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sonofthunder:
He's not gay, nobody is gay. Most so called Gays are hypocrites and beta simps. The rest were conditioned by their environment.

Ikanium:
He's my parents last child, he's 19 now. I feel he was born gay because right from when he was a child, he acts like a woman. He'll prefer to play with dolls, he'll tie wrapper all the time, we felt this was just a small kid thing and that he was going to change when he's all grown. Unfortunately for us, i think he's gay now completely. I'm just devasted right now really don't know how to go about this.

I returned home for Christmas last year i couldn't believe what i saw my brother doing. I have had a discussion with my parents we really don't know what to do right now.

Any advice in the right direction will help please. Thank you.

Dilijingsly:
Am a family man and taking care of my children is not a big issue, my daughter is a year and a old . The big question is at what age should i stop bathing her?

lilvicky68:
xnxx should release their own.

PerfectJUSTICE:
I believe I should understand my feelings better bro. I really WAS NOT IN LOVE. I was sincere enough to tell you what kept us going until she got pregnant. I made my findings just today after some comments here and their culture does not recognize fathers of children who hasn't paid anything on their daughter. It enough pain already. That why even if you have to insult please also give me sincere advice. Thank you

Vinnie2000:
*IS IT THAT THEY NEVER LOVED OR HAD ANY FEELINGS FOR THE GIRL?
*IS IT THAT OTHER GIRLS ARE AVAILABLE?
*IS IT LACK OF PATIENCE?
*IS IT MATURITY OR WHAT, REALLY?🤔🤔

In the 90's and 2000's, Broses those Days used to Woo a girl for 2, 3 Years till she says YES! 😯😄😄

What's Happening, now? 🤨

Nplfmod.
Thanks. 🙂

blaquemyc:
It's always hairy broski except when shaved.

Amb1045:
A woman have sêx because she wants the man.

A man have sêx because he wants sêx.

You see the difference?

Sêx is a physical thing to a man.

But for a woman, sêx is both physical and emøtional.

A woman can have sēx because of love. But a man can have sêx because of sêx.

Before a woman can have sêx with you, she must have feēlings for you. She must have that emøtionally attachment to you, Not talking about those trāding their for møney in the name of Hoøk up, Stop it. Heaven is watching ❤️🙏

That EROS dimension of love will be there.

Hārdly will you find a woman having sêx with a man she does not love. Except if she's a prøstitute.

But for a man, reverse can be the case. A man may have no iota of love for you, and still have sêx with you.

This is why a man can hire a prøstitute just to have sêx. He doesn't need to love the prøstitute before he fulfills his sèxual desire.

Now, understand this:

As a woman, a man can use you to feed his sexūal desires. He can even give you money. He can take you out. All because he wants sêx, not you!

If you want to know if a man truly loves you, don't give him sêx. Sit back and watch.

If he leaves you because you don't give him sêx, then he doesn't love you. He only loves sêx!

Dear young adult girl!

As you're growing up and getting closer to the journey of marriage life..pls try to understand that you can choose a husband for yourself but your kids can't choose their own father,while choosing a father for them pls choose a father,a friend,a tutor,a prophet,and a guidance for them...

And don't forget to be good mother you can raise a hero and not a zero
Wedding ring is the smallest handcuff ever made, so think deep, choose your prisøn mate carefully and sentence yourself wisely, to avoid prisøn break.💔💔😭😭💔💔

May true love locate all the singles for marriage in Jesus name Amen🙏🙏

blaquemyc:
If course, it's a man with hairy balls behind that moniker

love201:
Just thinking, it's common for men to make promises to their wife or girlfriend before or during sex, do women do the same?

PerfectJUSTICE:
Good morning guys. I met this lady some years back and one thing led the other we started living together. She is from north central why I am from the east. At first it was just sex but somehow it started developing to feelings (from her end though). The sex was so good that she became pregnant. She finally gave birth to a beautiful girl but we kept staying together. God knows I should have married her but I saw signs that I was very scared to commit my future with her kind...yes..her kind. She was too temperamental to the extent that whenever she's angry she goes for the kill. She once used a knife on my face that left a scare even till today. I can't count properties she has destroyed whenever that demonic anger is on her and she's extremely jealous. Her jealousy have pushed her one time to make me sleep outside in the cold even when I wasn't guilty of her accusation. It got to a point where I couldn't take it anymore and I had to tell her to go. I didn't know that was just the beginning of what she has in store for me.

