiley
Education › Re: Saudi Arabia Banned Abaya In Exam Hall For Female. by Richy4(m): 11:34pm On Dec 25, 2022
Thanks to google I would have been asking silly question on what Abaya is..
At least a little picture or explanation of what Abaya is would have saved some curious minded people some stress... smiley
Family › Re: When Does She Mean That "Seeing You Reminds me Of My Husband"? by Richy4(m): 11:15pm On Dec 25, 2022
grin smiley cheesy
I am only interested in the dancing skills in the churchOo.. how u dey doAm? Micheal Jackson, awilo longomba Or cheesy

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