The day I told her to go and that I am fed up, I left for work only to return to an empty apartment. She moved everything from the house and left just the rug for me. I cried. I tracked her to her sisters place and saw her but I didn't see any of my property. I wanted to take it up with her but some people adviced me that it was ok she left with the property than with my life. I left her and started afresh but I didn't stop caring for my daughter who is 5. I was still paying her school fees and still fed her (or will I say them). Truthfully this lady is not from a rich home. The mum and siblings are still in the village struggling.

I woke up to a new year call on the very first day of this year to hear that my daughter is now in the village with her struggling grandma and will not be returning anymore. I almost passed out. How? Why? She said if I needed to see my daughter again I should go to the village that she wanted to live a free life.

See what cohabitation have caused me. I feel depressed. Pained. The village doesn't have access. No network. I can't even reach anybody. I'm so very frustrated. What your advice please

NB: For those saying it's fiction because I wrote the village is inaccessible. A village where you will have to park your car and continue the rest of the journey with a boat is it easily accessible? A village where you will have to come outside before you can make or receive a call would you say that the village have network? Please I didn't come here to right you a fiction. This is real. If I show you a picture of me like now you will understand I'm practically loosing it. I only need your sincere advice hence I wrote this.

silibaba:
You for ask if op don see food chop before advising him on breast surgery.

Dilijingsly:
Just two babies, the breast are now skiny, i don't want to cheat on my wife. What must i do to make it firm or even bigger.

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TheKingOfCrumb:
Guys, do you shave your private area or ever get a wax job done?



I have this girlfriend who thinks any guy who shave their private area is gay. I dont belive so, I think its sexy and hygenic.



How many guys here do or dont shave?



Why?

Why not?

Is your partner ok with it?

Is she not ok with it?

DyshApp:
A Nigerian lecturer, Dr. Austine Imoniche Oviosun, has shocked netizens after revealing that he cooks for his wife, Dr. Ezinne Chidimma, and washes her clothes whenever he can.

He shared this while reacting to an inquiry on Facebook on whether he could help his wife buy food ingredients for his return from work.

The query read,

“Dear Bro, Can Your Wife send you to buy Fish, Okro, and Vegetables when returning from the Office?”

Dr. Austine noted that he would gladly cook for his wife, not just buy ingredients, as marriage is the union of two understanding people.

“Not only buy.. cook for her and wash her clothes when I can… marriage is a union of two understanding persons. Call me a woman wrapper. I nor care. I love my wife, that is the most important thing,” he wrote in a Facebook post on Tuesday, January 2, 2024.

Reacting to his revelation, Bello wrote; “It’s not a big deal, of course, a man should be able to cook for his wife and wash her clothes too sometimes as this shows both persons are in love with each other and with every fiber within.”

Mc commented; “I don’t see anything wrong in this. “When I can” is the keyword there. It’s not a norm he does that always but when he feels like it. I can also do that for my wife. Call me a finished man.”

Follow up with more Relationship Gist on Dyshus Webpage(Link in bio)

Jayden001:
To be a man no easy at all.
Aunty missed her period lately and from all indications she's pregnant.
But her cravings for seemingly impossible stuffs is just crazy.
She could ask for a fried mango or roasted watermelon
She's allergic to smells and scents, I've removed every air freshener in the house.

She can barely cook, she said everything is smelling.
Omo, e come be like say no be my house again.
Yesterday I went to look for kpomo by 12am
This life shaa 🤣
Legends in the house, na so e dey be

adenigga:
Social media influencer, Reno Omokri, has urged President Bola Tinubu to ban sports betting apps in the country.

According to Omokri, a ban on sports betting apps could even help improve the value of the Naira.

Omokri, who quoted the National Lottery Trust Fund. lamented that “$1 billion is spent on gambling daily in Nigeria.”

The media influencer expressed his views in a series of tweets shared via his X profile on Wednesday.

His tweet read, “President Tinubu can immediately improve the economic conditions of most Nigerians and make the Naira grow by issuing an Executive Order authorising the Nigerian Communications Commission to ban sports betting apps from the App Store of any GSM Internet Service Provider in Nigeria and revoking the licenses of any physical sports betting operators in Nigeria. It makes better sense than Buhari’s draconian #TwitterBan.”

The former Special Assistant to erstwhile President Goodluck Jonathan stated that an average Nigerian spends “$15 daily on sports betting and other types of gambling.”

Omokri noted that despite the high rate of gambling in the country, the “vast majority of that amount” is leaving the shores of the country into foreign nations, compared to the nation’s externally generated revenue.

“This is scary. How much is our GDP that we are pissing it away like that? More money is leaving Nigeria through gambling than is coming in,” he wrote.

Omokri cautioned., “The Naira can never sustain its rally under such circumstances.”

The tweet stated further, “There is such an epidemic of gambling in Nigeria and it is destroying Nigerian youths. $1 billion is spent on gambling daily in Nigeria, according to the National Lottery Trust Fund. Please fact-check me.

“The average Nigerian spends $15 daily on sports betting and other types of gambling, with the vast majority of that amount leaving our economy and going to places like Russia, South Africa, and Europe. The Naira can never sustain its rally under such circumstances.”

Findings by PUNCH Online reveal that several sports betting firms operate in Nigeria. Some of the betting firms include Bet9ja, Nairabet, Merry Bet and SportyBet, amongst others.

Omokri, in his post, further urged Tinubu to “act on such a matter as threatening to our national security as this gambling epidemic.”

He also condemned the illegal means through which some Nigerian youths sought money “to fund their gambling habit.”

PUNCH Online reports that the Minister of Special Duties and Intergovernmental Affairs, Zephaniah Jisalo, said the Federal Government would find a lasting solution to the friction caused by revenue generation in the gaming sector.

Jisalo noted that the FG “will do all within its statutory powers to ensure the gaming industry remains on the steady path of sustainable growth and development,” while speaking at the 2023 International Gaming Conference held at the Eko Hotels and Suites, Victoria Island, Lagos State, on Tuesday, October 31, 2023.

The Fund’s Executive Secretary/Chief Executive Officer, Bello Maigari, appearing before the House of Representatives Committee on Finance on Monday, November 20, 2023, stated that the Fund, in 2023, generated N2.5 billion, noting however that the entire sum had been spent in the execution of various projects across the country.

The money, he said, was generated from statutory remittances from licenses and permit holders.

Source: https://punchng.com/Ban-sports-betting-apps-Reno-Omokri-urges-Tinubu

robosky02:
Whenever Lionel Messi retires from the Argentina national team, Argentine Football Association president Claudio Tapia said he intends to make sure no player ever wears the No. 10 shirt again for the Albiceleste.

“When Messi retires from the national team, we will not allow anyone else to wear the number 10 after him,” Tapia said at a press conference over the weekend. “This number 10 will be retired for life in his honor. It’s the least we can do for him.”

Though retiring jersey numbers at the club level is fairly normal, it’s less common in the international game — and for good reason.

FIFA regulations require players to wear all numbers from one to 23 during official competitions. In other words, if Argentina is committed to retiring the No. 10, then it would have to play every tournament after Messi’s retirement missing one player on the roster.

There’s also the question of whether the most iconic jersey number in the game really belongs to any single player — even one as great as Messi.

Diego Maradona made the No. 10 shirt iconic with Argentina, and subsequent playmakers like Juan Román Riquelme followed in his footsteps until Messi made the number his own. If post-Maradona players could aspire to become Argentina’s No. 10, why couldn’t post-Messi players do the same?

Argentina actually attempted to retire the No. 10 shirt in Maradona’s honor more than 20 years ago, a request that was rejected by FIFA. It’s hard to imagine this time around will be any different.

Messi cemented his status as an Argentine legend in 2022, winning the World Cup to go along with the Copa América title he won the previous year. Though he’ll turn 37 this year, Messi is still very much central to the Argentina national team’s plans at the current moment.

Last month, the Inter Miami star said he was taking his national team career day by day and though he’s not closing the door on another World Cup in 2026, he is only focused on the 2024 Copa América in the United States.

After previously claiming the 2022 World Cup would be his last, though, Messi is now pushing for 2026 and a sixth World Cup appearance.

“I’m going to arrive at an age that I normally wouldn’t be able to play in the World Cup. I said that I don’t think I’m going to be there,” he told Star+. “It seemed that after the World Cup I was retiring and quite the opposite — now I want to be there more than ever.”



https://prosoccerwire.usatoday.com/2024/01/02/messi-argentina-retire-number-10-jersey/

Danielnino00:
Super Eagles and Napoli striker, Victor Osimhen has won the 2023 Nairaland Nigerian Footballer of the year award under the Nairaland Nigerian Football Fans Award. Osimhen, who is also the reigning African Footballer of the Year beat off competition from Victor Boniface and Alex Iwobi to win award with 64 votes.

In the female category, Super Falcons and Paris FC Femeni goalkeeper, Chiamaka Nnadozie renown for her heroics at the women's woeld cup beat reigning African Women Footballer of the year, Asisat Oshoala to emerge the women player of the year.

Bendel Insurance goalkeeper, Amas Obasogie beat off competition from Sikiru Alimi and Sadiq Ismail of Remo Stars to win the NPFL player of the year award.
Gent forward, Gift Orban won the prospect of the year award for the most promising uncapped Nigerian player.

Randy Waldrum, who lead the super falcons to an impressive 2023 world cup performance where they lost in the round of 16 to England was also voted as the coach of the year.

The Nairaland Nigerian Football Fans Award is an annual award organized by a selected committee of Nigerian football enthusiasts from the Super Eagles thread (https://www.nairaland.com/3018619/super-eagles-thread-road-afcon) and voted for by all members of Nairaland.

The full list of winners:

Nigerian player of the year
1. Victor Osimehn - 64 votes ✓ Winner
2. Victor Boniface - 1 vote
3. Alex Iwobi - 0 vote

Nigerian female player of the year
1. Chiamaka Nnadozie - 36 votes ✓ Winner
2. Asisat Oshoala - 26 votes
3. Michelle Alozie - 3 votes

NPFL player of the year
1. Amas Obasogie - 31 votes ✓ Winner
2. Sikiru Alimi - 16 votes
3. Sadiq Ismail - 15 votes

Most impactful new inclusion (2023)
1. Victor Boniface - 46 votes ✓ Winner
2. Nathan Tella - 1 vote
3. Bruno Onyemeachi - 18 votes

Best Ogedengbe goalkeeper of the year
1. Amas Obasogie - 30 votes ✓ Winner
2. Osayi Kingdom - 13 votes
3. Kayode Bankole - 18 votes

Stephen Keshi defender of the year
1. Calvin Bassey - 24 votes
2. Bright Osayi-Samuel - 28 votes ✓ Winner
3. Bruno Onyemeachi - 12 votes

7. Samuel Okwaraji midfielder of the year
1. Wilfred Ndidi - 23 votes
2. Alex Iwobi - 36 votes ✓ Winner
3. Frank Onyeka - 6 votes

Rasheed Yekini attacker of the year
1. Victor Osimhen - 60 votes ✓ Winner
2. Victor Boniface - 3 votes
3. Taiwo Awoniyi - 1 vote

Most improved player (2023)
1. Wilfred Ndidi - 32 votes ✓ Winner
2. Alex Iwobi - 10 votes
3. Taiwo Awoniyi - 21 votes

Young player of the year (U-21)
1. Daniel Daga - 29 votes ✓ Winner
2. Benjamin Fredrick - 24 votes
3. Tochukwu Nnadi - 11 votes

Super eagles goal of the year
1. Frank Onyeka vs Mozambique - 8 votes
2. Taiwo Awoniyi vs Sao Tome - 19 votes
3. Kelechi Iheanacho vs Saudi Arabia - 37 votes ✓ Winner

Best assist of the year
1. Joe Aribo to Victor Osimhen vs Sierra Leone - 26 votes ✓ Winner
2. Kelechi Iheanacho to Taiwo Awoniyi vs Sao Tome - 22 votes
3. Zaidu Sanusi to Kelechi Iheanacho vs Sierra Leone - 16 votes

Team of the year (club or national)
1. Super Falcons - 56 votes ✓ Winner
2. Flying Eagles - 3 votes
3. Enyimba - 6 votes

Coach of the year
1. Randy Waldrum - 43 votes ✓ Winner
2. Ladan Bosso - 6 votes
3. Finidi George - 13 votes

Prospect of the year
1. Gift Orban - 44 votes ✓ Winner
2. Tosin Adarabioyo - 7 votes
3. Akor Adams - 12 votes

CC: icon4s, Thesupernerd, Charlesemeka85, Joebie, Andsungorilla, Semid4lyfe

tasalanoni:
Nl folks, pls your opinions are needed.
I'm currently 31, earning reasonably well and with greater prospects for the future.

The pressure to settle down is getting stronger by the day. However, I don't consider myself psychically fit for marriage in the midst of the deterioration that the marriage Institution is experiencing.

Judging by my current perspective and disposition on the subject of marriage, I don't see myself setting down even in the next 5years. I try to carefully look at the pros and cons of contracting a marriage in today's world and I always come to the conclusion that there are more cons than pros.

I'm also not a very family oriented person in the sense of creating familial bonds and deeply cherishing them hence I derive my fulfillment and pleasure in doing the things I love to do, acquiring wealth and giving help wherever I deem necessary.

The thought of opting for an adoption is beginning to occupy the greater part of my consciousness and the reasons are few and in my opinion very valid.

1. Progeny is very important in social arrangements especially in the Igbo society. I'll definitely be needing someone to carry on the family's name and legacy when I'm no more.

2. If my perspective on marriage changes for any reason and I decide to take the step towards contracting one, I may have become a little too old then to handle the perculiates of marriage and family life( parenting, school runs issues etc). But with a child already in picture and almost a teenager by then, that part of the problem would have been kicked out..

Nb:As for raising the adopted child, myself, parents, siblings and a helper will be involved while financial responsibility will be exclusively mine.

Kindly help me with insightful and mature advice that is based on direct or third party experience.

Bullet01:
Friends let's advise this man.
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Kobojunkie:
Reminds me of a club I visited sometime back in Detroit, MI. I felt very dirty afterwards.

Antihypocrite:
Guys, what is the fun in clubbing abeg? Few days ago I went to a club. Here is what I observed

1. Some girls hustling to get hook up gigs.
2. Some guys trying so hard to out spend each other.
3. A new job industry has been created for hype men. Whatever that means.
4. How can the smoking of shi sha be legal?
5. You cannot have a good time in a club. It's too noisy
6. I will never go there again.

dkidd:
Na so problems dey start oo but my people nor wan gree. She must marry him by fire by force. Money can do a lot of good YES but it doesn't guarantee a happy and fulfilled home. Most girls today will jump at the opportunity and try to kill two birds with one stone later on in the marriage only for the matter to cast anyhow then we hear married woman found with her ex lover or DNA wahala. And people will start blaming her because she's well taken care of by the husband. Even if eventually she doesn't even cheat on him everyone deserves to be happy na... No be her fault say the guy fall for her but it will be her fault if she frustrates the guy in future because of pent up frustration and sadness over the course of time. No one deserves to live like that abeg. Life short oo

LOVEGINO:
na girls wey never reach 30yrs dey select man. Make u reach 35 40, u go know hwfa.

Animegirl:
So, there's a man who wants me to be his wife. Honestly, he possesses the qualities of a good husband, but I can't deny that I don't find him attractive. Despite my efforts, I can't seem to develop feelings for him. Seeing his face makes me angry, even though he treats me well and spends generously. His height and face are a deal-breaker for me. If I accept his proposal, I know it will cause pain, but no matter how rude I've been, he won't let go. I'm considering running away from my community altogether. I don't want him to know my parents; otherwise, I'm done.

Kingsley1000:
...she left just like that

I was in my bf's apartment one faithful day when I experienced this thing that still makes me feel uncomfortable everytime I see this guy.
I was inside his room one Saturday evening and I was on just my bra and pnt. We were the only ones at home so I came out like that to meet him in the kitchen only to find his friend in the sitting room staring at me like that.
I immediately whispered Jesus and ran back inside. Didn't come out till he left. I was so embarrassed!!!

I believed you laughed. Share yours let's laugh together.

charzyh2:
Couple of ladies have called me big head and I know that my head is not big. Now I know I'm not the only guy being called big head.

I've searched online but can't seem to find straight answers to what it really means. Can anyone tell me what it really means?

lordm:
people still don't obey traffic warden and traffic light. Some people are supposed to drive

Sleekfingers:
Naso dem dey do for France and Germany abi?